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He's divorced and so am I...how long before we should marry?

Q.   I am divorce to a navy military member and now i have a army bf but he is in the same base in our area. we are planning to get married, how long it takes or the process, if am divorce and he is divorce too?? is that possible we married soon?...

A.   8 December 2009: How long have you been divorced? Maybe you can seek legal advice in your area.... (read in full...)

Help!!! What do these dreams mean?

Q.   Ok waht could these dreams mean? Its weird i keep having dreams about me and one of my guy friends going out together. Thing is stuff happens at the start like we kinda ty and hold hands but one of us pulls away and stuff, basically it starts with ...

A.   8 December 2009: Maybe you subconsciously want to be with him.... (read in full...)

How do I tell my mom that I want to stay at my bf's place?

Q.   I come from a strict European background and up until recently I haven't dated much. I'm 23 and still live at home (I support my parents financially). I don't talk to my mom about guys or anything like that...she's never talked to me about it ...

A.   8 December 2009: You are an adult and you are helping with the finances, that makes you responsible for your decisions and actions. Tell her you are going somewhere and you'll see her in the morning.... (read in full...)

16 and possibly pregnant... any advice?

Q.   FREAKING OUT!!!!! I'm 16 years old and I have been pregnant before when I was 15, I had a surgical miscarriage. I regret it every bit, but I know for a fact that i was not ready for a baby. I'm still not ready, I think I'm pregnant again, I'm show...

A.   8 December 2009: First thing you need to do is find out if you are really pregnant, buy a pregnancy test and discuss this further with your boyfriend and maybe your parents. Try to be more careful in the future and use protection, for your own safety. ... (read in full...)

Should I bring it up again and try to bring closure?

Q.   I hope my question format is easy to understand. History: My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost two years. We have had our ups and downs, but nothing that was extreme in any manner. I love her very much, and she says she ...

A.   8 December 2009: Discuss this openly with her, don't get defensive and talk this out. Tell her how you feel and listen to what she has to say and find a way to compromise so you both respect each other's boundaries. Life isn't easy and neither are relation... (read in full...)

I don't know how to date after being in a relationship for 3 years!

Q.   so iam 20 years old and just broke up with my girl friend we had been going out for about 3 years. the problem is i forgot how to do all the dating stuff, any advice?...

A.   8 December 2009: Maybe you need to take some time for yourself, be on your own and if you find that someone special that catches your eye then go for it. I doubt you have the need to start dating all kinds of guys right now, maybe what you need is time to heal aft... (read in full...)

My labia seems to be getting bigger... any ideas why?

Q.   I have been having sex for 2 years now... my vagina isn't bigger at all in the inside, but the "labia" or "lips" as some people call it seem to be getting bigger... is it because of the way my body is changing or is it really because of sex?? ...

A.   8 December 2009: Maybe...but if you're really worried about it, maybe you need to visit a gynecologist. ... (read in full...)

Is there such a thing as a "drunk dick"?

Q.   I recently had sex with this guy and he was drunk... I did things with him sexually before and he could always "finish" even when I gave him a handjob ... but he couldnt when we had sex and it brought down my ego... he said it was beacuse he was ...

A.   8 December 2009: Alcohol can influence the sexual performance, just try again when you are both sober and you will see the difference. ... (read in full...)

Sometimes I can't stand my boyfriend!

Q.   I really do love my boyfriend I just can't stand him sometimes. Sometimes I think about breaking up with him but after talking to him I change my mind. I don't know what's up with me. He's 17, a senior, and Im his first official girlfriend. I do...

A.   8 December 2009: You guys are young and a lot of things will change when you get older. Enjoy these years and each other's company...have fun and leave the drama a side. If he isn't treating you right leave him and if you aren't really into him find someone els... (read in full...)

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