Dizzy over this much older man, how do I stop this??
Q. Help needed!! I'm in highschool in England and I'm over the age of consent. I have a problem because I am madly in love with someone who is much older and sees me as a nice interesting kid. I know nothing will ever happen because he's not a pervert ...
A. 6 July 2010: I kinda was in the same situation but i wasn't legal and I really flirted with this guy older than me, he flirted back. now im legal we're together and there's 12 years apart. is there anyway you could give the relationship a try? or do you really ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to flirt with my sensei who's twice my age?
Q. hi i've recently started aikido and my sensei said i'm quite good (so much so that he's offered me a scholarship) but i really fancy my sensei. he's about 30 and i'm only 15. we get along brilliantly and we flirt a fair bit aswell, nothing heavy, ...
A. 6 July 2010: tbh you sound like you get on really well, just enjoy flirting :)
and hopefully when you're legal, if you want it to, you both might hook up :)x... (read in full...)
I can't go on like this. He's the only one who can make me into a better person! :( I need answers please.
Q. [OP original title] Ok, so im a teenager. I do drugs (only marijuana), I drink, and smoke ciggerettes. I want to quit so badly but I can't, my biggest crush ever does the same. but when i'm with him everything changes, it's like i can quit ever...
A. 5 July 2010: ok smoking weed at your ages is bad but its happending everywhere now really. but try to quit drugs and fags and only drink now and again. once you've quit/cut down on these it'll show you are willing to commit into a relationship.
admit your true... (read in full...)
My friend is the odd one out?
Q. Ok so i live in a small town where I grew up with all these girls. Iv'e known them since we were babies. We are all 17 theres about 14 of us all together. But one of my friends Naomi havent changed at all. she's still young in the mind. She doesnt ...
A. 5 July 2010: You cant force her to get drunk and have a boyfriend. it doesn't seem to bother her that you all get drunk and like boys attention.
Try doing other things with her instead of going out, suggest clothes shopping or something, you can invite her to p... (read in full...)
How can I get over my paranoia or convince her to try the pill?
Q. Hello, me and my girlfriend have been together for about 6 month now and everything is going good. we see each other about 5 days a week and have a lot of fun together. im 19 and she is 16 by the way. the thing is, we have yet to have sex, which is ...
A. 5 July 2010: You cant force her to go onto the pill. its her body, its up to her. some people can't actually take the pill for medical reasons (it thickens the blood, and if you have a history of blood clots in the family this increases the risk)
See if you can ... (read in full...)
Age and Height Difference - Weird?
Q. Mod Note..Titled by Poster Okay, hey there! So, I've got a quick question. I JUST got in to a relationship (like a day ago) and it's my first one ever. I'm 16 years old. The thing is: he's 19. I mean, I don't really see anything wrong with that. I've...
A. 4 July 2010: omg im 16 and 5ft 1 and my boyfriend is 6ft 4 but a lot older lol!!
dont worry about it, as long as you dont mind, your boyfriend wont and just forget about it if people stare, they obvs just dont understand its two people who love each other!... (read in full...)
I think I'm a clone now.
Q. Okay, here's the problem, my friend wont stop copying me, and the thing is i dont even think she knows shes doing it! throughout the time weve been especially close she's copied my style, my music, things i say and do. She gets the credit for thing...
A. 24 June 2010: I've been in the same situation where I say something funny to him (he was like my boy best friend) and he'd say it louder.
I put up with it for ages until he actually had a go at me saying I was always moody etc!!
We worked through it but he st... (read in full...)
Should I trust the boy who's been hiding his very dark history from me?
Q. Hello, I hooked up with a boy two years younger than me...(I am fifteen.) He was really sweet and passionate, but I just found out about his more-than-unusual past. My mum approached me about it, and let me know that he'd spent quite a bit of time ...
A. 24 June 2010: im guessing he's 13?
that means he's been through quite a lot throughout his 13 years.
BUT the fact he managed to KILL somebody AND not tell you,
thats just weird, get out of there while you can. If he's not going to tell you that (ok I mean n... (read in full...)
Help! I have a crush on my boss and it is clear he has one on me.
Q. I have a crush on my boss and it is clear he has one on me. I can tell by his body language and the way he looks at me. he is very relaxed around me. He stares at me and gives me second looks whether me sees me in a crowd with the rest of the ...
A. 24 June 2010: Wait until you leavae your workplace before making a move on him, it could make things difficult if things dont go well and you still have to work there.
Once you have left you could ask him for his number, swap details etc.
Then hopefull... (read in full...)
Should I pursue him?
Q. Hey everyone, I'd like to know how people think about this topic: sex lol I recently lost my virginity to a man I thought I loved but, we're going nowhere so I walked away...I met another man (fake name Jay) and both times we've seen each other, the ...
A. 24 June 2010: well...
wait until you're ready. I'm sure Jay would understand if he is a caring person.
You were prob thinking of your ex whilst kissing Jay because he was the first relationship you've had since your ex.
Try to push your ex to the back of ... (read in full...)
How can I deal with this girl who keeps hitting on me?
Q. Where to begin. First I am posting anonymously because the girl that I have an issue with found my post on the user name last time. But my situation from before was that my neighbors are quite close with my family. This has been going on for nea...
A. 24 June 2010: I disagree with people saying stay away from home, you should be allowed to go home when you want etc.
Say to her this behavior has to stop now, and you're really not prepared to put up with it.
Tell her you do mean it and she can try to prete... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and allowed to date older guys, but how do I explain to people like my family he's 28?!
Q. I really need some help!! I've fallen for a 28 year old guy and i'm 16. i've liked him since we were 14 and we joked we would get together. now im 16 I really want to date him and get to know him as a boyfriend. He's fine with it, its just I'm ...
A. 24 June 2010: xanthic - what am I too focused on to notice?
What do you call it then if its not two people in love?
Yeah fair enough I'm closer to his neice in age, but he still chatted to me after finding out my age.
He's my cousins mate, and my cousin ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and allowed to date older guys, but how do I explain to people like my family he's 28?!
Q. I really need some help!! I've fallen for a 28 year old guy and i'm 16. i've liked him since we were 14 and we joked we would get together. now im 16 I really want to date him and get to know him as a boyfriend. He's fine with it, its just I'm ...
A. 23 June 2010: Cindy- like I said he's a mate of somebody in my family, so its not as if i'm some random 16 year old that he's trying to hit on. The way I met him 2 years ago was out of my control, it was in a pub (i wasnt drinking) and we got introduced. So for ... (read in full...)
How can I deal with this girl who keeps hitting on me?
Q. Where to begin. First I am posting anonymously because the girl that I have an issue with found my post on the user name last time. But my situation from before was that my neighbors are quite close with my family. This has been going on for nea...
A. 23 June 2010: urgh! tough situation!!
I think you're just going to have to be honest with her.
Regarding US law she is underage, however i'm from england where the legal age is 16, so I wouldn't know how to help you there.
Basically, just say t... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and allowed to date older guys, but how do I explain to people like my family he's 28?!
Q. I really need some help!! I've fallen for a 28 year old guy and i'm 16. i've liked him since we were 14 and we joked we would get together. now im 16 I really want to date him and get to know him as a boyfriend. He's fine with it, its just I'm ...
A. 23 June 2010: Can I just add,
I posted this before I had an account.
I can't believe how negative your answers were!!
I've known him since i was 13/14 he's a family friend. Well not a family friend but somebody in my family is his mate.
Why can't you l... (read in full...)
18 year age difference!!!
Q. I am 17 with a 36 year old. We have been together for 2 years now. everything has been great. Apart from having to hide from everybody. A few days ago my mom passed and i moved in with him. We finally told his parents because we could no longer hide ...
A. 23 June 2010: Hi!
I asked a question on here about a 12 year old age difference in a relationship, and like you I got negative feedback.
In my case, I'm 16 and the guy is 28 nearly 29.
The thing that worries me is that you got together when you were 15, whi... (read in full...)
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