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I suffer extreme jealousy

Q.   I have a serious jealousy problem. I cannot control it. There's this guy that my girlfriend is friends with; I don't even know the kid, I've never met him, and I hate his guts. I don't know why but whenever even his name comes up in a conversa...

A.   7 July 2007: Well thanks for all the advice, but things have taken a turn for the worst. The guy went to her house one day during the week, and he asked her to hug him, and as she went to, he pulled her towards him and kissed her - holding her there so she ... (read in full...)

I suffer extreme jealousy

Q.   I have a serious jealousy problem. I cannot control it. There's this guy that my girlfriend is friends with; I don't even know the kid, I've never met him, and I hate his guts. I don't know why but whenever even his name comes up in a conversa...

A.   5 July 2007: At the moment I'm not bothered about anger management, all I'm worried about is keeping my girlfriend. We've argued about this before, and that's another reason I hate him, because from my point of view, it's him that's causing us to argue (but it's ... (read in full...)

I love this girl with all my heart and I couldn't stand it if I found out she cheated on me, especially with a girl.

Q.   I've been going out with this girl for about 4 months now, and I've fallen in love with her; she says she feels the same way. We get on well all the time; we rarely have arguments because apparently I have a short temper and get angry over small ...

A.   25 June 2007: Ok I thought this problem had gone away, but it hasn't. But now I'm not so worried about her cheating on me with her friend, it's just she is seeing her so much more. It's driving me mad. Her friend started going out with one of my friends and I ... (read in full...)

I'm fine with her socialising but I get so jealous when she talks to this one guy.

Q.   I have a real issue. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 4 months now. I'm fine with her socializing with everyone else except for this 1 kid. He's 1 of my mates from school, and for some reason, whenever they're together, I just get so so ...

A.   17 June 2007: Thanks for all the help Eve. But to be honest, I had just exaggerated the situation a little bit. I was just being TOO protective, but I had just been under loads of stress. Everything's fine now. Thanks.... (read in full...)

I'm fine with her socialising but I get so jealous when she talks to this one guy.

Q.   I have a real issue. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 4 months now. I'm fine with her socializing with everyone else except for this 1 kid. He's 1 of my mates from school, and for some reason, whenever they're together, I just get so so ...

A.   15 June 2007: That sort of thing doesn't work with her though. She notices if I'm not giving her the same attention as usual, and she doesn't care, she just shrugs her shoulders and goes off without me. That gets me so angry. It makes me feel like I mean ... (read in full...)

I'm fine with her socialising but I get so jealous when she talks to this one guy.

Q.   I have a real issue. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 4 months now. I'm fine with her socializing with everyone else except for this 1 kid. He's 1 of my mates from school, and for some reason, whenever they're together, I just get so so ...

A.   13 June 2007: I have tried all the things you suggested. We have had countless arguments about this and I don't want to anymore. And it is definitely not because he is better looking and funnier. I don't know why, but my girlfriend is the only person who finds ... (read in full...)

I need to know how to break my boyfriend down.

Q.   I need to know how to break my boyfriend down. He does the silliest things and always expects me to go along with them. Im talking about stuff like riding halfway across town with a spitwad of gas in the tank or go to sit down and eat at a ...

A.   12 June 2007: Just talk to him. Tell him how you feel. Tell him you feel neglected and all you want is to be treated with respect and to be shown some affection. Make him realise how much he is upsetting you and make him feel guilty.... (read in full...)

I've been going out with this girl for 4 months now, and some people might say it is REALLY early for me to be saying this, but I am so sure that I have fallen in love with her.

Q.   I've been going out with this girl for 4 months now, and some people might say it is REALLY early for me to be saying this, but I am so sure that I have fallen in love with her. I have never felt this way about anybody before in my entire life, and ...

A.   12 June 2007: I have told her I love her. I tell her all the time. A while ago I told her I'm in love with her, and she told me the same. and I know this isn't lust or infatuation, I've been through that all before. But thanks for all your opinions.... (read in full...)

I'm a funny guy, but a gf dumped me because she thought I wasn't serious enough! Any views?

Q.   hey everyone, i'm a 15 year old guy am i had a problem with my ex-girlfriend. she said she dumped me because i couldn't ever be serious and i was always saying something funny. now that i look back i think it was this way, but i'm not sure if she ...

A.   11 June 2007: Look if a girl wants a serious relationship with you, you have to know what that's gonna involve. Sure being funny is a great thing to have in a relationship, but you also need to know when to stop joking around. If she wants a serious conversation, ... (read in full...)

I love this girl with all my heart and I couldn't stand it if I found out she cheated on me, especially with a girl.

Q.   I've been going out with this girl for about 4 months now, and I've fallen in love with her; she says she feels the same way. We get on well all the time; we rarely have arguments because apparently I have a short temper and get angry over small ...

A.   11 June 2007: Thanks for the advice. I took it and I'm glad I did. I talked to her about spending more time with me and she agreed. She admitted that she knew she had been spending way too much time with her friend and she has been seeing me more. and as for the ... (read in full...)

I love this girl with all my heart and I couldn't stand it if I found out she cheated on me, especially with a girl.

Q.   I've been going out with this girl for about 4 months now, and I've fallen in love with her; she says she feels the same way. We get on well all the time; we rarely have arguments because apparently I have a short temper and get angry over small ...

A.   10 June 2007: I have tried talking to her about it but she just says that her friend is really insecure and gets upset over the smallest things, and if she doesn't go out with her she's left on her own because she has no other friends. But I know she has other ... (read in full...)

What signs will tell me if my girlfriend is cheating?

Q.   Please help..I feel my g/friend maybe cheating..What are the signs to look for? - serious answers from ladies and girls most appreciated..Thank you.....

A.   10 June 2007: Here's my advice, it's not what you might expect, but it's the best thing I can think of. A few years ago, this girl I went out with cheated on me, and I saw absolutely no signs whatsoever. There was nothing that could have lead me to suspect she ... (read in full...)

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