I'm rubbish with eye contact, I like him but how should I do it?
Q. I am horrible at flirting with guys,I'm shy and I feel extremely self concious.For instance,I think there is this guy that likes me. He stares at me a lot, comes stand by my side out of the blue, and we joke around a lot. But what specially makes me ...
A. 26 May 2012: It sounds like he likes u too. the joking, coming to talk to u, going outta his way to talk to u :-). If u can't get his number of him or ur friends, maybe try asking him to lunch as friends. It will be one on one time answer nite as nerve racking ... (read in full...)
Does he still care about me? Or should I just move on?
Q. Hi, So long story here, I met a man almost a year ago, well a bartender. Looking for an excuse to talk to him I went outside to borrow his lighter and we got chatting we used to sit and talk for hours while he was working and he would walk me ho...
A. 25 May 2012: Life is too short to hold things back. if u love this guy then tell him. the only way u are going to know if he feels the same is to ask. maybe he was just afraid the long distance thing wouldnt work out oe something. watevr the reason tell him u ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my next door neighbor!
Q. I am in love with my next door neighbor. It was love at first sight from the first time I saw him. I have been going crazy because I haven't been able to see him for the past 2 weeks. He has someone and I have someone and I want to stop thinking ...
A. 25 May 2012: This is just a crush. 1.u dont really know him well enough to be in love with him. and 2. Ur only attracted to his looks. not personality and other important relationship matters et. im sure once u move away ur crush will subside. Xx... (read in full...)
We didn't have sex but were messing around and now I feel disgusted
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been daiting for about 6 months we havent had sex yet but we started having oral sex he would only do it to me but today things went a lil farther i gave hima hand job and he put me in different positions but i felt alot ...
A. 25 May 2012: Sorry ur post said 13 to 15 so i thought u might only been 13, and dint want give out the wrong advice. but still if he cares about u, well he wont care that ur not ready. you just need tAlk to him and only u will know when u are ready . good luck ... (read in full...)
I have trouble finding a balance between showing affection and giving too much space.
Q. Hm... I'm kind of confused. Ive been seeing this guy for a little bit now and throughout the week he spent 4 nights at my place. He's always really awesome at staying in touch and sending me little texts here and there to see how im doing but last ...
A. 25 May 2012: He could be waiting for you to text him or call . do just pick up the phone and ask how he is and when he wAnts to meet. maybe he thinks you are not interested any more, because you never initiate the calls or texts. Guys like to feel wanted. He i... (read in full...)
I'm rubbish with eye contact, I like him but how should I do it?
Q. I am horrible at flirting with guys,I'm shy and I feel extremely self concious.For instance,I think there is this guy that likes me. He stares at me a lot, comes stand by my side out of the blue, and we joke around a lot. But what specially makes me ...
A. 25 May 2012: Do ypu have his phone number? Maybe you could send him a msg or fb him that like him? I get nervous around guys that i like too. im normaly flirty but if i really like someone i can't talk them or look at them . so if you win know if he likes you,... (read in full...)
How do I make it seem like I don't like him anymore?
Q. Hello :) I really, really, REALLY like this boy and I think it's getting pretty obvious. I really don't want him to figure out, but I think he already knows! How do I make it seem like I don't like him anymore? I don't want to stop liking h...
A. 25 May 2012: Instead of pretending u don't like him, why not just take the plunge and tell him you like him.? If that's too scary you could invite him and his make friends out with you and your female friends as a group, and then it wouldn't be as scary. if that... (read in full...)
Anal sex and more
Q. Me and my boyfriend always wanted to try anal...but we are very scared to. one of his friend's friend he heard, tore her ass and had to be admitted to the hosp.!! 2 of my friens have done it and what they advised me is ..that it is extremel...
A. 25 May 2012: Other ways to spice up sex life.. lap dance, striptease dance, wear sexy lingerie and be only in that when he arrives home. Have dinner with no Indies or bra on under revealing dress, sex in the loungeroom, on wAshing machine, honest the ... (read in full...)
Second thoughts about my troubled relationship help me
Q. Hi my name is james and im 29 years old. Lately i've been going to this diner, and there is this waitress im attracted to. But the thing is im in a relationship. At first it was just nothing i just thought of her as an attractive girl never spoke to ...
A. 25 May 2012: Maybe u shuld tell ur gf u need s a break becoz u are confused.. dont just use the time to see the waitress. But as time for urself. u'll soon see whether u really miss ur gf or don't think about her. So if u find ur happier when on the breaka then ... (read in full...)
I need help understanding how things are now in my relationship life please help me
Q. I feel so confused at the moment due to recent problems in my relationshiP my girlfriend and I have went separate ways for now but we stay in contact waiting to see when the right time is to get back together we still tell each other that we love ...
A. 25 May 2012: It sounds like she doesn't really wantt you, but at the sAme time, doesn't want anyone else to have u either. U shukd talk to her, ask u where u stand, if she wants to be with u or not, and if she says no, then it should not matter who u talk to and ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my bofriend of 3yrs for masturbating with porn?
Q. Should I leave my bofriend of 3yrs for masturbating with porn and taking viagra when Im asleep and wake up and catch him? He doesnt give it to me when i want it enless we are off work together. He said that he will continue to do it and i told him ...
A. 25 May 2012: Dump him and find someone that is going to give u the love and satisfaction that u need and want. he sounds very selfish and only thinking about himself. Good luck. Xx... (read in full...)
I cant imagine life without my girlfriend yet I'm unable to forget my ex
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and we are very much in love however, for the past 2 years I have found myself feeling slightly depressed over my previous relationship. I still love my ex, I think about her constantly and if I ...
A. 25 May 2012: I think u need to see a councillor to get to the bottom of why u are feeling the way u are. is there something in ur past relationship that's now affecting yr current one. Once u know what it is that is making u javelin these feelings, then u can ... (read in full...)
This guy is trying to destroy my relationship!
Q. Hello people I have a really big problem that has been stressing me out lately. My girlfriend has recently gotten a job but all of her friends are guys and I am ok with that but the real problem is that every single one of them tries to have he...
A. 25 May 2012: Im not normally one to tell someone to make an ultimatum, but here goes. I think u need to firstly tell ur gf she has a choice. to either tell this guy to back of, stop hitting on her and leave her alone, or, its over. It sounds to me like she's ... (read in full...)
We didn't have sex but were messing around and now I feel disgusted
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been daiting for about 6 months we havent had sex yet but we started having oral sex he would only do it to me but today things went a lil farther i gave hima hand job and he put me in different positions but i felt alot ...
A. 24 May 2012: I agree that i think u are far to young to even be considering sex. Yr body had not fully even developed yet. Talk to ur bf and tell him how yr feeling . If he loves u he will understand. And u never know , he might not be ready either. Xx... (read in full...)
His lack of kissing skills mean I lack .... well, read the rest, people!
Q. My bf's never really been a good kisser. I like real french kisses with a lot of tongue action and that's what really gets me going down there (meaning i get wet with a long passionate french kiss.). When he kisses me, it's a lot of kisses on the ...
A. 24 May 2012: I agree that his not necessarily a bad kisser. everyone likes to be kissed differently. Perhaps he doesn't turned on with lits of heavy kissing. u won't know till u ask him what turns him on, then tell him what turns u on, and maybe u can mix the ... (read in full...)
Concerned about girlfriends jealousy and what she considers porn?
Q. hi all, im concerned about my girls insecurity, recently iv noticed she gets snippy when i talk to my female friends, and she gets in a bit of a strop about it sometimes, she dosent seem to think she is pushing my female friends away by making t...
A. 24 May 2012: I think ur gf is over reacting. I don't mind guys watching porn, but i always ask my bfs not to do it in the same room as me or when im not around. I know bout 80% guys do it. lol. as for the picture on yr phone, its not a friend in bikini on yr ... (read in full...)
How can a woman cure her fishy odor?
Q. I feel helpless, I am very clean, and been to my doctors and she tested me. every thing can back normal, no infections. My boyfriend has stop having sex with me, because he say i smell fishy real bad, when he pre-cums, and cums. he even gag's. He ...
A. 22 May 2012: In response to the anonymous writer about nit using soap. that is true. if u use soap u actually wash away the natural cleaning agents so just use water, and u might find the cleaning agents do their job. and also if its his sperm making u fishy, ... (read in full...)
I tried shaving private area with a razor but it grows back too fast. What else can I try?
Q. i feel really self conscious when it comes to shaving down there. i love it to be completely smooth so use a razor, but after a day or 2 it starts to grow back and feels really prickley. however its not long enough to shave without hurting and ...
A. 29 April 2012: Why not use hair removal cream? No pain at all. cheap. and it doesn't grow back prickly. i always use hair removal. and honesty im sure ur bf doesn't care half as much as u do. ... (read in full...)
Am I too short?
Q. I am only 163cm tall girl but my boy friend is 181cm tall.This is the only reason he always makes fun of me! Please tell me honestly if I am too short to be mocked! I really need to know am i too short? ...
A. 18 April 2012: I agree that ur nite short. important aussie and i suffer a condition which causes me to be short. important 150cm and my mum is 163cm . And a lot ny friends are only 160 cm as well. so ur not too short. im sure his just joking. :-)... (read in full...)
Are there men out there that are just mean to their kids for no reason?
Q. I have been with my man 7 years we have two kids. Sometimes he is really mean to them yells at them for nothing an cussin at them. Other days he can be super dad I tell him it's not fair I have to watch my children go through that I tell him he ...
A. 15 April 2012: Yes. my father is. he use to hold knives at my older brother throat, my sum, and there was an incident where he of course threatened to burn the house down with us inside. i was 10 when my nmum got the courage to leave and none of us have ever had ... (read in full...)
Event Etiquette Help Please! Husbands event vs. Baby shower?
Q. I'm in a slight bind here. Looking for some wisdom regarding event etiquette. Ok, which event should i attend? My fiance and I area marrying in September. Part of the premarital requirement is going through the sacrament of confirmation which ...
A. 12 April 2012: do u really have to ask? ur husband of course. !! simply explain to ur friend that u got the dates wrong , and have to support ur husband. she will understand. xx ... (read in full...)
What does emotionally raped mean?
Q. A girl told me she felt she was emotionally raped by another guy. What could this possibly mean? ...
A. 3 April 2012: she could mean she gave into sex even tho she didn't want to coz he kept beggin her making it feel like rape... (read in full...)
Dumped for a rich guy: was girl being shallow or practical?
Q. Yeah so a couple weeks ago this girl I was seeing for a few months. Really pretty girl, my friends even said he was hot. I'm an average guy, maybe a 6 on a scale of 1 to 10. I make a decent living but def not rich. Anyway, to make a long story short ...
A. 27 March 2012: don't waste time thinking about her . she us obviously verye shallow and low self esteem. you can definitely do better then that y would u want to date a girl thats only interested in money? you wouldn't. find someone that is going to treat you ... (read in full...)
Does it sound like he wanted to kiss me?
Q. I am the second shyest and awkwardest person on the planet. The most shy and awkward person is the guy I'm into. We are both 19 and college students, and we've become pretty good friends over the last few months. I've been into him for a while; ...
A. 25 March 2012: ask straight out " can i kiss u" he will either say yes, or lean in too kiss you. but from what you said he like s you, so just say can i kiss you, or are u gana kiss me? u have nothing to lose good luck, and please let us know how it goes. ... (read in full...)
I was tired of being his mother!
Q. I just recently broke it off with my boyfriend of nine months, I was tired of being his mother. I did everything for that kid, and he appreciated none of it. I wasn't happy at all in the relationship. I was belittled and treated wrongly. I paid ...
A. 24 March 2012: its too soon when ur still on the rebound. however, don't feel bad. u met a new guy that give you the attention u deserve, and treats you right. maybe tell this guy u just got outta a bad relationship, and want rake it slow. ... (read in full...)
Dad is being pathetic because I don't have a boyfriend!
Q. Every time I see my dad, the first thing he asks is if any guys are chasing me. He thinks I need a boyfriend. I'm a Sophomore in college and haven't had one since my Junior year of high school. I'm fine with not having a boyfriend, though it would ...
A. 24 March 2012: i feel ssorry u have to put up with someone saying that, that's suppose to love you. there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. you need to sit down and tell your dad, that you aren't going to date a guy that you are not interested in. there is ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm a bad wife because I don't like giving him blowjobs, what can I do to stop being disgusted by them?
Q. Hi, Im 24 years old and newly married for 9 months. Our sex life has been great except that my husband really likes for me to give him blow jobs, but no matter how hard i try i feel disgusted to do so.I think the taste/smell is what puts me off.I ...
A. 22 March 2012: doing it in the shower, definitly helps, as you can let him cum in the water instead swallowing. alternatively you can just spit it out. i don't always swallow, my guy said as long as i don't stop, he doesn't care if i spit or swallow. also, maybe ... (read in full...)
What are the reasons a fairly confident guy would become quiet around a shy girl?
Q. what are the reasons a fairly confident guy would become quiet around a shy girl? I met this guy a bit ago while out with friends and he was very outgoing, maintained eye contact, etc. But when I saw him the other day, while I was out with the...
A. 22 March 2012: it sounds to me that he really likes you. the question is., do you like him? if you do, maybe you could get ur friends to introduce u probably. but fromwhat you said, the way he acting, is how i get when i like a guy. i go quiet, but only round him, ... (read in full...)
Do I have the right to ask for a smear test?
Q. I have been experiencing bleeding after intercourse, black blood occasionally through the day, weight loss, pain when having sex, pain when passing urine and don't even mention my bowel habits! I have been going to the doctors for about 18 months n...
A. 20 March 2012: demand they do one. im in Australia, and we get them as soon as we are sexually active or 18 whichever comes first. it changes the cells so yes i would tell them u want it done to be on safe side. ... (read in full...)
Insecurity issues -- she cheated and said he was her best ever
Q. Hello everyone Now I have a big insecurity issue to deal with and it usually end up with me feeling unwanted by my fiancé Long story short We got into a fight we broke up I tried getting back then found out that a guy that used to ONLY give h...
A. 19 March 2012: i'm sorry, but you could do 200 times better then this low life woman. for the record, size is not that big a deal too most women. if she loves you then size does not matter. please dump her,and find a woman that is going to treat you how you want ... (read in full...)
Is she a crush? A friend? Could it be more?
Q. First, I want to thank you in advance for helping me out. So there is this girl that I think has a crush on me. It started about six months ago when she came by my work and hung out for a couple of hours. Before this there were no indications that...
A. 19 March 2012: u don't say how old are ? 26 or 29? u say 11 age gap, so if she is 18 and u r 29, i would say it sounds like she really likes u. and u should tell her how u feel. how ever. if she is not 18, i would say be careful how u handle this. but tell her ... (read in full...)
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