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Well I'm 22 I love to help people with there problems and will try to answer everyone..

I have 2 children and a lovely fiance..

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Can my sister be pregnant?

Q.   Hi i have a 15 year old sister and she had sex for the first time on march 4 2008 and today is april 15 2008 she has not gotten a period but she says her period was irregular but then regular so my question is can she be pregnant?????...

A.   15 April 2008: if she isnt on the pill or did use a condom, Buy her a test and ask her to take itif she doesnt tell your mum im sure she will be ok dont worry to much just get her a test. Good luck x... (read in full...)

How can I hold on a little longer, or make her come faster?

Q.   i'm no premature ejaculator, but i still come to early for my gf. how can i hold on a little longer, or make her come faster?...

A.   15 April 2008: When your just about to cum tence your penis in like your having a wee and stopping it keep doing that and it should work. My bf has the same problem and i have him doing it and it's starting to work. Good luck.... (read in full...)

Two questions, one on how to start a conversation and one that friends have a problem with...

Q.   i kind of have 2 questions but there is a girl i likebut didn't know how to aproach her as to be honest i'm quite shy so i dont know how to start a conversation with her any form of help will be apriciated and my second is that she is in year 8 and ...

A.   15 April 2008: Thers nothing wrong wrong with the age. And just go up to her and make conversation ask her what she doing tonite or whats films or music she likes. Good luck... (read in full...)

Should I make the next move or wait to see if he contacts me again?

Q.   Hello! I am wondering what to do next. There is this man that I have known for a very longtime. We went to high school together and then had a few classes together in college. In college we studied together a few times. One night he made a pass ...

A.   15 April 2008: Make the move because he probably thinks you dont like him as you said you were busy so he played the game back now he thinks your not interested call him or text him asking him if he wants to go for a drink you will soon know if he wants to know. G... (read in full...)

I'm scared I have herpes! What do I do?

Q.   I'm scared I think I have herpes. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. He is my first. He has been in previous relationships. He's never cheated on me. Today I discovered what looked like a blister/pimple around my anus and I'm really w...

A.   15 April 2008: Sounds to me like you have got it go see your doctor a.s.p. My friends has got it and sadly no you can never get rid of it but you wont always have it, it will come and go. Talk to your doctor he can exsplane. But when you have kids when your pre... (read in full...)

Am I doing the wrong thing in staying friends with her?

Q.   My gf broke up with me almost 5 months ago now and we've talked a lot since then and its been really hard to let her go. I know shes moving on and doing fine, has a new bf already, and i'm doing fine as well, except when i talk to her or have any ...

A.   15 April 2008: Yes it's good when people split up and stay friends but you need to stop having these feelings as it will ruining your friendship. I feel the only thing you want is for you to to get back together and your going about it the wrong way stayin friends ... (read in full...)

I need help getting over her!

Q.   I'm hurt I've been in a relationship with this girl for a year and now she's just moved on I want to get over her can you show me how?...

A.   15 April 2008: Find a new hobby or something that can take your mind of her. Or go out with a few mates am sure they will be able to cheer you up and make you feel better, it will take time but eventualy you will get over her. Goog luck.... (read in full...)

His new boyfriend is taking my place with my friend!

Q.   well a close friend of mine is bisexual and he recently got a new friend, but they became closer, now fancy each other and are now doing sexual things. This other person expects to come out with us EVERY day. When me and my friend went on holiday he ...

A.   15 April 2008: well i wouldnt feel good but you and he should make time for eachother like a just you and him not the other guy. Talk to him and tell him how you feel you sound really upset which i'm sure talking to him can make it better.... (read in full...)

I am afraid I will not be able to make a woman happy. I don't just mean sex, I mean in all aspects of life.

Q.   Heh can't believe I will ask this but anyway... I'm a 22 year old guy who has never had sex, now big thing I fear is that a women I do find that I like I wont know how to really make them happy and I don't mean just in bed. I don't really care abou...

A.   15 April 2008: AWW bless. it's like girls when there virgins and they meet a man a man loves a virgin am i right well the same applys to women women love virgins to. Dont be scared if you get with someone as you love eachother nothing can come in the way, sex isnt ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend was married before and I cant get over the fact that I am not his first love

Q.   I'm 23 and I've been dating my boyfriend, who is 32, for about 6 months. He had a previous relationship of 10 years, 3 of which they spent married, and he has been divorced for 2 years. Although all this happened before I met him, I am so fru...

A.   15 April 2008: Hes with you, you have him now not her dont think like that. Yeah it's natural to be jelouse but he oviously had problems with his ex and they got divorced. So i'd say he loves you but wants to stay friends with his ex and her family as he was ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend sent me a very strange text that makes me think he is cheating. Is he?

Q.   My boyfriend of the past year sent me a text message yesterday while he was with me. It read "I'm at my moms, call you in a minute". I asked him if he sent me a message and he said no. When I opened it and asked him why he sent me this message and ...

A.   15 April 2008: Sounds to me like hes cheating getting upset and walking out is all guilty signs it me and it all fell back non him hes gutted and he nos your on to him now. He first said he didnt send ou that msg then when you told him he said he did hes a lier. T... (read in full...)

I cant make my BF cum

Q.   I cant make my BF cum, ive made him orgasm but he wont cum, ive seen him cum when he masterbates but i can make him , he said its happened before its liek hes shy but he really wants to what can i do to make him shoot? is there anything he can do ...

A.   15 April 2008: try do it in a more sexual way like tease him. Have loads of foreplay then masterbate him i'm sure he wont be able to hold it back. If not have you tryed watching porn thats if you both comfatable with i, it may turn you both on a lot more. Tell... (read in full...)

His new boyfriend is taking my place with my friend!

Q.   well a close friend of mine is bisexual and he recently got a new friend, but they became closer, now fancy each other and are now doing sexual things. This other person expects to come out with us EVERY day. When me and my friend went on holiday he ...

A.   15 April 2008: stop being so selfish your friend had found someone eles and you should be happy for him not jelouse. He seems to be happy so you should be happy for him, are you sure you dont have feelings for him. Let your friend get on with his life and stop ... (read in full...)

He vacilates between telling me he loves me and telling me he is using me for sex and calling me names. What gives?

Q.   Hi I hope you dont mind me writing to you found your site on google and think you may be able to help and any advice is welcome. Thing is I met a bloke ten weeks ago and have found myself falling for him already and much to my delight he told ...

A.   15 April 2008: I think this guy need to see someone and talk about his problems it looks to me like hes scared of commiting in a relation ship he's scared of hurting you. The things he has said to you though are out of order and i would talk to him and tell him he ... (read in full...)

Is a thick white discharge normal?

Q.   Every now and then my cum is thick and white. Almost like a guys cum, why is this?...

A.   15 April 2008: Go see your doctor he will help you. You could have a STD or a infection. If he says it's normal look on google search you can always find anything on there. Good luck.... (read in full...)

Poll Question, Please answer: Are you closer to your Mom, or to your Dad?

Q.   Hi Guys! This isnt really a romance question, but a relationship one nonetheless, and I would really like as many answers as possible. My boyfriend and I have a differance of opinion on familial relationships. One of us says that boys generall...

A.   15 April 2008: Well i'm more close to my mum as my mum and dad split when i was a baby so i gess i saw more of my mum that made me closer. But now i'm older i'd say i get on better with my dad as i live with my bf and baby and see more of him than my mum now. My ... (read in full...)

I don't want him to go to Ibiza with his friends!!

Q.   My boyfriend is 20 years old, and i'm 16. This is the first serious relationship he has had, but my second. I have known him for 9 months and we have been together for 5 months. We met at work and he is my supervisor. I think i love him and i know...

A.   14 April 2008: Tell him how you feel but dont stop him from going he will never forgive you. If he cheats make sure you tell him you wont be giving him a second chance. That should make him think and hopfully he wont cheat but that just prooves what he is and how ... (read in full...)

She was very jealous so I had to break up - now a part of me wants her back, what do I do?

Q.   I just reciently broke up with my girlfriend of a year and a half. The relationship wasn't working, she was really jeaous and I just wasn't happy. Now that we have broke up however, shes all I can think about and a part of me wants her back, but the ...

A.   14 April 2008: Well your in a mess really. Most girls are jelouse i'm a jelouse person and nothing can make me trust someone what shes probably finkin is one day you will be (seduced) by someone and you wont be able to resist like most women think like that. If ... (read in full...)

If I have an abortion, is it true that I won't be able to have children in the future?

Q.   My B/F and I had unprotected sex, and I'm pregnant but I don't want to keep the baby because I'm only 17. I may sound selfish but I really don't want to, I want to have an abortion but I've heard that after having an abortion there is a big poss...

A.   14 April 2008: i have had an abortion and no it doesnt stop you from having kids it can increase the chances but cant stop you. Make sure you think it through properly. Good luck... (read in full...)

Will my boyfriend wait for sex if he truly loves me?

Q.   Me and my bf are 5 yrs apart, and even though were in love, he tells me he can wait to have sex with me but I wonder if its true cause most guys I know won't wait. And how can we make are relationship stronger than what it is. Thanks ...

A.   14 April 2008: If he really loves you he will respect you and wait if not hes not worth it. Sounds to me like hes the sort of guy who will wait till your ready and the rite time. Tell him to make it special when your ready it will be worth the wait and he will be ... (read in full...)

Will I get pregnant if I keep having unprotected sex? He pulls out!

Q.   Me and my BF had sex lots of times without using condom but always when he wants to pull the sperm out he takes his penis out of me, I'd like to know how safe is this from not getting pregnant? I've had sex lots of times with him this way, and I ...

A.   14 April 2008: Of course you can get pregnant. Use a comdom it only takes the once and your life is ruined dont risk it just for 30 mins of pleasure. Do something sexy like dress up in a sexy out fit ask him what he would like you to be if you dressed up but dont... (read in full...)

How can I stop my mouth aching when giving him oral?

Q.   How can I stop my mouth aching when giving him oral? I've been giving my long term boyfriend oral for months now, but I still don't seem to be able to keep going without my mouth really aching. It gets so uncomfortable that I have to stop after ju...

A.   14 April 2008: Dont give him oral so often i no he wont be pleased but if you give it him once a week or every 2 your jaw wont hurt as much. I had this problem it's either he has a wide dick or your mouths small. I stoped giving my bf oral all the time and give it ... (read in full...)

I don't believe it when she says she needs space and she's dating someone else! Can someone help me figure this out?

Q.   Me and my ex have been going out for a year. She started saying she needs space and I gave it to her and she stop calling me just texting me. But now she's got mad because people are saying rumors about her using me. I spent so much money and ...

A.   14 April 2008: Space can mean loads of thinks A leave me a alone i dont want to be with you B just want some time on my own. C Your doing my head in and i need time to think weather or not i want to be with you. I'd leave her and let her call you when shes re... (read in full...)

Are my chances of pregnancy slim?

Q.   Okay I'm just wondering if anyone can help me here... In feburary, I took the emergency contraceptive pill. My period was due around the 6th of march, and when it didn't come, i took a test that showed up negative. Eventually my period came arou...

A.   14 April 2008: Very slim when you take the contraceptive pill it can make you be late and with the stress of thinking your pregnant you will be late. You have had a period and took a test so dont think you have any thing to worry about next time to use a comdom ... (read in full...)

I fancy my best friend but I only want him as a friend?

Q.   Well, Quite A Long Story, But Here Goes. Basically, I Think I Fancie My Best Friend [Who Is A Boy.] I Don't Know Where These Feelings Have Come From, He's In My Tutor Group At School, So I See Him Every Day. Plus He Is In A Play That I'm In To...

A.   14 April 2008: Find someone knew to crush on or take up a new hobby i'm sure you will get over it soon just needs time for you to stop thinking about him and think of something good that your doing through the week. Good luck.... (read in full...)

I discovered the guy I was seeing had a GF all along, now I'm dating "some other guy" to make him jealous, any ideas??

Q.   met this amazing guy thought everything was going really well, we had sex it was pretty good then I started to fall ''in love'' with him even though I dont even believe in love properly then all of a sudden i find out he had a girlfriend all alon...

A.   14 April 2008: Aww bless you. He sounds a nasty cheat once a cheat always a cheat what makes you think if he was with you he would stay faithfull i dont hun men like that just cant keep it in there pants. He's acting like nothing happend because he doesnt want... (read in full...)

Husband wants sexual pleasure, but will not return the favours, so I feel unwanted!

Q.   hi, i am writing to ask about my husband doesn't seem to be sexualy interested in me any more i no he is not having an affair because we have are own business so we are together most of the time.also he wants sexual pleasure from me in the way of ...

A.   14 April 2008: He sounds very selfish i would stop pleasing him and talk to him tell him how you feel like a sex slave, If he doesn't understand or just laughs it off i would stop being so nice to him and let him think about what he does wrong because he probably ... (read in full...)

He treats me very badly, is disrespectful... is he doing this to make me mad because I lied in the past?

Q.   hi all.....im 18 and ive been in a relationship for 10months and my friends feel that he treats me very badly. he makes my self esteem go way down even whn it's low already. when he sees a hot girl he looks at me jumps up and down saying that he ...

A.   14 April 2008: I think it's him that need to learn to trust either he has had bad relation ship in the past that she treated him bad and cheated on him, He sounds very insicure. You need to think: do you love him that much for him to treat you this way cause to be ... (read in full...)

Girls only! I have bumps on my vagina, are they supposed to be there?

Q.   what are the tiny bumps on the inside of the lips on your vagina? are they suppose to be there? should i see a doctor? they are viry tiny, and plenty of them on the inside not the ouside. what are they? how did i get them?...

A.   13 April 2008: You may have thrush thats if it's irritating you if so gets some thrush cream from the chemist it will soon heal up but if not have a think have you changed your washing powder or put some bubble bath that you dont normaly use in your bath. Or have... (read in full...)

Sometimes I feel he doesn't respect me because he ignores me to talk to his friends!

Q.   i met a guy through common friends and we got together 2 weeks ago.we don't know each other very well,but i have fun when i am with him.problem is that he is sometimes very nice with me and sometimes i feel he doesn't respect me because he ignores ...

A.   13 April 2008: Ok first things first dont cheat on him please and not with one of his friends thats the worst thing anyone could do. What has he done to deserve that. I think because you have only being going out 2 week hes got to get used to you and still needs ... (read in full...)

White spots on the nipples during pregnancy, any truth?

Q.   do you get white spots on your nipples when your pregnant...

A.   13 April 2008: Hey yes it is normal it's something to do with the milk in your boobs like milk spots. Go see your doctor he will reasure you and give you some cream. Good luck hope you have a healthy baby x... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and going out with a 17 year old virgin.

Q.   Hi, first off, I'm going out with a 17 year old boy and I think he's really wanting sex badly. What should I do? Would I get in trouble if we did anything?...

A.   12 April 2008: No he would get in trouble is that what you want. And if he wants sex he will tell you other wize leave it and enjoy your childhood.... (read in full...)

I'm 13 he's 17, I want sex but he's still a virgin, how do I ask him when he's ready for sex?

Q.   Hi i'm 13 but want to have sex. I know that sounds horrible but it's hard. The boy i'm going out with, and have been for a long time, is 17, and still a virgin. How do i ask him when he's ready for sex?...

A.   12 April 2008: If you ask him you look like a sorry but slag. Your 13 hes 17 so he would be arested and put on sex offenders register i no because my friends bf was. Thats probably why he isnt asking you as you a child and need to wait till you're 16 or older no ... (read in full...)

Pregnant! I'm only 11 and I'm a good girl really. I don't know what to do.

Q.   hi im 11 years old i dont drink or drink achohal im a good girll but somhow im pregnant and dont no wat do???p.s my parents do not no...

A.   12 April 2008: OMG your 11 that is appaling sorry but it is. Have you actually had sex or do you just think your pregnant take a test and then tell your parents. It's selfish if you have a bbay at your age as your parents will have to pay and look after your kid ... (read in full...)

I might be pregnant and I don't know what to do, please help me!!

Q.   Okay, I am only 13 years old and I recently had unprotected sex. My period was about a week before the sexual intercourse. And i'm so stressed because i'm bleeding unregularly and i'm afraid that i might be pregnant or even worse have a STD. It...

A.   12 April 2008: Go to your doctors and get one or buy one the about £25 if you dont want a baby then go get one or dont have unprotected sex your 13 you shouldnt be having sex. You can only take it up to 73 hours so dont leave it till the last min.... (read in full...)

How do you start a chat with someone you have never spoke to before?

Q.   if u want to start talkin to a guy you have never spoken to..how do u go about it?no common class or study in the same college but we meet rarely so when i do how do i initiate the talk???...

A.   12 April 2008: Just ask him what hes up what he's in to like music ect i'm sure he will talk back and he may even give you his number. Good luck.... (read in full...)

Should I tell her to calm down a bit until we get to know each other? She's overexcited about us...

Q.   I'm preparing to go out on a date with a girl who got divorced 2 years ago and she has a crush on me, and I like her to. She already has two kids, a house and works beside me. Before our first date she is planning for us to be together forever, ...

A.   12 April 2008: I think shes just glad shes found someone and probably didn't think she would find love again. She will calm down soon she's exsited let her have her buz but if she continues after a while adn shes starting to get on your nerves tell her but dont ... (read in full...)

Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?

Q.   Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....

A.   11 April 2008: This girl has aked for advice and your all just talking to eachother how RUDE... (read in full...)

My boyfriend hasn't called! Should I be patiently waiting? Is there a reason for this delay?

Q.   Hi! I've been with my boyfriend for quite some time. We are very close and have alot of good memories together and I couldn't ask for more. I love him so much. But, this is what I found out strange. He hasn't contacted me for 2 days now (nor...

A.   11 April 2008: Well there could be a million and one reasons for him not to have called you it's a bit strange. Have you tryed calling him? or text him he may just be waiting for you to contact him some men are like that like the girl to chase them give it a try. ... (read in full...)

Help with bullying

Q.   i have been bullyed for a while wat shall i do?...

A.   11 April 2008: telling your parents may make it worse i mean there only going to go to your school speak to someone and they will talk to the bullys they will laugh it of or bully you out side of school. I was bullyed it's not nice but the best way to beat the ... (read in full...)

What can I do about genital warts?

Q.   I have genital warts. NOTHING helps.........any advice? PLEASE!!!!...

A.   11 April 2008: Go see your doctor if you havent already he will give you something for it if not pop to your chemist the will tell you whats best for them.... (read in full...)

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