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Is a man capable of abstaining from sex for four months?

Q.   Can a man go without sex for FOUR months? Let's say he is away from his wife or girlfriend for FOUR months. Can he abstain or will he be weak and succumb to his little head? Any action is better than no action? Just wandering, are men are capa...

A.   24 April 2021: Depends on the person all men are different! Yes, a man can go 4 months with sex! I have gone 9 months without sex and I have also gone 2 years without sex. Ultimately depends on the person. Me personally, i believe in monogamy and I take my sexual ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend got someone else pregnant but I still love him

Q.   Dear Cupid My boyfriend and I started dating from last year May I've really fallen for Him and he has too He spent so much on me and made sure I was happy Just last month, he cried confessing to me that he's impregnated someone mistakenly a...

A.   24 April 2021: Well, you have to know your worth in these situation. Most men will give subtle clues if they are being unfaithful. I am sure he was see the "side chick" for a while and got her pregnant! You have to figure out why he cheated and what type of ... (read in full...)

We didn't trust each other so I ended it.

Q.   I recently entered into a casual relationship with someone that I met through a swingers site, we used to meet for nsa fun but we clicked and we decided to make it more permanent but I told her that I had a bad experience a few years ago and it ...

A.   16 March 2018: Yes, and no. Yes, because you developed feelings,feelings turned into jealousy, and your jealousy turned into insecurity. No, for the simple fact that women like to mind games. She was probable waiting me to make some type of move maybe to make it ... (read in full...)

Co-worker complains about boyfriend. Do I have a chance?

Q.   I like my co-worker but she is involved with another co-worker and has a child. We have been spending a lot of time together at work and outside of work, but she complains about her bf a lot. I constantly tell her to stay with him and try to make...

A.   25 June 2017: I would any relationship that does come out as result is doomed to fail, I know that. Plus, i had no ulterior motive. I was just being her friend because besides her bf she doesn't have anyone. She isnt lose with her family and friends and I know ... (read in full...)

Co-worker complains about boyfriend. Do I have a chance?

Q.   I like my co-worker but she is involved with another co-worker and has a child. We have been spending a lot of time together at work and outside of work, but she complains about her bf a lot. I constantly tell her to stay with him and try to make...

A.   24 June 2017: Congrats honeypie you we're right SUPER FUCKING FRIENDZONE......no Women wants a nice guy. I fucking quit!... (read in full...)

Co-worker complains about boyfriend. Do I have a chance?

Q.   I like my co-worker but she is involved with another co-worker and has a child. We have been spending a lot of time together at work and outside of work, but she complains about her bf a lot. I constantly tell her to stay with him and try to make...

A.   23 June 2017: 1. I don't want a gf, I been single for over a year and a half bitches aren't hard to get. Finding a women that understands you as whole and not just parts of you is hard to find. It's not about lust or drama, it's about someone who has the ... (read in full...)

What's the best thing to do? I have a crush on a hot co-worker

Q.   Well, I have a crush on coworker, but she is dating another co-worker and has a kid with him. She asked me if I think her boyfriend would cheat on her. I told her "no, I didn't think so". She supposed to come over and hang out, but Im not going to ...

A.   18 June 2017: Well, things are good. We are just having fun and I'm being the perfect gentleman. Haven't tried anything and probable won't. We have been almost more time together usually when her man is at work, but again haven't done anything except very light ... (read in full...)

What can I do? How should I handle this? Her sexual past and her ex who was her FWB are issues that are making me feel insecure.

Q.   Ok so me and my gf have been going out for about 8 months. And I've been struggling with her sexual past a lot recently. She's slept with about 10 people before me, they were all ons apart from one friends with benefits she had just before we start...

A.   10 June 2017: Your insecurities will ruin your relationship. You're still young. Move on. There is no scenario where this works out in your favor. Here is what this say about her........she had sex with a lot of people in a short amount of time. These peop... (read in full...)

Is it worth calling her up after 3 years? Or should I just let it go?

Q.   3 years ago I met a beautiful and smart girl at comic con and we hit it off right away. She was 19 and even though we lived 80 miles from each other, we made it work and saw each other every weekend. We got into a relationship and everythi...

A.   2 October 2016: OK, its a bad idea...... 1.You only want to talk to her because your feelings are unresolved, in your mind your never reached closure. 2. People change and grew and become different, maybe she has change for the better, but she is not the same ... (read in full...)

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