My current boyfriend is addicted to porn and that caused me to have a fling with my ex
Q. i have been with my bf for about 2.5 years, recently I have caught on to his obsession with internet porn.Porn really doesnt bother me , we have even watched it together before, but he's sneaking around looking at this all the time(well he thinks ...
A. 3 November 2008: there is nothing wrong with porn, but cheating is sly and nasty.... (read in full...)
Am I overreacting about my boyfriend's stunning best friend?
Q. My boyfriends best friend is a girl, and she is utterly stunning, she is very thin and striking, wheras i am very short and curvy. I have no problem with him having a best friend who is a girl, its just I get jealous sometimes as she always sits on ...
A. 12 August 2008: sounds like he is screwing her for sure.
If it hurts you and they dont stop then definitly.
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Excessive vaginal discharge, could there be something wrong?
Q. Quite often i have so much vaginal discharge it feels like i have wet myself. is there something wrong with me?...
A. 12 August 2008: If this is orgasmic fluid than, you may be what known as a "squirter" ... (read in full...)
Why don't I make noise during sex?
Q. So my boyfriend and I first had sex about a month ago. I was a virgin, and he wasnt sure if he was or not. (he woke up at a party naked next to a naked girl) But anyways, neither of us make any noise during sex, other than the heavy breathing....
A. 12 August 2008: you learn more the more you do things. some girls never make a sound. it is not essential. Nothing worse than a screamer. a bit filth talk never comes in wrong mind.... (read in full...)
Where can I buy a vibrator?
Q. I'm 16 and I live in the UK. I want to buy a dildo/vibrator but how can I get one and how do I keep it a secret from my parents?...
A. 12 August 2008: any sex shop. or even try ebay. or if you cant find one, try using some fruit or vegtable like a cucumber or something. With the beg option, you can dispose of it each time so your parents need never know, unless of course they catch you in the act.... (read in full...)
What do lads think about girls/girlfriend watching porn, a lot???
Q. What do lads think about girls/girlfriend watching porn, a lot!? I just want to know if ye have a problem with girls watching porn. Is it a turn off? I would really appreciate your comments!!!...
A. 22 March 2008: I am a Porn addict myself. My ex girlfriend hated me wayching it but I have since watched it with females and it is great. It is an extra turn on and results in better sex.... (read in full...)
Do men prefer bigger breasts?
Q. ok, silly question but do guys prefair big boobs?! my bf is happy with mine but i just wana know what the general outlook on boobs are?...
A. 22 March 2008: I like all types and sizes from petite to large but not big mamma ones. I prefere firm breasts as well.... (read in full...)
I feel so low, dumped, physically assaulted, my self confidence is seriously damaged
Q. I feel really alone, down, vulnerable and emotional right now. My boyfriend of one year dumped me and asked me to leave the house we shared (he paid all the bills etc). We shared an amazing bond and I really feel that I won't find a relationshi...
A. 22 March 2008: It can be hard adjusting to being single after a long relationship. I recently came out of an 8 year one so I know the feeling. You never know what is around the corner, I am sure you will meet somebody new. ... (read in full...)
How can I "talk dirty" to him?
Q. Okay, I have a slight problem. My boyfriend loves, loves, loves to talk dirt. Like across MSN and through texts and in person. I cannot talk dirty to save my life. I have all these things I could say but I can't let them out. And it makes me feel ...
A. 19 March 2008: Just do it, You will soon pick it up. Before long you may be blowing HIS mind with your filth. I never done it until a recent female friend was bang into sending them. I started sending rather basic unintersting ones, Defore long I was sending very ... (read in full...)
I would like a man's opinion about whether or not you would dump someone because of braces? Do you think I should have backed down and said I wouldn't get them?
Q. I'm 20 years old and in university right now... I had been seeing this guy for 2.5 years and it was very serious, talking about the possibility of engagement at some point in the next 3-4 years... very serious. I loved him with all my heart and we ...
A. 10 March 2008: I think braces are rather sexy myself. He is obviously an idiot if he would dump you because of that.... (read in full...)
I have never been subjected to being dominated by a girl before, should I let her do with me what she pleases?...
Q. I recently bumped into a female friend from years ago. There was some chemistry in the air and we reacted. The other day when this girl came to see me, She totally sexually dominated me and told me point blnak what she was doing I was bit take...
A. 25 February 2008: You know, I think this scenario may work out fine for me. I have not felt this happy in years. I feel liberated. In fact I would go as far as to say, I feel as liberated as a "Death Camp Jew" On V-E Day. Thanks for your advice.... (read in full...)
Is 13 too young an age to date?
Q. So I'm a 13yd old girl and I just got asked out by a boy(13) in my class. I already knew he liked me and I only like him because he is sweet to me. So I said yes to go out with him because I only like him a little. I'm also allowed dating now. Do ...
A. 25 February 2008: Go for it, I say. just dont jump in the deep end too soon and think your in love strait away or you will end up sorry and hurt. I would not like the idea of my daughter "having it off" at 13 but when I think back. It was about that same time for me.... (read in full...)
In love with him, but he isn't with me and he has a girlfriend. What should I do?
Q. Hi Cupid, I have a boy problem... you see there is this boy and I really like him I mean my heart beats faster just thinking about him. The thing is he has a girl friend. I have already told him that I liked him but he kind of veers away from ...
A. 25 February 2008: yeah, he is spoken for. Try not to step on other peoples turf as it will shape you into a nasty person which may, In time, Become your destiny. Regonise the mistakes you make and learn from them. (and obviously try not to repeat the mistake) We all ... (read in full...)
My foreskin is tight and it is making me nervous...any advice??
Q. I read apparently only 20% of male men in Britain can retract their foreskins. I'm 14 and cannot. Now I'm not looking for sex at my age, but I'm nervous for sex in the future. I can take it back SLIGHTLY but anymore and it hurts. Any advice? *N.B -...
A. 22 February 2008: You need to get this sorted. Take the pain now or suffer pain until you eventually have to get it sorted. You cant go through life in pain whenever you get a hard on. You parents should have reconised this problem early in your life although it may ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions, why she doesn't tell all?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for over 4 years now. In the beginning I was told she was divorced , that I was the first guy she had been with , she had several dates but nothing else. It would never bothered me even if she had been with ...
A. 22 February 2008: Some women just love getting mens minds jealous. They feed off the Jealous energy like some sort of phsycic vampire. She is using you to feul her ego as she sounds like she may be a bit insecure. (and cruel)... (read in full...)
I kissed him, now she's threatening me, what do I do?
Q. I kissed this guy i know from school but had never spoken to before last thursday and saturday when out at a club. On thursday we kissed once in the club and then all the way home in the taxi (he lives near me and there were others in the car too). ...
A. 21 February 2008: She is just jealous. tell her if she has some problem then see 'him' as to you it was nothing and did not result in anything. Tell her you were both single at the time so get over it. (unless she is a hard case then I dont know)... (read in full...)
How should I handle her and her male friend??
Q. My question is why does my girlfriend feel the need to talk to another male friend? She told me about him in the beginning(somewhat). Over the past 4 years I have seen more and more of their conversations. Even though she has told me there's nothing ...
A. 21 February 2008: If he is being sexual to your girlfriend then you should object. Friend or no friend, he is showing disrespect for you by doing this because he can. Either your girlfriend may get him told to calm it. or he gets a slap. Or she gets told where to go. ... (read in full...)
Why won't he talk about his ex??
Q. Hey, Theres this guy who for the past three months I have grown quite close to we both really like one another but we are taking it slow. Recently I asked him about his ex and why they seperated.. He asked me who told me about her to which I rep...
A. 21 February 2008: I am not to speculate but maybe he has something to hide? Unless his last life was so head doing, that he gets flashbacks of Nam and cant bring himself to relive the situation by talking about it. I would be suspicious.... (read in full...)
My foreskin is tight and it is making me nervous...any advice??
Q. I read apparently only 20% of male men in Britain can retract their foreskins. I'm 14 and cannot. Now I'm not looking for sex at my age, but I'm nervous for sex in the future. I can take it back SLIGHTLY but anymore and it hurts. Any advice? *N.B -...
A. 20 February 2008: It's the old op for you my friend I am afraid. I had it done when I was young. You need to address this. sooner rather than later.... (read in full...)
I don't think its possible for me to have sex because I am so tight...what is wrong with me??
Q. I don't know what is wrong with me. I have never had sex but i don't think it is possible for me too anyway. I am so tight i can't even put in a tampon without it hurting too much to bare. I have tried fingering myself to see if it was possible and ...
A. 20 February 2008: I think this may be normal for a girl your age. I think if you are turned on first it may help but I am no expert in this field. I think it is a case of hurties the first few times then it gets more easy.... (read in full...)
I have never been subjected to being dominated by a girl before, should I let her do with me what she pleases?...
Q. I recently bumped into a female friend from years ago. There was some chemistry in the air and we reacted. The other day when this girl came to see me, She totally sexually dominated me and told me point blnak what she was doing I was bit take...
A. 20 February 2008: I have met this girl since and she was even more extreme this time. What was intended to be 2 hours fun ended up being an 11 hour ordeal which left me a bit traumatised and feeling like I had been involved in a road traffic accident. the thing is, ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend can be a real bitch sometimes!
Q. I really love my girlfriend of the past year and a half and we have even talked of marriage. The problem is that whenever she gets a little bit frustrated and stressed about something (her job, waiting in a long line, etc...) she takes it out on me ...
A. 20 February 2008: I just ended a 8 year realationship with a similar sounding woman. At the end of the day you have to look past your emotionally clouded judjements to what YOU want, Say 10 years down the line. Are you happy?? If not, I would picture yourself 10 ... (read in full...)
I don't want to make things awkward by asking her out if she isnt interested, but don't want to get stuck in the 'friend zone' if she is!
Q. Hello all, I am 20 and in college and i've got a crush on my lab partner from my BIO class and I dont know what to do. I am terrible at reading women (as i'm sure most guys are) and I cant tell if she likes me or not. We both like see...
A. 17 February 2008: well you are in there. Foot in the door at least. play it cool. you will know if she wants it. tell her politly why you asked her out, I.E. You really like her and would like to get to know her a bit better. Dont be pushy and dont be too shy. She ... (read in full...)
My girl slept with someone else while we were on a 'break' and I cant get over it
Q. Heres the deal, my girlfriend of 4yrs and I had a break that lasted a month during the summer, during which we saw other people. When we got back together, I asked her if she had slept with anyone, to which she replied no.Recently she told me that ...
A. 15 February 2008: People are only amimals. She lied so as not to hurt you but at least she came clean. If you can, try and get over it if you feel she is worth it. when things happen behind your back is time to move on.... (read in full...)
I don't want to make things awkward by asking her out if she isnt interested, but don't want to get stuck in the 'friend zone' if she is!
Q. Hello all, I am 20 and in college and i've got a crush on my lab partner from my BIO class and I dont know what to do. I am terrible at reading women (as i'm sure most guys are) and I cant tell if she likes me or not. We both like see...
A. 14 February 2008: shy children get no sweeties. take the plunge ask her or text her if you have her number. The knock-back can be terrifying, I know as I have the same problem. rejection is not the end of the world and you never know, Women do change their minds when ... (read in full...)
Should I give my teacher a valentines day card?
Q. Hi i fancy my teacher, should i give him a valentines day card or would that just weird him out? help.......
A. 14 February 2008: Lots of young girls get these urges to want sex with there teachers. I had load of designs on my female teachers. These are fantasies and should be treated as such. If it could cause a problem for anyone then stick to fantasising. 9 times out of 10 ... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to keep the spark in the bedroom?
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend for 4 months now and we are very much in love. I just want to know what are the best ways to keep the spark alive in the sex department? Any tips on how to keep it firey and hot in the bedroom? How to turn him on e...
A. 14 February 2008: try out new things all the time. Let me know if you require an idea and I will think something up for yous... (read in full...)
What do I do I'm so confused?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have this friend who I've known for about seven months. Since the first day I met him I had a crush on him and through out the months that crush grew to be something more, but the thing is he only wants to friends and he's tol...
A. 14 February 2008: Explain your feeling for him to him direct. At the same time suggest something really rude. He will suddenly become interested, Beleive me.... (read in full...)
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