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What can be done about my Gf's health? Don't want to break up break up with her, she's lovely and wonderful, when she is not down

Q.   Hi aunts and uncles, I'm in need of some help, I think my girlfriend of 6 months has slid back into her depression, she has told me about how she had depression before. Background info: She is always briefly moody in the mornings and...

A.   4 February 2017: I know you care about her, but think about the future. Go get a healthy girl.... (read in full...)

My ex broke up with me, then texted me 2 months later that he still loved me, then said he didn't want to lead me on!

Q.   My boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago. I've been dealing with it. The other day,out of the blue, he sent me a text message that said I love you. I felt that was not intended for me, so I called and told him that I think he sent the text to the ...

A.   19 October 2016: What makes women think that men don't feel. If he says he loves he loves you. Instead of trying to talk just tell thank you or that you love him and that's all. If your able to get these words in tell him you understand and that you're not going ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend says she's bored of sex and I'm fantasizing about other women. We're doomed, right?

Q.   Mf gf said she is bored of sex yet I am the only one trying to be kinky or sexy in bed. It's doing my head in. Maybe I should be honest with her and tell her Ive been fantasizing about other women because you arent doing anything anymore. I have ...

A.   19 October 2016: I think tisha hit the nail on the head. lol I have had a few lovers in my life, and i have say most of them were clueless as to how to get my juices flowing (yes I am single) lol. All women realize that you guys need sex, women love having sex too.... (read in full...)

He blanked me for weeks then blows up because I was with some one else?

Q.   I was texting / meeting a guy (let's call him Fred, this isn't his name) and was seeing each other for about 9weeks.. Then for some reason he stopped talking to me. He said he had family issues and personal problems and can't give me what I want, he ...

A.   19 October 2016: No you don't . We always want what we think we can't have. If you were that sure there's no way you would have hookup with John. Men have to trust you and in order to this you must be trust worthy. Best thing to do is move on nothing gained nothing ... (read in full...)

His fantasy girl looks nothing like me

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost two months. My boyfriend was talking to his friend about his friend's sex life. His friend was at a bar that time telling my boyfriend that there are lots of girls there, inviting my boyfriend to go ...

A.   19 October 2016: Listen to what wiseowle has to say perfect advice from a perfect source.... (read in full...)

Should I give up on my ex/ maybe boyfriend and go on the date? Does that make me a cheater?Or should I work things out with him?

Q.   I am unsure of how to proceed. My ex (I guess) broke up with me back in September because I waned him to spend more time doing things with me because all he did was play video games. I wanted to go out and do things. After a lot of fighting h...

A.   19 October 2016: He may have said he was breaking up with over what you want him to do, which is pretty shitty of him. But for you to be nagging all the time isn't helping find something else to do. If you aren't happy you could break up with him. What you are feel... (read in full...)

How do husbands/wives of actors/actresses deal with this jealousy?

Q.   Help Help Help. I think I might be overreacting, but then sometimes I think I'm not and I should feel jealous. My wife is a pre-school teacher, and an opportunity for a Kindergarten position came up (at more than twice the salary), but my wife and ...

A.   19 October 2016: When it is your passion or your life's work, it has levels and hurdles that as an actor you must cross in order to see yourself as successful. Being able to act in a romantic story is part of the range a an actor must do to feel fulfilled. It's lik... (read in full...)

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