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My friends think I'm a lesbian!

Q.   okay. im 14. and my friends always say im a lezo. like, i like guys. well, i always used to, and like, this is the time when people normally start liking. and, well, i think girls are pretty, but i also appreciate guys. and there making me doubt ...

A.   22 October 2009:  don't listen to your friends...listen to yourself. they can't tell you what you do and do not like. if you like vanilla ice cream and they just say you like chocolate ice cream - well duh obviously you like vanilla ice cream.... (read in full...)

Is this joke a facade for her true feelings?

Q.   My friend and I have had this ongoing joke that we are lesbians (a joke that she started and eagerly keeps going.) I thought this would have died down ages ago, but it has been going on for countless weeks already---I think over a month. Basically, ...

A.   22 October 2009: if you're not comfortable with it, then tell her you're not into it anymore and ask her if maybe she's serious about it. just so that if she is, you'll clear the air, before her feelings get hurt and she starts thinking you're going along with it ... (read in full...)

I'm attracted to a woman who looks like an actor I like

Q.   This will probably sound really weird, but i feel like i am attracted to a woman !. She resembles this actor that i have a crush on, she looks like she could be related to him. I can see that their features are similar. Does this mean i am a lesbian ...

A.   22 October 2009: i guess the fact she looks like that actor who you are attracted to, does add to the fact that you're attracted to her. obviously, because she looks the way you like for a person to look. that's part of the reason why you became more curious abou... (read in full...)

Neither of us will admit to being lesbians, but I love my best friend

Q.   My best friend is overseas for half a year and I miss her terribly. I’m so in love with her. I’m pretty sure that she’s miserable without me too, but is too afraid to admit it. Neither of us are supposedly lesbian or bisexual. I don’t want to b...

A.   22 October 2009: i'm bisexual... but that's not the point. i'm not out or anything, but again that's not the point. the point is that I think she's in love with me, but I'm scared that maybe I'm wrong, and I would be completely heartbroken if that was the case. ... (read in full...)

I've always just 'felt' like she's gay despite her claiming she's straight

Q.   I guess I'm just wanting advice on whether this girl i'm mad about is gay. I fell in love with her over a year ago and it was the first time i've ever liked a girl so its taken me a pretty long time to accept it. But now i'm confident with the fact ...

A.   11 October 2009: tell her you like her. it will save you a lot of unnecessary battles with your own mind and heart. you can make assumptions all day, look for every hint and clue and at the end of the day you'll still never be sure. so just tell her the truth. ... (read in full...)

Why am I angry at my friend's passing?

Q.   this will be my last time. i need couple more questions answered. my best friend, no my brother, who i grew up with. who was with me since i was 6, died yesterday. he wasnt a blood relative or related to my family in any way but he was my brother, ...

A.   11 October 2009: dealing with this will take a lot of time. grief is a tough process. i suggest you talk to people about this, and share your pain and frustration with them. you can also look up the 4 stages of grief on the internet. your anger at him is na... (read in full...)

How do I dump him?

Q.   I've been with this guy since October 28th, 2007. Our 2 year anniversary is coming up here shortly, but I find myself not being in love with him anymore. I'll try to make this as short as I can. He was in the Army when I met him, but he hadn...

A.   11 October 2009: leave the jerk! you know he is one, now have the courage to do something about it!... (read in full...)

Neither of us will admit to being lesbians, but I love my best friend

Q.   My best friend is overseas for half a year and I miss her terribly. I’m so in love with her. I’m pretty sure that she’s miserable without me too, but is too afraid to admit it. Neither of us are supposedly lesbian or bisexual. I don’t want to b...

A.   10 October 2009: I guess she really just doesn't love me enough if she's not saying anything, there's a limit to how afraid a person can be!... (read in full...)

I had sex with my best friend....am I a lesbian? I love her so much!

Q.   hello, im really confused... i am 17, and i am in love with my best friend who is a girl also... she is so pretty smart and makes me laugh constantly... i get excited when she texts me and i melt when she talks to me... we have kissed on numerous ...

A.   9 October 2009: i don't think you will scare her off that easily.. you guys did after all have sex... ... (read in full...)

Neither of us will admit to being lesbians, but I love my best friend

Q.   My best friend is overseas for half a year and I miss her terribly. I’m so in love with her. I’m pretty sure that she’s miserable without me too, but is too afraid to admit it. Neither of us are supposedly lesbian or bisexual. I don’t want to b...

A.   8 October 2009: I hope that it's not wishful thinking and she does miss me as more than just a friend. It's just one of those things you have a gut feeling about. I've had other close friends go away for some time and it wasn't the same between us. It actually felt ... (read in full...)

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