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Do I confront her about the way she avoids me?

Q.   Okay so I've been seeing this girl for a few months and we have a lot in common. We knew from the first day we met that we'd probably end up really liking each other. A couple weeks ago I stayed over at her place and we went out to breakfast the ...

A.   16 December 2007: I think I have a similar problem to you met this girl got on great and then she changed. We had kissed and almost made love although id stopped myself as it was too early. Then the guy she was seeing had her done for drink driving and she became d... (read in full...)

I love him and he loves me but he used to be my teacher; should I back off? He's afraid of the ramifications

Q.   ive fallen for my ex teacher.I am 18 hes 27.We get along great.I told him how i feel ,and he feels same!however he is scared to take it further because of his job.its making me so angry that two people cant be together when we're both adults.He ...

A.   14 September 2007: I cant see that theres any real problem here if you like him and he likes you- hes not your teacher anymore so I dont see the big problem if he genuinely likes you too.... (read in full...)

My guy accuses me of having a friend with benefits, but I don't!

Q.   i am engaged to a wonderful guy,and have been for a number of years,but lately things aint been to good,he constantly accuses me of having a friend with benefits,which is untrue and he is constantly suspicious of whatever i do,yet he`s made it quite ...

A.   12 September 2007: if youre engaged and he doesnt trust you it sounds doomed. Im sure your a nice girl just being honest... (read in full...)

I'm thinking of tricking him into fatherhood!

Q.   I have been seeing a man for nearly 1 year, I do not have romantic feelings for him and neither does he for me, he is special to me and I class him as a friend more than anything, we purely have each other for sexual satisfaction. I am however ...

A.   2 September 2007: That sounds great you just use him to provide you with some sperm with you as a role model Im sure the child will turn out alright. We have enough single mothers who deny their children the right to see their fathers and deny them a proper family ... (read in full...)

She can't make up her mind. What do we do?

Q.   My best friend is a very attractive girl, I don't consider myself too good looking although she persists on telling me otherwise. The problem is that we recently kissed, quite passionatley on more than one occasion and she declared how she was in ...

A.   2 September 2007: I agree in part with the last guy who answered except that normally you would think that if she kissed you she does have pretty deep feelings for you but is confused because she is still in a relationship and probably her conscience kicks in. ... (read in full...)

What's the next step for me in my relationship?

Q.   I've been going out with this girl for just over three weeks and we have really grown to love each other... I like her a lot and I want to take our relationship further but I don't know how far I should go... I can tell you she really loves me and ...

A.   19 August 2007: Somehow I think it takes longer than 3 weeks to fall in love with someone this isnt the jeremy kyle show.... (read in full...)

I am pregnant to him again an he's said he wants me to get rid of it, if I don't then he does not want anything to do with me.

Q.   I've been with my Asian boyfriend for 3 years, in that 3 years he was made to get married by his dad. I've got 1 child to him and another to another man but he has brought her up as his own, now I am pregnant to him again an he's said he wants me to ...

A.   19 August 2007: i think you should keep it and sod him . It sounds like if he loved he wouldnt dare ask such demands of you. I also ask how he thinks hes gonna have nothing more to do with you entirely- you've already got one child together or is he gonna run from ... (read in full...)

I'm too young to have sex, but my boyfriend wants to

Q.   Hello I'm 15 Years Old 16 Soon And Am Scared Too Have Sex I Really Like This Boy But We Are Not Goiny Out We Have Done Everything Apart From Sex But I Think He Is Using Me Is There Any Advice You Could Give Me x...

A.   8 August 2007: I agree with Aunty Em if hr cared about you hed have the patience to wait for you maybe it shows immaturity on his part. I think in these modern times theres too much pressure on having a physical relationship with someone before you actually know ... (read in full...)

I fancy him but maybe he's already taken by the pretty girl at work? Do I still have a chance?

Q.   Hello, I'm an 18 year old female and my problem is this: I've started a new job (at a supermarket) and there's this really fit guy that I like. Lets call him John. My sister (Claire) works here too and she knows him. I asked her if John has a ...

A.   5 August 2007: It may be that Johns relationship with this girl if hes got one peters out in time if youve got the patience. And also being pretty doesnt make u a nice person or compatible as people. ... (read in full...)

Does she like me is there a chance of a possible romance?

Q.   Does she like me is there a chance of a possible romance? Met this girl we get on like house on fire but has been through hell her partner died leaving her at twenty two "widowed" with two children.Even though this was about four or five years ag...

A.   12 July 2007: Following on from my story she decided to give it another go with an ex even though he had made it clear that he would never take on her children describing them as baggage (which is an insult to anyones children in my eyes) and after being stood up ... (read in full...)

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