I absolutely know it wasn't the sex. Is there something wrong or am I just 'trippin'?
Q. I have started dating this woman a couple of weeks ago. She texted me 3-8 times per day. We saw each other 3 times. I spent the night 2 outa 3 of those times, the first night I spent the night, [in the morning] she asked me to come back that evening ...
A. 30 October 2008: Text her and tell her you want to talk to her in person about something don't tell her what though.
Then just tell her you really like her.
Good luck . ... (read in full...)
Is my best friend jealous of my boyfriend?
Q. I'm in love with this guy and he loves me but my best friend or supposedly, keeps making remarks about him and saying that she doesn't like him. When she doesn't even know him, also on my birthday he came round to wish me happy birthday but she made ...
A. 29 October 2008: You need to talk to her there may be a million reasons why she doesn't like him and you will never know unless you ask her,
She may be jelouse but it could be something much more like she may know him and you may not know they know eachother or s... (read in full...)
How can I stop myself from getting upset when his feelings are not what I want him to feel?
Q. How can I stop myself from getting upset when his feelings are not what I want him to feel? How can I tell what he is thinking inside his mind?...
A. 29 October 2008: AWW sounds like you really love him. Sit him down and tell him what you think it might cheer you both up if not he will figure out what he feels him self eventually. I know this is making you upset but he need to sort his feelings out himself hun,
G... (read in full...)
Was I too desperate?
Q. I met a really good man that had been broken up from his fiance of 3 years. I met him 2 weeks after their break-up. He and I had so much fun together. We are both 45 and his fiance is 37. We had more in common than she and he did. We did have ...
A. 29 October 2008: He did not feel they would get back together means. He wanted her back but she wasnt sure sounds to me like he loves her and thats why they are back together, U need to move on hun i know this will be hard for you as really he just used you as he ... (read in full...)
I absolutely know it wasn't the sex. Is there something wrong or am I just 'trippin'?
Q. I have started dating this woman a couple of weeks ago. She texted me 3-8 times per day. We saw each other 3 times. I spent the night 2 outa 3 of those times, the first night I spent the night, [in the morning] she asked me to come back that evening ...
A. 29 October 2008: I think that was a hint when she text you to say she had a date she was wanting for you to say well what about me and you but you said cool so i think she thinks you are not that interested, i think you should ring or text her and tell her how you ... (read in full...)
When things get serious I always back off, why is this?
Q. what is wrong with me!!??? I've never had a relationship with anyone. I've been on dates etc but when things have started to become serious I put myself off the person that I'm with. I tend to like a person for ages and then when something fin...
A. 29 October 2008: Sounds to me like you are scared of commitment u dont want to fall to deep in.
You don't want a long relationship you want to have some fun am i right if not then i don't know.
But you need to to talk to the next person you get with about this as ... (read in full...)
What are the ladies preference?
Q. A question 4 the ladys... I want 2 know what do you ladys more enjoy whilst having sex? Also when it comes to the guy's penis, do you like it thick or short, slim or long... x ...
A. 25 October 2008: It doesnt matter what size its how the man uses it.
A girl likes to feel special whilst haveing sex lots of kisses and touching not just straight sex, but everyones diffrent and some women like diffrent things.
Good lukc x... (read in full...)
We are having problems because she takes my appetite for sex as wanting just that but I love her!
Q. Ok, so I had a girlfriend, the only one i have ever loved, dated for a year and a half. We broke up for about 5 months. Then she started coming back into my life when she decided to start texting me. She left me because she felt things were too ...
A. 24 October 2008: My boyfriend says this to me he gets an erection all the time when hes round me and we have being together 3 year he says he doesnt with anyone eles that hes being with.
I truly belive he loves me to death i think that might be the reason you trul... (read in full...)
He says that it's not cheating because it is his ex-wife!?
Q. I recently found out that my boyfriend of seven years has been sleeping with his ex-wife. He says that it was the only way to get her to act right, meaning seeing his children and lowering child support. He actually wants me to accept her and the ...
A. 24 October 2008: Sounds to me like he still loves her if she wasnt letting him see his children he could just take her to court. Not having her staying over with the kids, Sound like hes got you both on a string.
Why do you have to leave if he had nothing to hide... (read in full...)
Can one person bully you, or is it only when a group gangs up on you?
Q. What is bullying, i'm not sure if i'm being bullied or not. Is it when a group gang up on you, or can it be just one person?...
A. 23 October 2008: Anyone can bully you from 1 to 100 people if you are being bullyed hun tell some dont be scared.
Or the best way to get rid of bullies is to stand up to them.
Good luck hun x... (read in full...)
Lost my job and am feeling depressed and rejected.
Q. Hi all hoping for some advise. just Recently been made redundant and I have been on loads of interviews and only a few have got back to me. I feel really depressed and I cant shake this feeling. I go out with friend and go running, but this horrible ...
A. 23 October 2008: Go see your GP he/she can help you get through things if you leave it it mite follow into bad depression,
good luck.x... (read in full...)
We fight, we break up, but somehow keep ending back together again! Why do we have this pattern?
Q. Hello I have been in and out of a relationship with someone for over four years now. we fight and then we breakup and sometimes its a really bad breakup and then months go by and we will get back together. this has happened so many times now i...
A. 23 October 2008: You didn't say whether your in love with him.
I have the same relation ship but we get back together in a matter of days we have really bad fights and one of us always ends up getting hurt. We are working through things we now have relation ship... (read in full...)
He says I scare him because I want a commitment. How do I respond?
Q. I've been dating a 52 year old (i'm 43) for 2 months, today he emailed me, he says: I scare him because it seems I'm pushing for a commitment and he's not ready for that right now. How do I respond to that??????...
A. 23 October 2008: Give him time to realise what he want's he may have had bad relation ships in the past and is scared of getting hurt all over again, tell him the way you feel and let him have time to think.
Good luck hun x... (read in full...)
How can I make the sex more satisfying?
Q. I'm in a relationship with a female, I being a female myself and I just need some help or adivice. Well we recently started having sex and I was wondering how could I make it more satisfying for me? I don't know why but for some reason it isn't as ...
A. 22 October 2008: To be it sounds like your in the wrong relationship, and by what you said "as i thought it would be" are you sure you are a lesbian u have to answer that because you may just be confused.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
My two friends are so mean! How do I put a stop to this behavior?
Q. basically i'm starting to dislike how my best friends act. one of them is a girl, lets call her stacy. and the other is a boy, lets call him ryan. (but he's gay.. so he's like a girl). anyways ryan is a mean person in general, loves to criticize ...
A. 24 September 2008: Well i think you should tell them make them listen to you, shout if you have to.
They sound like mean people and need putting in there place go ahead they will relise how mean they have being.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get pregnant if you have sex while you have your period?
Q. i know this is a really unorthodox question, but is it possible for a woman to become pregnant if she has sex during her period? has that ever happened?...
A. 24 September 2008: I dont think so but at the last day of your period i think you can be carefull and always use contriception to be safe.
Good luck.x... (read in full...)
I wish I'd waited. Am I wrong for feeling guilty?
Q. hello. my boyfriend and i have been dating for six months now and in the last month, we've had sex 4 times. he says he's perfectly content with what he have done and does not take it back, although i know that deep down he wishes he hadn't done ...
A. 24 September 2008: Your not wrong but at the time you must have both felt you wanted to as you have done it 4 times.
Dont feel wrong for not waiting as it's done now and cant be changed.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
What emotional and common level would a 40ish man and 19 year old girl have?
Q. why would a 40ish male want a 19ish girl and visa versa. on what emotional and common level would they be. alot of people say go for it...
A. 24 September 2008: Well the first thing that comes in to my mind is money either the man has money or he has something about him.
I dont see what a 19 year old girl would have in common with a 40 year old man. But then again people do make it work.
A 40 year old man ... (read in full...)
We used a condom, but I haven't had my period for nearly 2 months. What do I do?
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and we used a condom but i havent had my period for nearly 2 months. what do i do?...
A. 24 September 2008: It's probably nothing to worry about, but to be on the safe side take a pregancy test.
Go to your doctors and go on the pill so it doesnt happen again you dont want to be worried ever time you have sex.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
Emails from his ex make me seriously question his fidelity, please help!
Q. I have been dating a guy for months. He is amazing, we see eachother everyday, and i actually think I love him, so it hurts to say but i think that his ex, I'll call her Sara, and him and now secretly seeing eachother. He talks often ab...
A. 14 July 2008: first things first on myspace you can delete messages and get them out of the delete box and read them.
He may have something to hide or he may not want to hurt you as they could be just friends but you wouldnt see it like that.
You need to talk ... (read in full...)
Will giving him space help him love me?
Q. help me plse my boyfriend and i had been ating for 10 months from the start he wanted mearound all the time, abot 1 month in he told me he loved me. we were together all the time his choice. no he says he needs space to do what ever he wants when ...
A. 14 July 2008: It seems like you have being together all the time and he's got to the point where he cant breathe it's normal for people to want space to do the things the want on there own.
I see my boy friend through the day and on a night i have some me time... (read in full...)
A holiday fling would have been good, but was I so wrong to want a build up to it?
Q. I recently met a man who wanted sex with me but I held back (I did want to though) although the meals were included on holiday he never once asked me to go for a meal with him on our own (It wouldnt have cost him) but one day we were walking back to ...
A. 12 July 2008: You so write not to have slept with him seems to me like he only wanted you for sex and thats wrong. I know people like to have a fling on holiday but seems you wanted to be taken out then have sex not just sex then thats it.
You need to forget it h... (read in full...)
I am completely lost on how to get a boyfriend! What does a girl have to do to get one?
Q. I am 15 and totally lost on how to aquire a boyfriend. I am the only one of all of my friends who has never had and does not have a boyfriend. It wouldnt be so bad if they didnt all talk about them all the time. I just want someone to hold han...
A. 12 July 2008: The guy you like you should ask him out as if you dont you will regret it so what if he says no then you will be able to get over him knowing he doesnt like you.
You could even make it in to a joke if he says know, do that ask him out and then take... (read in full...)
I'm willing to do anything for my ex but she is only interested in my friendship...
Q. me n my girlfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years. we were both very committed to each other n this was our first relationship. we planned to spend the rest of our lives togehter. but like every other couple, we had fights. i guess in my own...
A. 12 July 2008: You have to let her go hun i know it's hard but shes made it clear all she wants is friendship and if you try to win her round she may just want nothing to do with you at all, And you dont really want that be friends with her and see how that goes, ... (read in full...)
Sex hurts me. Is there something wrong with me?
Q. me and y boyfriend have slept together on 3 occasions, and all the times it has been so painful. the first time i bled really heavily. is there something wrong? xx...
A. 2 July 2008: If it was your first time then no theres not something wrong it will hurt for the first couple of times.
Try use some lube you shouldnt have a problem then after a couple more times the pain will ease and you shouldnt be feeling uncomfatable no more... (read in full...)
My husband kissed a girl who stays with us. I need some advice what best to do.
Q. Am married for 5years,am having a son of 4years and and within a month am expect our second child.my husband has been always faithful to me.he shares with me everything and it hard for us two to keep secret for each other.In our house we have a girl ...
A. 2 July 2008: Send the girl away and send your husband to court for a divorce once a cheat always a cheat they say and i think it's true, once you forgive them the worst has gone for them and they think it's ok to do it again.
He will carry on doing it and they... (read in full...)
I'm confused as to whether I'm lesbian, bi or straight...what should I do??
Q. Hi, there is loads of questions on this subject. but i just want to ask my own question. i dont know if im a lesbain, Bi or straight. i have strong feelings for my english teacher and i find girls attractive in some ways but then other times i mi...
A. 29 June 2008: I think you are bi u like women and men sounds to me like you are going through the puberty fase were your feelings are every where.
Talk to your friends about it i'm sure they will be supportive.
Good luck.x... (read in full...)
My new online dating guy is ignoring me--what should I do now?
Q. I met this guy through an internet dating site, and we've seen each other 3 times... and had sex. I last saw him last week, and he said he didn't need to go on the site anymore, which I took to mean because he liked me. He said he'd call on ...
A. 27 June 2008: Leave it a few days to see if he calls a week and the most, if not text him telling him asking him what you have done wrong why hasent he being in contact.
It may well be that he's busy but you can never be to busy to text as you have breaks at w... (read in full...)
Her 7 year old daughter asks for money from me! Is this normal?
Q. Hi Aunts and Uncles! i have known my friend for almost 8 years now and am godmother to her eldest daughter who is 7.Her daughter is very spoilt.My friend is quite soft with her -she tells her off but its not convincing. My godaughter when thr...
A. 27 June 2008: It's sounds to me like her mum was telling her to ask you for the money i cant see a 7 year old asking you for money everytime you go round strange.
You shouldnt have to stop carrying things around tell the little girl no and take the bag of her ... (read in full...)
How can I leave this man?
Q. Im pregnant,and the father asked me to have an abortion. I considered this, but unable to go through with it. I have told him that I have chosen to follow throught with the pregnancy. He has stated that he would stay by me. But when I bring up the ...
A. 27 June 2008: You need to leave him hunny.. If you dont it will only get worse when the babys is born when your asking him to do little things like change its nappy ect he will react the same. He's selfish and is only thinking of himself he needs to grow up and ... (read in full...)
Will my 'bad looking' intimate area be a turn off for a guy??
Q. I have a physical problem with my intimate area,, I have a bit of an excess of skin. Not a skin disease or anything, just skin. But it does look ugly (as in not pinkish and rather dark). It was caused by me, masturbating as a kid, not knowing what I ...
A. 27 June 2008: If he loves you he wont mind.
If you can speak to him tell him about your problem and see how he reacts if it's good then he isnt bothered and you shouldnt be. If he acts bothered he isnt worth it hun.
Good luck..x... (read in full...)
How can I know if someone I know from the Internet likes me?
Q. how do i know if this guy likes me?? when we are both online we always talk together....is there like something i can do to know if he likes me in that way or he thinks of me as just a friend....we actaully know a lot about each other! soo can u ...
A. 25 June 2008: Jst ask him straight do you like me in that way or do you just think of me as a freind.. Then you know were you stand.
Good luck ,x... (read in full...)
Is our relationship fading out?
Q. good morning. ok so ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and half years, recently we split up and got bck together and said we would start a fresh. ive only been with him since the split for about 2-3 weeks. every weekend i dont see him he has had good ...
A. 25 June 2008: The best thing to do is talk to him make his listen. Tell him to be straight with you and stop messing you around and be open with his feelings.
If he doesnt listen leave it a couple of days see if he phones you if not leave it he isnt worth it. ... (read in full...)
How do I ejaculate quicker?
Q. how do i ejaculate quicker? it always takes a very long time and i was wondering does anyone know how i could ejkaculate quicker?...
A. 25 June 2008: I dont know why you want to my man is quick and it gets to me i'd love a man that could last.
But if you want to thats up to you. Try concentrate more that should work or think of some fantasy you have always wanted to do and picture your self doin... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm too small to have sex doggy style!!
Q. OK well im new to this and my question is: is my penis to small for "doggy style" my penis is 5.5 and my gf butt is pretty big. we havent had sex yet since we just got together but when we talk about it she talks about "doggy style" but i...
A. 25 June 2008: Ok my man is the same size and we do it doggy style it feels the good. I suppose it doesnt matter how small you are its how you use it some people say.
Tell her about your fear and tell her your a bit unsure about doing it. Maby try it and keep aski... (read in full...)
Unhappy with my boyfriend, all he wants is sex. Your advice on how to dump him, or at least try and make this work without sex?
Q. I've been dating this guy, lets call him Sam, for 6 months now, and it was all going great. Until a couple of weeks ago when we lost our virginities together at only 15 (using protection). Before this the only sexual thing we did was kissing....
A. 2 June 2008: If yo ulike him so much talk to him about it tell him how you feel if he doesnt agree then finish him.
I know when you loose you V it's the best thing for a man and from then on they want it again and again trying new things it's natural.
But i... (read in full...)
I'm ugly and it gets me down....
Q. Ok, so Im a 15 year old girl and I have major self-confidence issues. You see, Ive got an Ok body but my face is really ugly. I think its ugly and so do other people. Its my nose that makes me ugly - its too big and horrible and makes my other ...
A. 2 June 2008: First of all noones ugly everyones attracted to someone and others find beautiful women not attractive.
When people keep saying something horrible things over and over again you start to belive it's true and thats when it becomes a problem with self... (read in full...)
Do I take him back or keep my guard up?
Q. I need help! my ex bf and I havent talked for 7 months and hes now contacting me again. He claims he changed and stuff. He was really bad and idk what to or believe anymore. He said he grew up and changed....my parents hate him for the way he previ...
A. 2 June 2008: Dont belive someone who says they have changed. My ex bf said he would change all the time everytime we broke up and one day you wake uup and relise there never going to change and there just kidding there selfs.
Do what you thinks best but the way ... (read in full...)
I'm being really flirty with everyone and I'm meeting up with any guy that comes my way. But deep inside I feel lonely, help!
Q. Hey, well im 15 years old. Basically i have just recently been dumped by this guy which i went out with for 6 months (which is really long for me). He was also like my best friend. The thing is now he wants to get back together. But by now i've more ...
A. 2 June 2008: You need to think about who you want first of all. Who was you the most happy with, who treated you the best and who will love you more. Then you have your anser.
Good look x... (read in full...)
How do I tell her I love her?
Q. i am in love with a girl in my class.ispeak to her.but i cannot express this in front of her.plz help me...
A. 29 April 2008: First things first dont tell her yo ulove her straight away as it mite scare her away, Ask her for her number and tell her you like her if she feels the same after a couple of weeks tell her you love her, but dont scare her away hun.
Good luck... (read in full...)
I'm bi-curious. How do I meet girls other than online?
Q. hello im bicurious but i dont know how to meet girls i have no problem meeting guys but i would like to experiment and explore my sexuality so if anybody has some good tips on how to meet girls (except the internet) that would be great ...
A. 29 April 2008: Go out to gay bars like trixi said, I think thats the best place to meet girls onlines good but a bit scary if you know what i mean. Metting people for the 1st time isnt as nervy as talking to someone on the internet and meeting them.
Good luck... (read in full...)
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