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I'm not a lesbian but how do I avoid hurting their feelings?

Q.   hi, i have two friends, lets call them Georgina, Laura and Chloe. For a dare a while ago i kissed all three of them. the other day we were having a sleep over and they all started talking about and then things started to get really raunchy. ...

A.   2 October 2008: just tell them your not into that, but its not a problem that they are, they could also be winding you up or setting you up... (read in full...)

I engage in sex with men I don't love, because I want to feel loved but they treat me like garbage instead! What's wrong with me?

Q.   iam verry clingy...i dont know whats wrong with me iam scared to be by myself, i take a lot of crap form guys...i still talk to my ex and even mess with him from time to time after he hurt me so much....stupid huh....i even have this stupid relation ...

A.   2 October 2008: seek counseling and find what is missing in your life, sleeping around gives you the feeling of being wanted but only for a while, it does nothing for your mental health and your lack of self respect, you are better than that your not a play thing ... (read in full...)

Where do I get advice about my 16 year-old having a stash of viagra in his wardrobe?

Q.   One day whilst I was off work this week, I decided to clean the house, since we have guests coming round. As I was cleaning my son's room, I found a large amount of Viagra tablets stashed in a wardrobe of his - all the tablets were unconsumed....

A.   2 October 2008: is he selling them, its not the first thing you think of needing at 16, could he be selling them for someone else and could this lead on to other things, your husband seems unconcerned but what if he started selling crack etc, i come from a life ... (read in full...)

What are the effects of cannabis use?

Q.   can someone explain the effects of the drug weed to me please? is it seriously harmful if smoked daily? my boyfriends smokes it and has been doin for three years now, just abit concerened for his health. x please help thanks x...

A.   2 October 2008: speaking as a previous long term puff head and social drug taker (old skool raver, only for the headstrong) i started on puff then speed, coke, Es, crack. i have been there and done that. smoking puff can cause depression, anxiety, paranoia, and ... (read in full...)

Please, how can I woo her back into my life - show her that I am a great guy for her and that I love her.

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for about 8 months. We completely fell in love the first time we met, it was like magic. She was 23 at the time and i was 18. For the first few months there was a lot of sex and passion and everything was great. it ...

A.   2 October 2008: get on with your life, its hard when you care or love someone but you have to let it be, if she has any feelings for you and wants to be with you she will contact you, but dont put your life on hold, occupy yourself and keep busy, you know you cant ... (read in full...)

I am so unhappy that I drink alcohol and cheat on him..why can't I just leave him? Help.

Q.   I am 22years old and have been in a relationship now for over 6years but have been unhappy for years. Ive tried dropping hints, didnt work. I told him, he promised that he would change and make me happy, which worked for a week, then he went back to ...

A.   2 October 2008: just go, dont think about it just do it... (read in full...)

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