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Do you think the boy I like is with someone else or have I got a chance?
Q. Dear cupid, I’m a 13 year old girl; I like a boy the same age as me for 6 years. Ok, when people say that boys like a girl but they don't show it, they always start of being mean. Well that's what happened to me, at first when I was in year 3 the ...
A. 4 January 2008: Hello there, Very long story! What it seems to me dear is that this boys seems to be a player. Staring at you for years doesn't really mean anything. You 're still very young. I advise you to get him out of your head or you will be hurt. If he li... (read in full...)
Do I have a Daddy Complex?
Q. I think i have a daddy complex and its really worrying me cos i don't know my dad, and now i feel attracted to older men when i was at school i fancied my teachers and now i'm at work i fancy my managers! so is it an authority figure thing or ...
A. 28 October 2007: Well, school girls fancy their older male teachers, that's completely normal. And I don't really think you have what you call "Daddy Complex" cause usually you are not aware of our complexes unless we go to therapy. So that's not the case here. M... (read in full...)
How do I end it?
Q. Im 47 just divorced and fall into with a man 18 years older than me. 18 months on seeing each other I start to find him too old I dont no how to end it and worry cant find someone else after leaving him I dont no what to do...
A. 27 October 2007: Hello there,
It seems to me that you are hanging on to this relationship because you are affraid of being alone. Which means is that you are not interrested in this guy, and the longer that you stay with him, the more you'll end by hurting his feel... (read in full...)
Is this texting cheating?
Q. I recently found my boyfriends phone bill hidden and after looking through it i noticed that just weeks after our baby was born he was constantly texting a number whilst he was at work. The were 41 texts to this number and lasted for 6 days then ...
A. 27 October 2007: Hello there,
Yes, emotional cheating is even harder than physical cheating. When you find out that the person you gave all your feelings to, have shared some of his with another person is devastating.
One alarming sign about what happened with you... (read in full...)
Long distance relationships
Q. Long distance relationships. There are so many views on them. Some people think they can't work, that the relationships aren't "real" because you don't see your boyfriend or girlfriend everyday, but that's their opinion. They haven't been...
A. 26 October 2007: Hey there, I am in a long distance relationship myself, and to tell you the truth it has been really hard so far. Although we are so much in love with eachother, we do misunderstand eachother a lot because of misinterpretations of messages all the... (read in full...)
Why is it that at the age of 21 I've never had a boyfriend, been kissed or had sex?
Q. I'm 21 years old, never been kissed, never had a boyfriend, and definitely never had sex. I'm always the girl "guy-friend" if that makes sense. I just feel like something is wrong with me especially on the aspect of having never been kissed. I feel ...
A. 26 October 2007: Hello there,
I can really understand what you are going through.
Listen, you're still 21 that means you're still young. You have plenty of time to meet the right person for you.
Think about this way: You have plenty of emotions stored for t... (read in full...)
Intercourse without protection a week after my last period? Risk of pregnancy?
Q. can i get pregnant having intercourse without protection a week after my last period?...
A. 25 October 2007: Well, you can get pregnant the most when you are ovulating. How to calculate that? It's the 14th day of a regular 28 days cycle (that's to say: You can get pregnant the most one day before till one day after your ovulation). However this is only for ... (read in full...)
Can someone tell me how to prevent leaking during my period?
Q. Hey Ive had my period before But I sometimes leak at school! Its happened 4 times already. And my school has a strict dress code so if I want to tie my jacket around my waist its dress code and i get a refrel!-.- I need some advice.How can i...
A. 24 October 2007: Hey there,
Why don't u try wearing shorts on top of ur panties. (under ur regulat clothes). You leak but you will only get the panties and shorts dirty.
I am not sure tampons are a good idea for a virgin!
Good luck... (read in full...)
I fantasize about having sex with my mother
Q. I have asked this question before but am still curious as what to do. I am now 17, my mum is 43. 6 years ago, i was living with my mum, i was in the need of the drink, so went into the kitchen to get one, only my mum was in the way on the worktop ...
A. 24 October 2007: Well, a lot of us have something or someone to fantasize about,But it's not very normal to fantasize about ur mother.Think about this way: She is the one who carried u in her uterus for 9 months and changed ur diapers!
For God sakes, respect ur m... (read in full...)
Can anyone crack this code for me?
Q. I guess trust is a relationship question, so I'll give this a try. My husband goes to great lengths to hide a piece of paper with odd letters and numbers on it. I have no idea what it's all about. I do know that he gets up at 3:30 a.m. (3 hours ...
A. 23 October 2007: Hello there,
Those aren't dates: there is a 45 at the second SH.
Anyhow, what does ur husband do for living? Are u positive this is not concerning his job?
If he has been cheating on you there would be some more evident signs (i think you wo... (read in full...)
People have told me that her dumping me is her loss... Is it really?
Q. After 2 years and 8 months, she's left me. I thought we were doing so well. We'd both gone to seperate universities, but our conversation seemed to be the same as ever, and I was happy. Now it's over. I don't think there's anything more I ...
A. 23 October 2007: Hello there,
I totall know what it feels like to be dumpt. You are left alone without knowing what u have done wrong.
Don't ever think it's ur fault, or u are a loser... No matter what u would have done, this relationship wasn't meant to work. Sh... (read in full...)
I have symptoms of pregancy but tests are negative!
Q. I am having symptoms of being pregnant and haven't had a period in a while then all of a sudden I had started bleeding. I have taken 2 home pregnancy tests both negitive. I don't know what to do should I take caution till I go to the doctor..?? ...
A. 26 January 2007: There are so many questions that need to be answered so i can help u:
For how long have u not had your periods?
Did u have any pain before the bleeding?
Is that bleeding like your other menses?
Anyway, my guts tells me that this is a regular de... (read in full...)
I'm using the contraceptive implant - but do these symptoms mean that could I be pregnant?
Q. I am on the contraceptive implant but i think that i could be pregnant. over the past week or two ive been bloated, constantly feeling ill and continuous heartburn and its hard to describe but my lower tummy feels strange. i got the implant nearly a ...
A. 26 January 2007: What I can tell you for sure, that there is a risk of pregnancy on top of intrauterine devices.
You say you're constantly feeling the heartburn?? Morning sickness in pregnancy is usually the "morning" then disappears the rest of the day unless ther... (read in full...)
Do I try to make it work with my alcoholic husband?
Q. O.K. here it goes......My husband is an alcoholic. When I fell in love with him it wasn't a problem. We met in our early 20's so we partied together, nothing uncommon. We have since had 2 boys (5 and 3) and I have matured and calmed down. He has ...
A. 26 January 2007: Hello dear,
Since he hasn't been violent before the alcohol, I would probably say it's the alcohol! I suggest you stand by him and tell him to ask for help.
But if he is not willing to get any help, you have no choice but to take your kids and move... (read in full...)
So distraught over my break up! I need help...advice?
Q. I feel so stupid posting on here. But, I am so distraught. I know that no one can really say one thing to make me feel better but I need a helping hand. I am going to see a counselor, too. But, I am falling. I had a break up a couple of months ago. ...
A. 26 January 2007: I think it would help you maybe a little bit to know that you're not the only one having a hard time passing through a break-up!
And I know it's double times harder because you have common friends, so that means you would have to see him all the ... (read in full...)
He dumped by telling a friend "that everything was closing around him'...what did he mean?
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me, saying i was too good for him. A friend asked him why he did it and he said "it felt like everything was closing around him" what does this mean???...
A. 25 January 2007: Hello there,
I kinda agree with the rest that this guy felt that he needs his own space and that he's not ready for serious commitment yet.
Don't be fustrated, you seem a good girl and you'll find that special someone waiting for u along the way.... (read in full...)
I'm 11 and I'm worried..he never says he loves me! What's wrong?
Q. Hi. I am 11 years old and I am really upset. I asked my boyfriend to the movies. He said 'yeah, i was going to ask you anyway' so i got all excited, this being my first date with him, (i've been on others) but then he ruins the moment by telling me ...
A. 25 January 2007: Hello dear,
You're only 11! You're too young to be dating! I think a girl shouldn't be dating before her puberty!
Plus are u sure you love this guy?? You only went out like once??? Honey we all felt this way when we were your age and believe ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends gets me NOTHING for Christmas, Birthday, Valentines.. NEVER!
Q. SHOULD I BE UPSET WHEN MY KIDS FATHER (MY BOYFRIEND)DOESN'T GET ME ANYTHING FOR CHRISTMAS, MOTHERS DAY,VALENTINE DAY..BUT HE GET HIS MOM THINGS...
A. 23 January 2007: Hello there,
Well it seems to me very natural to be upset from a thing like that... Cause if it was only because he's cheap then he wouldn't buy stuff for his mother or anyone else.
Have you ever gave him something urself??
I suggest that in the ... (read in full...)
My uncle is touching me inappropriately and offering me money! What should I do?
Q. Hello. My uncle has been touching me up around the chest area and i don't know what to do. He also keeps texting and asking to see me and offering me money. My Ex-Boyfriend has given me a few choices as follows. - Tell police. - ...
A. 22 January 2007: Dear, sexual abuse is a BIG DEAL!
You should tell your parents first thing! What are you worried about?? family problems?? This is a big issue here, plus they are gonna find out if u tell the police anyway!
If your parents don't believe u tell an ... (read in full...)
Somedays I am so edgy and cranky! Am I hormonal or what's really wrong with me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I’m having a serious problem and an even harder time getting people to believe that it’s for real. Whenever I’m having a bad hair day, I become really irritable. I’m edgy, cranky, and I get extreme mood swings. It’s almost like bein...
A. 22 January 2007: Hey girl,
Us girls blame everything on the hormones! hehe
I know counting to 10 when something really annoys us is just a theory and to tell you the truth I don't think it really works!
What you really need to ask yourself, what would you do... (read in full...)
Girls aren't attracted to my friend b/c of his beard - he has it for religious reasons. What advice can I give him??
Q. im asking on behalf of a mate simply cos i dunno the answer to his problem. he is an 18 year old male with a beard. he believes he cannot attract gals simply cos of the beard. he doesnt want to shave the beard off cos its against his religious be...
A. 22 January 2007: Hello there,
The problem here is not ur friend's beard!
As a female, I can assure you that some girls even think of a man with a beard as more "macho"!
The main problem I think is his self esteem and level of confidence as he tries to approach ... (read in full...)
Have been unable to lose my virginity to my husband...
Q. I've been married for a few months now and I can't lose my virginity I feel like it is something so traumatic that I cry. And I love my husband very much please help....
A. 6 January 2007: Hello there,
I didn't get if just can't lose your virginity or u can't have intimate relationship with your husband. cause both have completely different causes.
If u are having normal sexual relationship with ur husband and still ur hymen is intac... (read in full...)
We broke up and became good friends, and now I want him back as a bf!
Q. please help me i went out with this boy and he is the whole package but then i broke up with him because we neva saw each other but now i have figured out that im in love with him and want to go back out with him but if i ask him it might ruin our ...
A. 4 January 2007: Well, I think you should have courage and ask him out again...Tell him you want to be more than friends and that you didn't realize that until late.
It sure didn't ruin your friendship when u broke up with him which makes me believe that you have... (read in full...)
I'm worried to sleep with my boyfriend because I'm worried about how my labia minora's look!!
Q. I need your advice, im 17 and thinking about sleeping with my bf for the first time. the problem is im really embarressed as i have large labia minora's that hang down outside the lips of my vagina. Im really insecure about them and i dont know what ...
A. 4 January 2007: All I can tell you is that hypertrophied labia minora is completely normal. More than 25 % of woman have it either on one side or on both sides. It's not a health issue... Relax, there is nothing wrong with you! And I am sure that it won't be a ... (read in full...)
I can't stop flirting with the girl at work, but I'm happily married! What do I do?
Q. Ive been working in my new place for about 18 months now. My department is great and we all seem to get on. Im happily married and there is a younger girl in our department and things have gone where they shouldnt have. I like her and get on ...
A. 4 January 2007: I think being attracted to the opposite sex even when you're happily married is completely normal. But what is abnormal is to try to do something about it starting from flirting and ending in cheating.
I think you should put in urself in ur wife... (read in full...)
My bf said we're getting too close and has decided to ignore me! Why is he like this?
Q. Ive been with this boy for nearly 7 months we are both 14 and he told me we are getting to close! I think this will lead us to breaking up but i dont wont to! I went to school today and he told my best mate that he was not going to talk 2 me! So we ...
A. 4 January 2007: Well in my opinion you're both still very young for an intimate relationship. Don't forget dear, that he's only 14, and this is probably his first relationship and he has been experiencing new feelings for the first time. Intimacy still scares even ... (read in full...)
I love him and we split. After continued contact though-I can't get over him!
Q. Please can you advise me. I am still in love with my ex boyfriend. I have been in love with him since March, our relationship finished badly in May after him saying he loved me (he just ignored me). Then he got back in contact with me in July,...
A. 1 January 2007: Hello there dear,
Well after reading this message it seemed to me that ur ex boyfriend is inlove with you but he's soo committment-phobic! I think you should talk to him honestly about everything. And if it doesn't work out, u need to let him go a... (read in full...)
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