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... Send *V1 a private message | | | *V1's profile:Hi! My name is Devin, but my friends call me DV1. I currently live in Pennsylvania, USA. I'm currently in a serious relationship, and I've found that special someone... I've been in and out of relationships for many years. I've been lied to, cheated on, and lost friendships over relationships. I've found that I've taken many lessons from my experiences, and I want to use those experiences to help others. I'm just your average, run-of-the-mill guy, who sees himself as a hopeless romantic of sorts. I'm just lucky that I've found that special someone who doesn't get involved in drama, and just wants me for me. I want to help others find someone, or stay with someone who makes them feel appreciated. If I can cause at least one person on this planet to find or hold onto happiness, then my job here is done.
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Should I be upset about my Christmas present?
Q. Ok... I'm just wanting some opinions. Last year for our first Christmas, my boyfriend bought me some electronics. such as a DVD player and a Nintendo wii. (which was nice of him.) I know it was the thought that counts, I am more of a romantic person ...
A. 7 July 2013: The thing is... you ARE selfish. You can deny it all day long, but the only reason that you're actually apologizing is so that you can save some face and you realized that you no longer have him around your finger.... (read in full...)
I still haven't talked to him about us being in a relationship, it's just like we chill and have sex. So my question for you guys, should I talk to him about how I feel?
Q. I have been talking to this guy for a few months now. And the first time we officially chilled was on Christmas day. When we chilled, we did have sex. But before we chilled, it wasn't established what either of us were looking foe (like a ...
A. 1 May 2013: It's pretty much a moot point. You had sex with him first, so that's what you are to him... ... (read in full...)
Sex was bad with my ex. So why am I still fantasizing about him?
Q. Sex with my ex boyfriend was horrible…we had no chemistry…I was shy to tell hm what I wanted and he was also shy. Since our break up, I still fantasize about having sex with him every single day and imagine this to be good sex whilst i know he kills ...
A. 3 March 2013: You also might be thinking of how things could have been, had you communicated what you wanted... ... (read in full...)
Will he ever believe me?
Q. Hi my bf and I have been together for 10 months. From the beginning hes had control, jealousy,.and trust issues. They seem to be getting worse. He had my fb and hotmail passwords and yes he gave me his I looked maybe twice he was on my lots daily...
A. 24 February 2013: You need to get away from this guy, now! Change all of your passwords and get your life back!... (read in full...)
Still getting over breaking up with a girl I loved. Will I ever find love again? It's difficult for me to meet girls and I have few real friends.
Q. I am eighteen and was dumped a short while ago by a girl i loved to bits. I'm worried that I'll never find the right girl. I know im still a little young but im getting older. I'm just upset all the time because i have about three real friends. A...
A. 12 February 2013: Take time for you, and whatever is meant to happen will happen. For now, just live your life, and just be you. Someone will come along who likes you for you, and then things will fall into place... ... (read in full...)
Could it be that my boyfriend still loves his ex? He tells me he's slept with her several times since they broke up
Q. My boyfriend told me that he has slept with his ex several times since they broke up, she is the mother of his children. This has made me feel paranoid that this could happen again or that at least he still fancies her. I hate how this has made me ...
A. 12 February 2013: He never moved on, and he's not that interested in you. The best thing that you can do is end the relationship.... (read in full...)
Is he going to ask me to marry him? how would I know ahead of time if he is intending marriage?
Q. Is he going to pop the question....soon? Well here it is again he refers to my mom as MIL His mom gave me pictures of when he was little; he's asked me if he can be my daughters step dad? He's always talks of our future selling his current home...
A. 12 February 2013: Sounds like he's dropping hints left and right... ... (read in full...)
Should I look to date someone? Should I avoid it? Am I going about this all wrong?
Q. My last relationship ended 3 years ago. It's been kind of tough on me and despite seeing a few girls between now and then there weren't any that I even considered wanting to make my girlfriend. About a week after my ex and I broke up she started ...
A. 12 February 2013: You can't count on a relationship to fill the void of what's missing. The best thing that you can do is start working on yourself more. Take a trip, go out and do something, get some hobbies, go out and have fun... If you're still hung up on your ... (read in full...)
Guy at work who I really like. But we both have partners. Due to his actions should I change what I wear, so he does not get distracted?
Q. Hi well this is my first post on here so here it goes. There is this guy at work, whom I really like, but we are both with people. We have been flirting even though a friend has told me he's not worth it. Well today as I was walking out the o...
A. 12 February 2013: You said it yourself: you've been flirting. You've basically been disrespecting your current partner. It sounds like you don't know what you really want, and you probably should give your current boyfriend respect by breaking up with him. That way, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend married someone else a few weeks ago. Should I listen to his words that we could be together?
Q. my boyfriend got married to some other person few weeks back. He says they are not staying together, and he still tells me that he loves me and want to be with me forever and will marry me. i am not getting what to do I am not able to go away ...
A. 12 February 2013: If they just got married, news flash: they're staying together. You've got no choice but to move on.... (read in full...)
Was my Bf out of line for objecting to the discussions I had with my best girlfriend who is newly married?
Q. My best friend got married recently. I had a text chat with her regarding her sexual life and she told me about the things that happened between her and her husband. My boyfriend saw those chats and started fighting with me that how can I talk l...
A. 12 February 2013: Sounds like he's controlling and insecure... Also, what's he doing reading your phone?... (read in full...)
Why did ex mean when he said our relationship was bittersweet?
Q. what did my ex mean when he said this to me.. "what happened with us is bittersweet when you think about it" What does he mean it's bittersweet? I've been thinking about it and still don't know how it applies to our relationship and our brea...
A. 10 February 2013: It means that there were good and bad things... Obviously the bad outweighed the good in the end...... (read in full...)
Boyfriend now seems more interested in his XBox than me
Q. me and my boyfriend have been dating for 1 year and 10 months but for the past month or so he has been really distant. he always plays his xbox and always ignores me. im not to sure i feel the same way i have before. were in a long distance ...
A. 10 February 2013: Talk to him about it, and if he doesn't listen, don't waste your time...... (read in full...)
Do you think it's my place to tell a woman whom I do know that her husband is cheating on her?
Q. Recently, I've developed an unusual hobby of seeing how many married men in the area I live are cheating on their wives. I have always been a really great snoop and considered being a private investigator at one point. There is a site I found which ...
A. 10 February 2013: I would break the news to the wives, but be prepared for denial, and being accused of being a liar, and possibly being shunned in your neighborhood... Try doing it anonymously somehow... ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my gf that a mutual gay colleague tried it on with me?
Q. I work with with my girlfriend but at a work party last night our gay colleague tried it on with me. he told me he'd had a thing for me for ages and said he wanted to touch me. I told him I was flattered but that I am very close with my girlfriend. ...
A. 10 February 2013: You have no reason to feel guilty. You handled the situation like an adult, and because it's a mutual friend, I would definitely tell her. ... (read in full...)
I shared intimate pics with a woman on FaceBook, and now her boyfriend says he'll post them on the Internet. Worried sick ... what can I do?
Q. Hello I recently found a group on fb called [name removed by mod]. I thought it would be a bit of fun and added a girl I thought I liked the look of from the page. Without prompting she started telling me all kinds of sexual things and was as...
A. 10 February 2013: If you figure out where he's posting them, you can contact the site, and they're required to give you the poster's info, because you can't post without someone's consent...... (read in full...)
Afraid I may have led him on -- how to I gently make it clear that I just want to be friends?
Q. Hey I'm a 16 year old girl and in need of some advice, I think I may of lead on a guy, I really like him as a person and we have been flirting but I don't want it to go any further, even if I did like him I wouldn't want it to because there's a lot ...
A. 10 February 2013: You've got to let him know now. Just tell him outright, because trying to spare his feelings is going to make things a whole lot worse in the end... ... (read in full...)
My wife watches porn when I'm away!
Q. Im in desperate need of help and advice, i checked our pcs history the other day for wedding venue sites that i was interested in. I stumbled onto a porn site and one of the viewed searches was "f***ing while on the phone with your husband"!!! I was ...
A. 10 February 2013: If it was just a random porn site, I wouldn't have been concerned at all, but in this case, I definitely would be. You need to show her the history and ask her why she lied... Otherwise, this is going to be the beginning of the end... ... (read in full...)
She has started going on dating sites, in front of me. She tells me there is better than me out there. What should I do?
Q. I have lived with my girlfriend for 5 years. We have both decided against getting married and have no children (she doesnt want any). Everything has been steady and we have always got on. Over the past 6 months she has got into a twice weekly g...
A. 6 February 2013: She's insane. Get out of that relationship, because she's trying to get you to break up with her. You can do better. She thinks that you're insecure. It's time that you find someone who wants you for you, and isn't insecure herself. Find someone who ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my mum having a relationship with a married man?
Q. I recently found out that my mum has been having a relationship with a married man. My parents are divorced so its acceptable for her, but he is not. Also they are related to each other which i find very wrong. His children go to my school and i'm ...
A. 23 December 2012: Definitely talk to your mom. I'd tell her kids, too. They have a right to know... It could have a potential lasting impact on their lives... ... (read in full...)
Should I date a friend?
Q. I have developed a major crush on my friend of 2 years and I know he feels the same. What I don't know is whether he sees long term potential in us or he's just looking for a "right now" relationship. I know I could ask him but we are in that w...
A. 23 December 2012: Be careful... It can either be amazing, or go sour fast... It's very risky...... (read in full...)
My best friend has ditched me for a girl
Q. So I don't see many guys emailing with this problem so here goes. I've recently come extremely distant from my best mate. In fact alot of people "we" know don't even see him anymore. Since hes got this new gf hes changed so much and he doesn't seem ...
A. 20 December 2012: That happens over time. It sucks, but it's how it always plays out... Just move on with your life, find new friends, and if this person wants your time again, let him find you. Otherwise, it's his loss... ... (read in full...)
Should I be upset about my Christmas present?
Q. Ok... I'm just wanting some opinions. Last year for our first Christmas, my boyfriend bought me some electronics. such as a DVD player and a Nintendo wii. (which was nice of him.) I know it was the thought that counts, I am more of a romantic person ...
A. 20 December 2012: It sounds like you're being extremely selfish and are about what people get you instead of just loving the fact that he went out of his way anyway... Be appreciative of what you have, or walk away and let him find someone else that will appreciate ... (read in full...)
I'm confused, should I just move on from him or continue to hope for something out of this?
Q. I'll now summarize and update the situation. Please advice where I stand now or should I just forget abt the ass cause nth will come out of it. - met him online, ended up he's cooking dinner for first date at his house. Work caught up that's...
A. 20 December 2012: Yea, it's a little soon... If this was someone you'd been dating for a while saying that they wanted to cuddle, it would be cute, but it's not... He wants sex... ... (read in full...)
I'm confused and in love. What should I do considering my wife's attitude to our marriage?
Q. What is the true meaning of marriage? My wife wants us to remain married, but i cant have sex with her. I can touch her, but i can only get a kiss from her every once in a while. She left my for her lover and now is single and not dating. She ...
A. 20 December 2012: Time to get divorced. There is no saving that marriage. Put all of your money into a hidden place that's not paying for her lover and her's dates. She's using you for whatever she thinks you can continue to provide her. Put everything you have into ... (read in full...)
I need help understanding what hes wanting...or why he's acting like this.
Q. So my ex and I broke up a little over a month ago. He said that he just didn't have "time." But stil liked me..even said he "loved" me as a gf but didn't want a relationship. Of course I was hurt but we agreed to be friends. We continued texting for ...
A. 20 December 2012: It sounds like he cares but isn't really ready for a relationship, or might be confused about what he really wants... ... (read in full...)
My wife cheated on me with another woman. How can I attempt to start working out our marriage issues together?
Q. I have been away from my wife for 3 years now. we were together for 10 great years i thought. She had two kids before i met her, then we had a child to together. We had rough times here and there. From when we lost the house in a flood to losing...
A. 20 December 2012: Marriage issues? She cheated, and even if you guys reconciled, she'd do it again because she knew that she could get away with it.... (read in full...)
Why is he still lying? Yet begging to resume our relationship? Will he change or continue to go on dating sites if we get back together?
Q. I dumped my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago for going on dating sites and sex texting with girls. He could not even explain who these girls were, so I assumed they were from dating sites. He is still lying and says he never went on those dating s...
A. 20 December 2012: He's a piece of garbage. Don't waster your time on him.... (read in full...)
Sly comments, put downs and he doesn't seem to care unless he needs my help.Can this friendship become more satisfying and positive? How?
Q. There is this guy who I have known for quite a while at first he saw me as potential. But things began to change he didn't find me attractive nor his type an he kept stating we're "friends" I was cool about it. We instantly became best friends...
A. 20 December 2012: He doesn't care. I'd just move on.... (read in full...)
What did my girlfriend mean by this text message?
Q. My gf sent me this text and idk what she's getting at I'm a bit afraid to ask her because I get a bad vibe from reading it here's the text "Tummy, I don't want you to feel obligated to tolerate me ok? We aren't bound to eachother... Ok? o.o" oh she ...
A. 19 December 2012: I agree with Honeypie... She probably thinks that you pity her...... (read in full...)
Does she want to come back to me?
Q. My wife suddenly walked out on me 4 years ago without notice. She had her reasons and I was relieved after a year without her anger and her insanity after feeling incredibly hurt by her.My daughters think she's nuts and lived with me until 1 married ...
A. 26 November 2012: RUN AWAY!... (read in full...)
He said he wasn't ready, is this normal?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for a little over a month, and we are in college. I am 20 and he is 22. At first we mostly went out to bars together with his friends, and then i stayed over his place, but then we started hanging out at his appt with his ...
A. 26 November 2012: He's nervous. That happened when I was with someone that I really liked, and I had kinda nervousness going on... It's normal, and happens occasionally. You guys just need a little more time for him to feel comfortable with you... ... (read in full...)
Trying to strengthen our relationship has hurt her, what should I do?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for about 7 months. My previous relationship ended 4 months prior. (At the time prior to meeting my current girlfriend, I had already made up my mind to move on and get back in the dating world.) Unfortunately I found ...
A. 26 November 2012: You really messed up. You shouldn't have been in a relationship in the first place, because you brought major baggage. You shouldn't have got involved with someone if you didn't close the book on your last relationship. She's hurt because you ... (read in full...)
I want my ex girlfriend back in my life.
Q. so the problem is my ex gf who broke off with me 9 months ago started talking to me again after a month. I loved it, i loved her like crazy. When we started talking again, we tried to be just friends but did stuff that wasnt just friend ...
A. 26 November 2012: If she wanted you in her life, you would be there. Time to move on to someone else. If you need someone in your life, you need to look inwards to what's causing that need, and it's probably something that you feel you're missing in yourself... Stop ... (read in full...)
Does it mean something if a guy strokes your cheek?
Q. this happend twice once 3months ago I was out for dinner with friends and a friend said: we are somehow like smurfs...and then she said to me that I am tha baby smurf (because I am the youngest) and a male friend was sitting next to me and he was l...
A. 26 November 2012: Sounds like he's just a touchy guy... ... (read in full...)
Would you say it's essential to have a fascinated crush on someone before 'falling in love?
Q. I'm so frustrated - I can fancy a man at face value, with lust in the equation, and much prefer sex with the male body, but when it comes to infatuation, fascination, awe and nervousness etc., it's only women who I can get this with. It would be ...
A. 26 November 2012: Not at all. My sister hated her husband before they started dating... She thought that he was a jerk. He kept bothering her for a date, and after the 20th time she finally said ok to coffee. She realized that he wasn't really a jerk, he just acted ... (read in full...)
Are there enough signs here to indicate that he likes me?
Q. So I am really confused by this guy. We work together, and we spend a lot of our free time together too as we have the same hobby. I really like him, and I think he likes me, but I wonder after nearly 3 months why he hasn't made a move yet, and in a ...
A. 26 November 2012: He's probably just very friendly... I'm like that a lot... Touchy feely, outgoing and such... I wouldn't read anything into it... ... (read in full...)
Should my girlfriend and I just laugh off the weird noises during sex?
Q. Since our 1st time a couple of months ago me and my girlfriend are now enjoying regular intercourse.We've started moving our bodies more to increase the pleasure.What's started to happen though is my girlfriend has begun to release a pooping sound ...
A. 25 November 2012: Yea, if anything, laughing should make sex more fun... ... (read in full...)
I love him but I don't think hes right for me.. what do I do? should I let go?
Q. Im in a LDR and this guys has been acting not interested in me. he assures me he loves me but im starting to think hes not the right guy for me. I love him ever so much but i dont think i want to be with him anymore?...ever time i try spliting, i ...
A. 25 November 2012: He expected things to fail because he's continually been disappointed. It's not that he's not committed, it's that he's been hurt many, many times in his life, and is really scared to put himself on the line again. All he can keep thinking is: "what ... (read in full...)
What am I supose to do here ? Don't want to be a part time girlfriend.
Q. So im having some problems lately with my boyfriend that have escalated from his new job. Needless to say at the moment i am currently and unfortunatly unemployed something iv never experienced before as ive worked since i was 15. this is a trying...
A. 25 November 2012: It sounds like he's not trying to be in a relationship right now, plain and simple. He's happy right now because you do things at his whim, on his schedule, and he's got you wrapped around his finger. He's got no respect for you at this point, and ... (read in full...)
Can some one man-translate this for me please?
Q. This is about me and male colleague at work who we have hot cold sarky relationship i'm sure we fancy each other. today we went for a meeting , giggles on way there at meeting the head teacher flirting with him putting pen in mouth. to be hone...
A. 25 November 2012: He kinda... sounds like a scumbag... ... (read in full...)
I ended up in bed with my friend's dad last week. Should I tell her?
Q. Dear Cupid, I ended up in bed with my friend's dad last Thursday night. Basically, I do some secretarial work for him at his office a few days a week, and last Thursday night we were working late and after I joined him and a few of his colleague...
A. 25 November 2012: Yes, absolutely you should. It's going to come out anyway, so deal with the consequences now... Don't use the alcohol as an excuse though... ... (read in full...)
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