I don't understand why guys my own age just don't seem interested in me!
Q. I don't understand why guys appear to not be interested in me! I'm 16 years old and have had 2 bf's, and never even been on a date with an other guys. All my friends at school have all the guys interested in them and at work, all the guys are inte...
A. 2 January 2006: hi,
boys are very weird at this age... they are normally only interested in the popular upfront girls! its good you're not one of those... don't worry they will grow up 1 day and realise theres more to girls than just popularity!! so don't wo... (read in full...)
Is it illegal for me (aged 18) to go out with a 15-year-old girl?
Q. I am an 18 year old male and I have been friends with a 15 year old girl. We now have relationship feelings for each other. Is this illegal if we did go out? Or would it be illegal only if we had sexual contact?...
A. 2 January 2006: hiya
no go out with her its not illegal but if you have sex with her while shes 15 then it is illegal! remember she has to be 16 and ready! hope this helps?
xxx fi xxx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend still chats with his exes
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year now, I've been friends with him for 4 years, but i am a little worried. He has a lot of friends who are girls and most of them are his ex girlfriends they still come round and chat on the phone even flirt ...
A. 2 January 2006: hi,
no you're not being silly at all!don't worry about his ex girlfriends, their proberly only just good friends of his? if he says he loves you then he loves YOU!... (read in full...)
I feel like I have to keep this relationship a secret from my boyfriend's brother...
Q. I have just started to go out with a friend's younger brother who's 20 yrs old, I'm 21 yrs. His older brother doesn't approve of us getting together and the result was we broke up 2yrs ago. But now we are back together. What can I do without having ...
A. 15 July 2005: hi, why do you have to listen to your bf's older brother? it's your life. hes not the boss of you! ask him why he doesn't aprove and if he cant think of an answer then just tell him! but also he might like you and thats why he doesn't aprove! good ... (read in full...)
I'm in love, he just wants to be friends. Now he won't answer his phone...
Q. Met a great guy one month ago. He just wants to be friends but I have fallen in love with him. It has now been six days since we last spoke and he does not answer his phone or my SMS....
A. 13 July 2005: hi, maybe leave it a bit longer or if you know where he lives maybe go pay him a visit! good luck! fi xxx... (read in full...)
When I think of my boyfriend losing his virginity to his ex, I get sad and angry...
Q. I've got a problem that I can't seem to get over. I love my boyfriend more than I could explain, but I can't seem to get over his past. A few months before we got together he lost his virginity to a girl he didn't care about. I can't stop thinking...
A. 13 July 2005: hi, i dont think it means anything to him if he says it doesn't! you have to accept the fact that your guy will have girlfriends before you! just like you've had boyfriends before him! forget the anger she didn't mean anything to him! good luck! fi ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is in the military and he broke it off with me because he has to go abroad...
Q. My boyfriend of 9 months is in the forces and was due to see me at the weekend after being on a training course 300 miles away for 3weeks. He had been ringing and texting me daily saying how much he has been missing me etc. On the night before his...
A. 13 July 2005: hi, i have a friend and her boyfriend is in the military and hes in iraq at the moment and they're still together. he texts her daily! i think you should cool it with your boyfriend at the moment and wait and see if he calls you! remember theres ... (read in full...)
Nothing can happen between me and the teacher, so why can't I get over it?
Q. Hi, I'm a 12 year old lass and I'm in year 7. I really like this teacher who is in his 20's - 30's and it hurts because he doesn't know who I am. Even though I know it is never going to happen I nearly cry myself to sleep knowing that. I really w...
A. 12 July 2005: hi, unfortunately is in his 20's - 30's so hes proberly looking for someone his own age sorry honey! but you'll find your special guy soon you just have to wait it may be a long wait or it may be a short wait but its worth it! don't worry you'll get ... (read in full...)
We like each other, but he's my friend's boyfriend...
Q. I'm a freshy in the university. I've met many new friends. One day I met my friend's boyfriend, I think he quite likes me and I feel that too. We exchaged our phone number and went out together. But the trouble is he's my friend's boyfriend. Please...
A. 12 July 2005: I don't think you should be messing with your friends boyfriend and he shouldn't be messing with you either! perhaps you should tell him shes your friend so you dont think you should start anything with him as you don't want to hurt your friend! ... (read in full...)
I want to be a part of his life, but he scolded me for calling him...
Q. I love a guy who is 1 year older than me for 5 years. We were students at that time. Now I am still studying and he is working. Recently he faced a very big financial problem. He does not want to communicate with me. He said no meeting or love til...
A. 12 July 2005: hi, i think you should give him some space and let him call you! i know its hard waiting for the one you love but you'll get through it and he'll like the fact that you've given him his space! good luck! fi xxx... (read in full...)
I know I'm well rid of my ex, so how do I get over this awful feeling?
Q. I have just broken up with my boyfriend and I'm a mess. He left without telling me and kept me hanging on for over a week, lying and pretending everything was alright! He even pretended a family member had died to stand me up. He still hasn't tol...
A. 12 July 2005: hi, it sounds like you really loved this guy! dont worry you'll get over him it does take longer if it was true love! you'll find someone else whos going to be special and loving towards you and WON'T be a sneak! good luck! fi xxx... (read in full...)
My girl has been with someone else for 4 years, even though she says she loves me best!
Q. I am in love with a girl, who is in a relationship with another guy. Our relationship started in a strange way a year back. We were very good friends and then we realized that we have other feelings towards each other... After that, we have ha...
A. 12 July 2005: hi, it sounds like this girl doesn't love you best otherwise she'd be with you! just be friends with this girl and give her time! i hope this works! fi xxx... (read in full...)
I detect a spark with a co-worker, but I'm about to change workplaces!
Q. Hi, I'm 23yr old woman who is very intelligent and good looking, and believe me I appreciate these gifts. The problem is social, most people are scared of me! Men assume I must be going out with someone. Because I'm seen as a genius most peop...
A. 12 July 2005: hi, when you see him next ask him out for a drink! if he says no, remember theres other guys out there! good luck! fi xxx... (read in full...)
He doesn't feel about me, like I do about him...
Q. Should I stay with a guy who doesn't have the same feelings towards me that I have for him? ...
A. 12 July 2005: hi, no i dont think you should because you could go out there and find somebody who loves you just as much as you him!i know its not that easy to find a relationship, but you'll find one! good luck! fi xxx... (read in full...)
Big crush on a senior at my uni... But how do I get to know him?
Q. I am 18 Years old. I have just been a freshy in the university for 1 month but now I have something wrong in my heart. I think that I have a crush on a senior. He is a top model at my faculty. In my opinion,he is perfect;smart,tall and ...
A. 11 July 2005: hi, if you like him go for it talk to him like a friend! and ask him out for a coffee or maybe something more relaxing like a glass of wine...and take it from there! good luck! fi xxx ... (read in full...)
Should I just ask her outright if she already has a boyfriend?
Q. I got a crush on someone in my group. How should I begin? I'm really nervous that she already got a boyfriend. Should I ask her directly?...
A. 11 July 2005: hi, i dont think you should ask her out if she has a boyfiend especially if she loves him. maybe wait and see what happends between them! if they split wait a week or so and be supportive towards her when shes completely over him go for it but dont ... (read in full...)
One of the big questions...
Q. How can I tell if his in love with me?...
A. 11 July 2005: hi, you have to look out for the signs like if he looks at you for longer than 3 seconds (but that doesn't count if you've got chocolate on your face)or if he compliments you on things even if he talks to you about private things....look out for ... (read in full...)
Why is it so hard to deal with my partner's 10-year-old-son?
Q. How can I deal with my partner's child? I'm really struggling to cope with my partner's 10 year old son and I don't know why. This girl is the girl of my dreams; I've been attrached to her ever since we were at school and was so happy when we go...
A. 10 July 2005: hi, this child maybe jealous that you have invaded him and his mummy! he might think that you're going to take his mummy away! if you want to be friends with the kid then be friendly sometimes offer to take him off his mummys hands and take him ... (read in full...)
One of my friends is selfish, and I don't want to be around her any more...
Q. I'm 18 years old, studying in the famous university. My group has 6 people. We always stay together. One day , I found that one of my friends, Susy, is so selfish. I really don't like her. And when I asked the others, I discover that they also don't ...
A. 10 July 2005: hi, everyone is selfish sometimes maybe all you guys could sit down together and tell susy if she doesn't change her selfishness hopefully it will work and she'll realise how selfish and unthoughtful she has been and change her ways, but also you ... (read in full...)
How can I send him a friendly greeting, but not go over the top?
Q. Dear Cupid, My crush's fifteenth birthday is coming up,and I have been planning on e-mailing him for the occasion. This seemed like a pretty good idea until I realized that I have absolutely no clue what to say to him. I mean,I kind of want to ...
A. 10 July 2005: hi, maybe find a funny card to give him with a good line or joke! then write happy birthday as normal and then write from sarah x... (read in full...)
What can I do to get my friend to forgive me?
Q. I argued with my best friend. I tried to call to say sorry but he always rejects my call.What should I do?...
A. 10 July 2005: hi, i think you should maybe wait a while (about 5 days) if nothing happends in this time write a letter to him and see if he calls! good luck! fi xxx... (read in full...)
My 28-year-old-husband left me for a 64-year-old woman...
Q. I feel disgusted after finding out that my husband has left me for a 64-year-old woman. Apparently someone has told me that everytime he says he's working late, he actually is sneaking off for sex sessions with this woman. I am 25 and my ...
A. 10 July 2005: hi, dont think about him think about yourself find yourself a new man and get into a new relationship (but try going for someone your own age!!!)i dont know why your husband would want to be with a 64 year old and not a beautiful young 25 year old! ... (read in full...)
She and I were close friends, but then she started "borrowing" my things and my money...
Q. Hi, I'm 18 years old girl. I was just admitted to the university. First day at university I had one new friend. We became closer very fast. I like her so much, she is kind and understanding. But recently she had borrow my money. When I ask for my ...
A. 10 July 2005: hi,it sounds like your friends a bit of a user! if shes a true friend she'll pay you back the money she borrowed and tell you if shes taking some of your stuff home or she'd at least ask! i think this girl isn't a true friend if she gets angry when ... (read in full...)
How can I make new friends at university?
Q. I'm in university so it's a new social world. I don't have a friend so I want advice to help me to make new friends and social contacts. ...
A. 9 July 2005: hi, i also find it hard to make friends! smile at the person you want to be friends with and get chatting soon you'll find you have a lot in common and become good friends! good luck! fi xxx... (read in full...)
My perfect relationship started sucking this last week. My gf won't hug or kiss and leaves early...
Q. Dear everyone, Am I being silly? For the last 6 months of my relationship, everything has been fasntastic. I mean, really amazing. Wonderful, whatever. This last week has sucked big time. My fiancee has been a bit of a pain. For the last 4 day...
A. 9 July 2005: hi, your fiancee is probably not cheating, she may just be under a bit of pressure because of the wedding or it could be "her time of the month" maybe. let it sizzle for a few days and let her come over and see you or let her phone you first! if she ... (read in full...)
My new boyfriend feels threatened by the friendship I have with an old, old flame. Am I in the wrong?
Q. An old friend who lives far away, called me last night when I wasn't in. He and I have been friends for many years. He and I were engaged and in love about 20 years ago but he wasn't ready to commit and we split-up. From time to time, he calls me. ...
A. 9 July 2005: hi, it sounds like your new bf is jealous that you and your old flame have such a good relationship! tell your new bf "we are just old friends nothing more! nothings going to happen between us dont worry" and hopefully your new bf will respect the ... (read in full...)
My ex keeps calling me. What's going on in his mind?
Q. My ex often call me recently. What is he thinking? What should I do? We're broke up for a month with good memory. Recently, he often calls me. I have no clue what he is thinking. Is he still love me? I think I still love him but I don't want to be...
A. 9 July 2005: hi, it sounds like your ex still loves you, because he keeps calling he cant get you out of his head! maybe if you still love him you could try and reconsider things with him and you can see if you can trust him! or if you dont trust him find ... (read in full...)
Feels like it's time to break up, but I can't bear to hurt my girlfriend's feelings...
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for about 2 years and lately I have wanted to break up with her because I think it is just time. I really want to know which is the best way to do this without hurting her. I can't bear to see her hurt... please help...
A. 8 July 2005: hi, im afraid when you end a relationship it can be hurtful. if you want to break up with her be honest and confident sit her down in a quiet place then break the news say "im sorry....but i feel our relationship has come to an end" or something in ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be "best friends" after a breakup? How?
Q. My girlfriend of 2 years recently broke up with me and she still wants to keep me as her best friend. She is dating someone else and I still love her. What should I do?...
A. 8 July 2005: hi, i think its good that you guys are still good friends after a relationship she obviously trusts you! you should be proud of that! if you still love her you should maybe spend a bit of time away from her and repair yourself! good luck! fi xxx... (read in full...)
Should I make a move on a guy 2 years ahead of me?
Q. Hi I'm 13 years old and there's a guy who's 15 years old in Year 10 who I'm in love with. We always se each other at school. He always stares at me and smiles at me. My friends are sure that he feels the same about me, but they don't think that...
A. 8 July 2005: hi don't make the first move. if he really likes you he'll make the first move! but if you see him staring at you then smile at him then look away and if hes still looking smile at him again! i hope this works and good luck! fi xxx... (read in full...)
So afraid of rejection that I don't know if I'll ever find a relationship that lasts....
Q. After many years of failing to start a relationship with someone, I fell in love with a 13 year old (I was 31 at the time). This isn't pedo, as I've not been interested in schoolgirls before or now. We ended up seeing each other (with both our ...
A. 8 July 2005: excuse me you had a relationship with a 13 year old and you were 31? dont you think you should be with someone your own age unless you want to end up like micheal jackson? i thought not. if you dont want to be rejected BY SOMEONE YOUR OWN AGE then ... (read in full...)
Girls know me as smart and academic, but I'm pretty much at a loss when asking them out!
Q. During high school I was pretty much known as a pretty smart person that cared more about academics than being incredibly social. I suppose girls just assumed I wasn't interested in a relationship. I do believe that most high school relationships ...
A. 8 July 2005: hi, if you want to ask a girl out be confident and try being a bit more social. when you see the girl you like say "hi" and talk to her more and more then you'll be on your way! good luck and hope this advise works! fi xxx... (read in full...)
How can I find out if my friend's brother actually likes me?
Q. I've known my best friend since kindergarten and we are now in 9th grade. She is one of 5 kids and her oldest brother is a year older than me. I really like him and I think that he likes me too, but I dont know for sure. I don't know what to do. I ...
A. 8 July 2005: hi, you haven't said if your best friend knows that you like him? maybe tell your best friend and she can find out for you! she can ask him questions like "who do you fancy?" and he might tell her if not she can try asking other questions. but ... (read in full...)
Am I a fool to take back my cheating boyfriend?
Q. What to do? I recently discovered my boyfriend has cheated on me. We have been together six months and I love him dearly. The problem is I never trusted him and was not surprised when I found out! The problem is my mother very recently died and ...
A. 7 July 2005: hi remember you cant have a relationship without trust! maybe you should talk to your boyfriend about it and then see if hes really sorry, if you think hes sorry enough then take him back and trust him, but if he cheats again then lose him and find ... (read in full...)
I want to talk to the girl I like and I don't know how to start...
Q. I have some problem. Please give me some advice. I like some girl but I don't know how to talk with her. She studies in the same class with me but I don't know how to start a relationship with her. I hope I will get the great answer soon. Thanks for ...
A. 6 July 2005: hi, thats a common question most people find it hard to talk to the one they fancy! i think you should talk to her like a friend just imagine her as a guy with different parts ( you know what I mean) but be careful not to get too friendly eg. ... (read in full...)
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