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Q.   I've been seeing a great guy for about two months now. After we were intimate for the first time, I asked him what did he want between us. He let me know that he didn't want something exclusive at the moment. He said some other things, but I just ...

A.   14 January 2011: Oh, I totally forgot about this question. Anyway, update, he asked me to be his girlfriend! lol ;D We really are too old for this, but he was apprehensive for a reason. He told me he wanted me to be his girlfriend from the beginning, but he f... (read in full...)

Is it a relationship or just sex?

Q.   I met up with a guy after contacting him via an 'Adult' dating website, whilst I wasn't looking for a relationship from this website (I'm on traditional dating site, looking for the LTR) this one was just about the sex. During our swapping of e-ma...

A.   16 August 2010: Oh gawd, I know exactly how you feel. It's confusing first and foremost, but also it's very immature. It's understandable to be lonely, but after a certain amount of time you both begin to form an attachment complete with feelings. Especially when ... (read in full...)

We seem to be on different pages...

Q.   I've been seeing a great guy for about two months now. After we were intimate for the first time, I asked him what did he want between us. He let me know that he didn't want something exclusive at the moment. He said some other things, but I just ...

A.   13 July 2010: Thanks QuirkyLady....I try not to write too much in these posts so that it doesn't take up a lot of unneeded space. I'd give you background, but it's beside the point. It's not about not wanting to be in a relationship, but he said he didn't, I ... (read in full...)

We seem to be on different pages...

Q.   I've been seeing a great guy for about two months now. After we were intimate for the first time, I asked him what did he want between us. He let me know that he didn't want something exclusive at the moment. He said some other things, but I just ...

A.   13 July 2010: Thanks for the reply, I'm not gonna lie, I'm new to this kind of treatment, not because I've been mistreated, but because I tend to keep my distance so as not to get drawn in emotionally. Most of the men have respected this....he's just not doing ... (read in full...)

Is an hour for sex too long?

Q.   Sex with my fiance' usually lasts 45 min to an hour. She complains that it takes me too long, but i have "trained myself" to last like this, and now its difficult to have an orgasm in a hurry (less than 15 min). She complains about it, but I though...

A.   25 October 2009: I believe an hour is too long, but it's very thoughtful of you to put the woman's needs first, as it does take most females longer to climax than men. Just don't overdo it. It can get boring and become painful for women. The last man I was with... (read in full...)

My husband always puts me down, and now ive had enough, need some advice please..

Q.   Can't get past it.... Recently I told my husband about his constant pointing out my "faults". Over the last three years he has repeated the same sentiments or arguements have started that began with something that he felt I should be doing ...

A.   2 August 2009: I've left him over a year and half ago, moved back home and me and my children are enjoying a very quiet life back in my home state. He is still trying to get me back, but our relationship is irreparable. It's great to have the expectat... (read in full...)

My husband always puts me down, and now ive had enough, need some advice please..

Q.   Can't get past it.... Recently I told my husband about his constant pointing out my "faults". Over the last three years he has repeated the same sentiments or arguements have started that began with something that he felt I should be doing ...

A.   12 December 2007: Well, it seems like this went from bad to out of orbit worse. After the last post, he met someone else a week later and began a relationship with her (which he said was just friends). Over the recent holiday, I finally got tired of the "se... (read in full...)

Could he care for me?

Q.   I am 16 while my bf is 25. We've been going out for five months now but I'm not sure if he loves me. He admitted of being a player but told me he has changed for me and that he is crazy about me and adores me. We live in different states and we only ...

A.   7 October 2007: First, you can be sure that he is not "alone" while he is away from you. He is 25 and has admitted to being a player. You haven't changed him. Once he gets what he wants from you, he is through. He isn't looking at this as a relationship at all. ... (read in full...)

My husband always puts me down, and now ive had enough, need some advice please..

Q.   Can't get past it.... Recently I told my husband about his constant pointing out my "faults". Over the last three years he has repeated the same sentiments or arguements have started that began with something that he felt I should be doing ...

A.   6 October 2007: Update.... Well, I guess none of this matters. After talking at least once a week, it seems I'm reduced to repeating the same thing over and over again. He somehow thinks that I'm overreating. He confessed that he'd purposely set out to h... (read in full...)

My husband always puts me down, and now ive had enough, need some advice please..

Q.   Can't get past it.... Recently I told my husband about his constant pointing out my "faults". Over the last three years he has repeated the same sentiments or arguements have started that began with something that he felt I should be doing ...

A.   27 August 2007:  First,to the second poster, I don't wear frumpy clothing. I'm more or less very casual. My head is always done, so the typical Muu Muu and such is not me. I'm only in my early mid-thirties and the last thing I'm thinking about is dressing... (read in full...)

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