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I've had a cold for about a month now, and it's not getting better! Should I be worried?

Q.   why am i worried about this? i have been having a cold for almost about a month and seems to not get better! i have been coughing out flem if you know what i mean. i cough up this everyday to get rid of it and try make myself feel better. now at t...

A.   2 October 2007: i have had something similiar but it didnt last as long as you are saying so i would advise seeing your GP for some advise and possibly some treatment... (read in full...)

What is "masterbating"?

Q.   im 14, i feel really stupid sayin this as like everyone knows what it is and has probably experienced it.... but what is masterbating...?...

A.   1 October 2007: to put it nicely, self pleasure or when a male/female pleasures themselves... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and in love with 2 women. What do I do?

Q.   Im 14. I love my gf but my best mate fancies her and i fancy his gf but my gf would be heartbroken if i left her. I love 2 women, what do i do....

A.   1 October 2007: i agree with eyeswideopen, yes ok you want to stay in the relationship but you have to enjoy your teenage life so just get out there and live your life to the full!... (read in full...)

I really love my mates gf but they are so happy together!!!

Q.   Help!14, my mate is going out with the girl i fancy, but they are really happy together. He deserves her but i love her! What do i do?...

A.   1 October 2007: im sorry to say this but move on, find another girl because if you flirt with your mate's gf and he finds out it wont just be the girl you love that you'll be losing.... (read in full...)

How do I make our first time special for my girl? Tips from women preferred?

Q.   Well me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while and i think were ready to make love i want her first time to be special and great and a long time ago she told me before we went out that she wanted her first time to be great sex well she ...

A.   1 October 2007: i agree with the first reply, you should pat yourself on the back for having the respect for your gf. not many guys out there consider their partners during the first time or even after it! But just like it's u and me Lukey G said, its more of ... (read in full...)

My friend, who was once anorexic, is planning on taking tablets to help her lose weight. What should I do?

Q.   Hi there, My friend (though not a very close friend) has recently been tempted into using amphetamines or "speed" tablets to help her lose weight. She used to be anorexic and is set on doing this despite me strongly adivising her not to. She w...

A.   1 October 2007: if she has a past of anorexia, taking weight loss tablets will more than likely send her into a relapse of it which is the last thing you want, try talking to her telling her how worried you are, i no she doesnt seem to want to listen but if you ... (read in full...)

He wants me to talk dirty. Any advice?

Q.   My fiance keeps wanting me to talk dirty to him in bed. He even made flashcards with dirty words on them and showed them to his friends! He also wants me to wear pig tails and a cheerleading outfit. Call me crazy, but it seems like all he cares ...

A.   1 October 2007: Not all guys are obssessed with sex and your fiance might not be obssessed with sex because a large number of men now a days focus too much on pleasing themselves rather than their partner but it sounds to me like your partner wants to liven up your ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend asked me if I would have an orgy, which I'm anxious to try but don't know what to do.

Q.   my boyfriend recenty asked me if i would have an orji. me and 3 other boys. i am quite anxious to try it and would like to give it a go but i wouldnt know what to do... i am ready for sex have done it tons of times but i dont know whether it would ...

A.   1 October 2007: to put it bluntly as everyone else has, YOU ARE TOO YOUNG a girl of your age should not have had sex yet let alone be considering an orgy and im sorry to say it but i find it pitiful that your bf actually asked you to do something as deg... (read in full...)

Guys, would you date a girl who didnt like oral sex?

Q.   Guys, would you date a girl who didnt like oral sex?? I hate giving guys oral sex, its a massive turn off for me (Im actually not a fan of recieving it either) but my guy friends were talking the other day and said they could never date a girl who ...

A.   1 October 2007: personally i dont think oral is necessary and i enjoy it, if a girl doesnt want to then you cant force her its just a)ignorant and b) disrespectful. for any guy out there that wouldnt date a girl just because she doesnt like giving head, dont think ... (read in full...)

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