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Q.   Dear Cupid, I am a dominant female and my boyfriend is very submissive and because of this our relationship works well. I like to dress him up in my underwear and tease him and he quite clearly enjoys this. In fact he enjoys cross dressing co...

A.   26 December 2007: um..for his sake don't send out the pictures! You know better than him as he is simply subservient. Keep your private lives private. don't risk jeporadizing his friendships and work for this.... (read in full...)

My girlfriend wants me to give up porn...and I would choose her but I refuse to pretend to be something I'm not.

Q.   Before anyone chips in and says that I don't understand this from the female perspective, please hear me out - because I have read posts, and heard views from the female side - and believe me they are pretty mixed. My girlfriend and I have been tog...

A.   26 December 2007: ..might I add..I'd personally choose the GF over the porn, but you don't necessarily need porn to simply masturbate. It would be interesting to hear how she feels about porn-less masturbation? Comes down to is even if you gave up porn for her, its ... (read in full...)

She won't have any further contact with me after six years. What should I do?

Q.   My girlfriend of 6 years just left me 5 weeks ago. She was with me all the time right after work and weekends. She seemed fine and same as normal. On saturday night she came over then went to baby sit like she always did now and again. I spoke to ...

A.   26 December 2007: The bottom line is you need to find out what was said to her about you. Because your version of what your dad/stepmom have told her will obviously be different. Because it sure sounds like whatever they told her has shook her enough to break a ... (read in full...)

Sometimes I feel I should end the relationshop purely because of age difference and people's disapproval... but I'd be so unhappy and miss him. What do you think?

Q.   Hi there, I am 23 and my boyfriend is 42.We have been together almost 2 years.He is divorced with no children. When we met we became great friends and gradually got together..we are now living together and things are great. However, when pe...

A.   23 December 2007: In many parts of the world a 15 year to 30 year age difference is considered the norm. Only in the West does the notion that its too much of an age gap exist. Imagine being from Eastern Europe and how dissaproving families there are of dating ... (read in full...)

How likely is it be that I could be pregnant?... How do antibiotics affect the protection system provided by the contraceptive pills?

Q.   I am taking the contraceptive pill and had also been on antibiotics. I had unprotected sex but when this took place I hadnt taken any antibiotics for over 24 hours so i am not sure if they were still in my system and therefore affecting how my pill ...

A.   13 December 2007: A little time and an at home pregnancy test is the crystal ball that gives the 98% correct answer you seek. =(... (read in full...)

I need to know how to give her the big 'O'

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend now for a year. Although we both care for each other, a situation arose last week. We started having sex about 2 or 3 months ago and have sex 2 or 3 times a week. One day when I had to go out to get something, I came bac...

A.   13 December 2007: This subject is so vast that there are Volumes of books written on this alone. You should seriously invest in one of these, start reading and conclude your research in the bedroom over many experimental weeks.... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to be with a guy you get along with perfectly but he does not pay attention to your sexual needs so you obtain the pleasure elsewhere to balance your life??

Q.   I am just about to cheat on my boyfriend of one year because of the lack of sex and affection from him. I am so disappointed as he is just such a nice guy and I love him so much and in any other ways he is perfect and I do not have any problems with ...

A.   13 December 2007: Well ask him if its ok that you get your sexual needs met elsewhere..then its all good. At least until you start falling for your new Beau(s) and your current relationship begins to crumble into an emotional mess. Cheating on someone is always an ... (read in full...)

Should I not trust her?

Q.   I just need a second opinion on this one because I'm not to sure myself. My g/f is attending college and recently she had admitted to flirting with a classmate. I was very unhappy and she knew that I would be upset by them continuing to hang out....

A.   13 December 2007:  Sounds like she's talking out of both sides of her mouth and not taking your relationship as seriously as you are. Trust your instincts, not her. Unless of course you're a glutton for emotional punishment.... (read in full...)

He loses his erection a bit when I go down on him. Whats wrong?

Q.   Hey everybody. I want to start out by wishing you all happy holidays!! Anyways, I have a problem. Everytime I go down on my boyfriend he always goes a bit limp. Not completely but it goes down a bit. Everything is fine when we have sex. He has...

A.   13 December 2007: Well, one thing to keep in mind. As a guy gets older often he needs a little more physical and sexual/mental stimulation to maintain an erection. Usually oral sex doesn't provide the same type of stimulation that the real deal does. I'm in the ... (read in full...)

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