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Im 20, gay and I live in the West Midlands in England.

My relationship status at the mo is with a partner. He's called Rob and we've been together for about 3 years which, in gay years, is a lifetime! Lol

I've been through many a tough time so I think I'm qualified to help others who have been through similar things, I may not be online that often and I apologise but because I'm now at university I simply just don't have the amount of time that I used to, I'll still do my best to advice though when possible.

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Why would he be telling me that he thinks his ex is "fit"?

Q.   I'm scared I'm being too needy with my boyfriend but I feel he is trying to make me insecure. The other day he told me he thinks his ex girlfriend is 'fit' and I don't know what to think about that. He said he's not gonna think she's ugly as he went ...

A.   13 March 2006: darling this is going to sound really cliche, but just talk to him about it, I agree that you did not need to hear that and him justifying saying it with the 'i went out with her' remark will understandably make your mind wonder, but it seems most ... (read in full...)

My friend accused me of theft, then of lying about things. Can we patch up the friendship?

Q.   I have recently fell out with my best friend because when we were drunk, she accused me of stealing some money from her. I was really hurt and haven't spoken to her since. This isn't the first occasion where she has hurt me. An earlier incident...

A.   13 March 2006: thank you, that's vry good advice, update: we are repairing the friendship step by step but with a new outlook on it on my part, because i used to be basically her doormat and I just used to accept that as the way our friendship worked but now i've ... (read in full...)

Why does he look at porn? I sneaked a look and it's just gross!

Q.   Hi, iv been dating my guy for almost 9 months, we have always been very close but one time when i went to his house to visit we where in his room then he left the room and i noticed his pc was on so i moved the mouse the screen saver shut off and i ...

A.   12 March 2006: as probably 1 of the few men who doesnt get porn i agree that i cnt see the attraction with it, but having a few boys in the family i've come 2 know why. It doesn't mean he doesn't fancy you or that he's unhappy with sex, it's just something men ... (read in full...)

I tend to go for the unattainable... But wanted your opinions!

Q.   hi, i'm a 19 year old female. I am just very confused at the moment, theres a guy who I am pretty sure likes me. He is always phoning me, the body language is very clear. However I am not sure if I like him. I am still crushing over another guy who ...

A.   12 March 2006: darling i'm going to say to you what I told my friend who had a similar problem, make a list of pro's and con's for each of them, then throw it away and follow your heart. If it doesn't work out with the one you want there are plenty more fish in ... (read in full...)

I'm a straight guy who fell deeply in love with another man eight years ago: Should I get in touch again?

Q.   This is a complicated one. I am a guy that is heterosexual. I have only had straight relationships. but when I was younger, early twenties, I fell in love with my best friend, another guy. He actually felt the same way at the time. But we didn't ...

A.   12 March 2006: OK, as a gay man my advice is get it out in the open, meet up, because the worst he can say is no, if you brace yourself for that anything else will lift your spirits. You may dread the meeting but you'll feel much better after it, and as for your ... (read in full...)

I don't even like to spend a moment away from him, and yet he wants to work on a ship for four months at a time!

Q.   My boyfriend of about a year recently decided that he wants to work on a ship which would be for about 4 months at a time. Just thinking about him leaving makes me sick to my stomach. I'm still at that point in the relationship where I don't want ...

A.   12 March 2006: I agree that you need more time but at the same time you need to respect your boyfriends wishes, if he wants to go i believe you should try and be happy for him and remind him that you'll still be there for him when he gets back, I know it's hard ... (read in full...)

How do I turn my straight mate gay?

Q.   Hi. I have this new friend of mine that I have known for two months now who I really like. He does not know I am gay as I am not 'out', but I kind of feel a conection between us, like we talk all the time and go out just together to clubs and stu...

A.   12 March 2006: You can't turn anyone anything, and the more you try the more likely it is that he will end up resenting you for it, if he does develop gay feelings for you then cross that bridge when you come to it but don't try to force it on him, this is from a ... (read in full...)

Are you born gay or do you "go gay"?

Q.   Please help are you born gay, or do certain things in life or the way that you grow up determine your sexuality. Since childhood, I was not very boyish, or tough, more soft, timid, femine, as I got older and knew the ways of behaviour i bcame mor...

A.   12 March 2006: This issue is actually a highly debated Psychological theory 'Nature Vs Nurture,' but i believe that we are born with the potential to be anything, gay, straight, whatever, and as you grow, sexual feelings either sway one way, the other, or both ... (read in full...)

If he didn't have a girlfriend, my friend might be interested in something with me! Is there anything I can do?

Q.   Ok I have a male friend that I fancy rotten. I'm male too. He knows my sexuality - he seems intersted and has said that if he did not have a girlfriend he would try things. What should I do? (I want the ball to roll now)...

A.   12 March 2006: Do nothing while your friend is still in a relationship, but don't do anything to jepordise his relationship, if you're a good friend you will respect his status with his girlfriend, I would recommend only persuing this if he and his girlfriend ... (read in full...)

I wasn't enjoying our sex as much as my boyfriend, so now he's not enjoying it much either!

Q.   My boyfriend and I just lost our virginity to each other, and everything is OK but it's hard for me to have an orgasm and he usually comes much too fast. When I recently told him, he was anxious to make me have an orgasm but now when we have sex...

A.   12 March 2006: try not to get so hung up on this issue, sex is supposed to be an enjoyble, spontanious experience but you appear to be turning it into a chore. If your man comes too fast then i suggest a bit of foreplay beforehand on his part, such as performing ... (read in full...)

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