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I've planned a very elaborate threesome with my bf and another girl, but could still do with some advice..

Q.   Hi all. The live-in boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We are very solid, trust each other completely, with little to no jealousy whatsoever, and we have a great sex life. So after about 6 months of discussion, we've finally decided to ...

A.   26 November 2016: I've done it with my boyfriend of, at that time, 4 yrs. I felt some jealousy pangs, not while the sex was happening, but before that when he seemed to make me disappear. He felt some jealousy also, as he felt she was too much into me. Remember, ... (read in full...)

What's the sexiest thing about your partner?

Q.   What's the sexiest thing to you about your partner whether it be past/present/future. What do you find most attractive in someone else? ...

A.   25 May 2016: His big warm sparkling brown eyes.... (read in full...)

My girlfriend suddenly has a fantasy about a MFF threesome and won't let go of it!

Q.   Hi I have been with my girlfriend and soon to be fiance for 6 years Through out the relationship she has been very possesive and jealous, to the point where if i looked at porn or say another girl in the shopping centre, had pictures of a bi...

A.   24 April 2016: You've been getting some good advice from the commenters. Recently I had a threesome with my boyfriend that turned out not to be a good experience for either of us. In fact, I was seriously considering breaking up with him and posed a questi... (read in full...)

My boyfriend seemed too interested in my friend during our threesome

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and have had a great sex life with lots of experimentation as we both have high sex drives. He has always wanted to have a threesome so I, having had two previous good experiences with thr...

A.   8 April 2016: My bf and I talked it out and neither of us ultimately had a good experience, therefore no more threesomes for us. We're back and we've been extra good to each other. His words and actions have gained my trust. Thanks to all who responde... (read in full...)

My boyfriend seemed too interested in my friend during our threesome

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and have had a great sex life with lots of experimentation as we both have high sex drives. He has always wanted to have a threesome so I, having had two previous good experiences with thr...

A.   1 April 2016: Aunt Honesty: I think you're right.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend seemed too interested in my friend during our threesome

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and have had a great sex life with lots of experimentation as we both have high sex drives. He has always wanted to have a threesome so I, having had two previous good experiences with thr...

A.   31 March 2016: Anonymous: You make good points. The thing that made me feel so hurt was his initial reaction (before clothing was removed) to her. The way he seemed to have immediate chemistry for her and how he could so easily make me invisible. The weird ... (read in full...)

I have feelings for the boy I am texting and having sex with

Q.   The past 2 month I've been texting and sleeping with a guy and recently found out I am 4 weeks pregnant. We have spoke about it and argued a lot over the past few days due to him telling all of his friends after me repeatedly asking and telling him ...

A.   31 March 2016: Get an abortion. I did when I was in a similar situation at 19. I had a low-paying job, lived with my parents and was going to college. I have never regretted that decision. ... (read in full...)

Should I be happy for my ex fiance after he cheated on me and hurt me so badly?

Q.   About 3 months ago, my fiancé of 4 years ended our relationship. I would later find out he was cheating on me behind my back for about 2 weeks with a new woman at his work who he barely knew. I knew he met her and I actually knew her somewhat bac...

A.   30 March 2016: You are right to tell him to stay out of your life. The sooner you completely cut ties with him and his family the faster you'll heal. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend seemed too interested in my friend during our threesome

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and have had a great sex life with lots of experimentation as we both have high sex drives. He has always wanted to have a threesome so I, having had two previous good experiences with thr...

A.   29 March 2016: Serpico: You make a point.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend seemed too interested in my friend during our threesome

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and have had a great sex life with lots of experimentation as we both have high sex drives. He has always wanted to have a threesome so I, having had two previous good experiences with thr...

A.   29 March 2016: Anonymous: He's looked at me that way enough times for me to know that's not what the look means.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend seemed too interested in my friend during our threesome

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and have had a great sex life with lots of experimentation as we both have high sex drives. He has always wanted to have a threesome so I, having had two previous good experiences with thr...

A.   29 March 2016: Tish_1: This was more than a smidgeon of close examination. I wasn't exaggerating about all eyes for her, lots of eye contact and flirtation. I could have walked out of the room and he wouldn't have noticed. This was not a test, as I feel ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend seemed too interested in my friend during our threesome

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and have had a great sex life with lots of experimentation as we both have high sex drives. He has always wanted to have a threesome so I, having had two previous good experiences with thr...

A.   28 March 2016: Tish_1: The rules we agreed on is that everyone would receive equal attention, so him making me feel invisible was breaking the rule. I fully expected him to look at the other woman, just not to make me disappear. But as I said once in the sack ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend seemed too interested in my friend during our threesome

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and have had a great sex life with lots of experimentation as we both have high sex drives. He has always wanted to have a threesome so I, having had two previous good experiences with thr...

A.   28 March 2016: Eddie85, the above "thanks for your response message" was meant for you.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend seemed too interested in my friend during our threesome

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and have had a great sex life with lots of experimentation as we both have high sex drives. He has always wanted to have a threesome so I, having had two previous good experiences with thr...

A.   28 March 2016: Thanks IvyBlue. My friend already has a boyfriend and has no chemistry for my bf. It was really all on his part. I've decided not to walk away from him since he has stated he has no interest in any more threesomes. However, he needs to show me he ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend seemed too interested in my friend during our threesome

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and have had a great sex life with lots of experimentation as we both have high sex drives. He has always wanted to have a threesome so I, having had two previous good experiences with thr...

A.   28 March 2016: Thanks for your response. I appreciate your perspective. As mentioned in my post, I had previously had two other threesomes where no one was made to feel uncomfortable or invisible. Also, my bf and I had established boundaries, so I was completely ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend seemed too interested in my friend during our threesome

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and have had a great sex life with lots of experimentation as we both have high sex drives. He has always wanted to have a threesome so I, having had two previous good experiences with thr...

A.   28 March 2016: Thank you for your response and I appreciate your perspective. As I said before, I've had two other experiences with threesomes that were enjoyable and where no one was made to feel uncomfortable or invisible. Also, unlike others who have had bad ... (read in full...)

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