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I'm a loving young woman in a great relationship who has been through lots in my life. I love to help people out, and love feedback. Add me as a friend if you need someone to talk to about things you can't talk to any one else about. I don't judge and have an open mind.

Should I just tell her I don't want to be friends because of how shes changed?

Q.   Me and my friend have been really good friends for about 3 years now, you could say we are best friends. We've always had so much fun and have always talked about everything and it's been great. Lately however she has changed. She has become s...

A.   4 July 2009: I myself would just let things fade away. Seeing as you don't even see each other any more there is no use in starting a fight. You could let her know in a nice way that she's changed and you aren't alike any more. ... (read in full...)

I thought my husband was working in a call centre or factory...but he is a lap dancer in a gay club!

Q.   I found out off a long-time family friend (male) of ours, who's a taxi-driver, about my husband's nightshift job. We've been married for 3 months now. I am aware that my husband worked nights, he changed job to a nightshift one a year-and-a-ha...

A.   4 July 2009: If you didn't even know that your husband was working at a gay club that's a problem. My boyfriend and I share every thing. We do our banking together. How did you not see a pay stub or anything of the sort? you're married for gosh sakes. This makes ... (read in full...)

They talk about other girls but never ask me out!

Q.   It seems like everyone my age is going out. My best friend went out with one of my guy friends. And my other best friend is going out with my best guy friend. I have more guy friends then i have girl friends. I think about sports and I act like one ...

A.   4 July 2009: Men don't like being beat by a girl at any age. You should be friends with him before you know if you like him enough to be more. Just have fun you're still young =]... (read in full...)

How can we make up and be friends again?

Q.   I sent a text to my friend one afternoon to find out if she fancied meeting up that evening if we were both free. She was at work and so I didn't expect a reply, if any til she finished. At the same time, I was at my Mum's boyfriend's place, round ...

A.   4 July 2009: My best friend happens to do this to me, if I'm not home fast enough then she makes other plans, It's quiet annoying and frustrating. She has the right to be upset and she'll get over it sooner then you think. She hasn't said anything about not ... (read in full...)

He makes legal threats to people on Wiki !

Q.   I found out on the computer that my husband has been making legal threats to others on Wikipedia under multiple usernames. I confronted him, and he denied it at first, but then admitted it. He said he got a buzz out of winding them up. All h...

A.   4 July 2009: His actions are just strange? It's called cyber bullying that children do to each other. Tell him to grow up or you're going to have to take grown up actions to make him stop.... (read in full...)

Do girls prefer the scruffy hair look or the clean cut short hair look, which do they think is sexier?

Q.   do girls prefer scruffy hair look, or clean, cut short hair in guys? what is it they find sexy about it? im fairly short (174cm) and oval shaped head, blonde hair.. ...

A.   4 July 2009: Scruffy hair looks great if you don't use too much product. Yet short hair feels nice. It all depend on what you think looks good because if you think it looks good odds are others will do. ... (read in full...)

Is her new guy a bandaid or is she playing mindgames with me?

Q.   So, my girlfriend and I of two years broke up. the last year we were living together. We got into a fight and she left the house didn't come home that night. first time she ever did that in a fight. everything was going good the weeks before. I ...

A.   4 July 2009: I agree with Tux, he's absolutely right. Once someone cheats on you they will probably do it again. If she really wanted you back she wouldn't have a boyfriend. When you're hurting you don't go right out and get a new boyfriend I guarantee you that. ... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant, but I don't want him to get in trouble.

Q.   I am 15 and I'm pregnant with my boyfriend that is four years older than me i need help i don't want him to go to jail i live in florida he wants to be there for me and the baby and he plans to marry me i love him to death is there anything i can ...

A.   4 July 2009: You really should talk to your parents they are the only one's who can help you because they are still your guardians until you are 18. Most girls are afraid to talk to their parents but it's their job to be there for you. If you plan on keeping ... (read in full...)

Is it okay to have sex on your period?

Q.   so i`m on my period and me and my boyfriend want to have sex but i`m not sure if i should. is it okay to have sex when on your period? what should we do, like lay down a towel?...

A.   3 July 2009: It's ok to have sex while you have your period, if you boyfriend isn't grossed out by it. You can still get pregnant so make sure you are using protection and it's always smart to keep a towel under you if you don't want to get any thing dirty, it ... (read in full...)

Do I choose my currnt bf or my best friend who likes me?

Q.   i thought i was in love with this lad, everything was going great i thought, then this laad that was my bestfriend as loong as i knew him came along and told me i was gorgeous and a right bird, he keeps calling me gorgeous and beautiful and telling ...

A.   3 July 2009: You're going through something many people go through on a daily basis. If your current boyfriend doesn't treat you well (even if you love him) then you should let him go. Take some time to be single and if your best friend still wants you then go ... (read in full...)

They talk about other girls but never ask me out!

Q.   It seems like everyone my age is going out. My best friend went out with one of my guy friends. And my other best friend is going out with my best guy friend. I have more guy friends then i have girl friends. I think about sports and I act like one ...

A.   3 July 2009: I was very much like yourself at your age. I was a tom boy who still prefers spending time with men because women are too catty. I eventually grew out of wearing t-shirts every day and started wanting to spend more time on the way I looked. I still ... (read in full...)

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