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Why do married men look at other women?

Q.   why do married men look at other women? I have a husband who does this and I'm so upset about it. I don't look at other men because I'm happily married with the man I'm with. He tells me I'm beautiful, sexy, bodacious, the whole nine yards, but ...

A.   1 May 2012: I know right! I think if a man answers this question it will say - we can't help it, its in our genes, its nature. I think its just an excuse..but don't let him bring you down, especially since he gives you compliments and attention himself. Next ... (read in full...)

Guys, are women with big boobs more 'valuable' than the rest of us?

Q.   I was talking to my BF and he said that he was more inclined to treat a woman with big boobs with more care, respect and spoil her than a woman with smaller boobs. Of course I have a small B cup, and I asked him why he was with me. He said that I ...

A.   15 April 2012: Tell him "funny I agree with you...I am more inclined to treat a man with a bigger d**k with more sex." On a more serious note, although men are visual creatures and most of them have a preference - buttocks, breasts, or leg man; to say that you ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to keep lots of pics of your ex?

Q.   Is it normal to keep pics of your exes? i mean lots of pics, naked, underwear shots, normal pics. Im not sure he is over these ex girlfriends!...

A.   15 April 2012: No, he should move on. Or at least keep them away until you both commit further in the relationship.... (read in full...)

Translations please of guy-speak? Not sure what my Bf is implying.

Q.   Guys, what does it mean when a guy says you are amazing as a girlfriend, but when you try to be pretty you are stunning but when you don't try your blehh? What does this mean in guy speak?...

A.   15 April 2012: 1. Get dolled up like you never have before 2. Dump him 3. Find a real man who will say you look gorgeous first thing in the morning... (read in full...)

What is a reasonable frequency for spouse to go out drinking with friends?

Q.   We r married with 3 kids. My wife has recently taken to going out with different groups of girls a lot - what I would consider to be too much. They always go to bars. She always comes home at 1 am or later drunk. I most ofen provide the babysitting ...

A.   4 April 2012: Personally I think it is a bit excessive, seeing the stage you are in your lives. It does not mean however that she is being unfaithful or doing anything wrong. Maybe she did not get to live this stage of her life when she was younger? The amou... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has not added me on facebook, should I be worried?

Q.   Hi. Please help. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months and have agreed to be in a relationship. However, one thing is bothering me. He has not added me to his friends on Facebook. Should I be worried?...

A.   3 April 2012: Its true that up to a few years ago we didn't have facebook, so it should't matter, but unfortunately facebook nowadays is a reality which we have to face, and yes it is important. Facebook can get you fired from your job, it can show your family ... (read in full...)

Four years of talking online but I still don't know his real name, or phone number

Q.   Hi Users, Where do I begin?. I'll just write what comes I suppose. For four years I have been talking to a man online. We talk every day at least 3 to 4 times and sometimes more. We log onto MSN in the mornings, during breaks at work, after wor...

A.   3 April 2012: Sorry to be so blunt but: He is married.He is not your best friend. Wean yourself off this man. It will only be destructive. ... (read in full...)

Have you ever been deeply in love with someone and then they decide they don't want to be with you anymore?

Q.   Has any of you ever been very deeply in love with a person, and then after (in my case 2 years) awhile they decide they don't want to be with you anymore? What did you do? How did you handle it/carry on? (He had a ring, we planned to get marrie...

A.   3 April 2012: Eat, drink, cry, lock yourself in your room, watch sad movies. MOURN. When you get tired of it (and you will) and you seem like you're getting there, get up, wash your hair, put on some make up and go out, even for a walk. However much you feel... (read in full...)

He leaves me to sleep alone, our sex life has died...all because he is up all night chatting to other women!

Q.   Please help! I have been living with my boyfriend for 1.8 years. The time has gone really quickly because as they say, time flies when you are having fun! Sometime into our relationship, I realised one night he was missing from bed. He has a ...

A.   3 April 2012: I have to tell you well done for being patient about the whole thing and trusting him, also for the way you handled the situation. If I understood you well, the deal here is not the gaming itself, but the not sharing this piece of his world with ... (read in full...)

I know I'm overweight but my boyfriend still loves me, so why cant I get this into my head?

Q.   I cant get over my weight issue!!! I am plain and simply over-weight! I dread to think how much I weigh but Im a UK size 22/24. (I have a medical condition which currently prevents me from losing weight and my bf knows about it) My boyfri...

A.   3 April 2012: You can't get it in your head cause you need to love YOU first! If you don't look in the mirror and say damn I look so good! then do something about it. If he wasn't attracted to you he would be sleeping around and you would notice that. So he is ... (read in full...)

Should my boyfriend be watching porn?

Q.   Should my boyfriend be watching porn? I've been with my boyfriend over 4 years and we live together. I am so happy apart from the fact that he watches porn. I cant accept it and it makes me feel very insecure. Why does he have to get turned on by ot...

A.   3 April 2012: All men watch porn = FACT If he says he will never watch it again , he's lying, don't even consider accepting that, cause he'll only be putting himself up for failure. You personally need to understand that you are gorgeous, there is some guy thin... (read in full...)

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