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Hola. Hmm... I'm not a therapist, in fact, I am completely unqualified to give anyone else advice. Nevertheless, certain issues occasionally grasp my attention. As a result, sometime I might feel compelled to do more than simply enjoy sunny Southern California and help those around the globe. Consequently, here you are, having to listen to my annoying input… sorry?

Men: the ideal body size for a woman?

Q.   Just was wondering do men really like woman that are skinny or do they like woman with some meat on there bones? Whats the ideal body size of a woman that men think is sexy....

A.   24 December 2008: Some men like their girls slim, some like them with a slim body and large breasts, or with a little junk on the trunk, or really petite girls that are slim and short. There is no ideal body size because every man has a different taste. Perhaps ... (read in full...)

Why are some girls treated like jerks and others like queens?

Q.   why do some guys treated some girls like dirt and others like queens? What's the difference? why do they hurt some girls feelings and not others. boys sensible answers no jerk like remarks needed!...

A.   24 December 2008: Like an apple on the ground, some girls are easy to acquire. Not coincidentally, they are also easily disposed of, or treated like jerks. However, a girl that respects herself, and is not easily acquired, like an apple at the top of the tree, wi... (read in full...)

I wantto have sex with my cousin

Q.   I am a 17yr old girl.My problem is that i love my cousin very much he is 26 yrs old.I want to make love with him.He is so handsome. He also knows my feelings for him. When ever i get a chance i watch him taking a bath.I really want him. My religon ...

A.   23 December 2008: In our culture, relationships with our cousins are very taboo, especially because we have these beliefs that these sorts of relationships will bring inferior children (which I believe are actually false). However, I think you should go with wha... (read in full...)

Hair? Or no hair? What is a guys preference?

Q.   I have a personal question. I currently have not had sex but I want to and soon. However, I was wondering do guys want a girl to have hair down there or not? I've read mixed opinions, and I'm just not sure if I should get rid of it or not, if you ...

A.   22 December 2008: This might sound crude, but its honest. All natural and full blown hairy is fine and beautiful with some guys (a small minority that I am a part of), but most guys nowadays love their girls to be as bald as 12 year olds. However, that does not me... (read in full...)

Pregnant and seeing somebody new - but my parents think he only wants sex. I'm saddened by this comment.

Q.   Hey guys..this problem is kinda conplex...but i really could do with some help... Basicly i'm 5 months pregnant with a perfect little boy who i already love to bits. The babys dad doesnt wanna know basicly...i've seen him twice since we found ou...

A.   3 July 2008: Approach carefully. Although a few men may appreciate pregnant women, they are very rare. Of those who do appreciate pregnant women, I believe for most men, that woman would be their spouse. I hate to say this to you, but I would estimate that th... (read in full...)

I'm attracted to my husband's younger brother and had sex with him. Why is this so wrong?

Q.   I'm a married woman in my 20s, I really love my husband. He's in his 20s also. We have a great sex life. Even so, I've been attracted to his younger brother (also in his 20s) since before we got married. Recently, his brother and I got a little ...

A.   3 July 2008: OK, I was harsh and I'll apologize. It was just that the sentence preceding the "kink" stuff was "why is extramarital sex like this so frowned upon?" Consequently, I interpreted kink to mean adultery. Nevertheless, I still don't know if you're g... (read in full...)

He sent me this email... opinions please?

Q.   I was dating this guy for 6 months and I'm 7 months pregnant and he left me for another girl and I don't know why. He is excited about the baby but doesn't want to be with me, can you read his e-mail and let me know what you think?dearest Miranda, ...

A.   3 July 2008: I think some more background information might be helpful to give you some opinions. For example, are you married, but were dating him anyways? From the email, it sounds like this is the main argument he uses to justify the split up. The oth... (read in full...)

How do I give a lap dance?

Q.   my boyfriend wants me to give him a lapdace......but i don't know how can anyone please help me...

A.   3 July 2008: As others have mentioned, learn by watching. Youtube is your friend. May I suggest you search "carmen electra aerobic". She did an entire workout video based on dancing, and quite a bit of clips have been uploaded, so that should be helpful.... (read in full...)

I'm attracted to my husband's younger brother and had sex with him. Why is this so wrong?

Q.   I'm a married woman in my 20s, I really love my husband. He's in his 20s also. We have a great sex life. Even so, I've been attracted to his younger brother (also in his 20s) since before we got married. Recently, his brother and I got a little ...

A.   2 July 2008: "everyone has some sort of kink" That's the part where you lie to yourself to rationalize your actions. You're trying to imply that everyone has extramarital affairs and I don't quite buy that. It would be fine for you and your husband to h... (read in full...)

I'm tired of being a virgin, maybe I should have just gone out with sluts and been more liberal. I think it's time for a change in values...

Q.   I´m a 23 year old virgen. I was brought up believing that saving virginity for marriage is the right thing to do. I believed in being patient, honest and faithful with my girlfriend. I believed in sacrafice and putting my partner´s feelings above my ...

A.   1 July 2008: Damn. Out of college now?, cuz there is tons of liberal girls in college. You can still have your fun though. Go out and date liberal girls, but remember to marry a conservative one. ... (read in full...)

What should I do since my parents don't trust me and my BF sleeping in the same room?

Q.   me and my new bf have been dating for a month and my parents still don't trust him sleeping in the same bed as me even if they are in the same room. what should i do since my parents don't trust me.please help...

A.   1 July 2008: Perhaps you can come to a compromise with your parents. I saw this movie called, "The Patriot." In it, Heath Ledger plays the role of a strapping young lad who has joined the militia. Meanwhile, he also has a love interest in a young woman, who... (read in full...)

My brother and his girlfriend had a baby. I want one so much...

Q.   ok my brother and his girl just had a baby and i love her dearly and i want one but you see im only 13 and they live far away so i dont get to see her that much and i really want one what should i do ...

A.   1 July 2008: I'm sure you'll be a wonderful mother (btw I'm single). Therefore, I think that if you want a baby, you should have a baby... but just wait another ten years. You'll have to settle for a puppy for now. But be not worried, puppies are great! I... (read in full...)

Second cousin has a crush on me. Could it be a problem?

Q.   yeah i have a 2nd cousin thats had a crush on me since we were little. i never really thought much about it but now im starting to get a crush on her... the problem is i dont know if she still likes me or how our friends and family would take it......

A.   1 July 2008: She had a crush on you when you were little... she probably doesn't still like you, as that would be a pretty long time to have a crush on someone. However, if you're wondering, the freaky biological offspring really only happens with immediat... (read in full...)

Do you guys think 18 is a bad age for marriage and kids?

Q.   do you guys think 18 is a bad age for marriage and kids? i mean like if you find the rite person to be with, have a career and ur partner has a job to fall back on.....

A.   1 July 2008: NO! You do not want to have kids at that age. You need to get yourself on your feet first. Get an education, a career, buy a home, save up some money, and then have some kids to fill up your home and spend your money.... (read in full...)

Is kissing before marriage okay?

Q.   I am 22 years old and three months ago I met a guy. I am still a virgin and in fact he was the first guy I kissed. I really liked him, but he behaved more like a friend and still we were dating. Some days ago we were kissing and when I told him that ...

A.   30 June 2008: Kissing is not the same. It is certainly a form of affection, but is not the same as having sex. Be happy with yourself, you held your ground when he said he loved you, hoping you would give in. In the end you kept your values and virginit... (read in full...)

I love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him, but my dad doesn't approve.

Q.   im 15 years old and i have a b/f that is 23 years old. i love him with all my heart. we've only been dating for 4 months and already i love him and wanna spend the rest of my life with him, but my dad dont approve. a lot of people think its weird bu...

A.   30 June 2008: Where does your relationship stand? You stated that he doesn't "just use me for sex either like most guys would." Does this mean you're active, but don't feel used, or that hasn't forced anything upon you? If he has, he can and should go to jail.... (read in full...)

How long do I have to wait for oral?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years - He has yet to finger fuck me or perform oral -I know it is not a problem with me cause other guys have loved to do it for me - He says he loves me but doesn't have to prove it that way - I say ...

A.   24 February 2008: Although I understand that he does not like oral, I still think your boyfriend is wrong. While this specific act shouldn't be required to "prove" his love, he should try to meet you half way to make sure you're satisfied as well. If he doesn't feel ... (read in full...)

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