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I feel like I'm second best in all this, to him. He chooses her over me. What can I do?

Q.   I'm in trouble I need help...my boyfriend and me had a girl as a friend but after I trusted her with everything..with the first bump (he thought I was cheating) this while I couldn't even handle any guy even relatives next to me..and she told him ...

A.   20 April 2013: Well no I do trust him, I just don't trust her, and now that he chose her over me I really don't know how to react. I really don't want to lose him. Question is why would he go out with her and never asked me to go to a club? Yet he went with her... (read in full...)

How to deal with being hurt in the past so it won't ruin my relationship?

Q.   I would like some serious advice on dealing with past trust issues. I've been in three major relationships. One of them ended because I broke up with her over her getting into some things I found unacceptable - drugs and self-destructive behav...

A.   5 February 2013: Got some tears in my eyes lol (for real) truly know how you feel but actually from "her" perspective my boyfriend also have that fear so don't feel alone there is nothing wrong with you that's normal to love someone but also care of yourself (to not ... (read in full...)

I never told my crush how I feel, and now he's moving to another country. Help!

Q.   Hi I'm a girl of 15.. I met a guy since the begining of last year. He is in my school bus but we are not in the same school. From the start I had not noticed about him, but after sometime he started to smile at me and so on.. and I really had a ...

A.   5 February 2013: it's like reading my own story. Don't worry: I fell hard wrote poems to him,about him even painted a portrait of him,never told him and not a soul, he really moved :-( I was crushed. Anyway please don't... (read in full...)

How do I forget about her and move on?

Q.   My question is how do I get over a hard love feeling ? I've been in love with her for period of 4 months but lately I discovered that she is in love with another man though she says she is still loving me at the same time she spend most of her time ...

A.   5 February 2013: Woman answering your q: This is a difficult one she says she loves you but doest want you to contact her, and you truly love her wow.. I would suggest you tell her your feelings and then just don't contact her that she could figure out on her own ... (read in full...)

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