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How can I try to improve the way my mother communicates with me? Her egotistical ways are not helping.

Q.   Hi all, My problem is about my mother, who has very poor communication skills, even in languages that she's really good at. It might be silly but creates big problems mainly because after not having communicated to us properly, she will turn ...

A.   25 December 2016: Hi I think your mother and you need to follow the commutation skills with eachother. Tell her how much she is hurting your feelings by saying you are irresponsible. And when your are asleep you can't hear what she said also. Just stick your head out ... (read in full...)

No present - what should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend of four years did not give me a Christmas present this year. Should I be upset? Because I am. Should I say something to him?...

A.   24 December 2016: Being with your bf is more important than receiving gifts from him. You two can cuddle by a nice fire listen to Christmas music and tell each other how much you both love one another. My bf lives in Canada so I won't be receiving gifts from him ... (read in full...)

Would acquiring a new dog help me to forget the loss of my beloved previous dog?

Q.   I recently loss my dog two years ago before valentine's day it was not a happier moment for me since I couldn't stopped thinking of my dog all. Can I still get a dog to make me happier so I won't end up missing my old dog at all?...

A.   24 December 2016: I talk to my second brother and ask him when the pain goes away losing a member of the family. I really love roscoe so much but i tried bot to cry all the time. I am sorry you loss your dog also. And I am here to talk I'd u want that ... (read in full...)

Should I worry that his first love is making contact?

Q.   Hi my husbands first love is trying to get in contact with him. He's not sure yet if he will reply to email. I'm not sure how I feel about this,on the one hand I want him to do what he wants but on the other I'm a bit concerned about feelings being ...

A.   21 December 2016: My real dad's first wife needed help when she landed in jail and her sister track him down by asking my real dad for money to help her sister out. He accepted but he was married to my mom also. If he isn't so sure if he wants to get back into ... (read in full...)

Take a job I don't want just to keep in contact with a crush?

Q.   Hi I'm Sam and I'm 17 years old. I have been working at a bar in the UK temporarily over the Christmas period. I was hoping that after this temporary spell, I would be offered the job permanently. However at the my shift last night, my boss spoke to ...

A.   21 December 2016: I don't know if employees are allow to date each other date since it is probably ilLigal to fate while you both work together. The girl who you have a crush on knows that for sure. So she is probably following the works in not engaging by flirting ... (read in full...)

Would acquiring a new dog help me to forget the loss of my beloved previous dog?

Q.   I recently loss my dog two years ago before valentine's day it was not a happier moment for me since I couldn't stopped thinking of my dog all. Can I still get a dog to make me happier so I won't end up missing my old dog at all?...

A.   21 December 2016: Thank you wise owl and you can't be serious, both your words and comments made me feel better. Whenever I held the little shirt and the bandana I still cried because it reminds me of how he would wear them before he got sick two years ago. He had a ... (read in full...)

I need to stop his demands

Q.   Hi, i have been sharing for some time with a friend. He start looking for me and sharing with me. But it become a friend with benefits relationship, which i see was a mistake. Although he told me he isnt dating other girls, i dont believe him. A ...

A.   21 December 2016: If he is seeing another girl and seeing you at the same time then he is a womanizer who wants to use you and that girl he is seeing. I would just break iy off with him by demanding the truth and if he isn't seeing anyone then you don't have ... (read in full...)

I'm hoping he's bi, because he could be my soulmate! What should I do?

Q.   Okay so I posted on here before about a guy, and got some good advice and insight but there's an update now. Previously I met this guy in the gym I caught him starring at me around 3 times (and his body is better than mine so not the reason) ...

A.   21 December 2016: It is understandable that you have feelings for a man even though you aren't bi. Sometimes when I go to a restaurant I see a woman and I stare at her when my family members don't notice it at all. Wow the guy likes you that is so cool. Maybe ... (read in full...)

Should I write my bus driver crush a Christmas card?

Q.   well I seen the bus driver I have a crush on who I think is about 36, I am 33. he is always shy but extra nice towards me and talks very low and mild mannered….so as I am getting on the bus today, he just cheeses and grins with all 32 teeth and says ...

A.   21 December 2016: Can I ask you something but not to be mean about it at all? What if you two started dating eachother if he gets the Xmas card from you and it won't work out on the first date and you keep on riding the bus. It could make things very awkward ... (read in full...)

Why has he turned cold?

Q.   I've been friends with benefits with a guy for nearly three years. He not seen anyone else and nor have I. Over the coming months he been kissing my forehead, or holding my hand after sex. Recently we had sex and he we were talking and came over and ...

A.   21 December 2016: I hate to say it sweetie but I think the guy was using you. By trYing to get inside your pants. Since you both had sex with eachother. He is probably finish with you. I don't want to hurt your feelings but it might be true on why he is not ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend's bisexual behaviour makes me want to call it quits

Q.   Hi people! I'm seriously lost in a discussion with myself whether I accept it or not, but already when I'm doubting, I already know I don't... Anyhow. My girlfriend and her best friend are both bisexual and they have had a tight relationship as...

A.   20 December 2016: When you say she is besexual do you mean she is into both men and women or is she becoming a lesbian? It can be uncomfortable for a man to see his gf flirting with her best friend since they are both acting like a couple by doing all of the things ... (read in full...)

I can't take any more with this man

Q.   Help me please iam getting emontion abused. i have lost nearly 9 stone but he calls me fatty.wobbly and he knows iam hurt by it but laughts and carrys on.does a day go by when he never done it. I do everything for him.he dont seem to be happy unless ...

A.   20 December 2016: Hi I know how you must feel. I was kind of dating a guy who was verbally abusing my emotions alot by calling me a ugly troll and kept on calling me a bunch of names. You shouldn't let the man you are with keep on abusing your emotions because ... (read in full...)

Take a job I don't want just to keep in contact with a crush?

Q.   Hi I'm Sam and I'm 17 years old. I have been working at a bar in the UK temporarily over the Christmas period. I was hoping that after this temporary spell, I would be offered the job permanently. However at the my shift last night, my boss spoke to ...

A.   19 December 2016: Hi sam, that is good that you have a temporary job for the Christmas holidays. But if the position is finish and your boss needs you to move to a new position. I will take it since it might not be the dream postion you want at all. It is good to ... (read in full...)

Why does he do this to me?

Q.   I've been on and off with a guy I've liked for 2 years. But we haven't had sex. I have tried everything with this guy because I really am unsure of his intentions as he has told me he likes me but nothing's changed. He doesn't meet me when he is ...

A.   19 December 2016: If he says he likes you and wants you 8n his life and playing mind games with you then that isn't the guy you should be with you especially if he is ignoring you when you are having long conversations with him or he doesn't meet up with you too. ... (read in full...)

I feel her weight gain is getting out of control!

Q.   I am 27 my girlfriend is 24 we live together and we have a great relationship. The problem I have got is that I feel her weight gain is getting out of hand. She was by no means thin when we got together and I am not saying she should have a model ...

A.   13 December 2016: Thank you for sharing your concern about your gf. I know you are worried about her and her health. Maybe you both can do a health plan together. Eat senseably, drink lots of water. After dinner why don't you both go for romantic walks together. ... (read in full...)

How to let go, when I still love him? Do I walk away?

Q.   I've just recently split with someone that I was with since April. We ended on good terms but he said that he doesn't want to be with me because his head's all over at the minute. I've told him that I want to be here to support him and we'll ge...

A.   13 December 2016: I agree with N91 sweetie, you just need to walk away if he doesn't want your help at all. And if he is being a asshOle towards you. Tell him you two will be friends later on after things cools down with him.... (read in full...)

Is my mom's behavior normal? Is she being unfair?

Q.   I graduated from college and started working 2.5 years ago. My sister did the same half a year ago. In case it’s relevant, we were born and raised in California to immigrant Asian parents. Amongst our culture and friends, it’s quite common to still ...

A.   3 December 2016: It is very normal to want your own independence away from living with your parents and move with your bf also. But may I ask what is your tradition? Maybe your mom doesn't want you to rushed into anything if you and bf do end up moving in ... (read in full...)

Why does she call me daddy?

Q.   I have a friend who is from South East Asia. She is 4 years older and I'm 25. I've known her for like 2 years now. She's always had this name that she calls me, I guess it's in her native language because I don't understand it. Recently thoug...

A.   3 December 2016: Does she keep on flirting with you when she calls you daddy? Point out how uncomfortable you feel when she calls you daddy. Maybe she thinks you two are doing a rp when she calls you daddy. My second dad calls me little bug and bug it doesn't ... (read in full...)

Should I confront him about this Facebook friend?

Q.   hiya everyone i was going through my friends list on facebook this afternoon just deleting contacts i dont speak to i noticed my boyfriend has added a woman who is very attractive and the type he told me he goes for i have looked on her profile and ...

A.   3 December 2016: That should be your decision to confront him but don't do it if he isn't doing anything wrong with this girl that he is friends with on Facebook. My bf has friends that are girls on his Google plus account and I am fine with it since I have male ... (read in full...)

Who do I go for? Dude A or B?

Q.   Who do I really love? I'm 17 years of age and I'm in my final year in secondary school. I am in a love triangle(two boys). I love dude A a lot but he is a player and I've know him since primary school, he was my sitting mate in primary school. ...

A.   3 December 2016: I will go with dude B - he sounds like a better guy than dude A if dude A is a player then he is not the kind of guy you should date at all sweetie because if you stick with him then let's just say he will mess with a girl while he is seeing y... (read in full...)

We met online. Is he interested in me, or not? Do I contact him, or wait?

Q.   I went on a date with a man i met on a dating site. ( i dont get many ) He gave the lines how he's not connected with someone like me in a while and hes very open with everything. We get on so well i could see a future with him . The other day he...

A.   3 December 2016: Which dating set did you meet this man at? Because you should be careful with most of them. one bad website - a woman who signed on that website lost her life because the man killed her because she refused to kiss him after one date. I would send... (read in full...)

I really like him but I fear rejection. What can I do? What should I do?

Q.   Modnote: two almost identical questions combined. ................................... dear cupid, ok so there is this guy that I really like he is a grade bigger than me, he used to like me at the beginning of the year (I could tell from the cle...

A.   22 November 2016: I think the reason you like him is because he was paying attention to you by showing you that he like you at first. But you weren't interested in him at first, so since he stopped dropping hints and showing you that he likes you. You may think you ... (read in full...)

Had enough. What now? I'm honestly so ready to run, but I truly love my husband.

Q.   My husband and refuses to stand up for me when it comes to his crazy family. I was harassed during my husband's deployment. I have been through hell and back and defended my husband but I can't get the same in return. I always thought he would...

A.   22 November 2016: This is all so sad when I read your question and I am so sorry to hear that your husband isn't supportive or is defending you from his family at all. Like the bible says once a man leaves his family and marries his wife. They become a family ... (read in full...)

Would you leave your spouse if you thought they were cheating, or would you wait for evidence or proof?

Q.   Would you leave your husband if you thought he was cheating on you? Is that enough? Or would you need to obtain evidence/proof before leaving him? ...

A.   22 November 2016: Is there any proof to think he is cheating on you with a new someone? Does he come home at late hours? Does he text with someone from his phone other than you? You need to get your facts straight before you accuse him of cheating on you. If he ... (read in full...)

Is this normal? Should she keep some distance between her and the ex's family?

Q.   Started a new relationship with an old flame from my past. we are into our 6 month and very into each other. She now had a small child for a ex boyfriend and the ex is very unstable. lately the ex,s brother has started to show up visiting, at ...

A.   22 November 2016: I think that four years should be the time for your gf's ex to let go and really let her love in since she is currently dating you. As for the brother of the ex bf, he should really be respectful and not come over especially during late hours when ... (read in full...)

Everytime I turn around she needs money.

Q.   I am currently in a LDR and it has become frustrating how financially dependent she has become. We were in this situation when we lived in the same town, however, I was living at home and didn't pay any bills while working. Now I am living on my own ...

A.   22 November 2016: Is she a friend or gf? Just tell her you can't keep on avoiding to give her alot of money at all since you need the money to pay the bills since you live on your own. If she can't understand it then the relationship wasn't right to began with. ... (read in full...)

Am I "withholding love" and therefore being manipulative??

Q.   When my partner and I have a bad fight, she leaves for days, and I'm unable to display love. It feels fake if in the middle of everything I said "I love you so much" or "How are you doing, I miss you". I'm not withholding love as a punishment or to ...

A.   22 November 2016: I think couples do things differently when they fight with one another. But I think she took it so far when she call you a manipulater. It was so harsh and I can understand that you're hurting from her cold ice comments. The way you expressed ... (read in full...)

How do people get over being bullied? I can't get over this bullying experience

Q.   Hello Aunts. I am struggling to get over an experience which Is effecting my professional and personal life And I wanted to share with you. About a year ago I was working for what id call a "cowboy" firm. Bad accountancy practices, awful manageme...

A.   22 November 2016: I don't think what your manager or the worker should have decided to bully you at the cowboy pile job at all. And it wasn't right of them to read any of your personal emails out loud for anyone to hear. The job is suppose to be supportive t... (read in full...)

Why do men sexualize women this way?

Q.   Why are men so disgusting? I'm not trolling. From what I have seen of men, they are foul. They admit to looking at every woman as a sexual partner, imagining her naked... They think disgusting things. They use disgusting words when referrin...

A.   22 November 2016: I don't think all men think of women as a sexual prize at all but most do because sex is kind of important to the wrong men. Let me aso you this question, do you look at a man thinking he is a model from a Calvin Klein category or do you admire h... (read in full...)

How can I make co parenting work?

Q.   Does anyone have experience in co-parenting? I recently split from my boyfriend, and we have 2 children. Things ended pretty badly, but I've accepted that we're through. I think he's taking it a bit harder than I am, but as a mother, you don't have ...

A.   22 November 2016: I am so sorry that you have to go through it but like you said your two kids comes first. I know that your bf is being hateful to you right now and is sulking about the break up but he will get over it in his own time to reflect from the bruising of ... (read in full...)

Am I his re-bound girl?

Q.   He was in a long term relationship which broke down maybe 4-5 months ago. we have started talking online these past few weeks, but have been on each others social media pages since before the break-up ( just as friends or support) He knows i am her...

A.   22 November 2016: I will do what N91 and denizen say take it slow since he broke up with his ex gf and isn't looking to start up anything new yet. Just keep on being his friend still until he starts feeling better about the break up. It is good that you are there for ... (read in full...)

I've taken him back 3 times despite him having broken my trust, now I'm pregnant after a miscarriage and I feel he's straying again

Q.   I keep taking my boyfriend back time and time again after he cheats on me or hurts me, and I really don't know why. At first I took him back because I generally felt I was to blame. I'm saying it was my fault, but I did a few stupid things at the ...

A.   22 November 2016: I don't think you should blame yourself at all for all the times you two broke up and got back together. It isn't your fault at all. It is his fault for hurting you and cheating on you. I know it is hard to be a single mom but you need to think ... (read in full...)

I want him. How can I make him see that?

Q.   So its been six months since me and my guy broke it off. For the best part we were best friends, hot lovers and inseparable. We had silly arguments over my on-line life until he cut it off completely. How do I make him see its him I want....

A.   22 November 2016: Six months and you two broken up because of the silly arguments you two will have about your online life. Maybe he never wanted you to have people from the online life when you two were dating eachother. I think you need to let him go since all you ... (read in full...)

Sexting and video chat is not enough for me ...

Q.   So me and this guy talk but he lives like almost 3 hours away from me, and me and him sext all time but it's just not fun for me anymore... I feel bad because we can'r see each other and sexting is basically all we have... How do I make things fun ...

A.   22 November 2016: Sexting can be fun for awhile but it can get so tiring also. You two need to decide to either move closer to each other or end it since you two haven't been able to see each other but only to seXT with one another which was fun at first. Try a ... (read in full...)

My online girlfriend cheated on me.

Q.   So, my girlfriend and i have been together for about 2 years, because of her age and my age we never told our family the truth...that and we live a thousand miles a part and have only gotten to see each other twice. Well a month ago my girlfrien...

A.   22 November 2016: I don't think what she did was right at all by sleeping with this friend of the family at all even when you told her nor to do it without you. She was only acting incredibly immature when she did it when she and the friend were pretty drunk at ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't want to work on our relationship he just wants to please himself

Q.   Hello so i have a question i have been with my highschool sweet heart for 20 years things have not been good lately i have tried talking to him about how im feeling and maybe how we can fix our relationship but he says everything is fine with him ...

A.   22 November 2016: You need to say adios and leave you douche bag of a bf. You don't need to be with a guy who makes you unhappy. Cancel credit cards that you two have with one another. And move all assets to your account. Gather up your clothes and other items that ... (read in full...)

Our online relationship ...

Q.   I met this American guy online since August 2015 and we met in a famous dating site. Btw, I’m Asian and 23 years old and we are of the same age. First, it was just purely a friendly chat of random stuffs (we chat almost every day as long as we are ...

A.   22 November 2016: That story reminds me of my uncle when he first met his wife when he went to the Philippines a few years ago. He married another one before he married my step aunt. I would give him a chance. He really likes you more than a friend. You would no... (read in full...)

Why does she call me daddy?

Q.   I have a friend who is from South East Asia. She is 4 years older and I'm 25. I've known her for like 2 years now. She's always had this name that she calls me, I guess it's in her native language because I don't understand it. Recently thoug...

A.   22 November 2016: Maybe she thinks you two are doing a role play what wise owl and brown wolf both said. When you yelled at her or give her commandments it reminds her how you're acting like a father to her even though you are younher than her. And she really likes ... (read in full...)

I'm worried that my anxiety is making my job performance even worse

Q.   Dearest Aunts and Uncles, I would love to have some advice and any ways of coping or what to do please. To give you some background I work in the media and last year was at what I thought was the most amazing job, I was there four years and ...

A.   22 November 2016: Hi I am glad you ask what to do on this kind of experience on what to do since you are working with some people who don't treat you very well at your job. The first year is always good. Will you keep on working the job in Australia when you move... (read in full...)

I accidentally sent his ex a friend request and she accepted. I don't want to be friends

Q.   Here's my issue, I have been in a relationship for 6yrs, rocky sometimes, I found out he has been having chats with his ex, the problem now is I was on face book and came across her page I was curious to find out what she looked like but apparently ...

A.   22 November 2016: Can you ask him why did he Block you from his page when you two spend time together? I used to have a Facebook along time ago. I been Block by my ex friend's sister and her cousin also. Maybe he only Block you because you found his ex gf without him ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't want to work on our relationship he just wants to please himself

Q.   Hello so i have a question i have been with my highschool sweet heart for 20 years things have not been good lately i have tried talking to him about how im feeling and maybe how we can fix our relationship but he says everything is fine with him ...

A.   21 November 2016:  I didn't get to say that much but to point out that aunty bIm bI'm is right about what she wrote and also wise owl and n91 also. You don't need a man like your high school sweetheart who doesn't listen to you and your feelings at all. I know you ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't want to work on our relationship he just wants to please himself

Q.   Hello so i have a question i have been with my highschool sweet heart for 20 years things have not been good lately i have tried talking to him about how im feeling and maybe how we can fix our relationship but he says everything is fine with him ...

A.   19 November 2016: I agree with aunt blim BlIm. Since you are unhappy because the relationship is becoming stale sweetie. All he wants from you is sex. He doesn't want to go out at all or do anything with you like go out on dates. I will say adios to him and his ... (read in full...)

I accidentally sent his ex a friend request and she accepted. I don't want to be friends

Q.   Here's my issue, I have been in a relationship for 6yrs, rocky sometimes, I found out he has been having chats with his ex, the problem now is I was on face book and came across her page I was curious to find out what she looked like but apparently ...

A.   19 November 2016: I too been in your shoes last summer when my ex bf's ex gf was calling him all the time driving him, his family and me crazy by stalking him when she will call him and find on him on Google plus. But I am glad your bf did the right thing by ... (read in full...)

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