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Well I wish I could claim that I waited until I was older and wiser before deciding to share my advise with others but the truth is that I have been handing out my version of the unvarnished truth for as long as I can remember.
I can clearly recall myself at 13 years of age telling my girlfriend's mother that she was raising her daughter all wrong and screwing her up in the process. The funny part is that she stood there crying and actually listened to me and never held it against me. Looking back now, I find it pretty amazing because these people were well educated and rich. And I was nobody special, just a friend that cared enough to open my mouth.
And that never changed, over the years people came to know they could come to me for truthful advise and I would give it to them straight, no sugar coating.
I have been married for 23 years to a wonderful man. I have 3 sons and 2 grandchildren, they call me GeeGee, which is short for groovy grandma, hence the agony aunt name, lol.
I have a degree in the allied health field and have worked as an EMT and as a beautician. So I have heard a lot of sad storied in my day and my heart goes out to all of them.
So I guess, this site is just a way for me to reach out and try to do the same for a bigger crowd. |
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17 March 2011: So you are young and in love, that is so sweet and romantic. I am happy for you. I really am, there is nothing better then being young and in love. It is a very special time for all of us. But what happens when it is over?? Maybe you have ...
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What does she wants from me?
Q. I don't understand why she acting like this on me. We started as friend and then eventually becomes very good friend. I have been there to support her all the way from when she went out with a guy who was using her and I was the only one who was ...
A. 1 June 2011: You need to leave this girl alone and forget about her.
It does sound like you have become obsessive about her, which means you can never be "just friends" anymore. That would never be enough for you and the girl you like knows it.
(((I just... (read in full...)
Is this 36 year old man worried because he has feelings towards a 16 year old girl?
Q. So, this is kind of an akward question and i don't really know where to start..i know i'm going to get alot of comments on something that this question isnt about! Okay, so basically i'm 16 and i've had a 'crush' on my ex neighbour for ar...
A. 1 June 2011: If he didn't like you he wouldn't be spending so much time talking to you would he? And people don't usually give out thier phone numbers to people they don't like either.
So yes it is possible that he is starting to have feelings for you and ... (read in full...)
I was falsely accused of a crime, and my girl hasn't treated me the same since it happened!
Q. We been togther for just over 4 years. For first two years we had sex almost everyday where ever we could, and when we both had the same days off work we spent the entire time in bed having sex. She held my hand everywhere we went, wasnt bothered ...
A. 1 June 2011: Your girlfriend didn't stand by you when you needed her, and the relationship has never recovered from the blow. This experience tested the strength of your bond and it failed.... Deep down I think you both know this. It's time to let her go and ... (read in full...)
Ex took off when he found out I was pregnant, but I'm thinking of taking him back
Q. 14 months ago me and my bf were in a great relationship. we had so much love for each other it was unreal. however, i fell pregnant. he said he would stick around and support me even though he didnt really want it. anyway, that night he took off. he ...
A. 1 June 2011: Don't blame us when you end up alone again with 2 kids to raise this time.... (read in full...)
Should I lose weight? Would it make my breasts look better?
Q. I'm ashamed to ask anyone directly, and I realize you shouldn't get medical advice from the internet but this isn't a sign of something serious, just something about my appearance that I can't stand! My breasts are disgusting... they're not firm...
A. 14 May 2011: Unfortunately even if you do lose weight the overall shape may not change a whole lot, even if you are happier about how they look at a smaller size. So please don't be to dissapointed if that happens.
Do you have children? I ask because ... (read in full...)
How can I teach him a better technique?
Q. Every time my boyfriend fingers me, the day after I am really sore. I also feel like i get dry a lot faster when he is fingering me rather than when i am masturbating. I am guessing this is all just results of him being too rough?? Does anyone ...
A. 13 May 2011: Purchase some lube and show him how you like it with your own hand. Tell him all the main action should take place on the outside, like gently rolling and rubbing a little ball, not to poke, poke, poke inside. If that doesn't work tell him, no ... (read in full...)
Ex took off when he found out I was pregnant, but I'm thinking of taking him back
Q. 14 months ago me and my bf were in a great relationship. we had so much love for each other it was unreal. however, i fell pregnant. he said he would stick around and support me even though he didnt really want it. anyway, that night he took off. he ...
A. 13 May 2011: Woman are biologically programed to want their baby's father in their lives, they imagine the fairy tale family with everyone living happily ever after.
What you need to realize is that your baby has a father, (your current BF) that has been the... (read in full...)
Don't know what she means, please help me!!!
Q. Please help me! I just don't know what she means now or she really doesn't want this relationship anymore? Really sorry for the long post but i'm really out now and don't know how to explain it... Thanks so much if u can help me! The questions ...
A. 13 May 2011: I think she is saying that she needs to live in the here and now, not some distant place in the future. You may be willing to wait, but she is not.
So if she must choose, she would rather have someone else in her life right now, then be alone, e... (read in full...)
My close friend is friends with girls who bullied me!
Q. I have a friend who I don't see very often but we're close and can talk about anything. She went on a school trip abroad with these girls who used to bully me at school and still talk about me behind my back. The only problem is is everyone thin...
A. 13 May 2011: If these girls are as two faced as you think they are they it's only a matter of time before they screw up and show your best friend how ugly and mean they really are.
In the mean time spend a little less time with your friend, and be very car... (read in full...)
How do I help my boyfriend when he's having trouble ejaculating?
Q. Hi, I need some advice about my boyfriend's difficulty in ejaculating please. We've been together 6 months and everything is great :) But, when we have sex, although he gets an erection easily, he has difficulties actually ejaculating, so we often ...
A. 13 May 2011: If he is able to cum after abstaining from porn, then I suspect he has been masterbating to the porn on a regular basis, which is why he isn't able to cum again with you.
So there's his answer, save it for you or not. I say his answer because ... (read in full...)
My partner wont help with the finances......
Q. Hi, I need some advice. I have been going out with this guy for over a year. We get on well most of the time. But he constantly insults me - he doesn't mean to but it offends me. He doesn't make me feel special anymore. We work togethere and no...
A. 13 May 2011: Your first priority has to be your child, so I say tell him if he is going to live there, eat the food and run up the water and electric bills then he needs to split the costs with you.
This is a good way to finf out if he really loves you or i... (read in full...)
Internet love gone wrong...
Q. Hey :) Okay i really need some help x im 15 years old and well im on a couple of teenage dating websites, i only joined them at first to make some friends but i met this really lovely guy. Hes so sweet and we clicked ...
A. 13 May 2011: Sweetie There is usually a good reason why someone would rather meet people on line than face to face. Some are ill and confined to home or a wheelchair. Other have social anxieties that make it easier for them to chat online, than go out into... (read in full...)
Have I been masterbated to the point where my output is now being affected?
Q. Have I been trying to masterbate too many times every day? Now I am wondering how much masturbation is too much masturbation? Usually I masturbate four times a day. But now I have reached the point where i can barely ejaculate anything anymore and ...
A. 12 May 2011: @zcgby678 Hey dude did you miss part where he is only 13-15 years old?? ... (read in full...)
Have I been masterbated to the point where my output is now being affected?
Q. Have I been trying to masterbate too many times every day? Now I am wondering how much masturbation is too much masturbation? Usually I masturbate four times a day. But now I have reached the point where i can barely ejaculate anything anymore and ...
A. 12 May 2011: Yes it is normal for a males "potency" to turn watery after that much masterbation. Cut down to twice a week and it should return to normal.... (read in full...)
I'm a mess and not sure how to be happy again... Please help!
Q. I can't take it anymore. I was in love with my cousin for 2 years, but when I asked her if she shared my feelings she said no and told all her friends at school. Now I'm being picked on by every one... Even most of my friends have stopped talking ...
A. 12 May 2011: Dear Hurting
I know it may seem like the end of the world to you right now, but don't you believe it. This is a temporary problem.
It will pass.
In a week or so someone else will screw up big time and then everyone will be talking about them a... (read in full...)
How do I improve my sex drive and our sex life?
Q. My husband has only slept with 2 people in his life - myself and one other that was a drunken moment when he was a teenager. Consequently, I found him to be a bit inexperienced (he was 33 when we met) so sex has always been polite and nothing ...
A. 12 May 2011: Quckies are like a snack, better than nothing when you are on the run or tired but you can't live on them forever. That's why you have shut down to sex. You need some meat and potatoes in your diet on a regular basis to fill you up again.
And t... (read in full...)
I have the hots for my older Land Lady! Does this relationship have a chance?
Q. I feel confused by my land lord. Shes 64 years old and not married. I'm 36 years old. I feel something for her; she likes it when I buy her gifts sometimes she lets me kiss her on her lips but that's it, nothing more. I feel I want more than that. ...
A. 11 May 2011: I don't know if I would move, but I think I would stop hitting on the Land Lady. Because I hate to say it, but it makes you look pretty desperate when someone 28 years older than yourself doesn't even take you seriously. Please have some pride and ... (read in full...)
When kissing someone can you tell who the bad kisser is?
Q. A few weeks ago, i kissed this guy friend of mine. We were both pretty drunk, but the kiss was sooooooo bad!! I don't know if that was because he's a bad kisser or i was? He was tall so it was harder for me to kiss him but when we were, it was just ...
A. 11 May 2011: I think that everybody has their own style or way of kissing that is a little different from everyone else. So rather than call someone a bad kisser, I just show them how I like best to be kissed. (If I like them enough to want to see them again). ... (read in full...)
I'm worried when I eventually have sex nothing will feel good!
Q. im 18 female and i cant seem to get myself off... ive tried fingering and touching myself but it doesnt feel that good to me at all. The most enjoyment i get is from "pillow sex" so to speak which is rubbing myself against or riding on a pillow. ...
A. 6 May 2011: Please stop worrying so much, you are probably perfectly normal.
Sexually is a journey as much as it is a destination. It takes time for it to be awakened, and developed after you have become sexually active. Sexual response is only part mechanic... (read in full...)
My boyfriend never texts me back!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have a lovely relationship, but he never texts me back! Only if I'm in a bit of a mood with him and then he texts me loads! It's really annoying because I can't get in touch with him, and it feels as if he never thinks of me. I...
A. 3 May 2011: Try backing off on the texting and see what happens. Maybe if you only used it when you really needed to, he would respond more.... (read in full...)
If we're both fifteen...what happens if we want to have a baby?
Q. What iF You're 15 And You And Your Boyfriend Want To Have A Baby?!?...
A. 3 May 2011: You would mess up 3 lives (not to mention your parents) and spend the rest of your life trying to make up for it. Few succeed. ... (read in full...)
My marriage is void of intimacy and I feel I'm running out of time.
Q. I have been married for 33 years. We (my wife and I) never had intercourse before marriage. Although we did everything but, before marriage. We have never been able to make each other orgasm or cum through intercourse. Masturbation seems to be the ...
A. 3 May 2011: Good grief, why did you wait 33 years to ask for help? Have you ever consulted a sex therapist or a doctor about these issues? If so what did they tell you?
What about prior to your marriage, where you able to cum during sex with the other wome... (read in full...)
When Does the Art of Compromise Become Compromising?
Q. I have been dating my BF for about 9 months and our relationship is getting very serious. We are both 33 years old and have had our share of bad relationships and no luck in love until we met each other and are now looking at taking things to the ...
A. 2 May 2011: Great question and great response. I agree with dirtball because it sounds like if you allow him too your bf will take you apart bit by bit until you don't even know who you are anymore.
It would be better to challenge him now on a few things t... (read in full...)
Is it okay to experiment???
Q. Hi. i am 23 years old and about 1 year ago i came out of a serious relationship. i then seen quite a few rebound guys. and to be honest, none of them really floated my boat... and for the first time in my life i am starting to look at women in ...
A. 2 May 2011: It's a nice thought and your are not the first woman to have it. And experimenting is fine. But lesbianism is kind of an all-in or all-out proposition. ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 2 May 2011: Let me clarify, I doubt the school administrators would find it an appropriate subject for their curriculum. Even with the high rate of teenage pregnancy we currently have many schools still refuse to teach anything as you say other than ... (read in full...)
I broke things off before I get hurt but his texts confuse me!
Q. Ok, so I'm 20 and have been seeing this guy (27 years old) for 6 months now, but we haven't progressed at all. He hates relationships and said from the start he didn't want one, which was fine by me as I was still getting over an ex and didn't want ...
A. 2 May 2011: Please don't let his kindness confuse you. Nothing has changed. He still doesn't want a committed relationship at this time and he is being as honest as he can be about that with you.
You were right to break up with him and move on.... (read in full...)
If a guy wants to sex with you does that mean you turn them on?
Q. When a guy says they want to have sex with you does that mean you turn them on? My boyfriend said he wanted to but he won't because we are too young and we are. I rather not be a prego teenager. That would ruin my whole life plans. Anyways this is ...
A. 2 May 2011: Any guy can and will be turned on by an attractive girl. The real question is whether or not he still wants to hang around with her 5 minutes later.
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B/f wants to know whats wrong with dating 5 years before we decide?
Q. My boyfriend and I are in our mid 30's and have no children and been dating nearly two years. We live an hour and 10 mins drive apart and meet up mid week and week ends. He says because he doesn't earn much he can't afford to commute even further ...
A. 1 May 2011: Maybe that works for him, but if it doesn't work for you then you need to tell him so.
If you already have and he is A. not listening or B. not willing to move things up, then I am afraid you'll have to move on without him.
You could wai... (read in full...)
Should a guy really forgive a girl for being rude because she is on her period?
Q. Is a woman's cycle really a reason to forgive her sudden bitchiness? ...
A. 1 May 2011: Take birth control for a week and see for yourself what a sudden surge of hormones does for your personality.... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 1 May 2011: So if as you say you don't want porn banned, and moderation is A. not working or B. good enough, then what do you suggest other than educating young people about the dangers?
For that matter, how would you even go about providing this educatio... (read in full...)
Should I be mad that my boyfriend wants to "hang out naked" with another girl?
Q. My boyfriend and I are currently having a fight over this. I'd like to know if I'm wrong to be angry about it. Last night we were in a hot tub with some friends of his (male and female both). He had done a fair bit of drinking and wanted to take his ...
A. 1 May 2011: A lot of people here will probably dissagree with me.
But aren't you supposed to get a little wild and crazy while your still young enough to enjoy it? God knows you aren't going to want to drop your clothes in front of your friends 10 years an... (read in full...)
He's cheating, I keep forgiving him
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now, but I still have feelings that he is cheating. About 6 months ago he left his phone open to some messages from a girl he used to work with saying, "We should meet up" and "Your not just a plan-b ...
A. 1 May 2011: Cerberus, excellent response as always! Listen to him girl truer words you will never find. Learn from them.... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 1 May 2011: For young boys porn can become a problem because like the OP said it can cause them to get sexually stuck to the point where they can only achieve orgasm with a specific image, or under specific conditions that they cannot duplicate with a real live ... (read in full...)
Why don't I feel good about myself despite all the attention I get?
Q. I don't want to sound arrogant, but when i go on a night out, I get a heck of a lot of attention from guys!! Yeah sure, at the time it's fun and i love hearing guys compliment me and approaching because it makes me feel great!! Most girls would love ...
A. 1 May 2011: It could be that many guys are afraid to even ask a truly beautiful woman out on a date. They are too afraid of being rejected.
I have read many actresses complaining of having the same problem. Can you imagine being voted one of the worlds h... (read in full...)
My mom controls the way I dress!
Q. Know that i am a teenager in high school. So I like the way I dress. I basically wear jeans and a baggy shirt because they are comfortable. I enjoy this, but my mom is now FORCING me to wear dresses and skirts. She says that I walk like a man. Now ...
A. 1 May 2011: When you do find a quiet moment to talk to your mom about how you feel about this, try and find out what the real issue is with her. Because it sounds like you used to be able to wear what you wanted to and now all of a sudden it's a problem.
... (read in full...)
Oral Sex Can Be A Sharing Experience - Swallowing IS Equal...
Q. I am in my early fifties and my man is as well. We've only recently become intimate and I was not involved with anyone for a few years prior. So, I had a long time to think about sexuality and what I would do when back into it. My thoughts are tha...
A. 1 May 2011: Wow this has been a truly facinating read all around!
OP my hat is off to you!! You sound like one hell of a lady. I wish you were my next door neighbor so we could be friends and chat over coffe. There are a lot of young women out there that cou... (read in full...)
Why can't feel happiness for her? My long term friend is getting married and having a baby.
Q. I need some help dear Aunts. I feel like I am a terrible person right now. My best friend is getting married and having a baby. We have been inseparable since we were babies and I love her to bits. She loves me too and has been an outstand...
A. 1 May 2011: The simple answer is between your financial and your relationship problems you are letting yourself get totally stressed out by all this. If you and your friend are so close you should be able to discuss your money issues with her. If she is any ... (read in full...)
It is domestic abuse. So why would some try to blame the victim? What's their mindset and the payoff for doing it?
Q. i work with T who has recently been subjected to domestic abuse, and is still having this happen to her, at home. But something happened this week, people talking behind the back of T. And it has shaken my trust in some of my co-workers. Am i m...
A. 1 May 2011: Cerberus, Mishmash, and Cindycares all your answers and advise are so excellant and on point that I have little to add except one small comment. To the posters question of why her co-workers would say she brings it on herself. I think it is bec... (read in full...)
We broke up, should I keep the promise ring or give it back?
Q. my bf broke up with me 2 days ago in a txt after i had given him space to think if he can b in this relationship bcuz he was havn trust and insecurity issues cuz i have cheated in my past and decided to txt with my sons coach(txts were innocent).... ...
A. 1 May 2011: The rules say that if the ring was given to you for Christmas or your birthday as a gift you can keep it.
If it was given at any other time with the expectation of getting married or engaged, then it should be returned, especially if you were the... (read in full...)
We get along well, the conversation flows, but I can't get past his looks
Q. I need some advice and please don't judge me or think I'm being conceited i just have no other way than to put this bluntly. You know how when you are out, you see those couples where they don't suit....Well, this guy who i get along with really ...
A. 1 May 2011: All I can tell you is that my best friend married a guy because of how great they looked together. Everyone they went people would say, wow look at them, what a beautiful couple.
Six years and a daughter later, she divorced his ass. Because ... (read in full...)
She said she loved me but then left and never said goodbye!
Q. why would a woman of 2 yrs say they love and need you and now wouldnt even talk to me . she never said goodbye. does she feel guilty of something she did and cant face me . i hurt so bad. all i ever did is love her and be loved back.she made me ...
A. 1 May 2011: Was this an online relationship? If not then there has to more to it... Please give us some more to go on.... (read in full...)
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