I'm bi-curious. How do I meet girls other than online?
Q. hello im bicurious but i dont know how to meet girls i have no problem meeting guys but i would like to experiment and explore my sexuality so if anybody has some good tips on how to meet girls (except the internet) that would be great ...
A. 29 April 2008: Go out to gay bars like trixi said, I think thats the best place to meet girls onlines good but a bit scary if you know what i mean. Metting people for the 1st time isnt as nervy as talking to someone on the internet and meeting them.
Good luck... (read in full...)
He's back but acts like he doesn't want me anymore!
Q. please help, i work with this lad and we started going out, and it was great but i met another lad and we were together 10 months. But he became weird with me and after i fell pregnant and i wanted to keep it and he didn't so made me abort, i knew ...
A. 29 April 2008: He may feel hes second best now your ex has gone, or playing hard to get.
Either ask him weather he likes you or has feelings for you. Or forget him and move on.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
I want to trust my husband but I don't think he cares if he loses me or not!
Q. I have been married for slightly over a year and into our 4th month of marriage I found a text where my husband is saying he is thinking about some other girl. I asked that he stop talking to her and he didn't. Then once again I asked and he did ...
A. 29 April 2008: Selfish man he doesnt care weather your feelings are getting hurt or not.
Tell him if he doesnt stop he will loose you see what he says if he doesnt seem to bothered then decided weather to walk or stay. Do you know this girl?
Good luck. x... (read in full...)
I'm 40 he's 22, I regret saying what I did, now I want him back!
Q. Hi, I am currently seeing my toy boy of 5 years, i am 40 and he is 22, and I love him with all my heart but recently we have been falling out, well i have. I am insecure and convinced that he will be running of with the first young woman who show...
A. 21 April 2008: If you dont stop thinking he will leave you for another women (younger) Then he will you have to trust him yes he's a lot younger than you but that doesnt mean it cant work if you try.
Talk to him and tell him you didnt mean to kick him out as you ... (read in full...)
I would like it to be more than an online friendship.....
Q. Hi, i've been speaking to this guy online for alomst 2 years, and earlier this year he told me he liked me, i like him too but i said it would be too complicated because of the distance and our personal circumstances. I'm 20 years old and he is 24, ...
A. 21 April 2008: If your both sure you like one another then go for it tell him how you feel and see what he says. Lond distance relation ships can be hard but if you try hard to see echother when ever your both free and trust eachother them am sure it can work.
G... (read in full...)
I've fallen for my boyfriend's friend, what shall I do?
Q. I went out with my b/f's friends last week, and i think i've fallen in love with one of them!! I dont know how his friend feels but he was flirting with me most of the night. I've been with my b/f for about 5 months and things are not the best at t...
A. 21 April 2008: Before you go asking his friend if he likes you i suggest you end it with your bf first.
As it isnt fair And he is your bfs friend thats even worse that will hurt him the most.
End it with your bf then ask him if he likes you.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
6 months pregnant and separated from my partner, who initially wanted to break any contact! Now he seems to have changed his mind, his behaviour is confusing!
Q. hi, i'm new to this but need bit of advice. i'm 6 months pregnant and have split with my partner. he said he didn't want anything to do with me or the baby but has since seemed to have changed his mind.i've had to move out and go live with my ...
A. 21 April 2008: My babys dad left when i was pregnant and wants to know now, But as he has mist so much of her life i feel it's not right to bring him back in to her life.
I think he was scared when he found out and first thing that came in to his head was run,... (read in full...)
The reason of the break was my bipolar disorder, we still see each other and kiss, should I wait for him?
Q. Me and my boyfriend been on a break for about 3 months. The reason of the break was cuz of my bipolar. I stoped taking my pill wen I started to go out with him. And he didn't know I had bipolar. The relationship was good for the 9 month we were ...
A. 19 April 2008: Think you should leave it move on hun he doesnt sound a very nice man really the way he's treating you isnt nice and it seems he doesnt really care.
Move on and find someone who will respect you more as a person on the inside.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
How do I deal with their teases that became annoying after a year?
Q. Okay, alot of guys i know think i look like 50 Cent, the rapper, and they always call me "CURTIS' because they think it's funny...and whenever me and one of the guys are alone, they say i don't really look like him..i just don't understand...i told ...
A. 19 April 2008: Best way for them to stop is to laugh when they say it like you think it's frunny, They should stop cause they will see that it's not getting to you any more and get bord after a while when they realise it.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
We are both virgins and I'll be very gentle, is this a good way to start?
Q. Hi-me and my girlfriend will be having sex for the 1st time.I'll be very gentle going in.I've heard its best not to stroke too much at 1st but try and wriggle the penis around inside a bit so that my girfriends vagina gets used to it being in and ...
A. 19 April 2008: Try oil or ky jelly it will make it less pain and more comfatable for her.
Be gentle though as well keep asking her if it's ok for her.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
How frequent is pregnancy by using the withdrawal method?
Q. Who has actually gotten pregnant while using the pull-out method? I don't mean if he accidentally didn't pull out in time, I mean who has gotten pregnant just from pre-cum? I had a c-section 5 weeks ago and I haven't been bleeding for a few weeks ...
A. 19 April 2008: It doesnt matter who has got pregnant from it, everyones diffrent and if a little bit of cum comes out you could be pregnant, Take a test to be sure and if your going to use that method make sure he pulls out in time, but it's always safer to use a ... (read in full...)
I pardoned the fact he engaged in sexual talks with women online, but I feel insecure and jealous now, help!
Q. Just before my boyriend left to return to his home country, i found he was talking sexually to women on internet. He begged me to give him another chance, and i dont want to lose him over that...however, im insecure and jealous now and cant trust ...
A. 19 April 2008: If hes talking to women in a sexual way over the internet god knows what hes doing when he's not with you, He sounds like a complete cheat and you deserve a lot better hun pluck up the courage and finish him before he hurts you in even a worse way, ... (read in full...)
How do I know what colours suit me?
Q. i am the ty[e of girl who only wears black, grey, white clothes.. im not a goth or nything.. i just dint think colour suites me.. i really want to wear colour tho.. how do i know what colours suit me?...
A. 18 April 2008: When you wear other colours what colours do people comment you on the most. Or what do you feel most comfatable in thats all that matters really, people say i siuit yellow but i dont like it so i dont wear it, but thats me wear what you feels best ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do,my boyfriend of a year and half has a commitment problem
Q. My boyfriend of a year and half has a commitment problem. I asked him what his plans were and now he has said he wants a break. I dont know what to do as I love him alot but I dont know what he wants. He said he wants a break as he feels pressu...
A. 18 April 2008: Yu have to leave him to have a break if you dont that could spell over. He wants a break and the best thing to do is let him have one a break can mean loads of things i gather he wants some time on his own to think things through. Am sure he will be ... (read in full...)
Harmless flirting or does he like me
Q. im confused over whether this lad likes me or not. well me n this lad have been friends for around 14 months now n we get on REALLY well. about 4 months ago he asked for my number so i gave it him n weve been texting almost everyday ever since. he ...
A. 18 April 2008: I gather he likes you but it's not like hes shy is it. He might be waiting for you to give him a compliment about him so he knows the same vibes are flying.
Try it then see how he reacts also tell him he's good fun and good looking he should get ... (read in full...)
In a long distance relation, how to cope with the distance at our young age?
Q. i have a boyfrined and (yes i know i am young for my age to have a bf) but the distance is killing im in (i am going to use other states not my or my bf's actual state) new york and he is all the way in florida the distance is killing us what should ...
A. 18 April 2008: It's up to you if you think it can work go for it but if you having doubt end it. Your very young and will have plenty more bfs but it's down to your choice and make sure you make the rite one. Have you actually met this lad if not then how do you ... (read in full...)
Advice on my bob hairstyle?
Q. hey all i was just lookin for some advice i have a bob hairstyle.. its like as short aas victoria beckhams and that very style..but is there anything else i can so with it apart from keep it straight an bob like? i fancy a change but not a huge on...
A. 18 April 2008: Well if you like it then go for it, It's nice my bf keeps nagging me to get it but i'm not sure i'd like to go that short but it's up to you and it's fashionable so whats stopping you lol.
Good luck. x... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me I don't feeel well right now!
Q. Please can somebody help me ? i am 14 ( 15 on tuesday) and i came on my period 2-3 hours ago. and since then i have feel nauseaic, i am shaking like a leave and feel like i am going to be sick, crying lots. I know most of these happen when you ...
A. 18 April 2008: Have you told your mum if not tell her straight away she will be able to help.
If it gets worse like you pass out or keep being sick you need to go to hospital it's better to be safe than sorry. Tell your mum first and see what she says, then lay ... (read in full...)
With my bf for about 6 months but I have always felt really nervous about initiating anything sexual,
Q. Hi, i actually posted this same querie before but it was edited so it was nothing at all to do with my problem so here it is again lol. I have been with my bf for about 6 months but i have always felt really nervous about initiating anything sexual, ...
A. 18 April 2008: Start opening up to him and try make a move on him for some reason. If you cant then it's simple your not ment to be together you shouldnt feel embarassed if your with someone and you love them you should feel 100% comfatable, talk to him about you ... (read in full...)
I worry about HIV, could I have caught it in a moment of madness?
Q. Hi, This is probably a really stupid question but i'll ask none the less. A few years back I was really drunk and thought it was a brilliant idea to take off my shoes and go wading around in the city fountain in Leicester. I didn't get far and...
A. 18 April 2008: Only way you can put your mind at rest is to see a doctor and he will take a blood test.
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What is the term used for cousins in real love?
Q. What is the term used for cousins in real love?...
A. 18 April 2008: Yeah there isnt one. It's sick... (read in full...)
I'm getting married in two weeks and I'm terrified!
Q. So I'm getting married in two weeks and I'm terrified. I do love my fiance but I'm not passionately madly in love with him. He is a wonderful man and I think I would regret it if I left him. Can love build? Should I really try and make this work or ...
A. 18 April 2008: I mean all the good and bad ponits lol... (read in full...)
I feel my Boyfriend is really depressed! any advice please?
Q. my boyfriend is really depressed, he is going through a divorce, has a 4 year old little boy, his job is not secure and therefore money is extremely tight for him so he has the added stress of not being able to pay the morgage and bills, he has his ...
A. 18 April 2008: He needs to seek help the doctor will be able to help. Ask him to go and see the doctor tell him ti's for the best and it will help him feel more relaxed and not as depressed with what they give him of course. Probably anti depressents.
Leave him ... (read in full...)
Any usefull advice on how NOT to get stretch marks?
Q. Hi all, I have found out I am pregant but I am terrified about getting stretch marks. Can anyone suggest anything that actually WORKS that I can use to prevent this? I know people will prob slate me saying I am vain and its the last thing I shou...
A. 18 April 2008: When i was pregnant i used baby oil and i got no stretch marks on my belly, but i only put it on my belly so durr i got them on my boobs and legs. So i did work but for some people it might not for me it did. but as soon as you have found out you ... (read in full...)
Why did my husband leave me for another woman? I'm trying to understand....
Q. hi well its been the worst 5 weeks of my life my husband has left me and im so sad angry hurt god too many feelings to say i love him very much and just want to talk to him hes been gone 5 weeks it was a shock we had only just been back off holiday ...
A. 18 April 2008: aww everyone will be feeling for you.
It's a very hurtfull thing your husband has done and there's no excuse for his acttions what makes a man change his feelings and jump in to bed with another woman is a mith.
But he could have being depresse... (read in full...)
I'm getting married in two weeks and I'm terrified!
Q. So I'm getting married in two weeks and I'm terrified. I do love my fiance but I'm not passionately madly in love with him. He is a wonderful man and I think I would regret it if I left him. Can love build? Should I really try and make this work or ...
A. 18 April 2008: You have to make that dessision all bye your self and dont let anyone tell you to leave him or stay with him, go with you gut feeling, as will he make you happy does he love you, do you want to be with him till the day you die.
You have to thin... (read in full...)
Is she playing a game with me by avoiding me?
Q. I like this girl, she first showed an interest in me and now that I'm trying to spend time with her it feels like she's avoiding me. Did I do something wrong or is she playing a game with me?...
A. 18 April 2008: Either shes playing hard to get or shes sending you mixed signals and her feelings are not clear.
Talk to her if you can ask her why shes being like this and if she feels the same or she isnt interested.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend deny everything he felt now that we have broken up?
Q. okay. me and my boyfriend of 4 months broke up yesterday. i still loved him tremendously, yes we were young. 14. but i know i was in love. well anyways he ended it because he had to catch up on school and his sports because he was falling behind. I ...
A. 18 April 2008: Some times bfs say things to there friends that they dont mean because they dont want to come across all soppy and in love there friends would probably take the mick so he says things he doesnt mean to make himself look big and hard.
Wait till you ... (read in full...)
How do I decide my feelings about this MSN relationship?
Q. right there this lad who i know likes me and we talk a lot on msn but when he rang me the other day it felt so awkward i think its because i am not sure about my feelings towards him will we only ever have an msn relationship and how can i decide on ...
A. 18 April 2008: Well seems he likes you and you like him, but he may be shy as to not telling you he likes you.
Tell him on msn just say i'd like us to be more than friends if you feel the same and wait for his reply.
If he doesnt like you then you know where yo... (read in full...)
I had a period, but could I still be pregnant?
Q. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend 4 days before my period was due. He came in me. 3 times. I did get my period, but I'm still a bit worried that this doesn't definitely mean I'm not pregnant? Is there a chance I am? ...
A. 18 April 2008: You still could be pregnant so take a test as soon as your period is finished or go to the doctors and they will give you a free one. Dont worry to much as your probably not but to be on the safe side take a test.
And next time use a comdon.
Good ... (read in full...)
How can I get hubby to pay a little attention to me and not spend as much time on the computer?
Q. When my husband gets home from work he goes right to his computer and I would like him to spend a little time with me but he says I am being selfish. Am I being Selfish?...
A. 18 April 2008: No your not being selfish ok let him go on the computer but after you have a little time together. When he gets home one night just ask him nicely can you spend a bit more time with me instead of being on the computer straight away as you open the ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant, he is cheating , he is denying the baby and I am stressed out of my mind.
Q. I am 24 and 5 months pregnant,i have dated my boyfriend for 5 years.on our 3rd year together he accused me of sleeping with his friend, he would not listen and he did not believe me when i told him that we did not have sex. then last year he accused ...
A. 18 April 2008: Well for your babys sake leave him he sounds like hes controlling you in a way you cant see. You baby will be born and the arguments will get worse and thats not good for a little girl to be round, Tell him you want a break cause your sick of his ... (read in full...)
Two Q's..Why do people have sex changes?-Why are teacher/pupil relationships against the law?
Q. Just out of interest, I have 2 questions which i'd like answers to; Why do people have sex changes? - I know it isn't exactly common, but why can't a person just accept the gender they are! I thought maybe it's because they have feelings for t...
A. 18 April 2008: Ok first people that have sex changes are stuck in a diffrent body and they feel more comfatable bein a diffrent sex, it doesnt mean they are affraid of being gay because they sometimes stick with the same parnter, it's just how they feel.
And seco... (read in full...)
My periods are not normal and I'm worried in case it's serious.
Q. Hi, I am 24 years old female from India. I started to masturbate since 16 years. My periods are regular at present. Last month i had a problem with my periods got extended, normally i have my periods at the max of 7 time, but last month even afte...
A. 18 April 2008: It doesnt mean it's serious just got back to your doctors and tell her/him it's not gone away and it's making you worried. Sometimes when your coming of your period the blood turns a little darker and thats nothing to worry about it's normal.
G... (read in full...)
How do I avoid having sex with him?
Q. Please help. So I'm going to this guy I'm dating's house today for lunch. The thing is 2 weeks ago we hung out at his place and we had sex. We used to date about 2 years ago and we stopped talking and now we met up again (about 2 months ago). I ...
A. 18 April 2008: Just tell him you would perfer to wait and not rush in to it straight away, he should understand if he respects you if he doesnt then he simply isnt worth anything.
Goo luck. ... (read in full...)
I would like to get to know him before I leave school, how to start the conversation? - I'm shy.
Q. Hi, I really like this boy in the year below me at school. Only im really really shy and not sure if he likes me back, im 18 and he is 17. He doesnt really know me right now, although he has acknowledged me at school a few times. Im leaving sch...
A. 17 April 2008: Ask him one day for his number or get one of your friends to ask him. Then start texting him or even give him your number to see if hes interested. When he texts or you text just ask hin questions like what music and general things he likes to do ... (read in full...)
How do I make my teacher kiss me?
Q. how can i get my teacher to kiss me or like be in a relationship with me as im in love with him and i would love to share a kiss with him. im 16 and im leaving in june and i want to share a kiss or more with him at the last day. ...
A. 17 April 2008: Yu cant make someone do something they mite not want to get the thought out of your head, and just tell him thanks for being a good teacher thats it.... (read in full...)
Should I tell her that I think her friend is gay, as I don't want her to get hurt?
Q. My friend likes this guy and I think he might be gay because of the signals he has been sending her, among other things that me and other people find obvious but she thinks he might like her, and she really likes him. They have things in common ...
A. 17 April 2008: yes i agree with miss kin ask your friend . Then if he is tell him to tell your friend before the feeling develop in to something eles.
If hes not then let them get on with it.
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My boyfriend always wants to have sex, what should I do?
Q. What should i do?? My boyfriend always wants 2 have sex... And i dont wat should i do??...
A. 17 April 2008: Depends if you want sex all the time aswell. If not tell him you dont and i doesnt mean you dont likes him as much just you would perfer to cool a bit with all the sex. It sounds to me like he has a very high sex drive, just talk to him.
Good luck... (read in full...)
How frequently is it healthy for a guy to have sex?
Q. hope all is well for whoever visits this site as much as i do. Pliz ladies and gentle men i have one hell of a dielma! How frequently is it healthy for a guy like between 24-30yrs to have sex, as in with a chic? Even then is it possible for a g...
A. 17 April 2008: You can have sex as many times a day you want depends on how high your sex drive is. I suppose after a couple of years it wont be the same once a week will probably be the most you will get.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
He is two years younger than me..but mature for his age, could it work out?
Q. I have a little problem... My cuzins and I gather together 3 times a week and this guy teaches us dance... Since the first day I realized that he keeps looking at me and flirting with me. Wen he teaches us the dance he keeps coming by me and holding ...
A. 17 April 2008: It's not asif 20 year your both over 16 so go for it, Your both maure so have fun.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
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