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1 November 2007: Funny, most of my guy friend i don`t know if its a curse but i sleep with most of them and for some reason they encourage me: I met this guy he told me he had admired me for some time now, we agreed to be real good friends to talk bout anythi...
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Is it overdoing it having sex with 11 guys?
Q. Having sex with 11 guys in my life, now i`m 19, do you think that too much, or is it normal.Please tell me cause i think its whoreish, using protection and sometimes not but it was all guys that were in relation with me jest 5 were friends. So do u ...
A. 20 December 2007: Ok! here this, i didn`t sleep with anyone on a first neither second and either third date i dont EVER, but speak for your self as that adviser told you, for your info, yes i do respect myself, in fact i `m the most respectable person there is. Who ... (read in full...)
Is it overdoing it having sex with 11 guys?
Q. Having sex with 11 guys in my life, now i`m 19, do you think that too much, or is it normal.Please tell me cause i think its whoreish, using protection and sometimes not but it was all guys that were in relation with me jest 5 were friends. So do u ...
A. 18 December 2007: You know, thanks ALL of you guys for really helped me alot with this situation i had, i was really mess up but thanks, cause i did an hiv test the other day and it was thank God negitive, and a special thanks to jujuBee as you went through the same ... (read in full...)
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Q. Hi There are over 40,000 questions here on dearcupid and some absolute gems in amongst them. Problem is it has been hard to make associations between similar questions in order to get the most out of the site. So, I've introduced a new feat...
A. 13 December 2007: This is sooo!! super cool , thanks a lot ,Andrew""... (read in full...)
Do I break up with him
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for a while and he still loves his ex and tells her that, and she still loves him and wants him back, he tells me that he doesnt and that he loves me though but i heard him say it to her, do i brake up with him....
A. 18 November 2007: Yes,! you have to cause theres no love whatsoever leave him!!!!!... (read in full...)
Do you know what may be causing this?
Q. this may sound like a really dumb question but im kind of worried. i dont think theres any need to be worried but id like to make sure before i come to nay conclusions. it isnt a question about relationships o anything but its quite embarrasing you ...
A. 13 November 2007: You have either a bladder infection or a urinary tract infection one of those. You need to see a doctor immdiately before its to late it will get worst. ... (read in full...)
Should I let them sleep together?
Q. Hiya i'm a mum of two my son is 20 and my daughter is 17. Well, my daughter has got her first bf and someone who she has been best friends with since they were little, hes really nice and kind and isn't like most lads. In fact im really pleased ...
A. 13 November 2007: Talk to her ask her if she`s have sex already just talk to her!!!... (read in full...)
I can't let go of him. How did I get tangled up with this loser?
Q. so i am in the worst situation i can imagine. i thought i was smarter than to get in a relationship with the biggest loser ever but i guess not and now im stuck and i need someones help. "Sam" and i have been together for almost a year. ON and Off....
A. 13 November 2007: hi, i feel sooooo sooooo, sorry for you, i had a b/f jest like him, in and out of jail doing things so stupidly. The thing is he don`t love you, he never had, but you HAVE to let go before its to to late, he`s hurting you over and over again, why ... (read in full...)
My bf can't get over my lie of 1 yr ago. I'm so depressed, how do I gain back his trust?
Q. i`ve been with my boyfriend for two years and about a year ago i lied to him and he cant forgive or even forget!! so things aren`t going so well we fight a lot and im so tired from all whats happening..i tried really hard to fix things up but its ...
A. 12 November 2007: The question is what was it that you lied about, if its that deep than you might never regain his trust. My boyfriend is jest the same, he can`t trust me again and its really hard for me we fight all the time most of it. I know he`ll never forgive ... (read in full...)
I'm sure he's the one.
Q. i recently split up with my x boyfriend cause i saw another guy behind his back.nothing happened we just met up as mates as he has a girlfriend himself.help me get him back cause hes the only one i have ever luved i know i am only 17 but i am sure ...
A. 12 November 2007: You need to tell him that, jest ask him for jest one minute of his time and talk to him, if he feels the same way towards you he`ll here what you have to say. jest talk to him and tell him. good luck!!!... (read in full...)
TEXT ME BACK!
Q. There's a guy I used to work with who I'm also sleeping with. The problem is that leading up to me staying at his place we'll be texting loads, but afterwards he doesnt text and wont reply to my messages. Then 2-3 weeks later he'll text and be like ...
A. 12 November 2007: I have a similar problem, i sleep with a guy whose my friend i also have a bf. Anyways he does the exact same thing ,like the day we have sex he would call, talk and stuff but after wards no contact during the weeks. Now this is a problem for me it ... (read in full...)
She tells me I can't go to meet her friends.
Q. Well where do i start, im 15 and my girlfriend is 15, (i know i know typically you think because we are young we dont have some of the same relationship problems as adults, but that is not true, just listen to my problem) we have been dating a ...
A. 11 November 2007: your gf don`t know what she`s doing to you, even though you wrote this i can feel the hurt in your words. You need to put down some rules if not sit her down and have a talk with her very seriously. Yes of course she could have friends but if they ... (read in full...)
I don't tell friends my secrets.
Q. i no this is an odd question but im a private person and hardly tell my friends any of my secrets or problems is this a bad thing??? ...
A. 8 November 2007: No its not bad, i`m jest like that, i tell know one my my problems, life, nothing and i don`t seem to no why but i like that cause its jest me i`m a private person. Nothing is wrong with that, thats how some people are.... (read in full...)
Two years and never had sex?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost two years now. and we have not had sex. Everytime I bring it up he says we will and nothing ever happens. I am 35 and he is 47....
A. 8 November 2007: Well i think that he maybe have either a disease or something but whatever it is he`s trying to protect you, maybe he don`t know how to tell you he`s afraid that he might lose you. SERIOUSLY!!!! ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I should tell her or just leave it alone.
Q. Hi there... I just need advice on a matter that has been on my mind almost 24/7 for the past 3 years or so... I have feelings that are so strong towards an ex-teacher of mine(who is also female). After I left High school I stayed in contact with her...
A. 8 November 2007: Here`s what to do, in talking to her jest bring up a question on lesbian relationships or talk to her bout one of your friends who is a lesbian and see how how she reacts to it. Find questions that might lead to finding out if she appreciates ... (read in full...)
Heartbroken in Iraq
Q. Hello, I have been with this woman for just over a year, and have been engaged for almost a year. We have been friends for 10 years and she was my first real girlfriend. We dated way back when we were in 9th grade and were just friends until on...
A. 8 November 2007: Take care where ever you are and keep safe. She loves you so much that she can`t stand to be alone without you. Its like she loses her mine so badly that she needs something to make her not think bout you so she turns to alcohol but despite that ... (read in full...)
Does anyone have advice for us?
Q. I recently met a girl on an internet forum. We grew close, and are now pretty much in an internet relationship. We instant message each other, are able to see each other on webcams, and call each other up regularly. We have sent each other letters ...
A. 8 November 2007: Hi i think you`ll should continue with what you are doing and one day when you`ll are ready, will meet up and it will be even greater than you expect. GOOD LUCK!!
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Had a fling in NYC this weekend, do you think he will call me?
Q. Ok I know this is bad, but a cute waiter hit on me in NYC this weekend. He could not stop looking at me all through dinner, then when I asked for my check, he said he would pay for it if I stayed (a $200 tab). We went to another bar and ended up ...
A. 7 November 2007: Really, call the guy cause maybe waiting 4 you to call first.
CALL HIM!!!!
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I've got a crush on my teacher, he flirts back, my boyfriend suspects, but I still want something to happen, what should I do?
Q. I've had extreme on/off crushes on my foreign language teacher that I've had since the beginning of sophomore year- now I'm a senior. I happen to be "a prodigy" at this language, and so I can't tell if he plays favorites with me or if he has ...
A. 7 November 2007: hi, by reading that i smiled at certain parts, this sounds really great. My advice is to don`t tell him, well you could but i feel it might more drive him away especially fining out he don`t feel that way for you, not saying he don`t but that could ... (read in full...)
I'm married, never cheated on my husband, and the tests reveal I'm HIV positive. How do I tell him this...?
Q. How can I handle my life? I'm 30 yrs old I have i'm married for 6 yrs now. i didn't have sex with other guys but when i tested my blood i'm positive with HIV, do you recommend to tell to my husband? He will kill himself and I belive him he didn'...
A. 6 November 2007: i`m so hurt to here this, i feel it as though it was me, i`m so, so sorry wish i could help!!!!... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and my brother is 17, what should I do?
Q. i m 16 years old. my 17 years old brother wants to suck my boobs and wants me to give him a blow job. Please tel me what i should do....
A. 6 November 2007: this is sick, sick, sick, how I know you ask this for help but you should already know the answer for this question you ask it`s NOOOOOO!!!!! AND IT`S SICK SICK SICK!!!!... (read in full...)
My fiance says this guy was just a friend, so why didn't she introduce him to me?
Q. I have found out,that after years of being told Iam keeping secrets,that my fiance herself has had her own secrets. Basicaly,she has told lie after lie about who is on the other side of a phone number that keeps cropping up. She has finaly admitted ...
A. 5 November 2007: honestly i`m in a relationship now and i have a friend, i`m also with him so i`m with two guys. My bf suspects it but i jest say he jest a friend he said same thing you told your fiance,why don`t i meet him. It`s obvious she`s cheating cause she`d ... (read in full...)
Does he still want me, or is he only playing games with my mind?
Q. hi im a 20year old women nd very confused! i split from my ex 3 months ago afta 2 nd half years together we also have a little son he been seeing someone else in that time he didnt want 2 know me or his son and now his girlfriend cheated on him he ...
A. 5 November 2007: He`s nothing, if you leave and live with this guy you`ll be living in hell, so please don`t do this, I`ve been there and done that, so don`t even think bout it. You`ll find someone much more worthy of your love no matter how long it takes you to ... (read in full...)
Is this something to worry about?
Q. Right yesterday me and my bf were having sex and he slipped out but we carried on and bit later there was blood everywhere, at first i thought i had come on but found out i had actually been cut between my vagina and my clitoris. would him slipping ...
A. 5 November 2007: Well this happend to me lots of times when i started having sex my fourth or fifth time with my same boyfriend. This happens a lot to some people when there skin down there is either to thin or having really rough sex but its not by slipping out, ... (read in full...)
What does this mean, what should I do?
Q. Okay I really need help with this. My ex-boyfriend and I "dated" for two months...although I wouldn't exactly call it dating because we didn't really get along and barely talked to each other. It was my first relationship so I didn't really kn...
A. 5 November 2007: Girl he`s jest stupidly ****ing around with u, tell him to stop his childish behavior and provoking you its over and get a life. chaw!!... (read in full...)
Need help with ex gf!!!(another one)
Q. Alright, I'm in quite a pickly right now. It's the same old I want my ex girlfriend back story. This one is complicated and long so I'll do my best to keep it in detail and as short as possible. So yeah, my ex-gf and I dated for 2 years and 3 mont...
A. 5 November 2007: YEAH, i agree with to that answer tell her how you feel. good luck!! ... (read in full...)
I love my 27 year old teacher.
Q. I'm in love with my teacher. He's 27, 13 years older than I, and please don't say anything like, "It's not love, just a crush, an infatuation, forget about him." I've already tried, but no matter how hard I try, I can't forget him. He's like a dr...
A. 5 November 2007: hi i understand you completely, i have had a thing for older guys also and i don`t seem to know why. I feel it when you talk bout him you sound like you really like this guy a lot, apart from you begin a student i look at you as an adult knowing you ... (read in full...)
How many partners have you had?
Q. This is a very general question, based on the numerous questions that I see posted about couples dealing with one partner's sexual past. How many sexual partners have YOU had? Do you regret the number, be it big or small? How many "one-night-stand...
A. 1 November 2007: I`M 19 and had 11 partners, i need help!!!! problems make me do them'
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Confused and he's all I think abot.
Q. OK heres the thing, i really like a lad who like me as well. He has a gf. I really feel a strong attractivness towards him. He has always thought of himself as the ugly one and says first he has nothing and then something big comes along (me), and ...
A. 1 November 2007: hi i`m 19, know how you feel, but don`t think bout sleeping or anything that involves sex. Two thing he could be after.
1. he could he lusting after you still loves his g/f strongly but wants to see how sex with you is like, then leaves knowing ... (read in full...)
Did I ever really get her back?
Q. I have a problem that I created. About three years ago my wife and I was playing and I made her a profile on a dating web site. I wanted to show her she was still desirable and make her feel sexy again. I let her start playing on the site and it ...
A. 1 November 2007: HI i`m 19 you really need something to cope with right now i actually feel it for you its sad disgusting and childish. Yes, you wanted to make her happy or make her feel sexy again who husband won`t but if she loves she should know her limit. She`s ... (read in full...)
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