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| | *irefighter's Wife 09's profile:Hello everyone! I am happily married to my prince charming! It took me a long time to find him but I did! I have been through hell and back with drugs and abusive relationships! I came out of it smarter and stronger. I don't regret a single moment.Without it all I wouldn't be where I am today.
I recently moved to the state of big trucks and bigger mosquitoes! TEXAS! This is the happiest I have ever been! I am pregnant with my first baby and am having a hard time! I can't do much due to my illnesses and migraines so I have become quite obsessed with the internet on my BlackBerry!
I love to help people and I love to ask random questions! I may not be a trained professional but I think I am pretty smart.I am,however, extremely blunt when it comes to advice because I would want you to be the same with me! I don't do it to hurt feelings, and I am sorry if I do! Another thing, when I do help I like to give a personal experience so you know one I have gone through something similar and two so you know I take it from my own life lessons and I'm not blowing smoke out my ass!
I'm here anytime anyone needs me!
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Can anyone understand why my b/f makes such loud strange noises?
Q. I have tried to understand and am at a loss. Please help me if you can add any insight. My boyfriend is a wonderful person and seems very loving and compassionate. But... Sometimes he scares me. He will vocalize very loud at strange times. Such as ...
A. 21 February 2009: At first it sounds like tourettes syndrome. However from the people I have known with it, and the little bit I know about it, TS doesn't come on from something that has been done.
TS is just a tick, a bark, a click, and severe severe cases cuss... (read in full...)
I am having a baby boy and I need help with names!
Q. HELLO!! I am very excited, and I know this is a relationship site but I would very much appreciate your opinion? I am havinga baby boy in a like two weeks and me and my husband can't agree on the name. We want something powerful and I was think...
A. 18 February 2009: Well congratulations! I'm having a little boy in June!
I went to the website baby name genie.com
It gives you suggestions, helps you to understand what makes a good name! And! It has a name tester! It puts his full name in random sentence... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with the man I love, but I am self-conscious!
Q. I really want to have sex with they man i love, but i am so self conscious of my body, he is really in shape. and im not, im not an obese girl, a am slighty thicker than some. most guys like my shape, but i dont, i have ugly light strecth marks on ...
A. 18 February 2009: Its really hard isn't it!?
I have horrible stretch marks on my tummy and hips and the insides of my thighs. It has always bothered me and probably always will! Even though I know my husband loves me very much.
There are many things you can try ... (read in full...)
Bad peeling on inside of thighs?
Q. I've been noticing that the skin on the insides of my thighs is peeling off like a bad sunburn. Why whould this be?...
A. 18 February 2009: Well if your legs rub together when you walk, its probably just irritation. You can put deodorant or baby powder on it to stop it.
If that's not it you could have a type of eczema or psoriasis. You will probably get the best help by going to a do... (read in full...)
Bad peeling on inside of thighs?
Q. I've been noticing that the skin on the insides of my thighs is peeling off like a bad sunburn. Why whould this be?...
A. 18 February 2009: Well if your legs rub together when you walk, its probably just irritation. You can put deodorant or baby powder on it to stop it.
If that's not it you could have a type of eczema or psoriasis. You will probably get the best help by going to a do... (read in full...)
Sleeping positions during pregnancy?
Q. I may be pregnant..if I am ...im not that far along...is it safe for me to sleep on my stomach because thats really the only way I can sleep...
A. 16 February 2009: My doctor told me to get one book about pregnancy and read it well! Not 10 books and not really read them!
In the what to expect when you are expecting book it tells you everything you need to know! Plus its all from doctors!
It says it is ok to... (read in full...)
I have clitoridean orgasms, but not during sex, what's wrong?
Q. Im having A MAJOR NIGHTMARE I can orgasm with clitorial stimulation. But I cant have one during sex ! no matter how hard we try. weve tried positions and everything ! WHATS WRONG WITH ME??????? I WILL EXPLODE ! [Moderator's note: You say you ca...
A. 15 February 2009: Hey don't feel alone. I have never had an orgasm with just penetration. I'd say at least 90% of woman can't. The only way I ever orgasm is if I play with my clit while my hubby is inside me. Or if I use a vibrator. If he stimulates my G spot and ... (read in full...)
Pros & Cons for adoption & Abortion?
Q. I have a question. My girlfriend just found out she is pregnant and we can't keep the baby. Basically she has to decide whether to get an abortion or give the baby up for adoption. I was just wondering what the pros and cons were for each option. ...
A. 12 February 2009: I am totally pro choice! As long as, there is a sensible explanation for the choice!
If you used all the contraception in the world and still ended up being pregnant, not you your girlfriend, then you can think about the choice you want to make... (read in full...)
Best way to achieve Big "O" and what to use?
Q. Ok. What is the best thing to use to achieve orgasm. Is there any thing that might be liying around my house I could use? Also, I am wondering what the best sex positions are....
A. 11 February 2009: If you have a shower head that detaches and it has multiple settings, you could use it! Just make sure if its on jet stream your water isn't turned up too high! You might hurt your clit! You can also lay down under the faucet in the tub, I have ... (read in full...)
What are the associated risks with anal for a man?
Q. hi, my boyfriend is interested in trying anal. Im completely fine with it but obviously I don't have a penis so were going to buy a double sided dildo so I can still be pleasured while he trys this. But the only problem is, im worried I could hu...
A. 11 February 2009: I wish my husband was down for that! I heard that just putting your finger just inside his anus and pushing on his prostate can cause the most incredible orgasm that they have ever had! My hubby is so not down! lol!
Just be careful! The first time... (read in full...)
How do I get past this crush?
Q. I'm 22 and work with a small group of people. one of the guys i work with (P) is 38 and I find him incredibly attractive. We have a lot in common and have a similar sense of humour but we don't socialise outside of work. I think P knows that i f...
A. 10 February 2009: Hey babe.
Crushes suck don't they?
I'm sorry this one is so hard for you. I personally don't think she matters unless its like a 25 year or higher difference!
My husband is 12 years older than me and we are really good together!
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Does the pill stop your period?
Q. hey i was just curious, does The Pill stop your period?...
A. 10 February 2009: Some pills can alter how often you get your period. There are several brands you can take that you will only have a period every 3 months. However you can still have breakthrough bleeding at any time during the 3 months. The bleeding can be very ... (read in full...)
Can I masturbate near the end of my period?
Q. What happens if I masturbate toward the end of my period, if there is no flow?...
A. 10 February 2009: Masturbating during your period is actually beneficial to some people! If you suffer from menstrual cramps an orgasm can actually help to relieve them! It has helped me at times when a heating pad and ibuprofen wouldn't!
It won't make your flow... (read in full...)
People in animal costumes doing group sex activities??
Q. Hello everyone! I am going to try to ask this one more time! My last 2 tries were denied! Urg! Ok I was watching TV and it showed people in animal costumes doing group sex activities! It said that it was a common practice and the people that did...
A. 9 February 2009: Yea satin it was just people that liked to dress up in animal costumes Ie chickens cows and so on.
And Dr V I didn't say that adult babies had sex I just said it was a fetish. I have unfortunately seen that on a cable show. The furries I am refe... (read in full...)
People in animal costumes doing group sex activities??
Q. Hello everyone! I am going to try to ask this one more time! My last 2 tries were denied! Urg! Ok I was watching TV and it showed people in animal costumes doing group sex activities! It said that it was a common practice and the people that did...
A. 9 February 2009: Yea I understand the fetish side of it. Its like adult babies!
I just wanted to know if people actually did it! Lol
Just a curious cat I guess! Thanks girl!... (read in full...)
How can I tell him "I'm a Virgin!"?
Q. I am a 23 year old female virgin that has been seeing a 30 year old guy for about 3 weeks. We have been on 4 dates so far and he made it clear that he wished to come home with me after the last one. I feel guilty turning him down, yet need a little ...
A. 7 February 2009: Good for you! I think its awesome when people our age still hold their V card!
If he wants to do something that you aren't comfortable with just tell him hey I'm sorry but I'm a virgin and just not ready. If he freaks and runs then that shows you ... (read in full...)
My dad laughed at me because I'm using crutches!
Q. okay....on thursday i fell down the stairs and my foot really hurt so yesterday my mum took it to be xrayed at the hospital. they saw no major break but the said dont walk on it for a day and so they gave me crutches. my mum said that i was a drama ...
A. 7 February 2009: Hey babe! I totally agree with Mandy. Just let your mom know you're feeling crummy and ask if they can lay off the jokes till you feel better. Then after you feel Bette crack a joke to your dad about how one day when he is old you will still push ... (read in full...)
Anyone involved with a cop?
Q. Have any of you ever dated/loved/married a police officer? I've met one recently and I sense that we're developing strong feelings for each other. I am hoping we might start dating but all my friends seem to be warning me not to get involved with a ...
A. 7 February 2009: Amen mommy of one!
I was a police dispatcher for a while! I loved my guys very much. I always had their back as they had mine! I was the little sister to all of them!
But when you are with a police officer you have to watch your back when it ... (read in full...)
Would a pregnant woman get pregnant again, by having sex during her pregnancy?
Q. hey i had slept with this woman and shes 5 months pregnant, i can't get her pregnant from this aswell can i? ...
A. 7 February 2009: Did anyone ever explain to you about girls? I don't mean to be rude! I'm sorry! Its just that when a woman is pregnant, her body stops releasing an egg and therefore no egg no baby!
You have nothing to worry about! If she got pregnant while she ... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me by answering a question regarding ovulation and pregnancy?
Q. If I am on a 42 day cycle, does that mean my days of ovulation begin on the 21st? And also, does this make the chances of pregnancy lower for me?...
A. 7 February 2009: I don't know if you have heard of it or not seeing as how I don't recognize your flag! But! Go to www.webmd.com
Go to the pregnancy section and it should have an ovulation calendar on it! Or you can just use your favorite search engine to look ... (read in full...)
Any place I can go to be put on the pill without my mom knowing?
Q. i want to be put on the pill but i dont know how to tell me mom so i was wondering if there was any place i can go that she dont need to be there or anything...
A. 7 February 2009: Good luck hun!and keep in mind there are tons of different birth controls! What works for one person may not work for you!
I love the shot! It made me gain a little weight, but it stopped my cycle completely!
Cleared up all my acne and was just... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as "orgasmic childbirth"?
Q. alright.. umm, i am not sure if this link will work on here, but is this really possible?? (mod: google orgasmic childbirth) ^link... if the link doesnt work, or you dont want to view it, it just is a doctumenary thing, (nothing is s...
A. 6 February 2009: You are going to have to take like a lamaze class or a Bradley method class in order to find out the right way to breathe without hyper ventilating.
Again you can look it up on a search engine. You can also use CAM as a search method its an alte... (read in full...)
Has anyone ever heard of SPD during the 6th month of pregnancy?
Q. Ok I guess this is a sex question since I'm scared to have sex! I am in my 24th week of pregnancy with my first child. I woke up the morning of the 4th and could barely walk! It felt as if someone took a sledge hammer to my pelvis! I stayed...
A. 5 February 2009: Thank you everyone! I just wanted to see if anyone else had it first before I became a complete hypochondriac.
I'm going to call my doctors office today. Its not too serious seeing as how there is no blood and the baby is just as bouncy as ever... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as "orgasmic childbirth"?
Q. alright.. umm, i am not sure if this link will work on here, but is this really possible?? (mod: google orgasmic childbirth) ^link... if the link doesnt work, or you dont want to view it, it just is a doctumenary thing, (nothing is s...
A. 5 February 2009: I'm wondering if we saw the same news special?
Orgasmic birth is a real thing. I'll try to explain it as best as I can to my knowledge.
It is when a woman can, I guess, meditate and take the pain and turn it into something that feels good lik... (read in full...)
Any place I can go to be put on the pill without my mom knowing?
Q. i want to be put on the pill but i dont know how to tell me mom so i was wondering if there was any place i can go that she dont need to be there or anything...
A. 5 February 2009: Planned parenthood my love!
Google it and it will take you to the site and you can find one near you!
If that doesn't work and you want your mom to know, just ask her to be put on it because your period is getting really irregular and you are ... (read in full...)
I am married to a guy that I haven't ever loved.
Q. Hello everyone! First off, I feel so confused and screwed up and I know that there's going to be people on here that will think badly of me, but I am only human. I am married to a guy that I haven't ever loved. We were together for 2 1/2yrs. We have ...
A. 5 February 2009: That's amazing! Good luck! And have fun with your new life!... (read in full...)
Haven't been to doctor yet will my baby be ok?
Q. im 8 weeks pregnant and my body is feeling great..the first 4 weeks were horrible all i did was throwup and complain..just a week ago it all stop..im able to eat more not everything but more,,i still cant stand the smell of anything being ...
A. 4 February 2009: I know how you feel girl! Doctors don't usually take you in for your first prenatal visit til your 3rd month!
You probably won't feel pregnant til you get the baby bump, feel the baby move, or see it on the ultra sound!
Get the book, what to ... (read in full...)
I'm trying to date my best friends ex, why is she acting like this?
Q. My best friend dumped her boyfriend. it happens that i really really love him and i told him and he said he loves me as a homie but he loves my best friend that dumped him too (but more than a homie). then he said later that hes not rejecting me but ...
A. 4 February 2009: You are so young! Don't worry about finding love right now! Your crush might like you but haven't you ever heard the term 'bro's before hoes'? Me and my girlfriends used to say 'chicks before dicks'. Guys are going to come and go but your tru... (read in full...)
Does chewing gum make your teeth yellow?
Q. I know this isn't a relationship or love question but I thought I could get some accurate responses on here. So when you chew gum does it make your teeth yellow? Because I just can't seem to keep my teeth white. I whiten them every once and a while ...
A. 4 February 2009: Hi hun! No chewing gum should not make your teeth yellow although the super sugary ones can cause cavities! Drinking any dark drink will turn them yellow! That means, soda, tea,and coffee. Smoking will also cause your teeth to yellow! Don't... (read in full...)
Should I get the HPV vaccine?
Q. Hi, Should I get the HPV vaccine? I'm 15 and have never slept with a guy. I probably won't do so till I'm in my twenties, so is it worth getting the HPV vaccine now? Should I get it even if I won't have sex for the next 4 years? (The HPV vaccine ...
A. 4 February 2009: I am 22 and wish! They had that vaccine when I was your age!
I was sexually active at your age. When I was 18 I got HPV. I didn't even know what it was. At that time they didn't talk about it.
I had only one person that i was with and got it f... (read in full...)
How can I help my wife get over the still birth she just went through?
Q. My wife had a still birth (a month ago). We both wanted to be parents but something went wrong (we`re not sure yet). She`s been moping around the house. She is blaming herself for happen. I been telling her it isn't but all it does causes fights. ...
A. 3 February 2009: I am truly sorry for the loss that you and your wife have experienced! Many things are suggested when coping with a still birth. Seeing as how it was a month ago, you might not have been able to do it. Some people opt out but a lot choose to fo... (read in full...)
Is shaving anal hair a turn on?
Q. I've heard about people who shave their anus... It would be something I would consider because I think anus hair is really gross but its not exactly an easy area to reach and I don't want to cut myself. I've also heard of people who have their p...
A. 3 February 2009: Lol so funny! Not you just the situation! Anal hair is very difficult to reach unless you have crazy long arms! If you want to shave I suggest a long mirror to either squat over or bend over in front of lol! And! An electric razor! I use a l... (read in full...)
My three daughters are treating my girlfriend like crap!
Q. My three daughters (they'll 5, 4, and 8 but mainly my oldest) treat my girlfriend (of a year) like crap. She (my oldest) tells my gf or me to f*** off or to drop died (her sisters are starting to copy her). She have been acting like this since she ...
A. 3 February 2009: Something else I forgot to say. If your daughter stops being friends with the boy, it might all just stop on its own but she has learned a new behavior that pushes your buttons so that will still have to be dealt with. Also, get your 8 year old to ... (read in full...)
My three daughters are treating my girlfriend like crap!
Q. My three daughters (they'll 5, 4, and 8 but mainly my oldest) treat my girlfriend (of a year) like crap. She (my oldest) tells my gf or me to f*** off or to drop died (her sisters are starting to copy her). She have been acting like this since she ...
A. 3 February 2009: Havingg parents that are divorced and remarried I have seen this behavior in not only me but my older sister as well. Its not the same as losing the parent I know but a new authority figure can seriously screw with a kids head. It is not your fau... (read in full...)
His family & co are living with us and its driving me crazy!
Q. ok well me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and half now and have been living together for eight months. Recently his sister who is a lesbian lost her job and her and her girlfriend needed somewhere to stay. I'd never met the girlfriend ...
A. 3 February 2009: My husbands brother came back from Afghanistan and needed somewhere to stay. So me being the loving person I am I told my husband he could stay with us a couple weeks til he found somewhere. We were not yet married and had only been together for 9 ... (read in full...)
I am married to a guy that I haven't ever loved.
Q. Hello everyone! First off, I feel so confused and screwed up and I know that there's going to be people on here that will think badly of me, but I am only human. I am married to a guy that I haven't ever loved. We were together for 2 1/2yrs. We have ...
A. 2 February 2009: You are very very welcome I'm glad I could help!
If you ever need anything, I'm here to talk!
Just remember you and those girls come first! Do what you need to do! Don't worry about hurting feelings! I would have done a lot better when I wasn't... (read in full...)
I am married to a guy that I haven't ever loved.
Q. Hello everyone! First off, I feel so confused and screwed up and I know that there's going to be people on here that will think badly of me, but I am only human. I am married to a guy that I haven't ever loved. We were together for 2 1/2yrs. We have ...
A. 2 February 2009: Rememeber, you can't control who you fall in love with but you can control your actions! I know a person who dated a girl, married her sister then got divorced from her and started dating their cousin! It caused a lot of problems but! He is happy! ... (read in full...)
Letting go of seductive teacher - please help me
Q. Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles, I have a huge problem that has taken over my life, and I'm looking for advice on how to LET GO. I'll try to not make this too long. Basically, I have a female teacher(single, 40s) who I have finally realized is d...
A. 2 February 2009: Oh Lena! It almost sounds like you latched onto her because she was a good authority figure that you could easily look up to! That might not be the case though. She does not sound like she really cares for you! If someone really truly car... (read in full...)
I know I'm still young but I'm so scared to be alone.
Q. I am 25 I have a daughter with my ex. We have been broken up for at least 5 years. I was in a relationship after that and when we broke up seeing guys here and there. I know I'm still young but I'm so scared to be alone. I was trying to explain to ...
A. 2 February 2009: Oh babe! I know this is what everyone has said, but don't stress! Here is a cliché for you! Haven't you ever heard that when you stop looking, that's when you find someone? Watch "Under The Tuscan Sun" and pay attention to the lady bug story! Its ... (read in full...)
Self conscious about the size of my penis
Q. i am 18 and i am a virgin. i have always been self concious about the size of my penis. i dont know if its average or big or anything. lengthwise, it is more than 7.25 inches, almost 7.5 inches and 5.25 inches in girth. i dont know if that would be ...
A. 2 February 2009: Oh my lord! Have fun with that thing! Any girl would be lucky to have that!lol just be easy and make sure she is really wet your first time! If you were to put something of that size into a normal vagina while it was dry, you would tear it pretty ... (read in full...)
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