New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244961 questions, 1084297 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

*elightful84

United Kingdom  (Female   XML/RSS

Like what she writes?
... Add *elightful84 to your favourite agony aunts

Want to get in touch?
... Send *elightful84 a private message

*elightful84's Ratings
Excellent79%
Average8%
Poor13%
< Prev123 [3 pages, 87 answers]

My wife seems to be addicted to making friends with men on the internet!

Q.   What is your take on this? My wife is addicted to the internet. She is on there constantly, to the point that she neglects just about everything else in her life. I found out a few things and it has been bothering me to no end. What started the susp...

A.   17 January 2012: I am with code warrior on this one. I dont believe for a moment she would tolerate this shit if it was you. Her disrespect for you and your relationship will not be realised until something drastic happens. ... (read in full...)

Why do people go out of their way to do things for you or give you things, only to keep reminding you of how good they have been?

Q.   Why do people go out of their way to do things for you or give you things, only to keep reminding you of how good they have been? My friend has been good to me in many ways and I acknowledge that. Every time I disagree with anything, she tells me ...

A.   3 January 2012: These types of people you are better off not knowing. You do for them and they are ungrateful,judge by its value and fast to forget. What they do for you is never forgotten and used against you. Therefore they have not really done for you they have ... (read in full...)

Would it be better to not get married and disappoint our families?

Q.   I am due to get married in three months. For the past two years I have been catching my soon to be wife in darting chat rooms. She has been clumsy and left things around,including guys phone numbers. I have never been able to get past this as she ...

A.   2 December 2011: It will be the biggest mistake of your life. I dread to see what your life would be like as soon as she gets the 7 year itch. What she is doing is abuse and I cannot understand why you never left after the 2nd time you found her CHEATING on you.... (read in full...)

Not attracted to the guy I'm dating....am I shallow? Will this change as I get to know him better?

Q.   Hey all! I don't wanna sound shallow or anything, but I've recently been on a few dates with this guy. Nothing happened, but he is clearluy interested in me. I have a good time with him and all, but... I think he's really ugly and I don't feel any ...

A.   29 November 2011: Looks are not everything. However,it could be the way they walk,the way they deal with people,a sense of humor,or anything else that attracts you. If there is nothing attracting you to this man then it wont work.... (read in full...)

Sick of thinking about my ex....where the hell do you meet people these days?

Q.   im finding myself in a trap that i cant get myself out of it. i spilt up with my boyfriend 4 months ago and i know deep down it was the right thing to do, even though he was a lovely man he just didnt want the same things as me and didnt want to ...

A.   29 November 2011: You didnt think of him when you was with someone. If he was right for you you would have thought of him at that time. Just 1 week after breaking up he goes on a dating website. Using those pictures was a slap in the face. Occupy your thoughts ... (read in full...)

So if he does not want to see me why not just say "I am busy" without saying he wants to go out?

Q.   Hi, I am a bit confused and i am not sure if this guy is blowing me off. We went out a couple of times and last week he kept saying that we have to meet up this week and he would love to see me BUT .. this never happens ! So if he does not w...

A.   29 November 2011: Whatever he is playing at,its not looking good for you. Men who want to be with a specific woman don`t beat around the bush. They will let you know without any delay. A mans reasoning is to move in fast, just in case another man does before him. ... (read in full...)

Have a new girlfriend, but stilll miss my ex so much!

Q.   Is it normal to think about your ex, but being with someone new? I dated my ex over a year ago and I broke it off. A year after our break up, she had already a boyfriend for six months, and still called me. We started meeting up regularly , havi...

A.   29 November 2011: Its a shame you are with this girl before you are ready for another relationship. It would be best all round if you end it and let her get someone who adores her. The ex wont be able be exclusive to you or anybody. She wouldnt know how to.... (read in full...)

What's more important; being loved unconditionally by a good man, or being single but popular earning a good salary?

Q.   I would consider myself to be a social outcast. I have a very few select number of friends, people reject me and I'm just not all that popular. I'm not part of the clique at work, and recently missed out on a promotion because of this. The girl that ...

A.   29 November 2011: To love and be loved by someone special is priceless.... (read in full...)

*elightful84's friends

These are mutual friends, so *elightful84 has added them and they have added *elightful84!

bashful3 agony auntbashful3
new_member agony auntnew_member
Renata45 agony auntRenata45

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0937344999983907!