My boyfriend wont include me in his life
Q. Ok, im gay and im 27, my boyfriend of one year is 21. He is very mature for his age and looks mature.. he works in a corporate enviroment and he is Jewish... Im Russian/Italian. He is so obsessed and concerned about what others think about hi...
A. 27 September 2009: Don't think of yourself as a bitch,cause you're not.You're a great guy and any man would be lucky to have you.Why are you still with him?Please tell me.He lies,he's ashamed of you,he makes you drop him off a few yards from his house.That's not ... (read in full...)
I gave teacher a BJ under the desk, can we get in trouble?
Q. i just turned 18 and i'm graduating high school this year. ive had a teacher for 3 years now that i have fantasized about for a long time and friday i gave him a blowjob underneath his desk. will we get in trouble? he just got a divorce so do you ...
A. 27 September 2009: What is wrong with you?You know having sexual relations with a teacher is not right and is purely sick.You know it's wrong,like everyone has said.He's not even worth your time if he'd let you do that to him and he knows himself it's wrong.He needs ... (read in full...)
Why is he ignoring me?
Q. I like this guy a lot. We had sex about a week ago which was my first time and now he's ignoring me. When I call he doesn't answer when I text he doesn't text back. If he does he says he's working. I really don't know since he use to do it before he ...
A. 27 September 2009: I think he just got what he wanted from you and now he's not interested anymore.Just leave him alone.He's a waste of your time and it seems like he never really cared about you.Move on.Hope I helped.... (read in full...)
Afriad of marriage after he cheated several times before!
Q. my boyfriend of eight years on and off just asked me to marry him in january 2010. i'm so in love with the thought of being in love and we have 2 children together, but all together i have five. he has done some things in the past to me, matter of ...
A. 9 September 2009: Do not marry him!You'd be making a huge mistake.You don't even trust him,so why put on the ring and say the vows?He's immature,he cheats,and he can't communicate with you.Three great reasons why you shouldn't marry him.Until you can trust him,which ... (read in full...)
What is an orgasim?
Q. okay so i fill rilly stupid askin this but i fill even stupider not nowin so here it is. wut the heck is an orgasim? like i no wut it is but i dnt no wut it is. and try not to give me all medical terms and stuff cuz i aint smart enuff to understand ...
A. 8 September 2009: It's a feeling of pleasure you get when you get turned on in your area(vagina).It can range from a small one,like one that gives you chills,to a big one,but you propably won't feel a big one until you start having sex.Hope I helped.... (read in full...)
Why won't my boyfriend take me might being pregant seriously?
Q. ok so this is hard and its really bothering me. im 15 and my boyfriend is 18. we have only been together for about 3 months but we have sex almost every day. a lot of the time its as much as 3 times in the same day. no exaggeration. he refuses ...
A. 8 September 2009: Why are you even with this guy?He's an adult dating a minor and he's having sex with you every day.He's just using you for sex and he doesn't even care enough about you to use protection.You need to dump him.First,ask your boyfriend to get a ... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my time waiting for this guy to propose?
Q. I have been in a relationship for five years now. It was a fairly good relationship, there are arguments however we manage to clear the air eventually after each argument/fight. However, I can't help but become insecure as most of our friends are ...
A. 23 August 2009: Talk to him and ask him if he sees you two getting married soon.If he doesn't,then you decide if you want to leave him or not.Hope I helped.... (read in full...)
Her ex is like a Calvin Klein model - how can I stop feeling like I can't compete?
Q. Hi there, i've had something on my mind for a few weeks and its eating at me so i thought i'd post on here and get the general consensus... I have recently got a new girlfriend, and it turns out that her most recent ex partner was into bodybuil...
A. 23 August 2009: You don't need to compete or feel like he's better than you.Just get over it.He's her ex and he's no longer in the picture,you are.One of the only reasons he looks like he does is because he's on steroids and he propably wouldn't look all buff if he ... (read in full...)
Should I tell this woman that her husband was cheating on her?
Q. Hi, i have a bit of a dilemma, my new girlfriend has admitted to me that before we got together she was having sexual relations with a man who is engaged over the period of a few months. She shows no remorse for her actions, and i really think i ...
A. 22 August 2009: I don't think it's your place to tell the other woman.I know
you feel like you should,but you shouldn't meddle in their
(the fiances)relationship.And what if your gf found out that
you sent the email?Imagine how she would feel.I hope I helped.... (read in full...)
How do I get over wanting my father's approval and affection?
Q. I've been though a lot this summer with my father. He has told me that unless I am willing to be around my step mother he will not see me. And I am not allowed to be around her because she emotionally abused me, I won't get into details. What I need ...
A. 17 August 2009: Well surely,he can give up at least one day a week for you and him to spend some time together without your stepmother. He should do that,and it's a shame that he's not.You're not allowed to be around her,so why is he giving you this ultimatum?... (read in full...)
I have horrible anxiety and need help!!
Q. Hello, I need some advice. I am at my wits end here. You see, I suffer from anxiety. I have had this problem since I was a child. It would start out as a tight feeling in my throat, and that would convince me that I was about to be sick. I found...
A. 17 August 2009: I think you have agoraphobia,fear of being in crowded or public places.I'm not a doctor,but that's what it sounds like.Google it and you'll find some info on it.You should go to a doctor,or if you have a family doctor,you can go to them,or maybe ... (read in full...)
Is this being a week late normal?
Q. My period is a week late. I haven't had sex . I'm 16 . My period has never been this late but it has been inconsistsnt before. Is being a week late normal? Please help if you can...
A. 17 August 2009: Yeah,it's normal.It takes a few years to get regular,if ever.Don't worry.... (read in full...)
I'm bored with this LDR, what should I do?
Q. Im 19 years old girl and i know that my boy friend loves me too much but we are so far and i am too borring about this long distance relation ship.so plz suggest me that what should i do?...
A. 17 August 2009: You should break it off with him.It might hurt him,but it's better to let him know than to lead him on,with him thinking
you are both happy when you're not.Hope I helped.... (read in full...)
My b/f proposed for the 3rd time and I accepted but this other guy is on my mind
Q. How do i get this guy off my mind? I have been working at it for the past year now without success. I have a bf and he is the sweetest and most loving person i have ever known. I was very much inlove with him until i met this new guy, Jason.Ja...
A. 16 August 2009: Why would you say yes to your bf when you know you have feelings for another guy?Until you can stop thinking about him and get him off your mind,you need to take off the ring.
Think about these two guys.Who do you really love the most?
The guy you'... (read in full...)
2 years and no proposal..no love?
Q. My bf of 2yreas hasnt yet pr0posed and its seri0usly geting t0 me. im 18 and he 23. he never even bringz up the subject. cud it be that he doesnt l0ve me?...
A. 16 August 2009: If he didn't love you,he wouldn't still be with you.Maybe it hasn't crossed his mind,or maybe he thinks you're not ready to get married young,or maybe he doesn't want to get married.You'll only find out if you ask him.Talk to him about it.Hope I ... (read in full...)
Sister's family taking advantage of my parents and I
Q. Pls help my sister and her family been staying with my parents and i 4 a few months which has been hell her one kid sleeps in my room 16yr old her 9yr with my parents and her son in her room , i'm at home so i do all the house chores , i've been ...
A. 16 August 2009: Glad I could help.And if they are too much for you before they find another place to stay,then you have a right to kick them out or make them leave(the nicer way to put it).... (read in full...)
Sister's family taking advantage of my parents and I
Q. Pls help my sister and her family been staying with my parents and i 4 a few months which has been hell her one kid sleeps in my room 16yr old her 9yr with my parents and her son in her room , i'm at home so i do all the house chores , i've been ...
A. 16 August 2009: Your sister and her kids are very disrespectful.And they should at least have the courtesy to be respectful and polite in someone else's home.What do you do?You lay down some ground rules.You make them help you clean up,do chores,and anything else ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says that sex is painful. Is she telling the truth?
Q. I have gf friend dat have dating for year now. Any time we make love she either cry or shout dat is painfull. Is she pretending or truly painful as she claimed....
A. 12 August 2009: I don't think your girlfriend would make a joke about painful sex.It depends on how many times she's had sex.First few times are likely to be painful.If she's done it a lot and she's still in pain,maybe you're being too rough,or if it isn't ... (read in full...)
Jealous, Emotionally unstable, controlling GF
Q. Hi... How should I say this. I meet the most wonderful women in my life a while ago, shes very interesting, fun, quirky, funny, cute and a very wonderful person overall and I love her dearly and she means the world to me. Except she has ...
A. 12 August 2009: Do you really think you can last in a relationship with her?Unless you really think you can deal with all her jealousy and anger,I think you should just walk away.She isn't well enough to be in a relationship,well at least a good one.She is ... (read in full...)
I can't imagine a life without oral ...
Q. i'm having a big problem with my fiance... he loves getting orals, even insists on it... but won't give me any. the main problem is that fondling and all the rest, including penetration give me orgasm, but not really powerful. my ex always gave me ...
A. 12 August 2009: It's simple.If he won't give to you,then you won't give to him.And until he's the one giving oral,you cut bj's out the picture.And hopefully,you can be a faithful wife and resist the urge to cheat,if it ever arises.And are you sure you really can't ... (read in full...)
He said there is no spark anymore...and I love him so much!! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I met in high school and have been together for almost 4 years. Since the day I met him I knew he was "the one". We've been through so much in our relationship and have come a long way. We've talked about marriage and babies and ...
A. 12 August 2009: You need to move on and get on with your life.He doesn't feel a spark or anything in the relationship and if he doesn't,then basically,you're in it by yourself.Find someone else.He's been wanting out for a month,and with you trying to fix it,the ... (read in full...)
How do you stop a married guy from hitting on you??
Q. I am single and was on a business trip abroad. My business partner is a very kind helpful person and good fun to be with. He is happily married with a beautiful wife. Suddenly he is sending me very wrong signals. He came to the airport to drop me - ...
A. 12 August 2009: Then simply tell him that.You aren't interested in having any type of relationship with him other than a friendship,if that much,because he is married,and you aren't going to cross the line with him.When a man goes too far,they have to be told,so ... (read in full...)
What are signs of a good marriage? And what are the signs that it's time to leave a marriage?
Q. What do you think when is a marriage not worth it anymore? When do you think it;s time to leave? ANd what are the signs,if your marriage is a good one?...
A. 10 August 2009: I thnk some signs of a good marriage is open lines of communication,trust,lots of intimacy(different kinds besides sex),and when you can talk things out and not make them into big arguments.Some signs that it's time to leave is physical/emotional ... (read in full...)
Could I be bisexual?
Q. (i am a 16 year old girl)ok, so for the past year now i have been questioning my sexuality. i have gone out with one guy before and that was cause i have never gone out with anyone before. that was in 8th grade and then i had to break up with him. ...
A. 10 August 2009: Don't label yourself.You're still young and you propably won't really figure it out until a few years.You could be bi curious.That's not really a label to put on yourself.Hope I helped.... (read in full...)
I'm participating in his affair but I don't want to be..
Q. I just got out of a abusive relationship and all my past relationships were either abusive physically or emotionally or both, my question is how do I stop currently having sex with my boss who is married. I used to always say no but I finally gave ...
A. 10 August 2009: You're already caught up in the situation.You know you shouldn't have said yes,and saying no that time was all you had to do.What made you say yes this time?No offense,but you're acting incredibly stupid.Having sex with someone who works with ... (read in full...)
He put his penis inside me. Am I a virgin?
Q. I was on my summer vacation and I was fooling around with the cutest guy and we got naked and all. He fingered me and one thing led to another and umm he put his penis in my vagina (his penis was maybe 9 cm long, I dunno and I'm a virgin, or at ...
A. 1 August 2009: Does anyone get sex ed anymore?You are not a virgin anymore because he penetrated your vagina with his penis.... (read in full...)
Do you think I'm OK?
Q. hey im 5'4" and im a size 00, is this a bad thing? also my bra size is only 34A. im pretty confident with my nody because im quite thin and habe a six pack. is this bad though?...
A. 1 August 2009: No,it's great.Wish I was that size.I could buy everything that was cute.You're fine.... (read in full...)
When do vaginal openings start to exist?
Q. I am the mother of a 5 year old girl. Anatomists or doctors please clarify my following doubt. Do vigial opening exist in girls at the time of their birth or it opens/appears only at the time of first menstration. If such an opening is not there, ...
A. 1 August 2009: The vaginal opening exists from the time it develops in the womb,and is always there during a girl's life.I'm not a doctor,but I hope I helped in some way.... (read in full...)
Two of my friends slept with my ex, should I befriend them again?
Q. I found out that my good two "friends" were sleeping with my now ex-boyfriend. I dumped them all and I haven't talk to them for about 2 months. Well My "friends" have been begging me to hang with me because they are sorry and want us to be buddies ...
A. 17 July 2009: I don't think you should talk to them again.They slept with someone you dated and that's just wrong.I wouldn't trust them again,or even talk to them again.You can make new friends.Don't hang with people like that.Just forget about them and get on ... (read in full...)
Would you date someone who was the wrong star sign?
Q. would you avoid dating someone that was the wrong starsign? im seeing a man whose supposed to bethe worst match for me yet we love each other to bits, yet i keep thinking if we were together full time we wouldnt work..any views on this?...
A. 15 July 2009: I don't really care about staar signs.They don't mean anything and have no real effect on you in life.I would date any "sign" if I like them and think they're a good guy.... (read in full...)
I'm a 19 year old virgin, is this normal?
Q. Hi, I'm 19 and I am still a virgin. Is this normal? All of my friends have had sex. there is one girl I like but she is 14. Should I wait for her or just go for it?...
A. 14 July 2009: Yes,it's normal.You don't have to be sleeping around to be considered "normal".Don't sleep with the 14-year old until she is of age to do so.You'll find the right girl.Don't be in a hurry to lose your virginity cause you can't get it back.Hope I ... (read in full...)
My friend caught me checking a guy out, should I come out to my friends or just let it go?
Q. Ok here it goes I'm a bi male and nobody knows not even my best friends. So I'm at the mall the other day with a friend of mine just walking around and I see A guy walking towards us. I can't help but to stare at him. He was so beautiful and was ...
A. 9 July 2009: You should only say anything about this matter if you're completely comfortable doing so.No matter who they are,even if they are your best friends,don't feel that just because they are,that you have to tell them everything.They could turn their ... (read in full...)
How to get through to my boyfriend?
Q. I have no idea what to do! I've had enough. This is basically the low-down: - He takes me for granted: For example, when I do things for him just because I want to, he doesn't assume that he should do something back for me to be fair. It's as if...
A. 10 June 2009: Your boyfriend is acting like a child and an immature brat.
You need to leave.He has no consideration of your feelings,
he can't get through his head that life's not all about him(the way he wants everything his way),and he doesn't even love you... (read in full...)
What does FWB mean, I see it often in questions?
Q. What does FWB mean. I see it in so many questions and anwers....
A. 9 June 2009: it usually means friends with benefits... (read in full...)
How can I tell him how I truly feel about him?
Q. I have this best friend that I've known for my entire life, he's a boy and he's also like my brother. I tell him every little secret of mine. But every time he sleeps over or I sleep over his house he always puts his hand around me. I keep on ...
A. 7 April 2009: Just let it out.He's your best friend,so obviously you can talk about anything.If you don't tell him or decide not to,then it will affect you emotionally and you'll be wondering every day what could've happened between you two.Just blurt it out and ... (read in full...)
Jealousy inducing wife
Q. I am a married man coming into my 1st anniversary with my wife. Even though we made it this far, we have issues. I am laidback when it comes to a lot of things, but I can be jealous. It takes quite a bit I think, to bring it out though. My wife ...
A. 21 March 2009: You seriously need to talk to your wife.This is ridiculous and ignorant behavior.,She has no consideration for your feelings and is acting as if you're not existing.If you want this marriage to last,then I suggest you go to marriage counseling or ... (read in full...)
I just want him to be more affectionate...
Q. Hi,everyone. I have a boyfriend. We've been together for 4 months. Strangely, we have nothing to talk about, unlike when we were friends, we could talk about almost anything. I really like him and have no intention of breaking up with him. I just ...
A. 1 March 2009: I don't want any sex from him!Why can't anybody understand that?!I just asked you how to talk to him about getting him to hug me more.I don't want any sex.I'm asking you how to communicate with him on this problem.... (read in full...)
Does the size a woman's boobs matter to men?
Q. I am worried... I have small boobs and that the guy I like won't find me attractive becasue of it, does the size a woman's boobs matter to men? Is there anything I can do to make me feel more attractive in front of my guy and is there anything I ...
A. 12 February 2009: The size matters to perverts and men who just like you for your body.That's a problem that your man has.He won't find you attractive because of your boobs and that's something that you can't change,unless you have surgery.But you really wouldn't ... (read in full...)
In love with my same sex friend but don't want to freak her out by her knowing I'm bisexual.
Q. Hi, I need a bit of advice. I have a best female friend who I have been in and out of love with for years. I have openly discussed being bisexual with her in the past. However I find it difficult being friends with her at times, as I am always l...
A. 12 February 2009: If you're just friends and not best friends and extremely close,then you shouldn't tell her.Can you two talk about anything or are you just casual friends?If she is one of your best friends,or best friend,then if you tell her,she'll still be your ... (read in full...)
We're dating but both still have profiles on dating sites?
Q. Ok, so my bf and I met on an online dating site. The thing is we both still have the profiles up! He brought it up a few times and said, "I'm thinking about deleting the profile." But he never did. I know that he's logging on every day. I haven't...
A. 12 February 2009: You two could either delete them or put on your profile "I'm currently seeing someone.I won't be using this site as long as I'm in the relationship,and if things don't work out,then I'll be back on.Please don't send me any messages or note... (read in full...)
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