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How do I get over constantly feeling anxious about my husband working with so many girls who idolize him?

Q.   My husband and I have been together for five years. Three years into our relationship, he got a new job. He manages a store, with a lot of employees. He works closely with a lot of females, all of which of course idolize him as he's the boss. One ...

A.   22 January 2013: To clear something up, he works with 20+ women. Out of all of them, 2 to me cross a line. The other 18 are strictly professional and NEVER cross that line. He has to work with women, this I understand. He works with 5-8 of them EVERY day and I have ... (read in full...)

How do I get over constantly feeling anxious about my husband working with so many girls who idolize him?

Q.   My husband and I have been together for five years. Three years into our relationship, he got a new job. He manages a store, with a lot of employees. He works closely with a lot of females, all of which of course idolize him as he's the boss. One ...

A.   22 January 2013: Thank you for the advice. I do agree that it's very off for the vodka and the movie. And I highly doubt she gave everyone a gift. He swears it's because she's young and dumb (she's 21) and that's it. To code warror: I don't need help. If you were... (read in full...)

Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?

Q.   I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...

A.   2 June 2011: I don't think one person that wrote to you is a teenager. You went through her PERSONAL chats, which is really not right. I find it very odd you're acting like it's some huge deal to let her spend 3 nights at her friends house. When I was a teenager ... (read in full...)

Will he leave his wife and get a divorce?

Q.   I really need your advice! I have been with a guy going on 5 years but the problem is he is married. It all started when he came up to me one day at work becuase he said I looked sad and when I told him I had just broken up with my past bf, he ...

A.   2 June 2011: He is still with his wife behind your back. Give her a ring...see what she has to say. I can bet 100% she still is seeing him.... (read in full...)

My cousin is going to blackmail me unless I do sexual things with her, and she's only 13!

Q.   help cupids! im in a really BAD situation. basically, my cousin is blackmailing me for not doing sexual things with her. let me explain. my cousin admitted to me she loves me (though previously, i think she just adored me and now i know its jus...

A.   1 June 2011: I agree with trying to catch her with some type of proof like a text or a voice mail...or record her, all cellphones have the ability to record her on a voice recorder or through a video. ... (read in full...)

Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?

Q.   I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...

A.   1 June 2011: Whoa. You are really going too far. First and foremost, you are being so over protective. She's 17, not 12. You act like it's a huge deal allowing her to stay at her friends house. She will be graduating high school soon, and possibly going to ... (read in full...)

He denies sleeping with her, but she is saying it is true!

Q.   I am four month pregnant with my boyfriends baby, I found Messages on his facebook suggesting he was doing something. I've asked him and he says he hasn't, I have asked her and she tells me that he has been seeing her and that they have had sex more...

A.   31 May 2011: I feel for you, as this situation is terrible...but it's time to face the truth and what you know is true deep down. I'd just tell him you know it's true, and that you'll speak to himw hen he is ready to admit it and talk to you about it. Otherwise, ... (read in full...)

He denies sleeping with her, but she is saying it is true!

Q.   I am four month pregnant with my boyfriends baby, I found Messages on his facebook suggesting he was doing something. I've asked him and he says he hasn't, I have asked her and she tells me that he has been seeing her and that they have had sex more...

A.   31 May 2011: Sadly, from what you're saying, he 100% is cheating on you. She's now trying to stay out of it as she doesn't want to break up a family, but its' too late. I would cut my losses from him and move on. He is a liar. What did the fb messages say ... (read in full...)

I just found out that she's cheating on me. What should I do?

Q.   helo everyone i just found out now now that my girlfriend is cheating on me. my body is so weak right now. my heart beat has way way up. what should i do about this? the girl i thought i was going to marry....

A.   31 May 2011: I'm sorry you're going through this. Everyone goes though it at some point or another. I would make sure that it's 100% true, and confront her about it. I'd make sure I got closure on it, and realize that she was not the right one or the one you're ... (read in full...)

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