I think people are talking about me behind my back, what should I do?
Q. Hey, I get the impression that a bunch of my friends back home are talking behind my back. I feel kind of betrayed by it actually, and am wondering what to do about it (or even if I should bother to do anything about it). I guess I thought that, ...
A. 23 February 2009: Don't confront them. Why bother? You'll just be dragged into drama that you could otherwise avoid if you just ignored them and got on with your new life.
You're right. When you start to approach 30 (as I am...this September), you begin to reali... (read in full...)
Am I pregnant? We used protection every time!
Q. ok, on valentines day, my boyfriend and i had sex and used protection. we did it again the day after, again used protection. and then we did it 4 days after that, but again used protection. im not on any pills or anything and i didnt take the mor...
A. 22 February 2009: Condoms are not a 100%, sure-fire way to protect you from STIs and pregnancy. It says this on the packaging. Unfortunately, Sex Ed is not taught thoroughly enough these days, and teens are having sex at earlier ages...sometimes before they are ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend may be cheating on me...
Q. Hi there, I'm Kirsty, I have been seeing my boyfriend for 5 months on and off. We have our silly wee arguments and all that and recently I have been feeling left out. I am convinced that he is cheating on me, when I'm with him there are other ...
A. 15 February 2009: Well, no one can give you a definitive answer as to whether or not he is cheating on you, unfortunately.
Do you know who these other girls are that are calling him? Him having female friends that call him is definitely nothing to be concerne... (read in full...)
Tell me how to move on with my life and forget about him.
Q. You know the song, Hot N Cold? I and my ex-boyfriend are just like the song. We constantly break up, make up, and then break up again! We always supposedly decide to stay as friends, but then we start kissing, hugging, and then going out again....
A. 15 February 2009: It may take a while, but you can get through this.
Back when I was 18-19, I dated a guy for 10 months. He was my first love, and my first lover. In that 10 months we broke up several times, but we would get back together a few days later. ... (read in full...)
What are some hot things to say while having sex?
Q. What are some hot things to say when your having sex that will get him really turned on?...
A. 14 December 2008: Generally, letting them know what a good job they are doing (ie: that feels so good), and perhaps complimenting their...*ahem*...manhood, is a good way to get him going.
The most fulfilling sex I had was with a man who enjoyed verbal communic... (read in full...)
Would you be mad if your girlfriend went to parties and got drunk?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 3 years, i moved down to florida for college and shes in wisconsin. In about 8 months we are planning for her to move down with me, but there has been some trouble. Ok guys I want to ask you this...
A. 14 December 2008: It sounds as though she is trying to be honest, but is unsure of what she wants, and possibly afraid to tell you.
College/University is an entirely different world than highschool, which I'm sure you can relate to. You make new friends, meet new... (read in full...)
Does sex have a certain smell??
Q. Does Sex have a smell??? like when people are done having sex is there a smell that stays on the bed or something? and if there is how does it smell?? and when i have sex is someone else going to know because of the smell on the my bedspr...
A. 14 December 2008: Interesting question.
To the best of my knowledge, sex itself does not have it's own unique smell. I would guess it depends on the hygienic habits of the individuals involved, not to mention the manner of sex...ie: hot & sweaty.
It sounds to ... (read in full...)
I slept with my g/f's mom! Do I tell her?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for quite a long time now. but only last week, i slept with her mum. i regret it completely, we were both drunk and my girlfriend was too drunk to notice that we'd gone up stairs. should i be honest with my girlfriend, ...
A. 14 December 2008: Being drunk, in my opinion, is not a legitimate excuse. You both remember that it happened, and were therefore aware of what you were doing. Odds are this didn't just happen, either, and I'm willing to bet the two of you engaged in suggestive talk ... (read in full...)
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