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Hey folks!

Ive had a very rich life and learned many many lessons, both good and bad. I hope to give some good advice and also take some when needed.

Best wishes to all!

Duce

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Mad crush!

Q.   I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....

A.   14 November 2009: Dam, your right...certainly wouldn't want to confuse a positive emotion with bad food. After almost 40 years I still get giddy over almost anything. Thanks for bringing me down. That was a close one!... (read in full...)

Mad crush!

Q.   I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....

A.   14 November 2009: Dam! I am all warm and tingly inside now...getting ready to make a new "mad crush: post right now. ... (read in full...)

Mad crush!

Q.   I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....

A.   14 November 2009: Ahhh ya called my bluff! I was blowing a little hot air I admit. I would just like to waft a sincere apology your way for my rank attempt at being clever. All the fart jokes aside your one of my favorite agony aunts. You can dish it out as well ... (read in full...)

Mad crush!

Q.   I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....

A.   14 November 2009: Pooter? That word means like 3 different things in my experience... Ok... I will not argue with the fact that women generally have stronger intellects.Uhhhh golly geeeeee m'am could ya help me with your definition of "pooter". I am sure tha... (read in full...)

Mad crush!

Q.   I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....

A.   14 November 2009: Ohhhh dear Tisha...you jest too far...the only nocturnal cacophony that ever happens in my bed could hardly be mistaken for snoring. I sincerely hope that your quip is not a reflection of personal experience. Despite all the testosterone driven ... (read in full...)

Mad crush!

Q.   I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....

A.   12 November 2009: Aahhhh well, it all petered out like a bad episode of Bay Watch. I guess we can all go on to removing our asses from the computer chair, paying bills and feeding our families now. ... (read in full...)

Mad crush!

Q.   I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....

A.   11 November 2009: Hey Q...isnt "wind beneath my wings" a Bette Middler song from the movie Beaches? Its ok man...I cried at that one too. Why cant we just get some respect for our sensitive side? These women just see us as another witty clown at the circus. ... (read in full...)

Mad crush!

Q.   I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....

A.   11 November 2009: Dammm Q! You had me all inspired by the erotic value of a strong breeze and a mechanized female operator. Web cams are so trashy and below men like you and me. Lets help bring all this banal flirting up a few notches eh? ... (read in full...)

Mad crush!

Q.   I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....

A.   10 November 2009: Awwwww come on eyes...you never left for a second. Quit playing hard to get!... (read in full...)

Mad crush!

Q.   I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....

A.   10 November 2009: Hi girls! Me and Q are having a BBQ this Friday night and would love all of you to come. There will be plenty of kielbasa to go around and we will be wearing kiss the cook aprons (and nothing else). Hope to see you there! 815 12th Street Huntsvil... (read in full...)

Mad crush!

Q.   I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man....

A.   10 November 2009: I absolutely get crushes on the ladies here too sometimes! Awwww come on, isn't it only natural? We bare ourselves to each other in ways we wouldn't normally in our day to day lives. We can speak honestly without fear and false pretense. I don't ... (read in full...)

Please give me some lunch gift ideas!

Q.   Hi, I need some quick suggestions. Me and my husband has been invited by one of my colleagues and wife for lunch tomorrow at his residence. I have no idea what I should bring with me as a gift. Specially since it is a lunch and because i don't know ...

A.   10 November 2009: I think wine is OK too. The brand I like is Barefoot. Its on the lower end for price but a surprisingly good quality. Because it is lunch I would go for a white. Their Zinfandel is good but if you can find their Moscato it really is a fun wine... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend does not want to have sex with me !!!

Q.   Im 17 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend does not want to have sex with me at all. I tried talking to him so he can tell me what are his concerns or fears and come up with a solution. But when i asked his answer was " i dont know" and walked away. th...

A.   10 November 2009: It seems like you have more going on here than sex and pregnancy. While I may be digging a little too deep, may I ask why you are having a second child with him and yet you guys are not married? It seems like that may be a more accurate indicator of ... (read in full...)

My boyfriends love of butts makes me insecure!

Q.   I have a petite butt, small and a bit flat comparing to most women. My boyfriend said he loves my butt and he can't seem to keep his hands off of it. I'm just wondering why he seems to love my butt when my butt is smaller and not as nice as most ...

A.   10 November 2009: Ahhh the butt...such a wonderful part of the female anatomy! Like most guys my favorite female butt in the world is the one I can grab on a regular basis. The day you have to worry is the day he does not relish touching your booty. Sounds l... (read in full...)

Disagreement with girlfriend. Is now a good time to send flowers?

Q.   I'd been going out with a girl for a little while but we ran into a rough patch. We're both in our mid-30's. We both have said we care for each other and hope to work it out. She was just about to go on vacation for a couple of weeks and we ...

A.   10 November 2009: Hey again, replies are coming in kinda out of order I guess, didnt see your first update. I still think the email idea is best in this case. I dont want to talk when I am pissed off either but emails are great because the receiver has time to ... (read in full...)

Disagreement with girlfriend. Is now a good time to send flowers?

Q.   I'd been going out with a girl for a little while but we ran into a rough patch. We're both in our mid-30's. We both have said we care for each other and hope to work it out. She was just about to go on vacation for a couple of weeks and we ...

A.   10 November 2009: She could just need a break from you. Flowers might not send the right message either. This sounds like a good time to step back and get your head right on what is going on in your relationship. Once you have done that maybe you could send her a ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is the only woman I've slept with. Will I regret having missed out when I'm 50?

Q.   I have been with my GF since I was 18. Now I'm 28. I've never had sex with anyone else. Lately, I'm finding myself very tempted by many women I see and finding myself capable of getting their attention. When I'm 50, will I regret never being wi...

A.   10 November 2009: I think the fact that you actually verbalized this to your girlfriend is kinda cool. Sounds like you don't have to worry about her being horribly insecure (that can be rare). My take on the whole "variety theory" is that if you are with a woman wh... (read in full...)

My bf is going to see his ex...and I am not happy!

Q.   My boyfriend is perhaps going to meet up with his ex as friends. Am I in my rights to say I am not at all happy about it. Or is this asking for the whole "choose me or her" thing. Help. And girls, please tell me how you'd feel and what you do, and ...

A.   10 November 2009: If you are sure that there is nothing there with the two of them and he was totally honest with you about everything, then consider it a reflection of good character on his part. Remaining civil with an ex is a good thing in many circumst... (read in full...)

Do men want a woman to take charge in the bedroom?

Q.   do men like a girl to take control in the bedroom department? i mean what do guys like a girl to act like a sergent major screaming at them to do certain things or do men like girls who let them take over? i like the man to take control most of ...

A.   10 November 2009: You are never going to figure out ALL men any more than we will figure out ALL women. There is no perfect answer to a question like this. What I can say is that me and most men I know like a woman who can be dominant and submissive. Every ev... (read in full...)

I cheated so why isn't my wife angry?

Q.   I had an affair. She ended it. I was no longer in love with my wife. The situation wasn't fair to either of us, so I told her everything and that I was ready to leave (she'd had her suspicions). She broke down and couldn't really function, so I ...

A.   10 November 2009: Baby Duck laid it out quite nicely. Seeing as you have a lot going on and are rather self absorbed right now I will summarize in a simple manor, hopefully you will start taking some effective action for her sake. 1-Get your wife some counseli... (read in full...)

Older women? Should I date one?

Q.   I'm 30, I had a woman give me her friend's phone number (the friend had liked me for some time). This was in the supermarket where I worked at the time. This woman was 35. I was also asked out by a 39 year old woman. What should I do? Is it ok to go ...

A.   10 November 2009: Mid 30's women are great! I remember mid 20's women well and haven't missed a thing about them. One thing you might want to do is make sure you are up to the task on mental and emotional maturity though. They have been to the circus and seen the... (read in full...)

I am afraid to marry her, yet also afraid to flush 5 years of my life down the toilet.

Q.   I will try to be brief. I have been dating my girl friend for almost 5 years, 4.5 of which she has lived with me. We've gone through many ups and downs as all relationships do, but more and more I dread the thought of spending my life with her as a ...

A.   9 November 2009: OK...before anything you need to PM me, I know this situation very well. Here is the basic fact you must face, and listen closely... YOU WILL NEVER MAKE HER HAPPY This is why you feel you are having your soul sucked out of you. I used that ... (read in full...)

Can high ambition be a turn off for women?

Q.   Hello, If I could just ask the females if they think having too much drive and ambtion is major turn-off, that would be great! I recently dated about 2 women in the space of 2 months, but it didnt work out! I think is becuase I have grand plans fo...

A.   9 November 2009: I rather doubt that you will be able to put in the effort required by most women for a quality relationship and that is OK as long as you don't fool them about it. It is a really good thing to use this time in your life to make great accompli... (read in full...)

Is my wife is cheating on me.... again?

Q.   recently my wife went back to school and the first couple weeks she called me and wanted me to bring her lunch if I could, but the last couple weeks she ignores me all day and says she is too busy and tells me not to come up with lunch. She has also...

A.   9 November 2009: It sounds like you are afraid to be direct with her and open up old wounds. I imagine it is a bad subject to bring up considering your own past as well. I was hoping to hear something in your post about anything positive in your marriage so that ... (read in full...)

How can I regain my self worth and self esteem?

Q.   I really dont know how to put this into words except to say that with my current partner of 14 month, I have just lost it... My husband died alsmost 3 years ago. I never thought that at age 50 I would find someone who matched me so well again. ...

A.   8 November 2009: You haven't lost it at all! Take it from a man who knows loss and betrayal and being a complete sucker just like you. All you are doing is removing your head from your rear right now! I was widowed at 34 and I got involved with a very charming... (read in full...)

I want to wait to get married, but she wants it now.

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend for almost three years, I'm a really bad person because I lied to her, we got engaged then a year later I said I didn't want to get married, I have a habit of oppressing my feelings, I don't open up or say how I really ...

A.   8 November 2009: You are not a bad person your just trying to have your cake and eat it too. I think most people do that in some way despite what ever they may say. Marriage is a very big deal and women are biologically programmed for commitment. She is probably... (read in full...)

I've very shy and quiet.. any tips?

Q.   I'm extremely shy and quiet. I'm in my mid 20's, which is also embarrassing because most people outgrow this stage by now. Some people may think I'm cold or unfriendly or serious, but I'm really just shy and quiet. I stink at making small talk. (I ...

A.   8 November 2009: It is ok to be yourself, shy or not. Frankly a woman of few words can be a little refreshing sometimes. (sorry ladies but you have to know that there is some truth to that). I think your real problem is beating youself up. You would probably... (read in full...)

My brother asked me to look at his because to judge its size

Q.   My older brother asked me if I could look at his erect penis and tell him what I thought about its size. I know he is really self conscious about it and I just wanted to help him out. I've seen his dick before when we were really young. But never ...

A.   8 November 2009: OK...that is definitely a new spin on the dick size insecurity issue...If this is a real post tell your brother to get a dammed ruler like every other guy in the world has. If this is a big chain yank... CONGRATULATIONS!!! You have won th... (read in full...)

I need to get him out of my head forever. How do I get rid of his so-called "friendship"?

Q.   I am so upset by this so please no horrible answers. My ex friended me on facebook-i hadnt seen him for 4 years-it was to tell me he had got married. We were due to get married but it ended really badly because he barely showed any love or care-i o...

A.   7 November 2009: I understand your position very well because I have been there too. For myself and maybe you too, it is hard to extract yourself from the relationship completely because you romanticize the good times in the back of your head. People who are ... (read in full...)

I think I've lost the love of my life

Q.   please help, ive lost the love of my life, ive scared her off, im in love with this girl we have known each other for a couple of months she is definitely interested but i told her that i love her and she has started to pull back and i dont know ...

A.   7 November 2009: People behave rather oddly around the subject of love if you haven't noticed. I think some women are more interested in being an object of affection rather than being in love. While she might not have this kind of issue it is something to keep in ... (read in full...)

What do you think he meant by the kiss on my forehead?

Q.   I finally hung out with a guy that i have been talking to for the last couple of months. i realized i have a crush on him:) when we were leaving he gave me a hug a kiss on the cheek and one on my forehead. i was just wondering what people think of a ...

A.   7 November 2009: On the serious side: I think he wanted to kiss you on the lips but might have thought it was a little too soon. He may have also been unsure about how receptive you would be. You did say that it wasn't until recently that you recognized your ... (read in full...)

I'm married but want to have an affair with a married man..

Q.   Please everybody I really just want answeres from MEN. Please, all men out there reply to this. I am happilly married and i know a guy who is also happily married, I have never cheated on my husband but I want to cheat now. I want to have hot...

A.   7 November 2009: "I" think the outcome of this is going to be bad regardless of what the poster has between their legs. "I" think deception is gender blind. "I" would advise some therapy ... (read in full...)

Read this email message and tell me what you think!

Q.   I found a message in my husband's email. It was from the owner of a company he has done some work for (who is a male), and he has an email address at that company i just became aware of. He has been hiding all of this from me. The message ...

A.   5 November 2009: Sounds off to me too. I have guy friends and we can make funny gay grab ass kinda jokes sometimes but it never sounds like hurt feelings. The kind of jokes we make are very off color and politically incorrect. Its the kind of thing I would never ... (read in full...)

Should I ditch this engagement? After what she did with this guy?

Q.   I need help. I just found out my fiancee cheated on me a little while ago. I don't know if I should marry her or not. I'm real pissed off and upset, but I love her, but this is not acceptable. I'm a believer in that 2 people who are in love and ...

A.   5 November 2009: On the serious side...DUDE! WHAT ARE YOU THINKING?? On the lighter side...go ahead and marry her. Its only your kids and your house and your dignity at risk. Lots of men recover from having theyre hearts ripped out and stomped on while they lay... (read in full...)

I'm 13 years old and have dating and kissing questions.

Q.   Ok i need help!!! im 13 and never benn kissed. And everyone else i my school has already have a boy-friend . Ok this guy i like him but my best friend likes him too!! but i think he likes me not her .... and the way i know it is because he ...

A.   5 November 2009: OK... I know you don't want to hear your dad talking down to you on this site but there are a couple things that may at least keep you from getting started on the wrong foot as you start to interact with boys. First off boys don't belong in the g... (read in full...)

I would really like to talk to her and get to know her, but I don't know how.

Q.   I live in an apartment complex and these past few months I have noticed a girl about my age around. Sometimes when I walk my dog I saw her go to her car. I would really like to talk to her and get to know her, but I dont know how. With winter ...

A.   5 November 2009: So you are nervous about being clumsy with a girl. Dude! That will come up for the rest of your single life! Welcome to the club! Its good that you are open to making friends. Female friends are a great thing, they will let you in on how women th... (read in full...)

The last thing I wanted was a sexless marriage!

Q.   i was three months pregnant when i married in december. i can count on one hand the amount of times i have had sex in the last 10 months. i feel desperate to have sex but my husband is always too tired and would prefer to watch tv. i am back to my ...

A.   4 November 2009: Sounds like you need an honest conversation with him. Look into erectile dysfunction and do some home work on male libido in addition to the responses you get here. Try approaching this logically rather than emotionally. My feeling is that it is not ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my ex-husband, even after 9 months!

Q.   how do i stop loving my ex and the father of my 2 children? its been 9months sice we finished and im still head over hells in love with him, i asked him move out because he stopped all affection towards me we were like 2 flat mates instead of a ...

A.   4 November 2009: You sure can get over him! You will need to start living your own life. Sure you are a single parent now but that does not make you a prisoner in your life. I know from experience. Consider this the beginning of a new life for you. Sure there wi... (read in full...)

I am tired of this woman texting my husband with her problems!

Q.   my husband continues to be friends with a woman that i don't approve of. i told him several times that she wants more than that,but he says i'm just jealous. everytime she has drama in her life she text him at least 15 to 20 times and believe me is ...

A.   4 November 2009: A self respecting man would never tolerate his woman doing this and that should go both ways for a pretty dammed good reason. Its totally disrespectful and a form of being un-faithful like R&B said. I don't put much focus on the woman because ... (read in full...)

Is it too soon for me to stay the night?

Q.   I've been seeing a fantastic woman for 3 1/2 months now. She is in the process of divorcing ,and has 2 kids, aged 16 and 18. They still live in the marital home.The problem is my girlfiend feels awkward me staying the night because of the c...

A.   3 November 2009: You wait until she is comfortable welcoming you into her family before she lets you spend the night in the same house as her kids. Pretty simple. If she is really a catch and you see a real future with her you should make an attempt at building... (read in full...)

My ex keeps contacting me. What is she playing at?!

Q.   havne't heard from the ex in 2 weeks. I've dropped off the face of the earth and avoided her. Sunday night i get the text message. "I have a book, movie, and a bowl belonging to you. Let me know if you want them". She has had these items for over a ...

A.   3 November 2009: You are on the right track I think. This woman is a game player by all accounts. Just keep steering clear and your head will clear up. Her games have worked on you in the past and to be fair that is your own fault. Don't take it wrong my boy, you ... (read in full...)

Do you think that he is texting in the hope we get back in contact and get back together?

Q.   hi me and my boyfriend broke up two weeks ago, i didnt want it to happen but he said it had too due to him needing to sort out his life. he has a lot of debts plus we live some distance apart. he told me that the decision will haunt him for th...

A.   3 November 2009: I think you are both in the throws of some rather typical breakup pain. Your opinions about his behavior are probably accurate. But I will also say that his stated need to sort out his life is also accurate. Yes, he misses you and still loves yo... (read in full...)

What does a belly-button piercing symbolize? Advice from those under 20.

Q.   I’m looking for input from the under-20 crowd here about just how piercings are perceived. My 14 year-old daughter is anxious to get one. The first negotiations were for her nose, but lately it’s been for her navel. I’m old and stodgy, and have...

A.   3 November 2009: Two things are coming to mind here. Before I weigh in, I must say I am 39 and a single father of a 12yr old girl. Dis-qualifiers?? Maybe... First thing I think you are up against is the age old battle we parents have at home to keep our children... (read in full...)

My wife refuses to give me oral pleasure because it's "degrading" but expects me to give it to her!

Q.   My wife says that giving oral sex is degrading, so she refuses to do it. However, she expects me to give her oral pleasure every time we have sex. I have since stopped giving her oral sex. She says I am acting like a spoiled child. If that is the ...

A.   3 November 2009: I guess I will go ahead and give the first male opinion here. Sometimes I wish my capacity for fluffing reality and co-signing this kind of behavior was better but you wouldn't really be helped by that kind of smoke up your ass now would you? ... (read in full...)

How can I convince my boyfriend to stop stressing about my health?

Q.   I don't know what's going on. Ever since my boyfriend found out that I'm about 20 pounds underweight, he has been a bit over-protective than usual. I've explained to him that my doctor has put me on a good diet and I should gain some weight in the ...

A.   3 November 2009: Men are by nature protective of they're woman. You will never change this and lets be honest, it is very endearing if its is not totally psychotic. Much the same as how women's nurturing quality is absolutely wonderful but can be a nightmare when ... (read in full...)

I feel men lack a moral compass

Q.   I have issues with men and am not really sure what else can be done. I dont like feeling this way and dont hate men but I simply feel that the majority of them lack a moral compass. I look around the world and see rapes and murders daily on the news ...

A.   3 November 2009: Very eloquent R&B. I have gotten more wisdom from my dog than most of the people around me (no joke). Thats not even a diss on people as much as its a compliment to my dog. I wish more women were like dogs! ... (read in full...)

Why are men so reluctant to commit?

Q.   Guys, please help me out here. Since, my divorce I have had two relationships with commitment phobic men. Why are men afraid to commit. Is it that there are so many pretty , smart,successful girls to choose from? What makes a guy chose one girl over ...

A.   3 November 2009: Feel free to PM me. I dont want to get way off topic with this thread but it would be nice to share our tales and compare notes. ... (read in full...)

Why are men so reluctant to commit?

Q.   Guys, please help me out here. Since, my divorce I have had two relationships with commitment phobic men. Why are men afraid to commit. Is it that there are so many pretty , smart,successful girls to choose from? What makes a guy chose one girl over ...

A.   3 November 2009: Thanks for the good wishes. We are getting along just fine. Being a single parent is very challenging as you know and it really puts a different spin on the points being made here. By the way I am widowed not divorced. Only one marriage and one ... (read in full...)

Why are men so reluctant to commit?

Q.   Guys, please help me out here. Since, my divorce I have had two relationships with commitment phobic men. Why are men afraid to commit. Is it that there are so many pretty , smart,successful girls to choose from? What makes a guy chose one girl over ...

A.   2 November 2009: Yeah Mr.Q! You big meanie! I was stuffing my foot in my mouth way before you came along! Get in line mister! This post really hit a nerve for me as it did for alot of other folks. R&B2, I have to apologize to you for taking the brunt of some of ... (read in full...)

Am I shallow because I like men, based on their looks?

Q.   I need some advice/opinions/anything on this issue I have. As long as I can remember I’ve been really attracted to blond/blue eyed/boyish looking men (Brad Pitt when he was young, Jensen Ackles, Patrick Wilson type guys). I’ve ‘chased’ a few guys in ...

A.   2 November 2009: I like the blond dye for your BF idea! Seriously though, are you just admiring Gods handiwork when you look at these guys or are you having an involved fantasy life involving these men? That is the determining factor I think. Men are notor... (read in full...)

Should I tell him about my past with this other guy?

Q.   I have been "talking" to a scorpio guy I like for a couple months now, but we aren't together in any way. We have hung out 3 times away from work, and we both have feelings for each other. Before me and him met, I had a sexual relationship with a ...

A.   2 November 2009: What Sis said and one more thing. You really shouldn't date or screw where you work for what should now be obvious reasons. ... (read in full...)

Why are men so reluctant to commit?

Q.   Guys, please help me out here. Since, my divorce I have had two relationships with commitment phobic men. Why are men afraid to commit. Is it that there are so many pretty , smart,successful girls to choose from? What makes a guy chose one girl over ...

A.   2 November 2009: Welcome to the single parent club. I have been on my own with my daughter for 5yrs too. As another single parent who had to learn some of the same things, here are a few things I learned. -Do not introduce you child to anybody you date until y... (read in full...)

I feel men lack a moral compass

Q.   I have issues with men and am not really sure what else can be done. I dont like feeling this way and dont hate men but I simply feel that the majority of them lack a moral compass. I look around the world and see rapes and murders daily on the news ...

A.   2 November 2009: Gosh, I am really sorry to be this blunt but do you really think that the reason YOU are single is because so many men have broken moral compasses? My moral compass is in pretty good shape and one of the its functions is detecting women who are ... (read in full...)

Why are men so reluctant to commit?

Q.   Guys, please help me out here. Since, my divorce I have had two relationships with commitment phobic men. Why are men afraid to commit. Is it that there are so many pretty , smart,successful girls to choose from? What makes a guy chose one girl over ...

A.   2 November 2009: I know I came off rather charged up but I am glad you could see my point. I will be honest about what runs through a mans head regarding commitment. I imagine it is similar for women but obviously with different priorities. Most men want... (read in full...)

Why are men so reluctant to commit?

Q.   Guys, please help me out here. Since, my divorce I have had two relationships with commitment phobic men. Why are men afraid to commit. Is it that there are so many pretty , smart,successful girls to choose from? What makes a guy chose one girl over ...

A.   1 November 2009: Such a great post and the responses have been quite interesting. I hope the poster takes my 2 cents in the spirit of blatant honesty rather than disgruntled anger at some of the respondents. What I found highly amusing in all this was how many... (read in full...)

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