New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244964 questions, 1084314 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

*herkinsaregrim

Ireland  (Female   XML/RSS

Like what she writes?
... Add *herkinsaregrim to your favourite agony aunts

Want to get in touch?
... Send *herkinsaregrim a private message

*herkinsaregrim's Ratings
Excellent52%
Average20%
Poor27%
*herkinsaregrim's profile:

I want to travel the world and all this other stuff

< Prev12 [2 pages, 46 answers]

Why did the doctor ask me if I'm in a relationship? I can't see the relevance

Q.   i'v just been to see my doctor i'v got a sore throat. So what relevance was there to his question to me, asking if i'm in a relationship? why did he ask me if i'm in a relationship? How was that appropriate?...

A.   3 May 2011: Because lifestyle has a big impact on health!... (read in full...)

What bothers me is that I wasn't special enough. How can I forget him?

Q.   Hey everyone, same old tale... Fallen for a boy who doesn't want a relationship! Met, been seeing each other for few months, was totally honest about not wanting a relationship, which I respect him for and it's not even like I minded that he goes ...

A.   2 May 2011: Best thing to do is cut him out your life, do not relapse! Your from Leeds where I was born and lived for almost 2 decades so I know sometimes it feels like everywhere in that place is same old same old. Treat yourself to a night out somewhere yo... (read in full...)

Any of you had bad karma in r/s?

Q.   Does karma in relationships really happen? Like if you lie/cheat on/ or treat your ex badly and get into a new one.. does karma really come back to bite you? Any experiences to share? ...

A.   2 May 2011: I chose not to cheat as i could have ended up having two guys, but I didn't, and picked the right one :)... (read in full...)

I want to show her that I don't just want her for sex. I really care about her.

Q.   Okay guys, So I'm back again, feeling really down at the minute as it's going downhill rapidly with my FWB, I've know her for about a month or so now (was introduced through my sister) and the first few weeks were great, we saw each other regul...

A.   2 May 2011: Romance her possibly. Take her somewhere nice where you an tell her that you really like her and you want her to be yours! Make her feel special, she is clearly worried about her parents finding out, how long until she can move out? ... (read in full...)

I’ll respect that she’s happy with her BF, but I’m upset that I have lost a good friend.

Q.   Me and this women from work used to get on really well spending lunch together etc. I saw her i few times out of work. she has a boyfriend which i dont think shes happy with, i started to get feelings for but didnt make a move because she had ...

A.   2 May 2011: I'd say talk to her, but you've clearly tried. If I were you I'd just give it a cool down period, chances are her boyfriend might not want you talking if he is paranoid. Just don't talk to her for a bit and then see how she acts, if you are givin... (read in full...)

My son's friend stares at my breasts. Should I say something?

Q.   I'm a 46 year old woman with a 17 year old son. Whenever his friend comes over he always stares at my boobs. No matter what i'm wearing or if im showing cleavage or not he still stares at them. Should I say something to him when he does this or ...

A.   2 May 2011: I would make a sort of sly comment. It will be embarrassing for him either way if you tell him but it can be really horrible when someone ogles you! it's so awkward and feels so pervy sometimes. I think dirtballs suggested comment is probably the ... (read in full...)

BF wants orgasm denial. I don't know how to do it.

Q.   I wanted to know my bf's biggest fantasy and he said he'd love cum denial/ ruined orgasms but no one's ever done it to him. I don't have a clue about how this should work. I'd love to do it for him, but I don't want to make him explain everythi...

A.   2 May 2011: Did this with my guy a while ago. Basically like you say it's getting him so close then stopping. Obviously in reality it can be really hard to know where someone is on the path to an orgasm. The key is normally good communication, if he doesn't ... (read in full...)

*herkinsaregrim's friends

These are mutual friends, so *herkinsaregrim has added them and they have added *herkinsaregrim!

 sam agony aunt sam
Abbiestar agony auntAbbiestar
Abella agony auntAbella
Andy00 agony auntAndy00
angelDlite agony auntangelDlite
Cattie agony auntCattie
CindyCares agony auntCindyCares
cupidus agony auntcupidus
Dear Mandy agony auntDear Mandy
DoubleM agony auntDoubleM
eddie85 agony aunteddie85
eyeswideopen agony aunteyeswideopen
hannah76 agony aunthannah76
k_c100 agony auntk_c100
maverick494 agony auntmaverick494
mizz.butterflies agony auntmizz.butterflies
MonksDaBomb agony auntMonksDaBomb
person12345 agony auntperson12345
rcn agony auntrcn
Tisha-1 agony auntTisha-1

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.109390300000086!