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11 August 2010: It's great being in a relationship. It can be fun and the companship is really satisfying. However, in staying happy it's important to:- (1) Both have some time to yourselves to pursue hobbies, interests. Just once a week or twice a week...
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I'm starting to wish I was single again. Should I attempt counselling to try and heal?
Q. I am starting to wish I could be single more and more. I am really regretting to marry my wife. I wish this could be turned around. Last night I told her I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. What I mean is to honor my commitment t...
A. 20 December 2012: Hi. The way your wife keeps continually abusing you, it really seems like she is testing you and testing you, to see how much it will take to break you.
Can you see that?
And it also seems that she doesn't want a relationship with you anymore... (read in full...)
I'm starting to wish I was single again. Should I attempt counselling to try and heal?
Q. I am starting to wish I could be single more and more. I am really regretting to marry my wife. I wish this could be turned around. Last night I told her I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. What I mean is to honor my commitment t...
A. 20 December 2012: Hello again. It can sometimes take a very long time to know when it really is the end.
It sounds like you are pretty near to that point now.
We often tell ourselves - "It's not so bad, things could be worse."
But no matter what, eventually ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to wish I was single again. Should I attempt counselling to try and heal?
Q. I am starting to wish I could be single more and more. I am really regretting to marry my wife. I wish this could be turned around. Last night I told her I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. What I mean is to honor my commitment t...
A. 16 December 2012: Hi. Yes, I agree that having that chat with your wife and asking what her core values on life are, is the most URGENTLY needed thing to happen right now.
In fact, nothing at this moment would come anywhere near to that, in importance.
From wh... (read in full...)
What does his body language say?
Q. Hello. I was standing next to my work male friend in town. We were waiting for another friend who was using the cash point. A man came to speak to me asking if i was in the line, i explained no. This man went and stood near my male friend for ...
A. 14 December 2012: Hi. He could be treading very carefully as far as what to do next, and also keeping in mind the "office romance" situation, that I spoke of earlier.
As long as you are working together, just keep it fairly low key with him - friendly, although... (read in full...)
I'm starting to wish I was single again. Should I attempt counselling to try and heal?
Q. I am starting to wish I could be single more and more. I am really regretting to marry my wife. I wish this could be turned around. Last night I told her I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. What I mean is to honor my commitment t...
A. 13 December 2012: Hi. One thing is for sure.
Having any stress in your life at all, will certainly interfere with the healing process of your body, in getting rid of the flu.
Viruses always take longer to go away, if you are NOT completely relaxed and at p... (read in full...)
I'm starting to wish I was single again. Should I attempt counselling to try and heal?
Q. I am starting to wish I could be single more and more. I am really regretting to marry my wife. I wish this could be turned around. Last night I told her I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. What I mean is to honor my commitment t...
A. 12 December 2012: Hi. She may be treating you better, after you have had some time apart during the day - while you are both at work.
And then, how long does this last for?
A couple of hours? Or the whole night?
Perhaps, she would like it if you both went... (read in full...)
I'm starting to wish I was single again. Should I attempt counselling to try and heal?
Q. I am starting to wish I could be single more and more. I am really regretting to marry my wife. I wish this could be turned around. Last night I told her I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. What I mean is to honor my commitment t...
A. 9 December 2012: Hi. After hearing this last piece of news about what's been happening, it does seem time now, to seriously consider, if you really want to tolerate this nonsense.
And if you do, for how long do you REALLY want to be treated this way?
Surely,... (read in full...)
I'm starting to wish I was single again. Should I attempt counselling to try and heal?
Q. I am starting to wish I could be single more and more. I am really regretting to marry my wife. I wish this could be turned around. Last night I told her I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. What I mean is to honor my commitment t...
A. 5 December 2012: Hello again. First of all, money is definitely NOT the be all and end all of everything in life, that's for sure.
And certainly, money DOES NOT buy happiness.
Yes, it can give us more options perhaps, but how much money does one really need?... (read in full...)
I'm starting to wish I was single again. Should I attempt counselling to try and heal?
Q. I am starting to wish I could be single more and more. I am really regretting to marry my wife. I wish this could be turned around. Last night I told her I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. What I mean is to honor my commitment t...
A. 3 December 2012: Hello again. Turning hot and cold towards you, could even be the way you communicate with each other.
When you sit down together and talk, do you really listen to her and what she has to say?
And does she really listen to your every word, of w... (read in full...)
What does his body language say?
Q. Hello. I was standing next to my work male friend in town. We were waiting for another friend who was using the cash point. A man came to speak to me asking if i was in the line, i explained no. This man went and stood near my male friend for ...
A. 1 December 2012: Hi there. It is interesting, isn't it?
Just for the record, is your male work friend a married man, or is he single?
I ask this question, just so I know that if he is slightly flirty with you, that you would have a chance with him romantically... (read in full...)
Alcohol means he does the meanest things. Is this co-dependancy? Do I need a reality check?
Q. Am i crazy? I feel like i am on the verge of a nervous breakdown. I don't know if i should stay or go! I have been married for over 13 years and have 4 children. For so long i did not realize something was wrong. Or maybe it isn't wrong and it...
A. 1 December 2012: Hi there. The very first question I have is, when you knew that he was an alcoholic, why did you marry him in the first place?
Or didn't he show any signs of that before marriage - he hid that side of himself - until after you were married?... (read in full...)
I'm starting to wish I was single again. Should I attempt counselling to try and heal?
Q. I am starting to wish I could be single more and more. I am really regretting to marry my wife. I wish this could be turned around. Last night I told her I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. What I mean is to honor my commitment t...
A. 1 December 2012: Hi there. Yes, it does seem that your wife is suffering with some sort of personality disorder, for sure.
And it probably stems from her abusive childhood, no doubt.
So it's probably the consequences of her childhood that needs to be deal... (read in full...)
How do I break up with my LDR boyfriend?
Q. We've been together for over a year, and because of this, I believe a text might be really bad. But the problem with that is that it is a long distance relationship, so I can't meet up with him to do it. Also, we very rarely talk on the phone. We're ...
A. 1 December 2012: Hello again. There is never going to be the perfect time to break up with him.
So it's really a case of now or never.
And especially as you aren't happy with the way things are now, it's all the more reason to take action right away.
T... (read in full...)
Is it normal for my boyfriend to not take my shirt off when we are getting frisky?
Q. Is it normal for my boyfriend to not take my shirt off when we are getting frisky? He loves touching and sucking on my breasts but he will not take my shirt off.Is it because I am unattractive? I asked him about it and he claims he has no idea why ...
A. 30 November 2012: Hi there. It's got nothing to do with being attractive or not.
It's simply the way he does it.
Let me tell you, that if he thought you were unattractive, he wouldn't be with you in the first place, would he?
So he very obviously, finds yo... (read in full...)
How do I break up with my LDR boyfriend?
Q. We've been together for over a year, and because of this, I believe a text might be really bad. But the problem with that is that it is a long distance relationship, so I can't meet up with him to do it. Also, we very rarely talk on the phone. We're ...
A. 30 November 2012: Hi there. First off, I am assuming that even though it has always been an LDR, that at some point you must have seen each other and gone out on a few occasions.
Would that be right?
Even better than a text message, would be to write him a sinc... (read in full...)
What is with the mind games
Q. I really could cry i am so angry at the moment!!! Me and a co worker who were not that close, yesterday we were. He was flirting so was I. He is the quiet type in the office full of women, but with me he talks alot infront of alot people. He p...
A. 22 November 2012: Hi there. First of all, is this man about the same age as you - early to mid 20's?
When a person blushes around a member of the opposite sex, it often means they are attracted to that person.
It could also be that this man is rather shy, whic... (read in full...)
He asked for my number but hasn't called!
Q. Friday night, as I was leaving the bar, a cute guy I had DEFINITELY noticed, who had introduced himself to me that night (but we were never really able to have a conversation), hurried over and tapped on my driver's side window. He said he something ...
A. 22 November 2012: Hi. There is still time for him to call you. It's not Friday night yet, is it?
There is still hope, you never know.
Whatever you do though, PLEASE do not call or text him if you hear nothing by the end of the weekend.
The bottom line here ... (read in full...)
Inspiration to keep me motivated???
Q. Hey everyone, I have my final exam in december and I'm looking for inspiration quotes I could hang around the bedroom, that would keep me motivated and it would encourage me to study harder.. Thank you.. Ps:I know this is a not a relationship que...
A. 22 November 2012: Hi. One thing you do need to think about very seriously, is to be very sure that the path you are on now, is the right one.
And by that I mean, you do need to feel inspired by the study you are doing, and to honestly believe that it is what you... (read in full...)
Inspiration to keep me motivated???
Q. Hey everyone, I have my final exam in december and I'm looking for inspiration quotes I could hang around the bedroom, that would keep me motivated and it would encourage me to study harder.. Thank you.. Ps:I know this is a not a relationship que...
A. 20 November 2012: Hi there. Here are a couple I can think of straight away.
"Never give up on your dreams."
"I am the master of my own destiny."
"My life can be whatever I want it to be."
"I am in the driver's seat."
Another idea is to do a search ... (read in full...)
What do I do next? This Crush is eating me up. Does he have an interest in me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a crush issue that is eating me up. I met this guy(he's a colleague) over a year but we just started talking as friends recently. He is a graduate, and I am just finished my graduate education in the same university...
A. 20 November 2012: Hi. It's a pretty carefree way to live, isn't it?
And yes, it is must less stressful when living only in the present moment.
Sometimes, it takes a little more effort than other times, although it's always well worth the effort, just the... (read in full...)
He asked for my number but hasn't called!
Q. Friday night, as I was leaving the bar, a cute guy I had DEFINITELY noticed, who had introduced himself to me that night (but we were never really able to have a conversation), hurried over and tapped on my driver's side window. He said he something ...
A. 19 November 2012: Hi there. Some guys might call a girl the next day, but not all guys.
Each is different - they are certainly not all the same, by any means.
In any case, it does seem like he is rather keen to get to know you more, otherwise he wouldn't have... (read in full...)
I haven't seen my partner in 3 weeks due to work, when he got back he chose to see his friends! What could be wrong and why go out with them over me?
Q. My partner and I have been together for just over 3 years. We are expecting our first baby in march. We had some problems concieving our baby so it is very precious to us . My partner works away all week and comes home for the weekend. The last 3 ...
A. 18 November 2012: Hi there. Perhaps he is worrying about how his life will change once your baby is born next March.
He couldn't help but wonder how things will be then, anyone would.
There are things to consider, like finances, one less wage coming in each w... (read in full...)
I feel ashamed that I have let him have such power over me. Please help me!!!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years. I know he is probably a good person, but he makes me so sad most of the time. He literally critiques almost everything I do. Just to make sure I wasn't crazy, which he frequently tells me I am, I started ...
A. 18 November 2012: Hi there. Eight years is a long time to be together and having to tolerate this type of environment.
Was it ever good when you first moved in together 8 years ago?
Another thing to keep in mind when arguments happen a lot, is to think about w... (read in full...)
Why do I keep having these same recurring dreams? Is my subconscious trying to tell me something?
Q. I saw another post about dreams and it made me think i should ask about a few dreams i have repeatedly. I have a recurring dream where I am single. In real life I am married. I have been having this dream now for at least a couple years and...
A. 16 November 2012: Hi there. Dreams very often symbolise things that are going on in our lives currently.
They can symbolise feelings we have about our lives, our work, anything at all about us.
It could even be some kind of secret yearning.
What I have fou... (read in full...)
Will a few days of no contact help him figure out his feelings for me?
Q. My boyfriend and I have choosen to kind of see if we can handle being apart for a week with no comunication except on facebook ,but only in silly post or something like that . Do you think it's health for us to do this ? I guess I am not an expert ...
A. 7 November 2012: Hi there. After two whole years together, it doesn't seem like it's going to happen now, does it?
In most relationships where the two people get along really well, it's very often that they know if they love each other after about 2 months. ... (read in full...)
I've become so used to being depressed that its become comforting!
Q. k,i know this is a really odd question. but i have been wondering for soo long and i was hoping someone could answer it for me. well, i have spent the majority of my life depressed. part of elementry, middle school, and highschool. it did...
A. 6 November 2012: Hi there. There's no doubt about it, feeling depressed almost certainly has become a part of who you are.
It's just about all you know, in how to react and cope with life's pressures.
Bullying isn't easy to deal with, as it can cause you to... (read in full...)
Can you guide me towards better choices? Why does he not bother with me at all anymore?
Q. My boyfriend and I (together for 2 and half years) are going through a really bad phase of our relationship and it doesn't seem to be letting up any time soon. Our relationship has hit rock bottom and I'm driving my self mad trying to figure...
A. 28 October 2012: Hi there. It sounds like you are the only one who is making any effort towards trying to make your relationship work.
Well, you are certainly making a lot more effort than he seems to be, don't you think?
You are the giver and he is the receiv... (read in full...)
How can I change my boyfriend's lifestyle?
Q. hi aunts and everyone! i just need some advice! im in a long distance with my boyfriend around 1 year now! we're really far from each other he lives in another country, here's the thing, i know my boyfriend, he's such a hard working person, he's so ...
A. 26 October 2012: Hi. God bless you too. You're very welcome.... (read in full...)
How can I change my boyfriend's lifestyle?
Q. hi aunts and everyone! i just need some advice! im in a long distance with my boyfriend around 1 year now! we're really far from each other he lives in another country, here's the thing, i know my boyfriend, he's such a hard working person, he's so ...
A. 25 October 2012: Hi there. I wouldn't be asking him about how many times he masturbates, that's his business.
It's neither here nor there, is it?
And it serves absolutely no purpose to ask this question anyway, really.
He seems to bury his head in his wor... (read in full...)
I'd really like to have a relationship with her -- how can I get her to notice me?
Q. I have liked this girl for around a year and she is amazing. She is smart pretty and Amazing at sports. We both go to the same school and are freshman. We also both do cross country and track, both of which she is amazing at. The only ...
A. 25 October 2012: Hi there. It's okay to be funny sometimes, although it is more an occasional thing rather than the only way of communicating with other people.
Unfortunately, you can't do much about all her friends being around her all the time, that's probably... (read in full...)
Why do I want the people I love to hate me?
Q. My first love was with a girl who hated me. She cheated on me, made me feel like shit about myself and generally crippled me emotionally, but I was so dependant on her that I didn't want to leave. The issue I'm running into now is I meet these per...
A. 25 October 2012: Hi there. It's not that you want people to hate you, no one wants that.
We all want to be loved and accepted for who we are, and there are no acceptions to that.
Because you had that relationship where the girl treated you badly and cheate... (read in full...)
Who should I reach out to to help my boyfriend? He will not talk to anyone. He is in a bad place and I am not sure who to turn to to get him help
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year. I love him with all of my heart. We have a lot of fun together when times are good. But lately, he has become more and more suicidal. He threatens to kill himself every few days. I try ...
A. 24 October 2012: Hi. Well, that does sound pretty promising!
So with none of the factors I mentioned existing, that narrows it down, which could make it easier.
I'm really glad that walking in the fresh air helped, that's a good thing.
Because he lost his j... (read in full...)
What are some fun nice acceptable activities to suggest when my friend visits? Skating is one, what else?
Q. This girl and I were complete strangers before this summer. Then, we both were involved as counsellors in a summer camp and saw each other everyday and interacted every time we saw each other. We constantly talk to each other on skype, facebook ...
A. 21 October 2012: Hi there. Even though you do like her a lot and you get along well with her, the real issue here is she does have a boyfriend.
And even though your plans are fairly harmless, she might still consider it to be cheating on her boyfriend, just by ... (read in full...)
Can I trust her? Does not seem so. What should I do about this unacceptable situation?
Q. My girl and I been together for 3 years. It was great until freshman yr of college wen i started having trust issues and then we became unstable. She cheated on me with a guy then told me a month later they had kissed; it took awhile to get over but...
A. 21 October 2012: Hi there. Is this a long distance relationship?
Because when you talk about calling and texting each other, it does sound like you don't regularly see each other in the normal sense.
If it is an LDR, it would make sense that you feel a littl... (read in full...)
Who should I reach out to to help my boyfriend? He will not talk to anyone. He is in a bad place and I am not sure who to turn to to get him help
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year. I love him with all of my heart. We have a lot of fun together when times are good. But lately, he has become more and more suicidal. He threatens to kill himself every few days. I try ...
A. 21 October 2012: Hi there. Unless anything has happened in his personal life recently, such as a death of someone close, or a close family member (mum, dad, brother, sister, grandparent), has been recently diagnosed with a terminal illness, well then it could be ... (read in full...)
It seems that I'm always the one tying to maintain the friendships. How do I cultivate friends who seek me out to go places and do things?
Q. I don't know what is it with me and friends. A little about me: I just graduated and now I'm going to start my second BA. I paint, I'm also a singer I am into mountaineering. I have friends when I am a part of an institution eg. College or a sch...
A. 21 October 2012: Hi. When you say that you don't tend to get along with most people, it could be that you have an unrealistic expection of how you believe a friendship should be.
And because you believe that about yourself, it most likely plays out in all of y... (read in full...)
What do I do next? This Crush is eating me up. Does he have an interest in me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a crush issue that is eating me up. I met this guy(he's a colleague) over a year but we just started talking as friends recently. He is a graduate, and I am just finished my graduate education in the same university...
A. 21 October 2012: Hi. It could come down to how important it is to you, that you are in a relationship, I guess.
So perhaps for now, it might be your best course of action to be content to be just friends with him.
If it's going to progress to dating, it is pr... (read in full...)
Do I drop it into a conversation that I want to know if he likes me?
Q. So there is this guy. He's a year older than me (18), dark hair, brown eyes and he's around 5"11. We've been talking for a few months, he's sweet but not too cringe, he knows how to cheer me up and is always making me laugh through texts. Since ...
A. 19 October 2012: Hi there. It's probably not a wise thing to come right out and ask a guy - "do you like me?" or "how do you feel about me?"
It could scare him right off.
At the very least, you know he likes you as a friend, because he is nice to you and makes... (read in full...)
It seems that I'm always the one tying to maintain the friendships. How do I cultivate friends who seek me out to go places and do things?
Q. I don't know what is it with me and friends. A little about me: I just graduated and now I'm going to start my second BA. I paint, I'm also a singer I am into mountaineering. I have friends when I am a part of an institution eg. College or a sch...
A. 19 October 2012: Hi there. Having friends only in the places where you study, is pretty limiting.
What you probably ought to be considering, is joining clubs where you pursue these interests.
Your friends will all be different, because your interests are so... (read in full...)
What do I do next? This Crush is eating me up. Does he have an interest in me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a crush issue that is eating me up. I met this guy(he's a colleague) over a year but we just started talking as friends recently. He is a graduate, and I am just finished my graduate education in the same university...
A. 19 October 2012: Hi there. Heavy family responsibilities could be a part of it, maybe.
It's possible he is simply being friendly, by paying for your drinks at lunch.
It's not really necessary that he should do that, so why he does it, is hard to define.
So... (read in full...)
How do I get hope back into my life?
Q. I am 30 years old and have achieved nothing in my life that is worthwhile. I am a serial procrastinator, I cannot be bothered to do anything - I have no motivation at all and just feel like what is the point?. I make lists saying I'll do this, thi...
A. 19 October 2012: Hi there. I do know what you mean by having a feeling like you haven't achieved your full potential, and starting but not finishing projects, plus the feeling of emptiness and helplessness you have as a result of all of this.
I can also relate t... (read in full...)
Does he like me? He hugs me for the smallest of things, plays footsies with me and always teases me
Q. This guy baked me a box of brownies on my birthday. He always compliments me (albeit in a weird way sometimes, like "why are you so funny?"). He hugs me for the smallest of things, plays footsies with me and always teases me. He even yelled a...
A. 15 October 2012: Hi there. He obviously sees you as at least a friend, otherwise he wouldn't have baked the brownies for you for your birthday.
If he didn't like you - even as a friend - he wouldn't be giving your compliments.
Playing footsies with you, is pla... (read in full...)
I got too sexual with my flirty texts, now she doesn't want to know me.
Q. hi, I really like this beautiful young lady that goes to my church and she has told me that she likes me also .The problem that I have is we have been talking to each other and texting other for the 4 or 5 months and everything has ...
A. 15 October 2012: Hi there. It's possible that when your text messages turned slightly sexual, that she began to think that that was all you were really interested in.
Especially as it was kind of sudden.
You did the right thing by apologising, and unfortunatel... (read in full...)
Why do guys do things like this? Did he change his mind? Do I just forget him?
Q. So I like this guy and I asked him if he wanted to hang out and he said Sure! :) And after I asked if he could pick me up he said no problem and asked what time? He said Then he said I don't know. I'll have to see. BUT then he never texted back...
A. 13 October 2012: Hi there. Usually, guys like to do the asking out.
Even though it's modern times, and sometimes girls do actually ask a guy out, just the same, men are still basically old fashioned when it comes to dating usually.
Because he didn't text you ... (read in full...)
Am I really in love with this guy or does it sound like a physical attraction? How can I tell the difference betwen like, love and just physical attraction?
Q. Dear Cupid How do we know whether we truely someone or its just physical attraction. I'm with this Guy for 2 years, I love him a lot. I never thought he is really handsome or anything, but its something in him I don't know want, makes me crazy a...
A. 13 October 2012: Hi there. It sounds like you are really in love with him, because when you said - "There's something about him that makes me crazy about him".
Which indicates that certain kind of magic, that comes from getting to know someone special and it's... (read in full...)
Can someone please tell me what 'treating a girl like a Princess' is all about?
Q. what is all the stuff about boyfrinds treating their girlfriends like a princess about Sorry I am clueless about this. How is this done? What do I do? why is it required?...
A. 13 October 2012: Hi there. Basically, it means to treat a girl with respect and dignity.
To have consideration for her feelings at all times.
To treat her well.
To spend some money on her - although not extravagantly so, of course.
Like taking h... (read in full...)
How can I be more assertive without coming across as an ass?
Q. So me and my girlfriend were just chilling in my room the other day when I randomly just told her to sit down on the bed, and suddenly she is talking about how she liked it and wants me to be more dominant/ controlling in the relationship. I was ...
A. 18 September 2012: Hi there. Just tell her that you are not the dominant, controlling type.
You need to have a chat about what each of your expectations are of the relationship.
You both need to be clear on what it is that you both want in a relationship.
... (read in full...)
Boyfriend feels neglected because I'm spending time with another friend. Views please?
Q. Hey everyone, I am 23 years old and my boyfriend is 26 nothing significant there but I thought of mentioning it cuz my boyfriend has been acting really immature these days.. I have a best guy friend we go bowling,dinner's lunch we have a lot of fu...
A. 18 September 2012: Hi there. The real issue your boyfriend seems to have is not that you are spending too much time with friends, but more that the friend you DO spend time with, happens to be be male.
I can honestly say, I can't really blame him for that really. ... (read in full...)
Am I really unloveable?
Q. I’m 27 and have never had a girlfriend or any kind of relationship for that matter. I just can’t understand the why of it all. No woman has ever wanted me. My love just isn’t good enough for some reason. I’ve gone so far as to ask my friends f...
A. 13 September 2012: Hi again. (Message No. 2).
The worst thing anyone can ever do, is to compare what they have to what others have.
When you do this, in your own mind it makes you feel less than.
The main thing is you want to be happy.
And at the sam... (read in full...)
Am I really unloveable?
Q. I’m 27 and have never had a girlfriend or any kind of relationship for that matter. I just can’t understand the why of it all. No woman has ever wanted me. My love just isn’t good enough for some reason. I’ve gone so far as to ask my friends f...
A. 13 September 2012: Hello again. Perhaps when you saw that lady who you got along well with on the previous evening, she may have been put off, because you became over eager to please her on the next night.
Or at least, it could have come across that way to her.
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Am I really unloveable?
Q. I’m 27 and have never had a girlfriend or any kind of relationship for that matter. I just can’t understand the why of it all. No woman has ever wanted me. My love just isn’t good enough for some reason. I’ve gone so far as to ask my friends f...
A. 12 September 2012: Hi there. I think it's entirely possible that perhaps you are trying too hard.
I realize how lonely it can feel when you see your friends with their girlfriends.
And very often in life, we don't all meet someone special at the same time.
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