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im 32 years old recenty divorced with 2 kids i have my kids most of the time and iv was married 9 years my ex insted of turning 28 she turned 16 thats the best way i could put it

3 years have gone past since our break up and I still can't move on...

Q.   my girlfriend and i split up about 3 and half years ago. we were engaged and living together. i havent moved on yet but she has had a few casual boyfriends and one serious one she lives with and is expecting his baby, i think they been together 2 ...

A.   16 March 2010: well all i have to say to that is, move on man. shes pregnent and 3 years went by. u can do it you can give your love to someone who needs it more then her. i loved someone and they passed me up 10 years later she tells me what do u think of us ... (read in full...)

Should I be mad at my wife?

Q.   I dont know what im doing any more i was married for 8 years and we split up a few months ago dec 22 2009 i have my own place im self employed im ok for the time being i just feel alone i have 2 girls 2 and 5 thay live with me cuz every time she ...

A.   14 March 2010: just wanted to say thank u ... (read in full...)

Should I be mad at my wife?

Q.   I dont know what im doing any more i was married for 8 years and we split up a few months ago dec 22 2009 i have my own place im self employed im ok for the time being i just feel alone i have 2 girls 2 and 5 thay live with me cuz every time she ...

A.   14 March 2010: thank you all for your answers i see her now and i feel better cuz i know she made a mistake im not going to let it get me down its her loss thank u again for the help... (read in full...)

How can two such committed people change and let go of everything so easily??

Q.   I was with this girl for 2 years... she is 18 and i am 22... she was simple at heart, very caring towards me, beautifully understanding and very practical... on the top of everything crazy about me.... she made me feel SO SO special every time since ...

A.   14 March 2010: id say just let her go i know how u feel and just let it go if she did this now how about 10 years from now if she does it then just move on and find someone else i was married for 8 years with 2 kids and that didnt stop my ex wife from le... (read in full...)

I'm scared to tell my ex that I still have feelings for him.

Q.   Just really need to know what to do. My boyfriend finshed me two months ago and I still love him so much.. We had really bad fights like he told me to go and die and everything and my councillor said that am Letting him do it cause a still love him ...

A.   14 March 2010: well i just got divorced 3 months ago and i couldent even think of being with out her i thought of her every day night and even called but no answer so one day i saw her and i spilled it out to her she looked at me and said i hope u dont think cuz u ... (read in full...)

Am I aiming too high to not want a boring boyfriend?

Q.   I'm permanently single.. And it's driving me insane... I never get any interest from guys at all unless they're really boring and mundane. Am I aiming too high or something ? Should I settle for uneasy conversation etc? :( ...

A.   14 March 2010: well let me put it to you this way the people your dating might be boring becouse of what choise u had u picked the one that looks good and fets what u want but you cant have both its eather looks or brain its hard to get boyh ... (read in full...)

Why do guys look at other girls?

Q.   why do boys when going out with girls look at other girls? does this mean that they do not truly love their girlfriend?...

A.   14 March 2010: girls are like cars if u have rims on a car u wanna look at it if the paint job is clean u wanna look now if a girl has a big but guys wanna look if she has big breast guys look now back to the car thing if i look at the car im just looking im not ... (read in full...)

If I left my husband would it affect my Greencard?

Q.   Hello,I have a problem with my husband.everytime we fight , he tell me to live his house.We are married for 2 years, and our marrige relationship is bad.I think he has someone else.What I should do , if I would live him ? It can affect my greencard ...

A.   12 March 2010: not realy do u have the 10 year one then your good but if its the 2 year then u need to stay i hve the same problem but i have the 10 year and its ok for me to divorce her i just cant get any felonies hope that helps u a bit... (read in full...)

I cant take it anymore but I don't know how to leave!

Q.   I have two boys in a relationship before this one. When I met my current boyfriend he was so nice to them and had a great job, and for once I felt like I didn't have to be in charge of EVERYTHING. Now, two years later we have a daughter together, ...

A.   12 March 2010: im kinda in the same place me and my ex untill one day i just said i need a divorce and walked out of the house never looked back untill a 2 weeks ago she trying to come back in my life just say it to your self and move on their is nothing he can do ... (read in full...)

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