It was my first time without a condom and I'm very nervous!
Q. Okay so I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months. WE've had sex before but today I let him cum inside me for the first time. I'm on birth control and I've been on it for a while. I'm just a little nervous because my whole family is very ...
A. 29 October 2010: I think the advice given so far is too alarmist. Sure, there is a chance that a woman can become pregnant while on the pill. However, many couples rely upon the pill as their primary and only means of birth control, and do so quite successfully. If ... (read in full...)
He's obsessed with making everything about "us"! How can we get past this?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together a year now. i am his first serious relationship and sexual partner, however i have had a handful of serious relationships before him. we have a great relationship except for his problem dealing with my past. i...
A. 26 October 2010: He's suffering from retrograde jealousy. He has to come to terms with the fact that you have a past, while he doesn't, and that's OK because life isn't fair most of the time. He could probably benefit from professional counseling in this area.... (read in full...)
Should I wait to see if he'll leave his girlfriend
Q. I know this 30 year old guy for a few years he used to come in my shop. Had not seen him for a few months when he started coming in my shop again. after a few times coming in my shop, I told him I had divorced from my husband. The next thing he did ...
A. 25 October 2010: So this guy is just 30 and already has 3 kids with 3 different women, and is texting dirty with you while living with his latest baby mama... sorry, this is not a quality guy. Forget him, that's my advice.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend can't marry me because of my past.
Q. In the beginning of our relationship I told my boyfriend about my past sexual relationships. I have slept with more guys than he has girls and have had a few friends with benefits type situations. I wanted to be honest and upfront with him because I ...
A. 21 October 2010: First, I think CaringGuy is being way too dismissive of the affliction known as retrograde jealousy. It is a real problem some men face and it is why I advocate keeping one's past to themselves as much as possible.
Secondly, I think the boyfrien... (read in full...)
Do you think he's sterile?
Q. I'm nineteen and my boyfriend is a thirty-seven. We've been dating for over a year now. Our sex life has always been great. We have sex at least once a week if not more. (Usually on weekends due to busy schedules.) We're not interested in ha...
A. 21 October 2010: Keeping in mind I'm not a doctor and thus I'm not qualified to give medical advice, my understanding of male fertility is that it is very unlikely age could be a reason your boyfriend may possibly be shooting blanks. 37 is not very old for a man, ... (read in full...)
Is it necessary to tell someone you're dating about your past?
Q. How much do you tell a guy you love about ur past, about passed hook ups, stupid things uve done, is it really necessary? wouuldn't he have a bad image of me when i know that im not this person. Im afraid he wont trust me if he knows about my past ...
A. 19 October 2010: Guys will have differing views on what they feel they need or want to know, but my advice is to not say anything. I don't ask because I don't want to think negatively of my partner, and that's the most likely outcome if your man finds out about past ... (read in full...)
Do you think a man can be happy with his wife and still cheat on her?
Q. This is a very quick question: do you believe a man who is cheating on his wife but who tells upfront the woman is cheating with that he is in a relationship and "he can't leave her" and, when asked if he is happy, will reply "I think so" ? Is this ...
A. 19 October 2010: Can a man be happy and still cheat? Sure, but only if he's a dishonest and selfish person. A "good guy" isn't going to cheat if he's happily married.... (read in full...)
I'm tall and he's average height, is that ok?
Q. There is this boy I'm totally in love with and I can't stop thinking about him! The thing is I'm really tall and he's average height. This has always been the problem in my relationships but I seriously like this guy and want to ask him out but I'm ...
A. 19 October 2010: My advice is to go for it and ask him out. My ex-wife is taller than I am by a couple of inches, and that was never an issue in the relationship.... (read in full...)
She says she didn't cheat, should I believe her?
Q. My girlfriend has had this guy "friend" for i don't know how long. Longer than she has known me. She went to go hang out at his house one night. She ended up staying the night over there. I saw her the next day and she said they were just watching ...
A. 18 October 2010: She's made you her doormat. It is time to dump her and move on.... (read in full...)
Guys Only Please* nude pics of gf
Q. GUYS ONLY PLEASE I mean this, because girls view the world in a totally different way, and they all THINK they know what guys are thinking and the reasons behindd their actions, but are usually wrong. A girl asking for insight into a guy's min...
A. 18 October 2010: For me, the bottom line on this question is whether I sincerely care or whether I view the relationship as more casual (or even temporary). Assuming the OP intended this to be about a serious love interest, then no I will not show my friends. Going ... (read in full...)
Why would he think he would be the one for me?
Q. hi, i met a guy who im not interested whatsoever, we just talk once in a while. at the begining when i met him, he asked me if i was a virgin. he insisted to know and for some weird reason guys tend to know who is and who isn't (like if its written ...
A. 12 October 2010: From what you described, this guy sounds like he's a bit unbalanced, or possibly full of himself. Whatever the case, I suggest you avoid him.... (read in full...)
Is he realizing he might be as into me as much as I might be into him?
Q. I recently met a guy (J) who at first I wasn't very attracted to but after getting to know him a little better I began to see something in him. My best guy friend (D, who I happen to live with, along with a few other people) has been hanging ...
A. 12 October 2010: I think he's shown definite signs of interest in you. You need to ask him out or give a clear indication that you want him to ask you.... (read in full...)
Should I see a dietician before I embark on this new healthy lifestyle?
Q. Trying to improve my health and get into a healthy eating routine and start jogging to increase my energy levels and improve my libido drastically. Would it be advisable to see a dietician first to get started as I have no idea where to start a...
A. 12 October 2010: It is advisable to see a dietitian, but not absolutely necessary. Last spring I made the decision to live a healthier lifestyle. 18 months later, I see huge improvements. I couldn't jog 100 meters without being out of breath before, and now I run 5k ... (read in full...)
How do I wait it out without over reacting and chasing him away?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been on a break a week and a half now. He hasn't called or texted much and neither have I. He asked for this break because he feels guilty considering he is still married, but they've been separated over a year and she ...
A. 8 October 2010: As a man who has gone through a divorce, my advice is to break it off with this guy. Trust me when I say that it is very unlikely he's emotionally fit for a real relationship right now. He needs to file for and go through a divorce, and then spend ... (read in full...)
A bunch of questions about threesomes and sex!
Q. Can you really have a MFF threesome with your wife and the man never touch the other woman involved? Is a threesome or more, orgasim any better or different than an orgasim with a single partner? How is anal sex different than vaginal sex in how it f...
A. 7 October 2010: I have to contradict Dorothy Dix on the question about anal sex. While both anal and vaginal sex are enjoyable, the tightness of the anus can lead to a more intense sensation during intercourse, and thus can be more enjoyable. Chaffing and dryness ... (read in full...)
Is this what FWB is all about?
Q. I'm so confused!There's this guy that wanted to get hooked up with me through a mutual friend of ours.We've been talking for 5 months now,BUT!! I found out that this girl that i thought was his girlfriend really is.He lied to me.So when I found out ...
A. 7 October 2010: I'd so no, this is not a FWB situation. The basic premise of FWB is that both parties understand that the relationship, while it has a sexual element, is nothing serious. It is just casual sex between friends. Since you were not aware that it was ... (read in full...)
Do men think women who don't like blowjobs are boring?
Q. Do men think that women who don't give oral sex are boring or no fun??...
A. 7 October 2010: I'm going to have to chime in with a yes. Oral sex is really low on the kink scale, and a woman who won't go there is way too conservative for me. A couple has to mix things up every now and then to keep their sex life interesting and fulfilling.... (read in full...)
I was curious as to where my boyfriend lived, so I drove by his house but I think he saw me!
Q. I was curious as to where my boyfriend lived. So when I thought he was going to be gone, I drove by his house. I think he saw me, cause just as I was going by, he was backing out of his drive. He hasn't said anything, but I think he saw me. I ...
A. 7 October 2010: CaringGuy gave great advice. This type of action cries out "stalker", and/or that you don't trust your man and were checking up on him. Hopefully if you avoid the subject completely it won't come up and he'll get over it (or maybe you were fortunate ... (read in full...)
Should I feel insecure if I'm dating a woman who can beat me up?
Q. I'm not much of a fighter, and I have a question. Should I feel insecure if I happen to meet a gorgeous woman who could beat me in a fight? Is this a strange question, or is it a legitimate concern? Let's say she's a karate expert or somethi...
A. 7 October 2010: I've become friends with and am hoping to date a girl that I'm pretty sure could kick my butt in a fight, and it's of no concern to me. I don't feel it threatens my manhood or makes me less of a man. I think it really comes down to feeling confident ... (read in full...)
Guys: What are signs that he's only into it for sex?
Q. What are some signs a girl could look for in a guy to tell that he is only interested in sex and nothing more prior to actually going out or anything? Primarily interested in the guys' responses. Thanks....
A. 6 October 2010: I'm sorry to say this, but unfortunately there's no real good way to know if a guy is just interested in sex unless he says something to that effect (such as he doesn't want anything serious, or he broaches the FWB topic, etc.) Only time will tell ... (read in full...)
Breasts or nipples?
Q. My question might be a little hard to answer but for starters some guys, well a lot of guys like big breasts on a woman but will tell a woman that has really small breasts that more than a hand full is a waste but what I was wanting to know is this: ...
A. 6 October 2010: I agree with the anon feemale's statement. As a man, I view the breast as a whole. I don't fixate on any one particular part of it. So to me nipples are just a feature of breasts.
As for my personal preference, I am into thin / fit / athletic... (read in full...)
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