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Well I'm 22 I love to help people with there problems and will try to answer everyone..

I have 2 children and a lovely fiance..

And I like in england :)

Feel free to ask me for advice anytime :)

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He is two years younger than me..but mature for his age, could it work out?

Q.   I have a little problem... My cuzins and I gather together 3 times a week and this guy teaches us dance... Since the first day I realized that he keeps looking at me and flirting with me. Wen he teaches us the dance he keeps coming by me and holding ...

A.   17 April 2008: It's not asif 20 year your both over 16 so go for it, Your both maure so have fun. Good luck.... (read in full...)

Dating step uncle right or wrong?

Q.   I have a freind who is dating her step uncle, they are not related by blood at all, but is it right? because i feel i should advise my freind on this!...

A.   17 April 2008: It's not blood related so no not a problem leave them to it, they can make there own mistakes.... (read in full...)

Am I being a complete idiot and clinging onto something that isnt going to work.. or is there light at the end of the tunnel?

Q.   Okay.. I have been seeing this guy since last July, and we hit it off straight away. He is 10 years older than me and had just come out of a 23 year relationship.. He has 2 children, one of 10 and another 20.. He moved out and rented his own flat. ...

A.   17 April 2008: I feel really sorry for you hun, he sounds like hes a prat and is messing you about, the pictures on his phone all the time i mean he's got to be cheating. Hun you deserve better you need to end this relationship and move on there are loads more ... (read in full...)

We see each other 24/7 and it's suffocating me, is it normal to want to see a little less of my husband?

Q.   Hi all, my husband and i have been together for 5 yrs married for 3 and we constantly argue over inconsequential things... we work together and see each other 24/7 literally i think an getting to the point where want to see less of him... i kno that ...

A.   17 April 2008: No hun what you need to do is make some new friends and go out atleast once a week give eachother a break. I'm sure he wants the same but hes prob got used to being with you so much thats all he knows. Suggest he goes out with his friends give you a ... (read in full...)

Depressed recently as the babys father, my boyfriend, has been sent to jail!

Q.   wel i dont no wer 2 start! im 16 and 7 months pregnant but thats not the hard bit i feel really depressed recently as the babys father my boyfriend has been sent 2 jail on remand but hes not coming out for a while! but it is for the best in a way bc...

A.   17 April 2008: Dont get to stressed as you have a baby to think about and it can make your baby stress to. Tell your bf if he doesnt get clean you will leave him i mean who means more to you your bf or your un born child, If your carry on ceing him and doesnt stop ... (read in full...)

How can I get him to genuinely like me and not wind me up?

Q.   i really like this lad but he is 3-4 years older than me and he likes someoneelse. i talk to him on msn every nite and we flirt with each other but in his case he is just winding me up because he knows i like him. how can i get him to like me back ...

A.   17 April 2008: Theres nothing you can do if he doesnt like you aqnd if he likes someone eles, Id just drop it and move on stop talking to him and see if he talks to you, if he does ask him why he wants to talk to you all the time. Good luck.... (read in full...)

I have a boyfriend but I'm still not over my previous crush

Q.   Hi, I had a crush on this guy called Paul, so i asked him out and he said no, then i got over him. Now i have a boyfriend called Josh and now i have started to like Paul again... I dont know what to do! Please help me!...

A.   17 April 2008: Stop the crush and think about your bf josh you dont want to loose him over a silly crush just get over him hun. Good luck.... (read in full...)

Do men know they are treating you badly?

Q.   Do men know they are treating you badly? I have a feeling they do. For example the bf wouldn't call me for days and then call and act like nothing was wrong and I would start to pull away so then he would suddenly start doing the right things aga...

A.   16 April 2008: It's hard to walk away when your in that situation it's like they have a hold over you and you just heal like a dog. Try to think theres better men out there that will apricate me better than this man, walk away hunny before you get realy hurt. I ... (read in full...)

My fiance wants to be in cross-gender relationships, is this healthy for us?

Q.   my girl friend who I asked to marry wants to be in cross gender relationships. Is this healthy for us ?...

A.   16 April 2008: no it will eventualy break you up tell her no or your leaving she should see were her love lies. Good luck.... (read in full...)

I fantasise about my teacher... should I tell him?...

Q.   hiii well i'm a student and im 15 taking my GCSEs and im going to be leaving school in june and going to a diff college. Anyways i really like my english teacher but i'm not sure what to do, i really do like him ive even had dreams which repeat the...

A.   16 April 2008: Leave it telling him will only make it akward between you to but he will be embarrassed and it's not nice. As no offence but i dont think he would look twice at a student just try take your mind of it get a hobby or a bf and just leave it. Good luck... (read in full...)

My husband keeps asking me why my body doesn't look like the women in porn!

Q.   My husband keeps asking me why my body doesnt look like the women in porn...I tried explaining to him that after a few kids things change...Im not at all overweight but womens bodies do change in ways that cant be helped after babies like stretch ...

A.   16 April 2008: You have had kids what does he exspect you to look like supper women he's a nasty man and i suggest you leave him and find someone who will respect you as a person. Dont feel down though as you have had to kids and you probably have a normal body ... (read in full...)

I am scared that she won't be my friend any longer then start talking about me behind my back, once I disclose my secret tendencies. What to do?

Q.   if i do tell my friend that i think i like girls i am scared that she won't be my friend then start talking about me behind my back. The thought of that makes me sad because we have been friends for 2 years. can someone please give me ideas or tips ...

A.   16 April 2008: When you tell her make it clear that your not interested in her she should be good about and nothing should change thats if shes a real mate. Just sit her down one day and say you dont like boys you perfer girls but not you as in her. She should j... (read in full...)

Do you think he's kissing others? His lips were massively swollen and hacked.

Q.   This is so lame, but i met my boyfriend for lunch the other day and kissed him good bye. When he came up to mine yesterday his lips were massivley swollen and hacked and horrible. I was like, "where did that come from?" Today my bottom lip ...

A.   16 April 2008: No loads of people get colesores and it doesnt mean there cheating just means hes got sore lips. If there is any other things that bother you like texting or seeing other girls then worry until then you have nothing to worry about. Good luck.... (read in full...)

I would like to apply my fantasies at my partner's suggestion but feel embarrassed...

Q.   Sex, i would consider myself good at it. I have been told my BJs are good as are other things i do but i have a really problem with letting go. I can't let myself go enough with my boyfriend to really enjoy myself. Granted he is the first boy...

A.   16 April 2008: Sit down one evening have dinner then talk about yours and his fantasys have a adult conversation of how and what you would like to do to eachother then take it from there, dont be embarrassed hes your partner and he will love you more for telling ... (read in full...)

Single mother and finding it difficult to get acquainted to new men, any suggestions?

Q.   I am a single mother with two children having a hard time meeting new men. Any suggestions on how to get myself back out there and meet new people?...

A.   16 April 2008: Go to a single mum and dads group to meet people like you and single dad like you, or dating web site am sure if you surf you will find a nice man thats a good role model for your kids. Good luck.... (read in full...)

His entire family hates me, he won't even let me supervise his son as his parents disagree!

Q.   I've been in a 1 1/2 year realationship with my boyfriend and his entire family hates me I've gone as far as asking for forgiveness for what ever I did they said no we both have kids and we get along very well, lately we've been fighting a lot, I fe...

A.   16 April 2008: They must have a reason for hating you? Tell your bf to talk to them or hes going to lose you, They should but out and stop poking there noses in your buisness. If you dont get through to him suggest a move (house) if not then think it's time to ... (read in full...)

I missed taking a pill, am I still covered?

Q.   hi, I have a questiona bout the pill. I missed 1 last sunday week, and I forgot to take it at all. I took mondays on time and the rest of the weeks pills on time however I had sex on friday and saturday. my question is, was this sex unsafe i...

A.   16 April 2008: You could be pregnant the best solution is to get a test and find out, But remeber to take it every day at the same time as you dont want a simple pill to get you pregnant no be carefull as it could change your life forever. Good luck.... (read in full...)

I fell in love with my best friend!

Q.   me and my closest friend are both living in the same house. we share the same room before. we are not just regular friends. we both have history. we came to the point of being into an intimate friends. we even have sex. i fall in love with him. i ...

A.   16 April 2008: Sounds to me like he lives with you so it just think he can have sex with you, But he may like you but be to scared of telling you as due to rejection, Just try to get on with your life even bring a man back play him at his own game see how he ... (read in full...)

I don't fancy him, we're just friends, but he's been telling people I'm his girlfriend! How should I deal with this?

Q.   I live in a block of flats and have a neighbour who has liked me for a long time, i agreed to go out with him as a friend but told him it was nothing more. we ended up kissing at the end of the night and did spend a bit of time together after that, ...

A.   16 April 2008: Talk to him as a friend dont ignore him as thats not nice. He got the wrong idea as you did kiss him and now your paying for it. It's not excuse for him to tell people that your his girlfriend you must mean a lot to him. When he mentions the two of ... (read in full...)

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and half months and we already had sex.

Q.   if i am on the shot and he cums in me more than once and one time the day before i get the shot is it possible that i could be pregnate?? he tells me that i am the first girl that he has never used a condum with me and that he wants me to have his ...

A.   16 April 2008: YES you could be pregnant and why would you want a baby at your age your just being silly, use comdoms and stop testing it as when you do get pregnant and have a baby your stuck on your own with it and it's not good at your age. Use protection ... (read in full...)

Red, swollen and itchy labia lip, what should I do?

Q.   Please help, my left labia lip (outside) is very red swollen and itchy what could this be?! Should i go to the emergency clinic?...

A.   16 April 2008: To be on the safe side yes it could simply be a reaction to something bu you never know go straight down. good luck.... (read in full...)

Boy I like Doesnt know if he's" Arther or Martha" please help!

Q.   Theres this guy I like but he makes jokes about being gay, i know hes had girlfriends and he doesnt seen obviously gay but when ive said that nobody would think differently of him if he was, he says things like "nah i aint really, i dont understand ...

A.   16 April 2008: its ok hope it helped x... (read in full...)

Please help! Should I tell this amazing man and teacher how I feel if/when I leave school, despite there being a chance that I may be coming back?

Q.   I appreciate that there are many posts on here about teacher/student relationships. Please do read this is may appear to be long but I would really appreciate the help! I also have a serious problem with my ex-teacher which has been escalating ...

A.   16 April 2008: he seems to care for you and your 16 so legal tell him how you feel at least you will have it of your chest you will feel a lot better. It's wrong for a teacher and student to get so close but thats the way life goes. If you were 13 id be sayi... (read in full...)

Help me save my marriage! Any advice would be appreciated.

Q.   i have been married to my husband for 12 years and we have 4 children together. but he constanly tears me down and makes me feel worthless.he is also very controling and has horrible temper. this has taken a toll on our marriage our marriage is no ...

A.   16 April 2008: Have you tryed marriage councling try that and see how that goes. AM sure if you try everything the you know you havent given up so easy, You mite have fallen out of love but if you both want to work on it try everything you dont want your kids ... (read in full...)

What is she playing at! I am so confused

Q.   Me and my girlfriend recently broke up about 2 months ago because she got scared because we were planning on getting married in the future, but people were making comments to her on how does she know we are meant to be because we are 20 years old ...

A.   16 April 2008: I think she was scared of commiting for some reason she backed out. Then she got jelouse about you going on a date and realised she still loved you and she didnt want anyone eles to be with you. Talk to her about it and tell her if she wants you ... (read in full...)

Boy I like Doesnt know if he's" Arther or Martha" please help!

Q.   Theres this guy I like but he makes jokes about being gay, i know hes had girlfriends and he doesnt seen obviously gay but when ive said that nobody would think differently of him if he was, he says things like "nah i aint really, i dont understand ...

A.   16 April 2008: I'm not sure but he sounds to me me like hes keeping feelings of his sexual nature inside, Because no man lies and says there gay as a joke all the tim he mite be trying to tell people but when they say oh noone would think of you diffrently he goes ... (read in full...)

In relationship with a married man - wrong?

Q.   Hi my name is daniel and I'm 29 years old and I'm new in this site. Well my question are: I've been in a relationship with my partner for four months an half now but the thing is, he is maried man and Im in the process of looking for a girlfriend. ...

A.   16 April 2008: Yes it's wrong the other man is selfish he wants his cake and wants to eat it. End it with the marryed man as your playing second best and noone is worth that. Find someone eles i'm sure you will be able to move on after all was this guy wanting to ... (read in full...)

I love him,but he says he doesn't love me .......yet?

Q.   I was with my ex for a very long time,we had a son together and lived together for 15 years.we split 18 months ago,i had a relationship with a guy that didnt workout and he did with a women that didnt workout as well,we have both now decided to give ...

A.   16 April 2008: He may love you but may be waitin a while to tell you has he mite not want to rush in to anything just yet as it mite end like last time. You dont need to worry he will say it soon and i'm sure he loves you anyway. Good luck.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is under so much stress, and now he is starting to be a bit distant from me

Q.   ive been with my boyfriend a few weeks, its excellent when we are together, and we already really care for each other, we just laugh constantly and get on really well. he has a 4 year old child(i havnt met yet), and is going threw a divorce, is ...

A.   16 April 2008: Take a break go away for a few days you can get a really cheap holiday or even blackpool somewhere you and him can forget your problems for a few days, if he doesnt want to help him distress like run him a bath for when he gets home and make his tea ... (read in full...)

I just can't be second in line to her boyfriend any more! Advice, please!

Q.   well im back AGAIN. Let me tell you my story then you can see if you can help me with some advice. Uhm its about a decision that i have to take or make.. Theres this girl that i want, but she has a boyfriend.. She tells me that she feels the same ...

A.   16 April 2008: Shes being very selfish if she loves you she would drop her bf (fast) What is she playing at she needs to make he dessision, Tell her to end it with her bf or your going to walk away and mean it dont be second best hun, if she loves you she will ... (read in full...)

Will she ever go away?

Q.   This might be a common thing but I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we are very happy except for one thing - there is this female friend of his who in her words is in love with him. She rings him all the time and if he doesn't pick up ...

A.   16 April 2008: This girl clearly doesnt take no for a anser, Go see her your self and tell her to stop ringing your bf all the tim. If she doesnt change your numbers and tell him not to give her it. But when he goes for drinks with her you have to trust him not ... (read in full...)

I'm a wreck, my boyfriend seems indifferent to sex! What do I do?

Q.   I feel like I'm about to have a breakdown. I am gay and have been with my boyfriend for a few years. The problem is sex. My body and mind yearn and ache for it so badly but my boyfriend is indifferent to say the least. We have sex about once a week ...

A.   16 April 2008: He may be stessed due to work and sometimes people can go of sex due to work problems. Let him ask you for sex he will probably get a bit scared your going of him if you stop asking him. Talk to him tell him this is it talk or thats itwhen you have... (read in full...)

How do I keep both my friend and my boyfriend?

Q.   thanx for all your help lately things with my lad isnt well i have made a new friend he is a boy but he really likes me and i dont like him although my boyfriend cheatded i wont but my boyfriend hyas become jelous now and has asked me to stop...

A.   16 April 2008: Either tell your bf to deal with it or go away (dumped) He has cheated so he thinks your going to get him back and do same to him, Which you sound better than that. Who means the most to you, i would stay friends with both of them bf and friend t... (read in full...)

How can we move forward or should I walk away?

Q.   We are on the edge of breaking up because we argue constantly, when we try and talk he puts all the blame on me with statements like you did this, you said that, you take over everything etc he never says we did this wrong or I did this wrong and ...

A.   16 April 2008: Depends on how much you love him, If not much walk away but if you love him so much talk to him and just tell him how he blames you and doesnt take any blame himself, Then if he doesnt take any blame walk away he sounds selfish. Good luck chic... (read in full...)

Are his feelings for me brotherly or more?

Q.   there is this guy i've known for 2 years...and i feel this real strong soulmat-y connection with him..as in we generally think on the same wavelength. the problem is that he's 11 years older than me...and has a gf. earlier i used to thin...

A.   15 April 2008: sounds to me like he loves you hun and i think hes waiting for you to make the move because he would have already. Yeah he has a gf but he oviously doesnt love her as much as you. You have to think do you love him and do you want a realtionship with... (read in full...)

Can I hide having sex at 13 from my parents? Is it advisable?

Q.   i want to have sex but my mom doesn't know that.i'm only 13 and want to have a baby.but also i don't have a boyfriend.how do i get a boyfriend and have sex at the same time without my mom finding out?...

A.   15 April 2008: you shouldnt be having sex. I cant belive the ages of children havin sex these days.... (read in full...)

Everyday clothes that guys find attractive?

Q.   im just wondering.. what type of clothing would you all say that lads founs attractive and sexy.. like for everyday wear...????...

A.   15 April 2008: Nothing too revealing as they will get the wrong impression. Nice jeans and a nice top maybe some accessories. Nice shoes to your style dont change your style to what you think lads will want. x... (read in full...)

Anal is painful whereas in our previous relationships we both have enjoyed it, what shall I do?

Q.   Hi i am a 21 year old male and i have a very embarassing problem that threatens to wreck my love life and my sexual life. My boyfriend's penis will not fit into my bottom which is causing a lot of stress for us both. We both do oral sex but anal sex ...

A.   15 April 2008: Have you tryed ky jelly or baby oil if so try it slowly then when it's in it might not cause as much pain. Good luck.... (read in full...)

Could we have a good relationship?

Q.   I broke up with my ex about 5 months ago. (long story) We talked and hung out for the first few months then she found someone. I was hurt and we decided that it would be best if we didn't talk for a week or so, Week turned into a month then 2 mon...

A.   15 April 2008: She mite think it's for the best has her new partner mite not want her talking to you which it should be up to her but i see she might not want to up set him. Text her and she if shes alright ask her why she hasent spoken to you in a while then go ... (read in full...)

Will I ever find love?

Q.   hello i'm a virgin and i know that there are alot of genuine females but my penis is little between 2 and 3 in" well i ever find true love...

A.   15 April 2008: It's not all about sex and besides if you can pleasure her in other ways you shouldnt have a problem, if a girl is not interested in your size then she doesnt love you or shes not worth it you will find love but when it's down to how hard your ... (read in full...)

Can my sister be pregnant?

Q.   Hi i have a 15 year old sister and she had sex for the first time on march 4 2008 and today is april 15 2008 she has not gotten a period but she says her period was irregular but then regular so my question is can she be pregnant?????...

A.   15 April 2008: if she isnt on the pill or did use a condom, Buy her a test and ask her to take itif she doesnt tell your mum im sure she will be ok dont worry to much just get her a test. Good luck x... (read in full...)

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