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Should I stay with my fiance even though I love someone else?

Q.   Dear Aunties and Uncles, I will try to keep this short as possible. I've been in a long term relationship for 14 years and have a 14 year old daughter who my partner raised as his own since she was 2 weeks old. We had an amazing relati...

A.   20 June 2019: Good afternoon Aunties. It's been over 2 years since I asked for help and I have an update for you. my last updated consisted on having a conversation with my partner telling him how I felt and looking for my own place. After that so called a... (read in full...)

Advice on how women feel about orgasms please?

Q.   My question is for the ladies out there - do you need an orgasm to enjoy sex? Most women I've ever been with have said they don't so I always took that to be true, but the one I'm with now says she does want and expect an O every time... Now I fee...

A.   3 May 2017: You are coming across as a very selfish lover and only interested in your own needs. It's very important that a woman is ready for sexual intercourse, foreplay is an important part in that. This woman knows her body and if you want the relatio... (read in full...)

Coping strategies would be appreciated for bad office situation!

Q.   Not a relationship problem but hoped you guys could give me a bit of advice. I work in a small company of just over 20 staff, most of us working in a large open plan office. One of the women, who is in her 30s, has taken to wearing short SH...

A.   7 April 2017: If her manager has not approached her to discuss the dress code of the office then I'm afraid there is nothing you can do. If both managers are male then I'm assuming the real reason they haven't spoken to her about what is appropriate within the ... (read in full...)

My Bf is annoying me with his alarm setting each day. How can I get him to stop this?

Q.   my bf drives me crazy with his alarms in the morning - he sets them 40 minutes before i wake up for work on two different devices - each device goes off once every minute for forty minutes so 80 annoying alarms!!! i wake up in a bad mood as i have...

A.   7 April 2017: You can either smash those bloody devices or tell him to buy a fitbit. It has an alarm system and vibrates on his wrist when he needs to wake up. It's silent and he is the only one that feels it. Plus it helps track your steps everyday so he ... (read in full...)

Second time I've caught my b/f texting other girls! Do I end things?

Q.   I caught my boyfriend messaging other girls twice on Facebook and I don't know what to do. The first time was last summer when I went on holiday. I coincidentally met a girl (seriously small country, everyone pretty much knows each other) who ...

A.   4 April 2017: Also, out of the 8 girls only two actually replied so it's not that bad? You are accepting this behavior from him and that is why he feels that it's ok to message and plan to meet other women. He may seem to be the only good thing in your life... (read in full...)

Should I stay with my fiance even though I love someone else?

Q.   Dear Aunties and Uncles, I will try to keep this short as possible. I've been in a long term relationship for 14 years and have a 14 year old daughter who my partner raised as his own since she was 2 weeks old. We had an amazing relati...

A.   14 March 2017: You're right aunt honesty. Last night I went home and was completely honest with my Fiance. He is understandably upset and my daughter said she just wants me to be happy. So as from today, I'm making plans to get my own place, not far from my ... (read in full...)

Should I stay with my fiance even though I love someone else?

Q.   Dear Aunties and Uncles, I will try to keep this short as possible. I've been in a long term relationship for 14 years and have a 14 year old daughter who my partner raised as his own since she was 2 weeks old. We had an amazing relati...

A.   13 March 2017: Let's get one thing straight. I have always been a good mother to my daughter and have continued to give her the best life possible. I have sacrificed my own happiness so she can live in a safe and happy home. she has grown up to be a sweet, i... (read in full...)

Should I stay with my fiance even though I love someone else?

Q.   Dear Aunties and Uncles, I will try to keep this short as possible. I've been in a long term relationship for 14 years and have a 14 year old daughter who my partner raised as his own since she was 2 weeks old. We had an amazing relati...

A.   10 March 2017: I should mention that I may have cheated emotionally but never physically with the other guy.... (read in full...)

Should I stay with my fiance even though I love someone else?

Q.   Dear Aunties and Uncles, I will try to keep this short as possible. I've been in a long term relationship for 14 years and have a 14 year old daughter who my partner raised as his own since she was 2 weeks old. We had an amazing relati...

A.   9 March 2017: Hi Aunt honesty. I agreed to marry him because: 1. It was a very public proposal with family on one side and my daughter in tears with excitement on the other. 2. Afraid of change. 3. He's a fantastic provider and a massively positive infl... (read in full...)

Should I stay with my fiance even though I love someone else?

Q.   Dear Aunties and Uncles, I will try to keep this short as possible. I've been in a long term relationship for 14 years and have a 14 year old daughter who my partner raised as his own since she was 2 weeks old. We had an amazing relati...

A.   7 March 2017: Goo, the intimacy stopped long before I became ill. He would withhold intimacy and communication because I wouldn't do what he said. For a few years I tried to keep the peace and do everything that made him happy but in turn it made me very ... (read in full...)

Should I stay with my fiance even though I love someone else?

Q.   Dear Aunties and Uncles, I will try to keep this short as possible. I've been in a long term relationship for 14 years and have a 14 year old daughter who my partner raised as his own since she was 2 weeks old. We had an amazing relati...

A.   28 February 2017: My response to Goo is, my friend is currently going through the trial separation and his fiance has moved out of their home they share together. My fiance did take 1 week off work to look after me but spent most of it playing fifa online. Once I w... (read in full...)

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