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I'm scared he'll find someone else when I'm away for 4 months...

Q.   I am going away tomorrow for 4 months to Austria, which I am excited about, don't get me wrong but I am also terrified because I am going away from everyone that I know and Love. I am leaving this guy behind, which has been a confusing situatio...

A.   2 June 2007: I'm certain that everyone you ask will give you what their definition of what he ment by that. My question is for you: What if you meet someone? I've found out that no matter what I do, if a relationship is supposed to be, it will be. Lo... (read in full...)

Do you think I over reacted when he didn't call me for a whole day?

Q.   Dear cupid me and my boyfriend of 5 years just broke up because about 2 weeks ago he disappeared and i waited for him to call all day and he never did until the next day and he could not give me a reason so i got mad at him and he hung up on me so...

A.   2 June 2007: I have never been able to figure what the other person's thoughts are when they do something like this to me, however, I have learned that I need to be able to back-off, for my own good. I wouldn't worry about the exact reason why he did this to ... (read in full...)

He wants me to take a lie detector test to prove I haven't slept with anyone.

Q.   i have bin with my partner 4 7 years, we have 3 kids about a year ago he found out I had kissed someone else, I have never done this before and it was only a kiss but he thinks I slept with him, he now wants me 2 take a lie detector test 2 prove i ...

A.   2 June 2007: If you know you have not, you don't have a thing to admit, discuss, or worry about. I personally think what he is doing is absolutely rediculus, and perhaps it's time you re-think your continueing the relationship. I would write him a letter t... (read in full...)

My large breasts are sooo uncomforatble! What should I do about it?

Q.   Lately ive been feeling very self concious about my breasts. Im 17 and im a G cup.. but im small in comparison with my breasts, i wear size 10 clothes. I dont have any bras that fit and feel really uncomfortable. My question is.. can breasts be too ...

A.   31 May 2007: I personally like larger breasts, but as I get older and wiser, I have more interest in the person who has them. YOU have to carry them, YOU take care of them, and YOU deal with them. My girlfriend has fairly large breasts and they irritate her ... (read in full...)

Our sex life has really gone from bad to worse recently...is this normal?

Q.   Hi guys, I've been seeing my girlfriend for over a year now, and she moved in with me last month (serious, I know!) - but our sex life has really gone from bad to worse recently, only making love once a month at the most. It just seems that she d...

A.   31 May 2007: I'm going through a similar predicament with my girlfriend. We have been together for 2 years, and our sex life lost it's speed about 3 months into the relationship. Obviously it's not the most important thing on my agenda because I'm still with ... (read in full...)

What can I do now that I've just given up on everything, women especially?

Q.   What can I do now that I've just given up on everything, women especially? I just dont kno what to do with myself. I am on anti depressants but they wont start working till I have taken them for a week more what can i do?...

A.   31 May 2007: I personally have been down this road, myself. I can say that anti-depressants work only with the proper life-style. DO NOT completely rely on them to help you "fix" yourself. You need to have the proper diet, exersize, and sleep for them to work ... (read in full...)

He hide his porn habit from me...how can I trust him when he does that?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years now and I feel like were falling apart everyday. He has a major problem with porn. He looks at it almost everyday on the computer and tries to hide it from me. When we first got together I told ...

A.   29 April 2007: Have you talked to him about this issue without resorting to your morals? In every relationship you will have to give and take. I think a lot of men have sexual frustrations and they can contain it with pornography. Albeit it may look like it's ... (read in full...)

He won't leave his gf and baby for me! But he wants to be with me..what can we do?

Q.   im 19 and fallen in love with a 28 year old man he works behind the bar at my local pub, we exchanged numbers i later found out he had a girlfriend and she was pregnant, but carried on textin and then started meeting he split with his girlfirend as ...

A.   29 April 2007: I don't believe he loves you that much. If he insists on not leaving his baby's mother, it's clear that he has no intention of being with you. I have been down a similar road as you have, and I have gotten hurt. Tell him that "he" needs to make ... (read in full...)

If he's no longer my bf, then is doing things with him sexually..a wrong thing to do?

Q.   My ex bf and I broke up about a year ago because he was moving to a state up north and I live in the South. We really loved each other and now he goes to school in the south (still not in my state tho) and we have met once since to hang out. We ...

A.   29 April 2007: I think you should look at what is better for you. I think you should talk to him about what you are thinking. I understand that you may be afraid to push him away by doing it, but whether or not you choose to continue this relationship, you should ... (read in full...)

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