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Do I have the dreaded "pencil dick"? What do you all think?

Q.   Is my penis too thin? My penis measures 4.5 inches around when I'm erect and I've heard 5 inches the average. I'm worried because I've read women care more about girth than they do length. Am I OK here or do I have the dreaded "pencil dick?"...

A.   24 November 2008: I think 4.5 inches in circumference would not be a true pencil dick. I have always heard that a "pencil dick" is a penis of less than one inch in diameter. To calculate the circumference of a circle you multiply the diameter by 3.14 (pi), ... (read in full...)

Why do younger men fall for older women?

Q.   Why do younger men fall for older women? This keeps happening to me, and lately a relationship with a man 9 years younger is getting quite serious... I am worried that this is just a passing fancy....

A.   19 November 2008: For the same reason young women fall for older men. A desire for a learning experience, and or money. Two instances from my own life experience will illustrate. When I was in college I tutored an ADD "latch key" and "prep school boarded" young man ... (read in full...)

My husband's porn watching has put me in a deep depression, someone help me understand why?

Q.   I have been married for 5 1/2 years when I discovered my husband was watching a lot of porn. It started when I woke up one night and saw my husband walking to the bathroom with our lap top. He said he had to go to the bathroom but then put the ...

A.   18 November 2008: Just be glad you didn't find out he was sneaking around behind your back looking at GAY porn. Seriously, I have to admit I never really understood the attraction of pornography. It usually involves some butt ugly dude with a freakishly huge penis ... (read in full...)

Does penis size play into women's fantasies?

Q.   Ok, another penis size question, I know, but bear with me ! Ok I guess my question is: does the idea or sight of a substantially larger than average penis, turn most women on? Is a big one arousing? More esthetically pleasing. More likely to promp...

A.   10 November 2008: Life usually presents a stark Hobson's Choice for women: large penis or large back account. Rarely do the two go together. So yes, most women wind up marrying small dicked men who meet a "stability" test, and fantasizing about sex with men who ... (read in full...)

Do younger women really ever go for older guys say 15 to 20 years older?

Q.   Do younger women really ever go for older guys say 15 to 20 years older? I am interested in some real life occurances that worked out. Thanks for inputs....

A.   10 November 2008: They don't. As anyone knows, for any man, regardless of age, to succeed with women what he possesses must be NO LESS than six inches long, and the more of them ($$$) he possesses, the greater will be his success. Ok, well really it depends on h... (read in full...)

Why do younger men fall for older women?

Q.   Why do younger men fall for older women? This keeps happening to me, and lately a relationship with a man 9 years younger is getting quite serious... I am worried that this is just a passing fancy....

A.   10 November 2008: They don't. As anyone knows, for any man, regardless of age, to succeed with women what he possesses must be NO LESS than six inches long, and the more of them ($$$) he possesses, the greater will be his success. Ok, well really it depends ... (read in full...)

Went to a foreign country and slept with 3 male prostitutes. Should I tell my husband?

Q.   I had sex with 3 male prostitutes last week while visiting a foreign country with my female friend. I feel so guilty now, and I want to tell my husband. I know he will most likely leave me though and we have two children, one is just 6 weeks old and ...

A.   7 November 2008: This "story" is a fabrication. It was written by a teenaged boy just before, during, or just after masturbating, or it was written by a lonely middle aged woman (whose husband may really have a small, thin penis) who has probably never been more ... (read in full...)

I am a small B-cup so what I want to know is do some guys prefer small breasts?

Q.   Dear cupid, sorry i know this is a boring question. now i dont compare myself to my friends or anyone else for that matter as i would rather be just me. It seems though, that when we're out almost all the guys go for them as almost all of them are ...

A.   6 November 2008: I must confess, I definitely prefer small breasts over large ones. B cup is close to perfect. Problem is, I suspect most men who prefer small breasts probably have small penises. If I had to choose between the (stereotypically) undesirable “flat ... (read in full...)

What is the average sized penis for a guy?

Q.   hi, im 15. my gfs 17. i was talking to her about penis size, and started going thru them and what she though eg(1 inch? 2 inch? 3INch?), well i said my penis size and she laughed at it, im 4 inch 5. she laughed at all other sizes up to 4.5 an sed 5 ...

A.   6 November 2008: That depends. Online, the average size is between 8-10 inches in length, with few ever being less than 8. In the real world, I think the average ranges between 5 and 7 inches. If your pee pee is closer to 5 you might get laid on the first date, ... (read in full...)

Would it hurt if I told him he has a small one?

Q.   would it hurt a mans pride to tell them they have a small penis? especially if they are already an insecure person....

A.   6 November 2008: If a man really has a small penis, you will not need to tell him so outright; he will already know it. All you have to do is not go out with him again, or not return his phone calls, emails, or text messages. He will know why. If he is still ... (read in full...)

He is my perfect man...except his penis is too small...should I overlook this??

Q.   I dated John while I was in college about 10 years ago. He was gorgeous, intelligent, creative, ambitious.... everything you could ask for. The only problem was the size of his penis. Everything leading up to sex was mind blowing,but I was always ...

A.   6 November 2008: I am trying not to laugh, and doing a pretty good job of it, to my surprise. I think your plight would make an excellent romantic comedy-tragedy chick flick (complete with the creeping middle age reunion subplot). I would love to "hop" over and ... (read in full...)

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