New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244959 questions, 1084287 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap
*april09 agony aunt

*april09

United States  (Female   XML/RSS

Like what she writes?
... Add *april09 to your favourite agony aunts

Want to get in touch?
... Send *april09 a private message

*april09's Ratings
Excellent75%
Average25%
Poor0%

Should I leave him or I find some way to cope with the truth? I have a small behind and he likes a big behind. I can't change that.

Q.   My fiance and I have been together for 2 years now. In order to understand my question I think it is best if I explain our past in a nutshell. We met in middle school, lost contact, reunited over myspace and began having sex for about 3 months u...

A.   3 April 2015: Thank you girls. I will definately begin to focus on myself and my children more and whatever I do will be because I want to feel better about myself. If he doesnt see what he has or is unhappy with what I can offer then there is plenty of fish in ... (read in full...)

The marriage is in trouble and it's my fault

Q.   I am a stay at home mom with 2 babies 3 and under. My fiance works 10-12 hour shifts 6 days a week and I stay home with the kids. We live at his moms and hope to move out this month. The problem is that lately, after 2 years of being together our ...

A.   3 April 2015: Thank you all. The things youve written have made me realize more about my state of mind than I even realized. I have been caught up in this funk about how gorgeous his ex is and how "ugly" I feel compared to her that I didnt even realize it could ... (read in full...)

How do I get over something like this? Are there no more morals or respect these days? I'm so hurt and I want him to feel my pain

Q.   I have been suspicious about my fiance's activity so I broke off my engagement because he is talking and hanging out with his ex. We haven't even officially broke it off and he's been out with her and other friends. He's asked me to meet up with ...

A.   1 April 2015: I understand the hurt and pain you are feeling as I have felt this type of pain before over an ex. I think youre on the right path for calling off the engagement, however i do believe you need to speak to him and listen to what he has to say just ... (read in full...)

He's really trying to do all the right things. But my jealously is the problem. How can I stop being this way?

Q.   I've had problems in the past with my boyfriend speaking to other girls but in like sexual ways "hey sexy", he was speaking to girls he's slept with in the past, a girl sent him a photo and his reply was "now that is sexy" .. This caused a massive ...

A.   28 March 2015: Girl I am going through the same but on a different scale. My Fiance also messed around and promised to change after a couple of times of getting caught. He did change but now I am crazy jealous crying over things that are irrational like my body ... (read in full...)

Am I crazy or does she like me more than a friend? Don't want to ruin a great friendship

Q.   I'm a guy who has historically had more female friends than male, I feel recently however I may be misreading a friends intentions when they ask to go on walks at night together and stuff of that nature. We see each other a lot as we share a house ...

A.   27 March 2015: If you are already spending time together alone, why not ask her to the movies or dinner? You dont have to call it a date but her behavior should be self explanatory. Its hard to answer because it all has to do with her behavior with you compared to ... (read in full...)

So confused. Can you help clarify what to do? my rebound Gf has been very good to me. My ex wants me back

Q.   I've gotten myself into a horrible bind. The love of my life and I split up in November. While on the rebound, I made a poor, quick decision to jump into another relationship while I was still hurting over my ex. I wound up really enjoying ...

A.   27 March 2015: My relationship with my fiance started out with me as a rebound and we had to go through ALOT because he was so hung up over his ex and I didnt find out till we were living together. I suffered alot and our relationship is still suffering from that ... (read in full...)

*april09's friends

These are mutual friends, so *april09 has added them and they have added *april09!

ConsultingCam agony auntConsultingCam

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0937363000048208!