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Relationship ruined because of a picture of his parts??

Q.   Okay. Here is my situation. My girlfriend and I have been friends for almost 3 years now. In those 3 years we have been the type of friends who talk about their relationships with one another. This is my situation. Before we started dating I...

A.   27 July 2009: Let me just say this, I have been in a sorta similar situation. My husband had been with this woman who is like 20 years older than him about 2 years before we got together. We met through of mutual friend of ours and that is how he met her. They ... (read in full...)

Husband wants to stay in the family home while continuing his affair

Q.   Hi there I would really appreciate people's perspective on my situation. I'm dealing with a lot of emotional pain having learnt that my husband of nearly 21 years has been seeing another woman. Admittedly our marriage was a struggle wi...

A.   27 July 2009: I agree with satindesire. It's not right. My husband's father did the exact same thing to his family and carried on his flings for years. Things got so bad in his family that pretty much his parents stayed together for the kids and when he turned 18 ... (read in full...)

What shd I think of this situation?

Q.   i went to see the wife at her work for a cup of tea when entering the shop there was no one there. then a work mate popped out of the kitchen very red faced so i goes int he kitchen to find my wife very nervous and shaching like a leaf she couldent ...

A.   23 July 2009: In all honesty, it sounds like you caught them in a compromising position. What did she have to say when you walked in the kitchen? If it wasn't we were just held up and we are freaking out, then it seems kinda shady. It seems like the 2 of them ... (read in full...)

Who should be head of household and lay down the rules?

Q.   I've been with my wife for 10 years. She has never had a job. I have always paid most of the bills with very few exceptions. she collect ssi and public assistance. She pays what she wants on the bills. Recently it has been $80.00 a month for the ...

A.   23 July 2009: Ok, first off marriage is a 50/50 partenership regardless of who pays the bills. You stated that you pay this with your money and she does this with hers. It should be "our" money not "my" money. As for who should "lay down the rules". This isn't ... (read in full...)

Can I get HIV's if he is positive?

Q.   i have recently been with a guy who is very promiscuous, we didn't completly have an intercourse because i was drunk and dry so he just got his tip in for a few milimiters and then took it away before we came, what i am worried about is that he ...

A.   23 July 2009: There is always that risk with unprotected sex. Even with premature ejactulation. It would be too soon to be tested if it just happened but in a few months I would go get tested just for peace of mind and in the case that he could have had HIV. In ... (read in full...)

Married but have found a FWB relationship

Q.   I have been married for MANY MANY years. Last year, my husband and I decided to separate, but to stay together as room mates for while due to finances. I found a married man and started an affair with him. My husband decided that he wanted to stay ...

A.   23 July 2009: This is just a thought but maybe he should seek the advice of a doctor. I don't mean counseling but an actual doctor. Maybe there is more going on with him than what meets the eye. He sounds like he wants to hang on to you and at the same time might ... (read in full...)

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