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... Send *r.2.be a private message | | | *r.2.be's profile:HeY!!! Im Jenny! I live in Alafaya Florida. (Right next to Orlando and Mickey Mouse!!!) I am a student at the University of Central Florida: Burnett School of Biomedical Sciences- College of Medicine. My major is molecular, microbiology and neuroscience. I also have a degree in chemistry. School is my life and I love it!
Im in my early twenties...but I feel much younger and I prolly act much younger at times too and im not afraid to admit it. Its fun going back to childhood once and awhile! I don't want to grow up and I feel that being young at heart is important to enjoying life. But at the same time, I do handle my schoolwork, and other grown up stuff in a timely and mature manner as biologically and resposibility wise, I am an adult. But I don't let it get me down!
Career wise, I hope to earn my M.D./Ph.d degree and become a physician scientist. I want to practice neurosurgery and become a pioneering surgeon- developing new surgical techniques in spine trauma and perform research to restore people's ability to walk. Scientists are doing preliminary research on this right now and by the time I am done with school, I hope to join them. It may take nearly two decades or more until this surgery can be perfromed on humans as it is utilizing entirely new technology and medical advancements. (ie stem cells). But eventually, when it is perfected, we may be able to help those who lost their ability to walk in accidents...amazing! I also would love to teach and speak at medical conferences too. I want to go as far as I can in the field I love and make a huge contribution to medicine!! The possibilities are endless in the neuroscience field!!
I have only been in two relationships. But I have learned from them and feel I can offer good advice. My friends said I give very good advice so hopefully I can help people on here too. I am currently single now and just going with the flow. Right now, I am just concentrating on my education, staying healthy and achieving my dream career! :-)
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4 July 2009: Everyone has been there. You fall in love with someone who you couldn't be with. Yet, you still love him and thinking about him from time to time brings a smile to your face. My time with this particular gentleman was relatively short and we never ...
I haven't been on here since March, thank you for all the compliments and I will get back to y'all.
No replies yet... 5 May 2009: Hey everybody, I just want to say thank you to all who sent messages to me and complimenting me on my education thus far. It is greatly appreciated. Sorry I haven't wrote back to any of you in forever but I haven't been logged on here since march ...
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Having trouble with my mom, not sure what to do
Q. Well i need a little advice.My mom is very Bi-Polar(not actually diagnosed).She is always upset about something or shes happy one minute then shes cursing and yelling another.For example:we have a bishon frise(puppy) and he is locked up all day ...
A. 12 August 2009: I know how you feel. I grew up in the same situation. My mom had significant mood swings. One day she would be happy and then the next day she would be in a really bad mood. It was always tough between me and her; I had an eating disorder throughout ... (read in full...)
Jealous of another student!
Q. i was the smartest girl in class just after miss intelligent came over im alittle jealousd and all the teachers like her now even though i'm better than her in everything other than studies, what do i do? ...
A. 13 July 2009: Don't think of this new girl as someone who stole your smartest student status. Turn this jealously into motivation to be back on top once again. Its easy to be on top when no one challenges you but when you have no challenge and stay on top, some ... (read in full...)
What color mascara and eye-liner would look good with blue eyes?
Q. hey i have a make up question. i have blue eyes and i was wondering what color eyeliner and mascara would look best? thanks for the help...
A. 13 July 2009: I have blue eyes and I wear black mascara and black eyeliner. It really brings out my eyes and eyelashes and makes them stand out. I don't wear any other makeup. Without it, I look like I have no eyelashes.
You can experiment and see what looks be... (read in full...)
The Most Amazing Guy I have Ever Met
Q. Everyone has been there. You fall in love with someone who you couldn't be with. Yet, you still love him and thinking about him from time to time brings a smile to your face. My time with this particular gentleman was relatively short and we never ...
A. 13 July 2009: Thank you everyone for your comments! :-)
Its great to know that there are others who are in the same situation. Who have moved on but will never forget that one they could never have. Yet thinking about them brings a smile to your face.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't want to live with me anymore
Q. Ok so im 19 and my bf is 20. We've been dating for a year and a half and for the past 6 months we've been living together. Now he's bought his own place and doesn't want me to move in with him he's told me to find my own place but we can still be ...
A. 12 July 2009: Hey girl. Let me tell you this. In general moving in with your boyfriend=disaster. It is not uncommon for young couples in their early 20's to move in together thinking everything will be great then breaking up and ending up dissappointed later.
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He can't get hard for me because he's chatting sexually online
Q. i am married for 29 years my husband often had afairs but stopped almost 20 years now he has now join a chat line and speaks to a girl often where he contacts her but that has stopped she now contacts him regulary he was about to leave with her he ...
A. 12 July 2009: Im going to be blunt.
Your husband is not treating you right. Hes a cheater and this far in the game I don't think he will change.
He is not getting an erection for you because he has this other woman on his mind. He denies it because he doesn... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to go on dates with people that you don't fancy?
Q. is it wrong to go on dates with people that you don't fancy? Recently, i have been building my confidence and i find that going on dates with guys i know i'm not attracted to really gives me a boost as its getting me more comfortable arou...
A. 12 July 2009: Theres nothing wrong with that. I have gone out on many dates with guys who liked me but I didn't want to be any more than friends and vice versa. I made it clear to them that I only want friendship before we went out and I find that we still had a ... (read in full...)
She asked for a photo of my penis, I sent it and then find out she was humiliating me in front of her friends!
Q. I started online dating a couple of weeks ago. I have never done anything like this before - and found it really fun. I started it because I wanted to find a nice girl to date. Anyway, I started talking to this 24 year old girl. We were going to go ...
A. 12 July 2009: This girl is no good. Stay away from her. Shes the type that likes to demoralize people and make them feel bad about themselves. Meaning she's either stuck up and full or herself or posses some insecurities. Plus this is very immature for a 24 year ... (read in full...)
Have you cheated or been cheated on?
Q. I am just curious how frequently people cheat or get cheated on? By partners, fiances, spouses? And if you have cheated, why did you do it? Is cheating unavoidable in long term relationships? Do all partners get bored at some point?...
A. 12 July 2009: I have been cheated on twice before. But I have also cheated. Although my boyfriend never found out, I really don't want to do it again. Cheating made me feel really guilty. =/... (read in full...)
My friends make fun of me and call me fat...but I'M NOT FAT!
Q. ok so. Pretty much all of my friends are non stop making fun of me for being fat. BUT IM NOT FAT! When im not there they talk about how fat i am and draw pictures of how fat i am. dont say theyre jealous cus theyre all skinnier than me. but im still ...
A. 12 July 2009: These are not good friends! Real friends don't care what you look like, how you dress, how much you weigh, etc. Maybe you should hang out with other girls who won't call you such a name. Im your height, weigh just as much as you and wear a s... (read in full...)
I'm forcing myself to throw up because I want to be a model
Q. My boyfriend is freaking out cause he caught me making myself throw up (been doing this for a week). I mean I'm 18 so I'm legally adult and its not like I'm killing myself. But he nags at me because "hurting" myself and he doesn't want to be like ...
A. 7 July 2009: Please stop before it gets too much out of hand.
You DONT want to end up with a full blown eating disorder. You just started and its easier to stop if you haven't been doing it very long.
I was anorexic for 5 years. I still have it now but ... (read in full...)
I need someone to talk to
Q. Hi... Is there anyone I can talk to about stuff? I'm a teenager, don't have many issues, but I do really need someone to talk to, because my family doesn't really care how I feel as long as I do well.. Thanks :)...
A. 6 July 2009: Hey girl, you can talk to me anytime. I grew up in the same situation...having really no one to talk to. My family wasn't really there either.
You can message me anytime. :-)
Or if you have aim you can im me at gottascrewlose86... (read in full...)
Naked and cuffed to the bed and now wife won't talk to me!
Q. hello,I just got married few weeks ago we are on our honeymoon..one night I decided to be kinky after dinner and decided for bondage,my wife my against being tied;so I handcuffed my self to the hotel bed..she was downstairs for dinner,so I had the ...
A. 4 July 2009: Irrational. She should not have gotten angry over a lost key. Plus, you didn't lose them on purpose. Even worse she left you handcuffed to the bed naked and didn't even bother to cover you up, left and then you had essentially no choice but to bare ... (read in full...)
I'm on the Pill but we don't use condoms, could I still get pregnant?
Q. hey i'm sophie, 16 right so i've been on the pill for nearly 6 months now and everytime me and my fiancé have sex we don't use a condom. Can i still get pregnant? i'm slightly worried. please help....
A. 4 July 2009: First of all, to the anon reader below. One of my friends from high school got married at 18. She's 21 and has 3 kids already. Im older than her and I can't even see having one! It depends on the person, some people grow up faster!
If you use your... (read in full...)
What can I cook her that's fairly simple for our romantic night in together?
Q. So basically i am planning to have a romantic evening in with my girlfriend, in a couple weeks time. The plan is: Dinner, maybe a film and then whatever entails. However the problem is i'm not a very good cook. I'd rather not cook her a micro...
A. 4 July 2009: Like everyone else, I would say pasta. Spaghetti, Penne, Lasagna, etc. Pasta is easy and its not too expensive to make.
You could also make a homemade pizza. They are so good. Just buy the dough and then you can put it together and be creative... (read in full...)
The Most Amazing Guy I have Ever Met
Q. Everyone has been there. You fall in love with someone who you couldn't be with. Yet, you still love him and thinking about him from time to time brings a smile to your face. My time with this particular gentleman was relatively short and we never ...
A. 4 July 2009: Samantha x, Thank you for your comment! :-)
I definitely agree. The feeling I have for him is wonderful. It lifts my spirits and makes my day to think about him excelling in his future career and being happy in life. I can't imagine not being ha... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and haven't gotten my period yet...
Q. I am fourteen and still yet to have my period. I'd like to hear from you the age you first got your period...or a friend. Even if it was young or still yet to have gotten it... All help appreciated!...
A. 4 July 2009: Hey you have plenty of time girl. I started mine really late....when I was 17 years old. A senior in high school. There was nothing wrong with me and that is just the way I was. I was a late bloomer anyway. I didn't start developing breasts until I ... (read in full...)
How can I make my vagina less tight for my unusually large boyfriend?
Q. Err, how do I put this? Long story short: my boyfriend has a long, thick penis and I have an unusually small, tight vagina. Sex doesn't last very long because these two factors combined mean everything is finished before it even starts. Our sex life ...
A. 3 July 2009: I am also very tight and my boyfriend is very endowed too and he used to have the same problem during sex. He would cum within 5 minutes of sex and I would just be starting. There were some other problems too. Here are some things we did to solve ... (read in full...)
My mom won't let me get a second piercing ...
Q. I am 13 and I have one ear peircing on each earlobe. But on my left ear I want a second peircining t the top ( a little silver ring) and my mom would never agree. I am not the kind of girl that would go behind her back and get one nd either way she ...
A. 3 July 2009: Hey girl, I know how that feels, I went through the same thing when I was 13.
My mom didn't want me to get a second hole in my ear either and she thought cartilage piercings were whack. She was really old fashioned and wouldn't even let me wear ... (read in full...)
I've had 4 sexual partners, is that a lot for a woman my age?
Q. I'm 23 and have had 4 sexual partners. Is that a lot for a woman my age? My last ex told me during our break up that guys will think I'm really slutty now that I've been with 4 different men, but he might've been trying to make me feel bad. ...
A. 3 July 2009: Im your age and I have been with the same amount of guys as you. I never worried about it and among my friends I am considered "pure" and innocent because I haven't been with nearly as many as they have.
A slut to me (my opinion) would be a gir... (read in full...)
How do you cope if they don't return your love?
Q. i am deeply in love with someone who doesn't feel the same way. All i want is him. He will make my life complete. He is the only person i have ever loved. i dont know what to do: im feeling sad depressed lonely and desperate. I don't k...
A. 29 June 2009: Hey girl, I know how you feel I have been through the same thing. A few years ago I met this attractive, tall, intelligent gentleman in one of my classes. We messaged each other on facebook for awhile and found out we had a lot in common. We both ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he just leave me alone and move on?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend a little over a month ago. When we first met he was a sweetheart and would do anything for me and made me feel very special. He was proud of my medical studies as I am a med student and he was very encouraging but after ...
A. 27 June 2009: Hey y'all, thanks for the replies. I continued to talk to him cause I felt really bad and wanted to make him feel better. Bad choice, he just made me feel bad. Im not going to talk to him anymore and just ignore him. Hes a loser anyway.
I thi... (read in full...)
Itching after anal... Should I see a Doctor?
Q. Hi, I tried anal sex for the 2nd time last week and it was protected and everything but now I freaking out that I may have a STD or something. It initially hurt the first day, but have a slight itchy feeling there every now and again but nothing ...
A. 18 June 2009: Chances are you may not have an STD, especially if the intercourse was protected. The itching may be caused by slight tears or swollen veins in the anal opening or just inside. They may bleed when you go to the bathroom or just plain itch. These are ... (read in full...)
Who has it worse: the one being cheated on, or the one doing the cheating?
Q. Do you think that if you are the cheater and are full of remorse and regret for what you have done and love and adore your spouse dearly, could it possibly feel worse than being the one who has been cheated on? Before you ask, we were going through ...
A. 14 March 2009: Yes the pain the cheater feels can be more intense than the pain that the one who has been cheated on experiences. However, it is not like that in all cases and is probably rather rare. Some guys or girls who cheat don't care about their part... (read in full...)
Will he think I'm cheap for sleeping with him? Was that all he wanted?
Q. hey people i split up with my boyfriend of one year 3 weeks ago on my terms as we argued all of the time and he wasnt very nice to me. Im quite happy about it. 2 weeks ago, i went out and met a ver attractive boy. We kissed and he asked for ...
A. 14 March 2009: Correction: Second Paragraph:
The fact that he didnt try to get you in bed on the first date tells me this based on past experiences. Note that a guy who is truly after sex will want it as soon as possible....ie they want it the first date.
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Everything was great until we got married
Q. i have been married for less than two years, before that i was with my now husband for 7 years. everything was great until we got married apart from the few ups and downs,he just seemed to take me for granted spending time with his friends and on ...
A. 14 March 2009: It sounds like to me he is taking advantage of the fact that you two are now married which gives him the assurance you are to stay with him till death you part. Its nice to stay with your husband till death do you part but it doesnt need to be that... (read in full...)
He made me feel like a dirty little slut
Q. Hello Friends! I have a scenario that I would like your opinion on. I was having a nice conversation with my boyfriend last night, and the topic turned to Hollywood actors. I was telling him who my favorites were. And then I said, Johnny Depp is ...
A. 14 March 2009: Im so sorry about what happened to your boyfriend. Dont worry, you were not the cause of his heart attack. Despite popular belief, heart attacks are not caused by psychological stress. Instead they are caused by lifestyle and genetics and some... (read in full...)
Who has it worse: the one being cheated on, or the one doing the cheating?
Q. Do you think that if you are the cheater and are full of remorse and regret for what you have done and love and adore your spouse dearly, could it possibly feel worse than being the one who has been cheated on? Before you ask, we were going through ...
A. 14 March 2009: Im not married but I will help answer your question anyway. I think the person who cheats feels the most pain if they really really and truly love their partner. They feel guilty, ashamed, embarrassed and angry at themselves for what they did to... (read in full...)
Will he think I'm cheap for sleeping with him? Was that all he wanted?
Q. hey people i split up with my boyfriend of one year 3 weeks ago on my terms as we argued all of the time and he wasnt very nice to me. Im quite happy about it. 2 weeks ago, i went out and met a ver attractive boy. We kissed and he asked for ...
A. 14 March 2009: Every guy thinks about having sex, its always on their mind 24/7. Some guys...its all they think about when they go out with a girl; so much that they dont care about how the girl feels. Some care about you but sex is in the back of their mind, they ... (read in full...)
He made me feel like a dirty little slut
Q. Hello Friends! I have a scenario that I would like your opinion on. I was having a nice conversation with my boyfriend last night, and the topic turned to Hollywood actors. I was telling him who my favorites were. And then I said, Johnny Depp is ...
A. 14 March 2009: You didnt do anything wrong and your boyfriend shouldnt take something like this so seriously. Just the other day we were watching TV and I saw a commercial for the show Kyle XY. I blurted out "The guy who plays Kyle is so hot, I wanna have sex with... (read in full...)
Is it possible for my vagina to become tight again?
Q. Hiya. I'm a virgin and wondering... If i was to have sex now once evry month.. then did not have sex or anything for 5years in a row. would my vagina become "tight" or still stay loose. thanks...
A. 14 March 2009: Having sex doesnt make you 'loose.' You may loosen up temporarily because your muscles will be relaxed but its not permanent. You will tighten up again after you have sex. Mainly, your tightness is predetermined and some girls are born with a real... (read in full...)
How many is too many
Q. is six guys alot for a 17 year old girl to sleep with? please help!!!...
A. 13 March 2009: I think 6 men is about average. These days, girls are losing their virginity really early which leads to an accumulation of sexual partners at a relatively young age.
Personally, I think its a bit on the high side, but it may be because I didnt ... (read in full...)
Should I just wait until he texts me and if he doesn't don't bother?
Q. I have a problem. Please bear with me as this is really long. Sorry in advance. :-( There is this guy that keeps calling me and asking me to date him. He seemed nice at first and was really interested in what I was doing and reaching for in ...
A. 8 March 2009: hey I appreciate all of your replies. I didnt go out with him. Instead I stayed in the library all evening getting my work done!! So I wasnt even home! Im so glad I didnt go out with him cause he was really sketchy. Everyone here just confirmed my ... (read in full...)
Ladies poll - number, size, one night stands...
Q. Ladies Poll -- (1) How many men have you slept with? (2) Of that nimber, how many men would you say were well endowed, meaning say more than 8 inches and/or wide? (3) How many were one (or two night) stands? Thanks for your participation....
A. 7 March 2009: 1) 4 men
2)One of them was rather large, probably around 8 inches but rather wide
3)2 of them were one night stands... (read in full...)
Are women put off by skinny men?
Q. I know everyone has different tastes and personal preferences, but in general, are women put off by skinny men? I'm 22, and while I eat like a horse, I just have never been able to put on any tangible weight, and have virtually little...
A. 28 February 2009: I like skinny men, especially if its because they are skinny from running a lot. Tall skinny runners are my favorite. :) lol. Im a long distance runner and Im very skinny as well (5'3 and 103 pounds). Even though I am attracted to skinny men, I dont ... (read in full...)
A little piece of encouragement
Q. i just wanted to say a few words of encouragement to all of you who might be have a hard time with relationship and such. first off all, the God who made you loves you and is watching you all the time. God did not design your body's for sex, ...
A. 4 February 2009: All I can say is good for you girl. Basically everyone disagrees with your post on this site ( including me ) but your not afraid to comment again and state your beliefs. It shows character right there. I bet its nice to have faith and feel like ... (read in full...)
A little piece of encouragement
Q. i just wanted to say a few words of encouragement to all of you who might be have a hard time with relationship and such. first off all, the God who made you loves you and is watching you all the time. God did not design your body's for sex, ...
A. 3 February 2009: Nice article but im not that religious and our bodies ARE designed for sex. We have sexual organs, areas in the brain, specifically for sexual functioning, nerves in the lower lumbar area of the spine that control only our sexual organs. Almost ... (read in full...)
My horrible story please read
Q. im 13. ive suffered from 2 server addictions. one-cutting two-over doseage of pills. anti-depresents. i want to share my story and tell some luckier people what its like to b 13 and have a bad life. It all started in 7th gade when some 18 yearold ...
A. 3 February 2009: Hey girl,
You may wanna think about ALL the options you have at this point. You are only 13 years old, your still a kid! I remember when I was 13 having a baby or sex was the last thing on my mind. I was still a kid playing in the mud, climbing... (read in full...)
Wrong for 19 year old guy to want a 13 year old girl?
Q. well my question is, is it wrong for a 19 year old boy to want a 13 year old girl (he wants her in the bad way and has done the same to other girls and then dumped them after he got what he wanted) and if so how do i help this girl if she won't ...
A. 3 February 2009: Yes its very wrong, not to mention kind of creepy. Let your friend know that you are very concerned about her situation. This man could be a pedophile and end up hurting her for life. Encourage her to contact the police or let her parents know if he ... (read in full...)
Men making noise during sex
Q. To all the ladies out there, what do you think about men making noice during sex? Turn on or a turn off?...
A. 3 February 2009: i LOVE it when my man makes noise during sex. I love how he groans in the beginning and as he gets closer to climax he begins to breathe heavier......coupled with the groans its a HUGE TURN ON. However my favorite part is the moaning he makes when ... (read in full...)
To shave? Or leave it?
Q. Hi...im a 14 year old girl and i have my first boyfriend now and we have been going out for a couple of months and i think he wants to have sex! i dont know what to do,do i shave off all my pubic hair?? please help...:)x ...
A. 1 February 2009: I think shaving is a good idea before sex. However, going completely bald is really not the way to go in my opinion. I tried bald before and when the stubble started appearing really itchy. If I were you I would shave your bikini area and create a ... (read in full...)
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