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How do I tell my best friend I have feelings for him?

Q.   I am a 21 year old male college student and I have recently become involved in what is easily the strangest romantic predicament of my life. To give you a little background, I am a masculine closeted bisexual guy who has been with a few guys but has ...

A.   5 January 2009: I agree, I think you should go for it. By what youve said, I think he might be in the same situation as you, not knowing whether you feel the same or not. Go for it, theres no harm in trying. All the Best... (read in full...)

I'm so scared about leaving school... did anyone else feel like this when they left?

Q.   I am a graduating student and about to leave school this week. I have just got a house that me and my partner are renting... I'm just so scared about leaving school! Did anyone else feel like this when they left? Did anyone else have any really ...

A.   18 November 2008: I'm from the UK as well, and Im leaving school/6thform next year to go to uni, and I cant wait to go, I want to move on and have a new start. But it will be scary, as I probably wont know anyone. It is a scary time, but it can also be exciting as ... (read in full...)

Will I grow any more? Can I do anything about it?

Q.   I'm 17 is it too late to grow? I'm 5.9 and really wanna be a bit taller I've started the gym and go every week atleast. DO you think i will get any taller? My dads about 6.2 and my mum is about 5.1 ish :S Is there anything i can do b...

A.   24 July 2008: Im 17, and 5'7. Ive never had a growth spurt. My brother is 2 years younger, yet had a growth spurt and is now 5'9. Theres nothing you can do about your height. Just be happy, times you will be fed up, i get fed up, but it doesnt affect life. You ... (read in full...)

Should I give up football or not so I can do things I want to do with friends?

Q.   Ive got a slight problem. Im really into football, and am doing really well at it at the moment. But all my friends are into smoking drinking and things like that. I do it with them aswell but its effecting how well i play football. I don...

A.   7 April 2008: Dont' Smoke, or drink to much :), i know i sound like everybody else. But dont start, if you have try to give up. Surely you dont have football all the time? Theres a lot of time for you to see your friends. Dont give up your football. Why not ... (read in full...)

He deletes the history on his computer so he must still be looking at porn, but hiding it! I hate it and its ruining us!!

Q.   I have a huge problem with my boyfriend looking at porn (which I know he does). I looked on his computer once and saw in the history all the sites he had been looking through. It hurt so badly and I still can't stop thinking about it everyday, and ...

A.   16 April 2007: Hi. He loves you becuase he deletes do you don get offended. Sit down and talk to him about him. Dont worry about it. Its just curiosity.... (read in full...)

I think I want to end the relationship, but Im not ready for him to date others! What should I do ?

Q.   okay im back again, this time im seriously contemplating ending my reltaionship for some reason we just can't seem to get on, but im scared that im not strong enought o move on with my life and start again also i don't want him to get with another ...

A.   1 April 2007: Youve got to decide what you want. Do you want this guy or not? if yes sit down and speak with him. if no then, get rid of him but you will just have to acept that he will get with other gals. if hes threatning to sleep with a another girl then ... (read in full...)

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