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Is it normal not to bleed?

Q.   Hi I would like to seek some advice. My bf and I had intercourse for the first time. We're both virgins. But I did not bleed. I thought virgins are supposed to bleed on their first time. Is it normal?...

A.   24 June 2011: I agree with everyone else, you are completely normal. When i was younger, i broke my hymen while doing other things sexually. Be glad because you can skip the mess and the awkwardness of cleaning up.... (read in full...)

I sent a drunk message to the guy who works at Whole Foods!

Q.   Okay so there is this boy i can not get out of my head. He works at whole foods, and i cant help that he sticks in my mind so vividly every time. From what i have experienced, we definitely have made eye contact a few times. Well somehow i found out ...

A.   26 February 2011: I saw him at this pizza place last night!!! I was a little intoxicated again so i hope i didnt make a fool of myself. i got too chicken to say hi to him. i know he saw me and im terrified!!! i feel like maybe i screwed this one up :(...i wish i ... (read in full...)

Told him I was a virgin now he is distant

Q.   Okay, so there is this boy I have been talking too since april. We started hooking up (in april) but never had sex (though he tried). We hung out a few times, then summer came and we went home. All summer he texted me and would send me little ...

A.   7 September 2010: Well last night he texted me about a party he was having and i know it was probably a mass text but why would you tell someone you didnt want to hook up with anymore to come to your party. So i didnt respond and then when i got there, he blind sided ... (read in full...)

Told him I was a virgin now he is distant

Q.   Okay, so there is this boy I have been talking too since april. We started hooking up (in april) but never had sex (though he tried). We hung out a few times, then summer came and we went home. All summer he texted me and would send me little ...

A.   23 August 2010: I've never once even mentioned a relationship to him or even gotten close to talking about what we are cause i just really havent thought about going there yet. I understand that taking someones virginity is huge, but it just doesnt explain why he ... (read in full...)

Can a boy just seriously stop liking you like that?

Q.   okay so there is this boy ive been hooking up with. the whole day we were have a really good convo and he was telling me how much he wanted me and cares about me and that this relationship isnt committed...its not just physical to him and that he ...

A.   1 July 2009: well heres the part that makes this situation different...ive known him since i was born...he is my dads best friends son and also works for my dad so its not like he is just gonna drop me and never see me again...i actually ssaw him today but he ... (read in full...)

What made her feelings about me change?

Q.   I been praying to God that I find that girl that is right for me. And on my friends last day of school, he wanted me to come with him to his school, but as much as i didnt want to go i still went, so when we made our first attempt to go into the ...

A.   16 June 2009: There could be a few reasons why this happened. you never know but she could have easily been influenced by her friends if her friends secretly had a problem with you in whatever way possible. And i know you said you tried to give her her spac... (read in full...)

Do I have a chance with him after kissing his brother? I kissed both while drunk!

Q.   Okay so there is this boy. Im afraid i may have screwed things up badly ha. So ive seen him around school before when i was younger and its been 2 years since hes graduated. not very cute in high school but recently i was formally introduced to hi...

A.   2 December 2008: well the only reason why i was confused was because everyone said he looked mad and tried to laugh it off, but that people could see through it...and the first time, i wasnt even drunk, i just had had a couple beers.... (read in full...)

My son is on drugs...does love and patience really work or do I let him hit rock bottom???

Q.   I am heartsick. My teen son has always been a gentle, quiet, bright yet strong and determined young man, with high marks and good goals, for his future. We had him in sports--soccer, snowboarding and golf. He always love electronics with a a ...

A.   21 May 2008: Well the truth is. You aren't alone out there. There are many many families that have troubles with their teens like this today. I cannot give advice or speak as a mother, but what i can give you is a little bit of the teen perspective on this sub... (read in full...)

How do I ask my cousin to have sex with me?

Q.   Hi, I've been wanting to have sex with my cousin and I want to ask her, but I'm not sure if she feels the same way. I feel she does sometimes and then I feel it hard to ask her. How do I know she wants to? How do I ask her? Thanks for a...

A.   18 May 2008: Honestly, i find having attraction to your cousin/s okay, i mean we are only human. But in all honesty, i find in wrong, disgusting and in a sense immoral to actually pursue sexual activity with your cousin. Especially if you are blood related. That ... (read in full...)

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