What is the average age to lose your virginity?
Q. what is the average age to lose your virginity? it's just that i'm a 20 year old male and i haven't had sex ever. yet when someone asked when i lost my virginity and i said i hadn't they called me a weirdo. am i quite old not to have had sex?...
A. 26 August 2007: Ahh yes the peer pressure to be a sexually active guy. Sure your friends may be active and sure the TV is telling you to go out and be a stone cold player, even society at large makes it seem like you should be getting down all day long in your ... (read in full...)
Scarily, it felt someone was trying to sleep with me, my brothers deny having approached my bed but I have suspicions of the older brother!
Q. I'm freaked out a bit. I share a room w/ 2 brothers - a 19 year old and a 16 year old. I'm 17 and female. Last night, i felt someone near my bed, and it felt like someone wanted to sleep w/ me. I had my blanket over me... and i opened my eyes ...
A. 26 August 2007: I'd listen to Liz!
Shes totally right. Boys have raging hormones at that age and are very prone to poor sexual decisions. I never made really bad mistakes in my youth but as a grown man I can atest to how difficult it is to deal with that kind of s... (read in full...)
Is there anything wrong with my boyfriend having harmless sexy chats with other men as long as they aren't leading anywhere?
Q. Advice needed!!! I've been with my boyfriend now for nearly a year. We both go on things like msn, facebook and myspace but I've noticed that whenever he's on it when I'm there he'll quickly hide his messages or close them down very quickly. F...
A. 26 August 2007: There isnt any grey area here my friend. Its just wrong. It cant be said any more plainly. I do have a question for you though, because you arnt actuly addressing the real situation. Why do you accept and play along with this? Its not enough t... (read in full...)
I'm using hard objects to masturbate, is this damaging??
Q. I use hard things to masturbate like mobile...i use hard ones to reach orgasm that i can' t reach with fingering. May this damage my virginity? may these hard things have a bad effect on my vagina? can they lead to an infection ?...
A. 26 August 2007: Id take hlskitten's advice. Youre just asking for an infection, or even worse. A serious infection can cause alot of problems with the female anatomy. Ive seen it cause big problems, you really dont want that! ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin. He's convinced me to have sex, I'm nervous, any tips???
Q. hi guys,well I'm a teenager and i have a great bf i no I'm under aged but he has kind of convinced me to have sex with him.i was just wandering because it's my first time and I'm slightly nervous any tips on how to actually have sex?i no that sounds ...
A. 26 August 2007: My advice is a little more blunt and life like than the previous one. I hope you can understand because Im a father of a young girl and Ive seen the effects of underage sex many many times. First off, this boyfriend cant be so great if he is m... (read in full...)
My girlfriend of a year has just found out i'm on probation, shes angry. What d i do?
Q. My girlfriend of a year just found out I was on probation. Shes mad I didn't tell her. What should I do?...
A. 26 August 2007: Hmmmm...you didnt say what you were on probation for. This avoiding the truth thing is a real problem for you isnt it? OK, so if your on probation for dealing drugs and running prostitutes your problem with your girlfriend is kinda minor. You will... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has opened a "man seeking woman" account in the Internet. We are planing to move together in December, should I confront him?
Q. Is is ok for my bf to open up a personal account "man seeking woman" on the internet? We've been dating 3 years on a long distance relationship, well we we lived together for a year and now he has moved away again (work related) a couple of months...
A. 26 August 2007: I think you said it best yourself... "I am starting to think that he does not love me, and that he just want to play around." Hmmmmm... ya think??? Grrrrrr this is the kind of guy that gives men a bad name and it really pisses me of quite frankly... (read in full...)
I met him a dating site but am i being played or is this guy scared?
Q. Am I being played, have I been played, or is this guy scared? I met a guy on a dating site, we began immediately talking by phone, we "clicked" and he called me almost every day, living two hours apart. Both busy, but him working two jobs and a t...
A. 26 August 2007: Sorry, but he doesnt sound good. Id move on if I were you. If you want meaning and love I cant see how youd find it with this guy.... (read in full...)
My husband is deployed and I'm all mixed up! What should I do?
Q. I'll try to keep this short. I feel like the most selfish person in the world for even asking this question, but it's really been bothering me. I'm just looking for people's opinions on this, even if what you think isn't all that nice. Thanks for...
A. 26 August 2007: I think theres a few factors here. Remember that many people feel a sense of loss after marriage. Not the next day but within the first couple years. It can be a let down when you find that your both just human and lifes demands start creeping in. ... (read in full...)
Can I get on the pill even though I am only 15?
Q. I will be 16 in about 5 months. I dont want to wait to have sex with my boyfriend of almost a year until then but under no circumstances will i have sex without doubling up on contraception. So my question is, will the doctor give me a prescription ...
A. 26 August 2007: You can go to planned parenthood and get the pill. You should seriously consider the road your headed down first. The women I know who had sex that early all wished they had waited. The temptation is strong but its not all its cracked up to be. What ... (read in full...)
I can't help thinking about his four one night stands from the past, it displeases me...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I'm his first official partner, he has a dark past. Anyways, he's had four one night stands before and am a virgin, I really don't know what to do, he hasn't pressured me into having sex and ...
A. 26 August 2007: I respect your moral fiber. You have kept your virginity longer than most do and thats somthing to be proud of. That being said: Simply because many people have to learn by theyre mistakes before they understand the value of manogomy and fulfilling ... (read in full...)
Is it normal when ive got an erection my penis doesnt point to the ceiling???
Q. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-this-normal-that-my-penis-doesnt-stand.html I found this on this site and my case basically exactly matched his. Although I have heard something about suspensory ligament damage. When I was young I didn'...
A. 26 August 2007: Hey Bing,
Sorry if I cant help but be a little humorous on this subject but Im still chuckeling over your comment about
"When I was young I didn't really masturbate properly". Man! Where was that handbook when I was a teenager?
Ok a little more ... (read in full...)
My guy doesnt seem to want me to swallow during oral, what are your thoughts?
Q. When giving oral pleasure, my man always makes me get out of the way when he is going to climax and not swallow. After he produces, he points to the wet spot and says, that it is gross. I don't feel that way. I think it is normal part of the act....
A. 26 August 2007: My experience on this is I was only turned off if she wanted to kiss me right away afterwards. Cuming on my woman would have been weird...like I was tring to be a porn star or somthing. Thank god they never had an issue with this. I think its only ... (read in full...)
I'm 11 and all my friends have had dates, but not me, should i make the first move?
Q. im 11 and all my friends have had dates im not pretty or skinny so no boys have asked me out on a date yet. should i make the first move and ask a boy out?...
A. 26 August 2007: Hi Zena, I was a little unsure about responding because I know Im gonna sound like your Dad. I have a daughter whos 10 and I can see some of this happening with her too. Its really hard when you feel left out or left behind. You see other people... (read in full...)
I'm 25 and i keep losing my erection. Whats happening???
Q. Hi, I'm a 25 year old bloke and recently got my first serious girlfriend.I am also a virgin - well kind of. The problm is whenever we try and have sex i lose my erection. This has never been a problem during mastrubation!! This is really...
A. 26 August 2007: Ok..heres one guys advice Ive had this happen a few times before too (yes even in my 20's). Im 37 and I understand what was going on alot better now. #1 is being relaxed, confident and feeling good about sex and the person you are with. If I had a... (read in full...)
My husband always puts me down, and now ive had enough, need some advice please..
Q. Can't get past it.... Recently I told my husband about his constant pointing out my "faults". Over the last three years he has repeated the same sentiments or arguements have started that began with something that he felt I should be doing ...
A. 26 August 2007: My advice may be completely off base but Ive dealt with abuse before and heres what I did. STOP TAKING THE CRAP!! This doesnt mean fighting it just means take pride in youself and dont let it be somthing that is dished out to you at theyre discre... (read in full...)
My brother sexually abused me as a child, will this affect my future relationship?
Q. How can i know that i'm ready for a sexual life with the one that i love if i tell you that i've gone through a sexual abuse when i was a child by someone so close to me, my brother. when i remember that i disgust sex ,do you think that i'll enjo...
A. 26 August 2007: This is a tough situation and I think you should take a therapists advice over mine or most anybody elses. That being said I will tell you my experience. Ive been in serious relationships with 2 women who have been sexually abused. One was a 5 yea... (read in full...)
My ex wants to meet up, she's with someone new but calls him boring. Should i meet up with her?
Q. Another EX-File... THE BACKROUND: I broke up with my GF of 1.5 years about four months ago. She made me feel like I was never doing enough for her no matter how hard I tried, or that her feelings of insecurity were my personal responsibility. ...
A. 26 August 2007: Thanks Edie, You are right about taking my own advice. I think its the hormones and selective memory that are distorting the truth. Luckily Ive gotten a little smarter as Ive gotten older and I know my weak spots better. Sometimes I just need to ... (read in full...)
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