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My dad is pissed that I don't love my boyfriend anymore?

Q.   Hello. So my boyfriend and I have a complicated on and off relationship. We have been together for four years. I invited him to my birthday party thinking that my dad still doesn't like him (my dad never said a word about liking him until last ...

A.   11 July 2016: First of all relax! May be your dad has finally understood that you love him and he doesn't want you to go through the mood swings which you would be going through because of that on and off relationship you were into. May be your dad doesn't want ... (read in full...)

I have been in a relationship with a married man for 3 years. How do I walk away from him?

Q.   I have been in a relationship with a married man for 3 years. We have known each other for 40 years. We were together 38 years ago went our own ways and ran into each other for lunch and the rest is history. We love each other very much but I can't ...

A.   11 July 2016: Good that you realized that you need to move away and that you shouldn't be a home wrecker. Stop convincing yourself of the fact that he will be devastated when you leave him, as you will be devastated if you stay. You are always going to be his ... (read in full...)

Is he interested in me?? He sure has been attentive.Or is he being a great salesperson?

Q.   Hi everyone! I need some advice on whether you think this guy I know is interested in me or not. I'll try and lay out the whole situation honestly so you can get a feel for it! So at the end of April I went to a cosmetics store, the one local to ...

A.   10 July 2016: I guess you should ask him out. We talk so much woman equality and feminism. Don't you think we should also have a step put forward in this regard. Go to him the next weekend. And ask for his number by some means. And make sure he talks to you. May ... (read in full...)

What should I be doing to get him to talk to me again, and not let me down again?

Q.   I needed your help with my love life. I met a guy in june he is really sweet and nice we both liked each other a lot then he started acting weird ignoring me and not wanting to talk to me I didn't know what I did to trigger him to do that and the ...

A.   10 July 2016: Look don't be depressed. It will change nothing but worsen the situation your are into. Talk to him ask him directly what's wrong. I know you'll awkward about it. But that's what is going to help. Try your best. Don't give up. Give yourself ... (read in full...)

What should I be doing to get him to talk to me again, and not let me down again?

Q.   I needed your help with my love life. I met a guy in june he is really sweet and nice we both liked each other a lot then he started acting weird ignoring me and not wanting to talk to me I didn't know what I did to trigger him to do that and the ...

A.   10 July 2016: Look don't be depressed. It will change nothing but worsen the situation your are into. Talk to him ask him directly what's wrong. I know you'll awkward about it. But that's what is going to help. Try your best. Don't give up. Give yourself ... (read in full...)

Should I leave everything and everyone I know for love?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for around 2 and a half years. We go to college together, and graduate in May. He is from California; I am from NYC. I love NYC and he loves California, and we love each other very much -- we want to stay tog...

A.   10 July 2016: The idea of leaving him may be so devastating that you may not even want not think about it. I suggest not to. Distance can't keep your family and loved ones away. You should try to move in with him and make sure you visit your family and friends ... (read in full...)

Should I move to win love?

Q.   Most of the girls in my home town only see me as a friend by this stage of my life, Any that i managed to be romantically involved with never lasted longer than 2 dates. By logic I am clearly the problem here. I'm too nicey nice and can't be the ...

A.   7 July 2016: Well this is nothing as big as a reason to leave the town but not a bad idea either. Though love happens on it's own but in your case it seems to be a little time taking. So if you have any job opportunities or as per your age group any study ... (read in full...)

How can I take a stand on my controlling sister? She is making life difficult.

Q.   My sister and I are very close, she's always had insecurities but her current boyfriend seems to be making them worse, not by abuse at all, but lack of attention and assurance. He suffers from anxiety which leads him to be distant with no sex drive ...

A.   4 July 2016: Just keep calm and spend some time with her. Help her dress up well and try to show her that she is beautiful too. Keep distance from her boyfriend. Show her how she has been ruining your privacy. I am sure she will understand. And it's really k... (read in full...)

How to create a life of my own after hiding behind ex for 6 years?

Q.   I regretfully revolved my life around his for 6 years. It was emotionally abusive, am trying to work on my self esteem after it was battered for years. I am starting to realize in many ways this is a good thing that I was dumped. It did blindsid...

A.   4 July 2016: First of all, Cheers! Cheers to the hidden strong girl inside you who finally found courage to come up to the surface. Good that you are ready to accept things rather than just cribbing upon them. For a change, go for a vacation or plan up a fam... (read in full...)

My shyness means I have no dating options, help me out!

Q.   I am very very shy and at 25 I have never been in a relationship or anything of the sort. Sometime back a lady and I became friends from hi to kinda chat buddies. In all honesty she says she loves me. I however don't think I can ever get attracted ...

A.   1 July 2016: If you don't love her please don't get into a relationship with her. As life goes unpredictable you will soon find the right one for you and then you would have to break up with her which will turn out to be a mess. Too painful and of course will ... (read in full...)

We broke up 2 weeks ago and I've heard nothing from him! Did he ever care? I'm confused and hurt!

Q.   Trying to get over the guy I was with dumping me out of the blue after 6 years, it has been 2 weeks and everytime I hear nothing from him I am slowly giving up and hardening my heart to any reconciliation or speaking to him ever again. I feel li...

A.   30 June 2016: What are you confused for? You shouldn't be confused about having him again in your life as he doesn't show up anytime he needs to. There is a possibility that he might be really occupied by work and he might have a lot to deal with currently but ... (read in full...)

How do I ask him to give things a proper go?

Q.   Hello . This is a little complicated , i went on a date with a guy about 8 month ago we agreed to be a couple but due to work and family and anything else we didnt get to see each other so decided to be friends , fast forward 8 month im in such a ...

A.   30 June 2016: Well, you don't want to make the first move but you want him to be back in your life. It's like a bird who wants to fly but is scared of heights. Look it's not necessary for you to directly go up to him and talk about your relationship. Instead you ... (read in full...)

We had our first kiss and it wasn't magic as expected! Now what?

Q.   We had our first kiss and it wasnt magic as expected. I am dating a guy who has been hitting on me for three years now. I am 20 he is 23 i thought i had feelings for him but yesterday when we had our first kiss i didnt enjoy. It was strange, tasted ...

A.   30 June 2016: Look! Whatever it is, it isn't fair to quit the relationship without even trying. It would just take a minute or two to break up with him but if after sometime you find yourself missing him and then even if you want him back you are not going to ... (read in full...)

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