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14 years old with health issue... any medical advice?

Q.   Im a 14 year old girl and all of a sudden my vagina has just swollen up like the lips of the vagina and the hole is stinging loads. i cant hardly see inside of it because of how swollen it is i really dont know what it is, also theres white ...

A.   15 March 2009: My mum was fine and said she gets it all the time - it was thrush. i took medication and it went in about 2 days, thanks eveyone for your help x xx ... (read in full...)

14 years old with health issue... any medical advice?

Q.   Im a 14 year old girl and all of a sudden my vagina has just swollen up like the lips of the vagina and the hole is stinging loads. i cant hardly see inside of it because of how swollen it is i really dont know what it is, also theres white ...

A.   9 March 2009: Thanks everyone, i will tell my mum tonight. Thanks so much for your help xxx... (read in full...)

Does a girl prefer cuddle or kisses?

Q.   Hi everyone just wondering if your spending time with a girl does she prefer cuddle or kisses?...

A.   24 November 2008: cuddles!... (read in full...)

Questions about nudity and periods.

Q.   Hey, I have a lot to ask about, so please have patience with me. Thanks. Okay, well first off, I've been trying to know as much about my period as I can. And I know I've only had it for a year and that my body's still adjusting, but is it normal...

A.   19 November 2008: When you stress out it makes your period heavier! chill out and relax. And you have 2 periods every month? your body is still growing and changing, that will be different in a couple of months. And i used to get nervous just like you! i even... (read in full...)

Does it get less painful for girls to have sex with a big man over time?

Q.   Does it get less painful for girls to have sex with a big man over time? My girlfriend and i decided to have sex last night and she is very small (5ft, 95pounds) and im quite big (6'1 230) and roughly 7inches big, and she has only been with 1 othe...

A.   6 November 2008: She needs to relax. Do it slowly too. and she needs alot of sex for it to strech it wont do it on its own... (read in full...)

I keep losing my erection halfway through sex!

Q.   I'm 19 years old. I can get an erection on my own perfectly, and with girls sometimes too through oral sex, or just teasing. But sometimes when I'm having sex I lose my erection half way through it. It happens a lot of times and it's really a...

A.   6 November 2008: Its stress and worrying.... (read in full...)

How do I tell him that I like him?

Q.   Hi there is this lad that i really fancy and i can't stop thinking about him. He is really good looking and got a lovely personality and i would love to go out with him. My friends all say that he fancies me too n whenever we are together we alway...

A.   6 November 2008: Drop hints Give him little hugs and that :) or invite him out somewhere xxxx... (read in full...)

My ex bf is texting my best friend to have sex with her!

Q.   so me and my bf split up about 3 weeks ago and ever since has been texting my so called best friend to meet up for sex i don't know if they have for definate but his best friend insists they have. Anyhow i have just found out i am 14 weeks preg...

A.   5 November 2008: She is not your "Best friend" she isnt even your "friend" if she is agreing to have sex with him. But the boy is not cheating on you, as you have broken up so in that case you cant do anything about that. Talk to him. tell him your pregnant... (read in full...)

Do women find penises attractive?

Q.   Do women find penises attractive? As a guy I know I'd get easily turned on by thinking of vaginas and boobs, but do women think the same way about a man's penis?...

A.   27 October 2008: There kinda ugly... i mean there just wierd looking, long and strange lol. ewwww But they do during sex... (read in full...)

My boyfriend finds me unattractive because of my small boobs and thin body structure...

Q.   My boyfriend(for 3 yrs) feels that i am too thin for him and he is not that attracted to me since i have small boobs. It really hurts me when he comments harsh things about my body. He says that i need to become a little fat to carry on with the ...

A.   24 October 2008: LEAVE HIM NOW if he loved you he would love you for who you are not what you look like! im telling you now, leave him... (read in full...)

How do guys really feel about small boobs ?

Q.   Hey I'm 15 and I have small boobs and I wanna know why guys like big ones so much ? are small boobs bad ?Does it really matter to guys ? I need some guys to be honest here. it doesn't matter how old you are but I need answers!!!! i...

A.   23 October 2008: i am a 32 E and im 16. most of my boyfriends made fun of me so SMALLER BREASTS ARE BETTER... (read in full...)

I've been invited to go on a trip to Florida ! Problem is I will probably het my period. Is there any way I can delay my period ?

Q.   okay, so my best friend and her parents are going to florida next year, june and they have invited me, well who wouldnt jump at the chance to go to florida?! i was well exited! even though its still seven months away im still really really exited! ...

A.   23 October 2008: Heeyy I Dont think wearing a tampon is a very good idea if you're gonna be heavy. i tryed it once in spain, and i leaked when i got out the pool. Try getting those tablets, they will stop your period completly, until your next period.... (read in full...)

During sex, should I put up with the pain to please him?

Q.   I'm a 16 year old girl and i recently lost my virginity to my 17 year old bf of 3 years. My problem is that i enjoyed my 1st time (and the other time after that) but i'm very tight so i experience a lot of pain during and after it. My bf luvs that ...

A.   23 October 2008: Omg are you serious! hell no! Dont go through pain just to please your boyfriend! D... (read in full...)

Why do women scream during sex?

Q.   does sex hurt or do woman scream because it feels good??(growing teen looking for info)...

A.   21 October 2008: They sometimes scream to cover up the pain But then again, some times they are just very very horny ;) ... (read in full...)

True Friends?

Q.   I was just responding to a question about friendship and I couldn't help but think of my own friends and how I've grown apart from them but I'm glad of it. I haven't really talked to anyone about how or why it is so this is kinda pretty long ...

A.   21 October 2008: There is no such thing as a true friend NO ONE is " TRUE" In life, your bestfriends are your parents. unless there mean lol... (read in full...)

What do you think an average 13 year old girl should weigh?

Q.   What do you think an average 13 year old girl should weigh? Ps. I'm 13...

A.   21 October 2008: Well i am very tall, so i weigh 7 stone! but my friend is very short with not alot of muscle and she is 4 stone! ... (read in full...)

How can I clean my white tongue?

Q.   so I was making out with this guy and somehow he noticed my tounge is pretty white.. embarrass me much? anywho, I use a tounge scraper! so what else can I do to clean my tounge?...

A.   20 October 2008: When you brush your teeth, get some tooth paste on your tooth brush and rub it on your tongue.... (read in full...)

Tampons won't fit up me - what if I can't have sex?

Q.   Hello i need some help. I am 13 years old and i have been having a period for 3 years now. Recently i have been trying to use a tampon, but it wont go up. i am definatly putting it up the right hole. i have been masturbating so i am wet, and then...

A.   20 October 2008: it still didnt work! i was so relaxed i tryed all sorts of angels! oh god help!... (read in full...)

I like him but I think he sees me as a friend although flirts with me, what can you suggest?

Q.   theres this new guy in my school and we get on really well we just clicked straight away and recently me an him and another guy have got close! this new guy told me all his problems and i started to really like him though i think he sees me just as ...

A.   19 October 2008: This is the same problem i have. Hang on in there, wait for him to say something, because if you do and he isnt interested it could ruin your friendship. Good Luck xx... (read in full...)

I'm embarrased because I have small breasts

Q.   I'm embarrased because i have small breasts and get called names for them. Im like an A cup and im 14. 15 in feb. Im wondering if sleeping with a bra stops their growth because i always sleep with one on. I need help...

A.   19 October 2008: I'm 13 and i am a D cup! i would kill to have your boobs!... (read in full...)

I haven't had a period yet. Is this because I masturbate?

Q.   plz someone i need help badley! ok here is is...im 12yrs old and i masterbate... all my friends a skwl hav startd there p.m.t (periods) and i havent yet. is there n e chance that i will never start my periods because i masterbate??? i...

A.   19 October 2008: Everyone is different i started my Period when i was 9 ! And my mother started when she was 18. everyone is different and your body doesnt want to change yet. Masturbation doesnt affect wheter you get a period. Everything is fine dontt worry ... (read in full...)

Tampons won't fit up me - what if I can't have sex?

Q.   Hello i need some help. I am 13 years old and i have been having a period for 3 years now. Recently i have been trying to use a tampon, but it wont go up. i am definatly putting it up the right hole. i have been masturbating so i am wet, and then...

A.   19 October 2008: Thanks people i will try and do it tonight. Thanks so much for answering :) x... (read in full...)

Do other girls have hairy breasts?

Q.   Right I have a bit of a problem I have some hairs on my breasts and although their not like armpit hairs or anything I think their quite noticable am I the only one with this problem or do other people have hairs aswell??? ...

A.   15 October 2008: dont worry i have it too, its perfectly normal. do NOT shave them, because they will grow back extemaly spikey.... (read in full...)

My friends make fun of me! What can I do?

Q.   what can i do? My friends are always being mean n making me feel bad about my self like the make fun about my wieght what should i do? ...

A.   15 October 2008: If they do that then they are not your'e Friends. Ditch em and find some new ones!... (read in full...)

Is it a smart decision to move to another country to get over a heartbreak?

Q.   is it a smart move to leave the country to move on from heartbreak and just start life with another country? and is it okay to still make friends to him afterall the lies he had caused me?please advice me...

A.   27 August 2008: Never ever run away from your problems No matter where you go they are always with you. You have to face them, and try and get over this guy, see how it goes Hope this helps xx... (read in full...)

Is it bad that we are having oral sex at our age?

Q.   Me and my Girlfriend have been dating for about...5 months now, and the other day she gave me Oral, we were both fine with it, we didn't feel bad or anything. Is it bad that at my age I'm having oral sex? We've both discussed actual Sexual In...

A.   23 August 2008: i am 13 and i have given oral to a guy, i felt cheap and dirty after it. yes its bad, but i guess its not as bad as intercourse.... (read in full...)

I'm very skinny and I feel very depressed because of my thin figure.

Q.   Ever since I was a small child I have been extremely slim. I have always looked slim! I have always been made fun out of because of this, people used to call me (and still do) twiggy, skinny, flat, a LINE (!), even a STICK. I always used to ask m...

A.   23 August 2008: dont EVER say you hate yourself. you are who you are and you have to apreciate it, because thats how god chose you to be. beauty is on the inside, and if any man doesnt love you becasue of what you look like to hell with them! Just forget abou... (read in full...)

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